 How the Narcissus arrogance leads to their own demise Their own downfall we often talk about The Narcissus arrogance on this channel Narcissus are very arrogant They have an exaggerated sense of the own abilities and abundance They think they're so much greater than what they actually are They think they're up here When really they're down there and I'm sure many of you have experienced this you have dealt with it and I've dealt with it myself And I would like to share my own personal experience with that This video because as the title says Their arrogance does event they end up shooting themselves in the foot They end up cutting off their nose despite their face and Right now. Oh as many of you know, I am a YouTube and I was seeing someone not too long ago Well, I'm seeing Someone now as well sometimes now past But yes, I was involved with a woman not too long ago and Yeah, I took good care of her as many of you know, I am An empathetic person I Consider myself to be an empath. I Like to build people up. I like to improve their lives Make them happier. I like to do that And it makes me feel good as well so I was taking this girl on trips around the world and Yeah, we were staying at five star hotels Brand new three bedroom villas luxury high-rise apartments All of that stuff I was taking her to find dining restaurants and Buying her designer clothes dresses everything So I'm not saying this to brag I mean, I'm sure many of you have Done the same thing for the people that you love and Yeah, I mean she had a pretty good life especially considering that This is someone who came from a very small village With not much money not many opportunities in life and Of course I can see that To cross paths with someone like me Someone who could do all of these things for her and give her a better life but As time went by It's like as you build them up they start to think they're better than you Because you're putting all of this into them And making them a person It makes them feel superior and because of their arrogance They start to think that they can do better than you They start to think the grass is greener on the other side Going on Instagram They're going on Facebook They're looking at other people's lives And they're comparing their situation They're looking for the bigger better deal the next shiny new toy And Yeah, sometimes They may think they found it, but then they end up getting scammed They end up being tricked because It is quite rare. I mean What makes someone think that they're so special That Someone would even go out of their way To take them on trips around the world Put them in What makes someone believe that They even deserve that. I mean Yeah, but it's their arrogance that really leads to their start to think that They can do better when the very person Fixed all of their problems Made everything right for them They think that they can move on and do better than you and this is the mentality that they carry with them throughout their lives They always think that they can do better, but then we have to remember that they are delusional too So many of them will move on to a situation With someone with no motivation Who drive? No job, no car, no home And they will actually think in their minds That they are doing better. I mean some of them They could be working at McDonald's and they will be bragging and boasting about it as though it's something to be proud of Because you have to remember that These people are self-absorbed And they lack empathy They can't put themselves in your shoes They can't even understand the value of going to the table They're emotionally stunted at the development of a two-year-old child and If I take out a hundred dollars Right now and I give it To a two-year-old child What do you think they would do with it? Would they put it in their piggy bank? Would they take care of it? No, of course not because their Brains are not developed To the level where they're able to understand the value of something That's why you give them toys and they they're just gonna break it because they can't understand the value I mean, yes, something may look Shiny and new to them It may stand out from the other toys But once they get a hold of it, they're just gonna destroy it Because they don't understand and it's the same thing with a narcissist This is why they didn't This is why it was so easy for them to get rid of you a narcissist in lottery ticket in their hands and Just throw it in the trash Because they're so arrogant and delusional They're so wrapped up in this grandiose fantasy in their heads And they're just not grounded in reality. They think everything's just so insane It's like this god-like mentality where they can do Achieve and obtain anything they want So of course there's nothing for them to get rid of you Doesn't matter who you are. I mean I've had clients that I've coached You wouldn't believe it Some of the people that have been thrown away by Losers By narcissists who have no job No home just no life at all and yet they've gone and used up and Throwing away people that I've coached people who are doctors lawyers and Even movie directors celebrities That I have coached and Yeah, they've told me about How they've just been discarded by a narcissist Just thrown away like they're garbage. I mean that's just it. I mean You could be the CEO of a company you could be the boss And when you're at your job you're telling people what they need to do You're giving them instructions Giving them a command You're in control You have the power But then when you come back home to the narcissist You feel like you have no power at all and we're seeing that. I mean just look at the thing with Johnny Depp and I'm be here. I'm be heard Johnny Depp is a world-famous A-list celebrity, but I bet he never felt like that around her He probably felt like a nobody like he was garbage and that's because of their brains These people are on the spectrum to psychosis So of course, you're not gonna feel valued when you're around them You're gonna feel like a piece of shit because they can only see a Reflection of themselves in you anyway They see you as an extension of them But they don't want to accept what they are And how they never took the time to work on themselves or to become anything All they really done is just point the finger and criticize you for the work that you're putting in and they depend on you to Help them and improve their lives And then when you do that by the end of it, they're just gonna hate to resent you for that anyway Because deep down they know they don't deserve it When you know you deserve something you're gonna be grateful you're gonna say thank you And you're gonna want to do something something for that person in return When you know that you deserve something But when you know that you don't deserve it Especially for a narcissist, you're gonna turn against that person. You're gonna try to bring them down And that's exactly what they do to you That's exactly it But yeah, I really want to put this in perspective for you just so all of you can understand is that Don't even worry about the narcissist perspective of you. That's just completely irrelevant. I mean You may look at yourself and think that maybe you weren't good enough Just remember me Remember my situation. I Had a girl I was taking on trips around the world anything Taking it to five-star hotels brand new villas luxury high-rise apartments find dining restaurants designer clothes around in Mercedes-Benz and W's everything and as I've said, I've coached people who are doctors lawyers Hollywood movie directors Celebrities People from all walks of life. I've all had the same experience So who's the common denominator in all of that? If there's people from all walks of life who will all experience the same thing with these types of people and They're made to feel like they're not anything That should tell you everything you need to know Thank you for the donation dual seat. I appreciate it and yes, there will be more Benz videos very soon, but yeah you know I've set you one of us arrogance. Yeah, I mean you've just Dedicated all of your time this person in Trying to make their life better and yet they have the arrogance to turn around And act like what you're doing isn't enough Well, what do they ever do for you? How did they make your life better? Well, did you find that you lost everything and they never took responsibility for that Instead they just got up and ghosted you moved on to someone else these people act so self-righteous But it's really just a cover-up for how insecure and worthless. They really know that they are but you'll be glad to know that eventually their arrogance does lead to their own demise and Whatever experience of regret that they're able to feel they will feel that when they leave when they go on and they ghost you and They see that things are getting better for you because here's the thing. It's Yeah, they can't recognize Desiring to be with them But when they see you from far away They're looking at you from a distance from the outside and They're not a part of it Yes, they see that then They recognize the value then That's why they're always on social media Looking at other people's situations The bigger better deal the next shiny new toy. They're always looking at that Because that's when they can see the value is when they're not a part of it Because they look at it like if you want to be with me If you want to spend time with me you want to be around me You can't be that great Something must be wrong with you because remember their arrogance and entitlement is just a disguise for How really insecure they are They have very low self-esteem They lack self-love They're shame-based So, yeah, of course When you do move on Especially if you become even greater they do start to Realize what they've lost And that's why they They may try to get back in But you should already know what will happen if you do let them back They're just going to take you for granted again and I mean, how could you let them back in anyway? If they've moved on they've gone on else And They've engaged in some form of sexual activity They're dirty They're disgusting The garbage and you shouldn't want no part of that after someone has Been involved with them in that way They should have no value to you whatsoever I mean, why would you want that? Why would you want someone else's leftovers? That's not going to be any good to you So, yeah And that's just another part of it, isn't it? I mean, that's another part of how their arrogance leads to their demise Because they have the arrogance to think that they can go off somewhere else and fool around and you know, who knows what what they can go off and do that and then come back to you and you'll just be sitting at home waiting begging for them to come back that's actually how they think They really think that they can go off and do whatever they want and you're going to be patiently waiting for them and I really hope that they're wrong I hope you're not sitting around waiting for them to come back after they're out there and you don't even know what they're doing who they're with I mean, how much does it take how much disrespect do you have to receive until you finally say enough is enough you're gonna let them go out there and you haven't heard from or what you've had some food delivered to your home and for whatever reason maybe they left the food outside they left it outside the door and you didn't know it was there and let's say you find the food one hour later two hours one day two days are you still gonna eat it then you don't know where it's been you don't know who's touched it it's just been there it's not fresh anymore that's how you gotta look at it you don't know where they've been they're not fresh anymore so they're no good to you they're just gonna make you sick thanks for the donation, Alexander I appreciate it yeah, there's no good to you have that I mean you know, even if even if they haven't gone and cheated or they haven't doesn't matter because if you haven't seen you already know what they're doing even if they haven't had sex you know they've been flirting with other people it's that emotional cheating they've been investing their emotions into someone else and yeah, it's just not gonna be the same after them there's just no way that it could ever be the same so that's how the arrogance leads to their own demise because by doing that they just become useless to you worthless I mean when they were with you and for whatever amount of time they managed to be loyal and devoted to you they had a lot of value then they had a lot of worth you know the number one thing for me of what makes someone valuable is their ability to be loyal if they can be loyal to me they are very valuable but the moment that they betray me then they have no value at all then I just I just look them like garbage they're just nothing the trust is gone and it takes a long time to build trust but in a moment that trust can be broken and you may never get it back after their arrogance has gone and led to their demise and you know they've they've made a choice to jump ship swim in the sea and if you go out there and you try to rescue them again you will be disrespecting yourself they've already disrespected you but if you give them another chance you are disrespecting yourself and that's why it's time to start practicing self-love raising our self-esteem they target our self-esteem because then they know that we're going to want to keep them around so just keep in mind that when you do practice self-love and you focus on raising your self-esteem when you do that it acts as a barrier to the narcissist it protects you from them they control you when you have that it's much easier to control someone to have confidence in themselves in their own abilities and that is why the last thing they want is for you to have confidence in yourself it's very difficult for them to control someone and that's why they move on and they try to make you jealous about some new situation that they're in after they've just torn down your self-esteem because they know it's going to make it so much easier for them to come back that's why it's so important for you to realize your worth love yourself in a way narcissists could find the perfect person they could find someone who they think is anything they want they could have the perfect job the perfect looks the perfect body perfect everything and after some they would throw it away and look for something else so don't ever think that what you've done enough it's not about that they experience conflict with everyone they are the common denominator in every situation so don't blame yourself at everything you were doing for them remember everything you did all of the work you put in all of the time energy and money that you invested which you could have invested something else remember everything you gave to them and if someone can't appreciate that does that mean there's something wrong with you for trying to help them no that means there's something wrong with them they have an inability to receive it to appreciate it and that's what you need to understand it doesn't matter if I have a cup right here on the table and there's a hole at the bottom and I keep pouring into it because I'm trying to take a sip out of it doesn't matter how much I pour into that cup if there's a leak at the bottom it doesn't matter because it's going to keep pouring out it's never going to be full and it is the same thing with a narcissist you can pour into them as much as they want as much as you want but it's not going to make a difference because they have a hole within them they have a void and that is a void that can never be filled it doesn't matter what you do for them they're always going to be that way they're always going to lack self love they're always going to be shame based and so they're going to react in ways that are shame based they're going to attack you they're not going to self load that's why they can move on and they don't give a shit about you not if we're talking about love there's no sentimental value I mean a normal person and this is lack of love not just a lack of self love but a lack of love for other people because for us when it ends we're heart broken we feel it in our hearts I felt it myself many times and it's not a nice feeling it brings you down it's like all you can think about is them and what they did to you and you think to yourself wonder how can someone do that anything for you how can someone do that because you look at yourself and you know that you could never do that so how can they do it but that's just it it's like they have no heart they could never connect to you because they're self absorbed and they lack empathy everything revolves around them and the image that they portray into the world and if you do anything to come between them and their false image you're as good as dead to them at that point you have no use to them because the only thing they really have is that image anyway so you do anything to confront it you do anything to taint it and they're just gonna get rid of you they're not gonna want anything to do with you after that point and they are going to show their arrogance to you of how they're so much better than what you now think they are how that arrogance is what then leads to their demise every time brings them right down but you won't always hear from them they won't always come back to you because of course it must be embarrassing embarrassing if you've gone you can move on and do better this situation I mean that's gotta be pretty embarrassing if that happens to you so of course they're gonna stay away they're not gonna come back just so you can laugh at them just so you can make a joke of you said all of these things that they can do so much better and then they're crawling back to you narcissists are so pride and ego they're not gonna love in a position to be humiliated to be rejected they're not gonna take that risk they have to feel like they're better than you at all costs and if the only way they can do that is by staying far away from you then that's what they're gonna do I think that's it for today going pretty deep into it 36 minutes and yeah this is the message for the day how the narcissist arrogance leads to their demise their own feelings of superiority their egos just end up killing them in the end city view from the 20th floor I would show Nala but I think she is hiding, sleeping somewhere so I'll show her in the next one please hit that thumbs up button let's get this message out there so it can help other people as well anyway thank you all for joining me and you have