 Sex is not about the orgasm, it continues beyond the orgasm. It started before you were naked. If you can bring that into the bedroom, you'll be a sex god. She'll never forget you. The reason why I put this long-ass quote in there, and again, you can download all this stuff, is because this was brought up in that last part. Don't make sex about the orgasm. Sure, if you're young, it's a force of nature. You're like, okay, okay, oh, I'm gonna, okay, let's just go, just go. Then you're like, no, no, I'm cool. Like, oh, you're saying that it's not time, and your fucking pelvis is moving, you're shaking and all that stuff. Kind of got to make it about the orgasm. It's a little bit too overwhelming. But you want to eventually make it less about that. You want to make it about the experience. And what I mean by this, guys, because a lot of guys are like, they'll stand up here and they're like, you could go down on her. Well, of course you could. But one thing that I ask women all the time, and this is the sexual deficit in our culture is ridiculous. The sexual deficit in our culture makes women give away sex, not by choice, but by definition. That means men aren't treating them truly as sexual beings, right? Because I'll ask them. I'll say something like, what's the most attractive thing about you? It's like, shit, you're not. 30 seconds a minute, what's the most attractive thing about you or what you think of men or whatever? And they say something and I say, here's a better question. What's the most attractive thing about you that nobody ever notices? And they go, I don't know. I say, well, wait a minute. You have a boyfriend or not or yes? What was the last time, a guy that you really loved and you know what this is? That he kissed that part, that he felt that part, something that only your family could see or your best friend could see and that he touched you in that way. And they sit there with this look like, never. And then I say, hey, let's go on a date. No, but seriously, man, seriously. 30 seconds? It's that quick, right? And you can see that as some routine or whatever, yada, yada, yada. But the reality of that is, is that's not a tool to fuck somebody. That's a window to what our culture is about sex. This woman who, whether she has cosmetic beauty or beauty in some other way because it comes in all different flavors and yes, sure, there's women that just aren't beautiful in any way. But you got to find that out. You got to know what you like because it's not just appearance, right? It's more than that. But there's going to be some women, man, that they are, like, they're starved. And what does that tell them? What does that tell them about their beauty? They get desperate of it. They start making decisions. They date stupid guys. They have bad relationships. They start doing the same thing as us and thinking, well, he fucks me so good. I have this different experience. I'm going to love him. This is who I want to get pregnant with. This is who I want to have a relationship with. Man, it's crazy, man. You don't know what you want. You're going to get what you take.