 Does he love me? If he still loves me, then why is he doing so and so? How do I know if he loves me as much as I love him? Those are some of the most popular questions asked by women. I'll tell many of this women develop doubts about the intentions of their men, even though there are no clear signs that the man is doing anything wrong. Some of them have legit reasons to question the love of their man. In this video, I'll share with you seven reasons why women question the love of their man. 1. They don't give them enough attention Many women assume that their men don't love them if they don't give them enough time, although it may be a wrong interpretation in this case, because men have to take care of work-related issues and other family issues to the extent that they might be stuck sometimes when it comes to time. It could also be a correct sign that the man does not indeed love his woman. It is a known fact that when a man is into a woman, he always wants to talk to her. He will give her every attention she desires. Even times when he is busy, he will create time for her, because stucking to her feels right to him. So, if a woman is always the one texting, calling or messaging him first and asking for his attention, she can question his love for her. 2. Trust issues We all have insecurities. When a person is not 100% sure of themselves, they start to question the love of the people they care about. In most of the cases where a person questions the love of another person, self-esteem is to be blamed. If you negatively interpret regular events then make wrong conclusions based on those events, you certainly need to work on your self-esteem. However, these trust issues are not just a product of self-esteem issues, specific actions that either the woman has faced before or the man portrays can give rise to trust issues. For example, let's say a man says his neighbor on the way and decides to drop her off at her workplace before going to work, simply because she had an important presentation and was running late. A woman with self-esteem-based trust issues will feel like her man finds the other lady more attractive than her. That's why he dropped her off. While a woman whose trust issues stem from her man's actions will feel like he wants to flirt with the other lady, either of the two situations leads to questioning the man's love. 3. They think they're not enough When a woman feels like she's not good enough, she begins to doubt her man. One action which many people fail to carry out before getting into a relationship is loving themselves. Lack of self-love on the part of the woman is one reason why she still questions her man's love for her. Some ladies do not love themselves enough. They do not see themselves as beautiful or smart enough to keep a man. So even when their man tells them and even shows them that he loves them, they still don't believe, instead. They feel like he's making just of her or he's just using her and will dump her for someone else soon. This lack of self-love is usually a result of past hurts. A lady who was told or her life by her loved ones that she's ugly will find it difficult to believe when a man tells her so, without setting out those self-doubts and learning to love herself. She will continually question the love of her man for her. 4. The man's past There's a popular notion that says, once a cheat, always a cheat. Most people believe that a man who once cheated on his spouse will continue to cheat even after marriage. A woman may question her husband's love if he has a record of cheating. And worse still, if he keeps his past as a secret from her. Cheating is just an example. There are several past lifestyles of their man that many women hold on to. While it is not right to judge people based on their past, it is of utmost importance for men to prove to the women they love that they are changed and better men. 5. He is not romantic Many women complain when their man don't become romantic. One of the things you must understand about men is that some of them are romantic, while some are not. For a man who is not romantic, expressing love can happen through actions or any other form. And this doesn't mean that he doesn't love his woman. 6. He is selfish Being selfish can be in the form of given gifts, compromising or reciprocity. While some women wouldn't mind not being spoiled with goodies by their partners, other women may begin to have second thoughts about her man's love for her if he does not shower her with gifts. This is not a matter of being materialist. It could just be that the woman's love language is giving or receiving gifts. A woman whose love language is active service may also assume that her man does not love her if he does not make certain compromises. Furthermore, a woman can question her man's love if she feels like the man does not reciprocate and only thinks about himself. The best possible way to reconcile such a situation is for the woman to communicate how she feels to her man instead of just being doubtful. 7. He is aggressive Relationships are meant to feel good, so if it doesn't feel right to be with each other, the relationship doesn't have much to stand on. After all, why choose to spend a ton of your time with another person who it doesn't feel good to be with? A woman may begin to question the love of her partner if she appears to find him getting annoyed at everything she does, even the little stuff. If he's going through something stressful, like losing his job or problems with his family, he might be a bit short tempered, but if he's not going through anything in particular, yet it seems like he's always in a bad mood when he's around you. That can be a cause to wonder if he actually loves you. Even though research shows that as humans, we tend to vent our anger and frustration on those we love, continuous aggressive attitudes directed to a woman might be a sign that her man does not love her. One of the fatal mistakes a person can make in life and relationship is making an assumption based on theory, then believing that the premise is right. In such a case, the absence of a real clear fact makes it highly possible for a person to make an incorrect conclusion that might make them do things that will destroy their relationship.