 Welcome to another girl top video. I think I'm going to name this wine spill. Wine spill? Oh, that is cute. Today we have another special guest of the Semeny. And guys, I know we're all in matching clothes. Yeah. Guess whose idea it was? Thank you for dressing up. Yeah, isn't it so cute? Cute. Can we stand up a little bit? And show them the bottom too. Okay, so we asked you guys for questions and you guys submitted them in. So we're going to drink some wine, have some snacks and answer some questions. Please do the honor. Who wants the first four? This is the best sound. Okay, ready? Everything's gonna be okay. Do you know what I mean? I feel like chest sound means like everything's gonna be okay. So we have some Korean snacks. This, you dip it in the sauce. Oh, good. It's like ketchup and mayo, right? What is in my flavors? So good. It's supposed to be sesame ramen. And then you guys can enjoy your talkies. Yes, yes. You have kinder chocolate and some more chocolate snacks. And go crack one. Yay. Alright, let's cheers first. Cheers. There's also water. Shall we get started? That's a good name. That is cute. Did you subscribe yourself? Yes. I've been waiting to come on here. I have no idea. I have a lot to show around here. It was like the beginning of this year. Sorry, guys. We'll try to make it more regular. So I guess we'll start with an easy question and something that a lot of people have been curious about, which is how did we meet our subscribers who have been here since a long time ago, like no already, but for our new subscribers, how do we meet? Well, you guys met first. So... Well, I was introduced to Suvi through Alex. Alex and I were promoting around the same time in 2016 and as soon as we met... Yes, because it was during the rain promotions and as soon as we met, we fly because we are both from New York and it's hard to meet people from New York and this industry. So we exchanged numbers right away. We kept in touch and he was like, hey, I want to introduce you to my cool girlfriends who are also from the States. And I was like, okay, and I went out one day and that's when I met you. We lived in the same neighborhood area too. I think that's when we went even closer. He's like, what are you doing? I'm like, okay, let's go to cafe. And Ashley knows all of our cafes and I'm like, oh, I like this. I don't need to find cafe. I mean, if we try to find one, she's like, no, I already lived there. Or she's like, I found this. This is the honest truth. So we know. Yeah, we try and there's like, once in a year, she'll be like, okay. And that day, you feel so good. And you're like, yes, Ashley accepted my invitation. I'm sorry, we'll go to your places for all. No, it's okay. I'm too. And then I still remember when I first met her, she was in this long Adidas perfect jacket that came like all the way down to her ankles because we didn't need on a really cold winter day. And then we went to an Italian restaurant with horrible service and we were talking crap. Great memory. Oh, she does. We did only with certain things, but the other things I have bad memory. And then we met at a birthday party. Yes. Morning. Yeah, we're just not gone. We're not there anymore. I'm so sad. My first impression of, I remember your first impression. She was just like in pigtails and like a skirt. Korean Britney Spears mode. Oh, and then later as I got to know her, I was like, oh, she's really cool, right? And then as I got to know her more and got to know people around her, my first impression of Ashley was so scary. And I was like, mine wasn't. Yes, it helped. The Britney Spears outfit helped. It made me look less intimidating as usual. Yeah, Ashley was a little intense. Really? A little bit. I never had that vibe from you, so. She's like this gentle soul. Yeah, she's like the most gentle soul. Like such a strawberry. Yeah, yeah. Speaking of how we first met, what is your best memory of us? Ooh. Dude, just go back and watch Joan Day 365. No, seriously. You have so many memories of that. I mean, I can think of like our first trip ever, just the three of us. It was to Damyang. We got a little lost. You broke your camera. You broke my camera. Oh, I also remember when we went to that gallery, that museum. And remember we had to hitchhike back? Oh, yeah. Actually, that is one of the best. That's a memory. That is the memory. I think it was Yang Zhu. Yeah, Yang Zhu. Yeah. We went to the train station. That was very dangerous of what we did. That was the last resort. Yeah. So that place was like in the middle of nowhere, so it's really hard to get to without a car. Even the bus, we had to wait a long time, right? And by the time we left the museum, the buses were gone. And they said we had to wait like an hour. So we were like, oh my God, oh my God, what do we do? The cabs weren't even coming. So we saw a mom and her son come out of the museum and we followed them to the parking lot, which sounds so creepy, you know? And we were like, what are we saying to her? I said, what are you saying? I said, what are you saying? We asked her to drop us off at the nearest subway station. And the crazy thing is, she actually lived here, I mean. Yeah. Oh my God. Perfect. Oh yeah, that is definitely top five. Yeah, that's top five. We got lucky. I also really enjoyed our first Jeju trip with the Ako-Ko lake, the Mio-Depan. That was really fun. We danced on the hallway, and that was like a moment that we had. My time. My time. The days. Yeah, pre-commit days. I think my favorite moment was when we were just about getting close to each other and then Ashley made us walk. Like this one day, we were walking like constantly. I don't know what neighborhood it was. I think it was Hong-dong. You know, it's hard for me to like think of a moment where she made us walk because she makes me walk faster than I do. No, she's like, guys! Which one? Like, there were so many. Yeah, there were so many. And she advised me, she's like, it's like five minutes. And I'm like, oh, we really got here. I'll get you water. So I'm like, I got her. I'm getting tipsy. Okay. What? What? The whole water is that. That's mine. This is yours. Thank you. Do you guys have plans on traveling anywhere together? Where? Oh my gosh. I wish. After COVID. I remember when Joe came back from like Spain and stuff, and like we watched him walk. Yeah. So you were just like, Joe, like take us there. We want to do Europe with you guys. Yeah. And then you know, it would be different because she went to the Philippines with me before. Yeah. And then she knows that I'm always like, okay, where do we go? Like, I'm always like, like, okay, what do we do? Like, where do we go? Yeah, I'm always like, in Korea, I'm like, you guys are in charge, sort of. But then when I'm abroad, it's like, it's, she saw the 100% screens. You didn't just step foot out the airport. She's like, the gate's over here. And she's just like, where do I go? Just see that stuff. Yeah. But when my friend is from the states visit Korea, I am that person, but because I know you guys are like way better. I mean, so I'm like, okay, you guys take charge. But then when I'm abroad, it like, comes. And so like, I know for a fact that it would be like, Excel sheet. Oh, yeah. Airbnb, like, you know. Do they know that about you? That like the Excel sheets and stuff? Yeah, I told them. Oh, really? Yeah. We need her to make like a financial video because, you know, she's an expert on that. It's like Excel sheet. There's that added glass, what the trip is going to look like day to day, what each hour is going to look like. The finance, who paid for what? Because it's way easier than like splitting the bill. And so, yeah. I think we'll be good at traveling together because it's not like, we just like staying at like a movie hotel. We like to go look around and see the instruments. So I think we'll be okay. Yeah. I want to go to America with all three of you guys too. Oh, yeah. I'm going to go to LA with you guys. Yeah. I'm going to go to Vegas. I don't want to go to LA, right? I don't want to go to Vegas. I don't want to go to Vegas. I'm going to go to Vegas. I'm going to go to one of them. I'm going to go to the whole party. The whole party is just girls. Look, not just girls. They're already like controlling. Yeah, they're actually calm down. We literally drink with every meal. Like, mimosas, like, I love. It seems so chaotic. Dude, there was a time, college, where I would go like every weekend. Oh. I was like, that girl. Oh, my God. I guess I really want to meet that girl. The college girl. Yeah, you guys got the crazy young girl. This is toned down. Imagine how crazy your college must have been. How do you take care of your down there area after getting sugar and slash wax? Example, like ingrown hairs. Oh, okay. We've all had experience getting sugar or waxing. Right. I mean, our place that we went to, she gave us like a scrub to use. Yeah. Because you have to make sure that like after five days you get waxing. You use the scrub like once or twice a week. Yeah. And also apply lotion. Because if it's dry, it's going to get. Yeah. And the toner spray. The toner spray. The toner spray. Cooling toner spray. And there's also, there's a mask. Yeah, the mask sheet mask for down there. Oh, my God. Yeah, first time when she was putting that on me, I was like, what is this? She's like, oh, it's a sheet mask for down there. I was like, there's a sheet mask for down there. Like why? Yeah. But um, yeah, it feels nice. It's the best part. Yeah, it's very cooling. But not all salons do that. Yeah. Yeah. That's true. My person, she takes care of all the ingrown with the tweezers. Oh, yeah. It hurts so much. You know, I don't think the tweezers hurt. I think because sugaring hurts so much. At that point. That's true. Like I'm sorry. Whenever she was like, I have to take an ingrown hair, I was like, no, please. I'm like, no. Just leave it. I'll just lift the ingrown hairs. I want to try laser though, because that's what's like kind of in and career. It hurts. It hurts. That's what she told us. But I don't know. They might have new machines and new technology that's less painful. So you can try it. No, let's not. No, let's not. You've got a thumb though. Yeah. But I can't go through that again. Yeah. And that's with numbing cream. But that only numbs the outer part. But laser penetrates like deep in there. So you know how I can't go through that. That is sensitive down there too. Yeah, so sensitive. And guys, if you're going to go waxing, like avoid it a week before or after your period. Oh yeah. Because it's going to be painful. You've got to avoid those times. That's facts. How do you take care of your armpits? Oh. Like on my laser. Oh, okay. Me too. I don't have hair though. I don't have hair. Wow, she's so wet. It's like my mom. But once in a while I get like one or two and I just pluck them out. Wait, so should I take it slow? Should I drink some water? Yes, drink some water. Water coughs. Literally every weekend. Water. Water. We always tell Jo, Jo, drink water. I should like drink water now. And then Suvi would be like, me? She would put it right in front of me. I'm like, okay. Okay, I think this would be a fun one. Would you rather be stuck on an island with Matt or Peniel? Let's end. One, two, three. Matt. Who? What? They're going to say Matt. No, I thought about it too. Okay, Matt. This is so funny. Hold up. Okay, so I know Matt seems a little more dependable because he's so muscular and fit. And you know, he's tall. I feel like, you know, he can go out and hunt stuff for us to survive here. But at the end of the day, Matthew's kind of like emotional too. I feel like Daniel, since he's level headed and he's way more chill and laid back, mentally he will keep us in check. You know, if I'm freaking out, I'm like, oh my god, I'm gonna die. I might not actually shut up. Prime with me. Kind of promo 13 heavy eyes like I kept. In these situations, you got to be strong, like mentally, right? But you also have to be strong physically. I'm not saying that Peniel is not strong physically. Peniel's strong too. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, so I'm kind of cheating. The good thing about Matthew is that you know how he likes working on stuff for everything that he does on the island? He's gonna be like, this is working out. I would leave that island open. I would leave the island with a six pack. If you would train us, you'd be like, actually you'd have to be fit in order for us to swim. I have a feeling that people are going to re-make this and tap them and they're gonna watch it. Yeah, it's okay. We love you. But then, BM is very motivational too. So I feel like every day we wake up he's gonna say another inspirational code to be like, we got to get there another day. Yeah. Yeah. With BM, you'll be able to get out of the island. With Peniel. You're gonna just enjoy the island. Yeah, you're just gonna enjoy the island. We are very Peniel. The reason is meant to be like... Oh my god. Oh my god. Speaking of Matthew. Speaking of Matthew? Could you ever date a regular person? Not IG famous, no large followers, not popular? Yeah. I think I always prefer dating though. Yeah. Non-celebrity. I mean, it doesn't matter. It's just their occupation. Next question. It really is. Literally, people make a big deal out of it. It's not... If anything, dating celebrities is more painful. It just gets in their head. Honestly, yeah. Dating celebrities is probably the worst. I think that's the worst experience of dating celebrities or people who are in the field rather than not. Yeah. And whatever image they have on the public, it's so different from who they are. Yeah, she's still going on. Yeah. I think we're not everyone like that, but some people are. Right. See that recent... What is that recent thing? Like, who's that idol that just got caught from like... Oh. There's like that... Like, I was so shocked by that. That could happen. Okay, why are you kidding me? No, like seriously, if I was in a club and an idol like approached me like that, I could like, get out of my face. Dude. I would not care. I've met so many idols. They do that. Yeah. You didn't go to the... Like... What? Yeah. You didn't go to the club. She did go to the club. Yeah. I went to clubs in general when I was promoting. Yeah. But you did? Yeah. That's not in your contact ear. She's nuts now. Oh, wow. Bad girls. Please, mom, don't watch this. The money and skills to do anything at all. What business would you be in together or solo? Oh. I don't think I would do a business with them. No, I'm just saying. They said don't do business with your friends. Right. Yeah, it's true. Yeah. No, for sure. I'll probably do something. I agree with you too. My own butt. I'm sure they'll help. Yeah, I'll post. Just kidding. I'm getting out here. I'll post it. I think he would be really good at making a brand because I feel like Joe would be really good at the marketing, social part of it. And then you would be really good at finding locations and stuff. Shoot the stuff. Shoot and stuff. Or like a vibe. She'll be the one drawing all the stuff. Yeah, I think so. She's really talented. Like design and stuff. Yeah. I'll have a good sense of style. Yeah. I feel like you might be okay. You would want to do a clothing brand. Yeah, clothing brand. I want to do a cafe. Cafe. Business. Yeah. How we talk about business. I never thought about this. Really? I never... This is the first time I'm getting this question asked. I want to know, maybe a hotel? Like if that wasn't like... Oh, they got it. They got it. You know what? Yes, I have a hotel that has branches all over the world. And I'll just fly to all these different countries. Well, I can do that with cafes. Yeah. Okay, you do the hotel. I'll do the cafe inside the hotel. And then we'll have... You'll have a shot. You'll have a shot. Yes. It might not happen. I need a degree for that. Like I don't have an MBA in business. I don't have a hotel. I didn't study hotel management. Like skipping steps here. This is just like, you know, what if... Yeah. Imagine. Oh my God. It was nice to think about that. Yeah. Three seconds. Okay. Push our dreams in. Three seconds. All right, next question. Okay, back to reality. How do you deal with insecurities with your body, face, skin, et cetera? Okay. I'll go first. Okay. My biggest insecurity was acne. Like I had it for like a couple of years. And so there would be moments where I can't leave, like even to the grocery store without... Like I didn't even want to be on the same elevator with strangers with my face like that. And whenever I saw people, I can't look at them in the eye. So like, I remember I would always walk her on... I would look on the ground. On the ground. On the ground. She's telling me off. I was so insecure about my skin. But I mean, over the years, it took time for me to like understand my skin. And then I was able to find a routine. But I mean, honestly, like I just dealt with it by trying to find solutions. Like finding the products, going to clinics and whatnot. So I know what that feels like. But over time, it will be okay. Future Joan will tell that Joan with lots of like the pizza face Joan that everything is going to be okay. Like just, you know, like stop stressing out about it because stress will cause more acne. Yeah. Because last week I went to the skincare clinic and my old Joan name was like, there's nothing to pop. And I was like, find something to pop with. Yeah. Because usually it means like clean. But then you will find something. But she was like, there's nothing to pop. And I was like, are you sure? Like look again. And she was like, there's nothing to pop. Look again. Because it was like my first time after like going to the same clinic for over like, I've counted how many times I've been to the clinic. It's like over 200 times. Because I just like started going like every week. Like especially with COVID, like you have to be more careful with like your skin and whatnot. But yeah, I was so shocked. I was like, wow, like when I look at my old pictures, it's going to be okay. Yeah. So people facing acne, like who has acne, it's going to take time. Don't everything, like something is going to magically make all your acne pimples go away. Like just, yeah. That was my biggest thing. I know. We all probably have different things. So I think my biggest insecurity is probably like was or is like my weight, you know? I feel like it's because like a lot of people, like when they see me, they're like, Oh my God, you're so skinny. Yeah. I just take their bones. But I mean, I feel like at one point, even if you guys have got like a lot of my pictures, like I had it insured out, but like bigger clothes because I didn't want like them, like people thinking I'm like super skinny. I think as of now, I've come to just like accept that it's just me. You know, I've always been like this. So for me, I think that was probably the biggest insecurity. Yeah. Yeah. A lot of people like skinny shame too. Yeah. Yeah. Because I, you know, like, I think a lot of people like don't understand that because like, well, like being skinny is good. But like, I feel like the commentary, everybody tells you that. Like, oh my God, like have you been eating? Like, do you eat? Like, oh my God, you're just like bold. It kind of like gets to you mentally sometimes. Yeah. I would say like, stay off of Instagram. Instagram. Yeah. My Instagram is, let me show you guys my explore page. Oh, it's all basketball players. Whoa. Before you right now, basketball. Wow. So for me, I don't find insecurity. Like maybe I wish I was a better basketball player, but I just post. A lot of color. I just post, comment, and then look at my explore page. And then that's why I enjoy going on Instagram. Because before I go to sleep, I would watch like all these highlights. Yeah. But no, I know what you mean by that. And I do agree with you. We live in this like, world where Instagram is kind of taking over our lives. Like I would go to the pool in Seoul and everyone's on the phone. Everyone is taking pictures. I'm like, for what though? And so every time I do book hotels, I understand that if you have to work, get your photos, whatnot. But if you're constantly just doing that for four hours, like I can't get, I don't understand that. So whenever I check in, it's like first hour, take all your photos, and then after that, enjoy. Like you have to live in the moment to fully kind of like love yourself more and then you'll be less insecure. But yeah, Instagram is dangerous. Something I realized when I was in Jeju, so when I went to Jeju this past month, I went to the beach. And usually like in Korea, I would feel self-conscious about like being in a bikini. But then I was like, okay, I'm here to have fun. I'm here to swim in the ocean. I'm here to get a tan. So before I took off my clothes, I felt very insecure. And I was like, oh my god, what if people see my cellulite? And what if people see my fat? And no, no, I do have. But I was like, what do I do? Do I just go in with my clothes? And last minute, I was like, you know what? Just f**k it. And then I just took everything off and I just ran into the water. It took like one second for me to be like, okay, I don't care. Let me just do it. I was like, no, I still felt scared about it. Let me just do it. And once I did that, I felt so liberated. And I just like had so much fun. I didn't care about if somebody was behind me seeing my butt or like my thighs. Then after that, I was like, oh wow, this is nice. And you'll never see them again. Exactly. They don't give a s**t. Like if you people don't care that much as much as you think. But I feel like back in Seoul, it takes a little bit more courage. And I'm still working on it. But as long as you're trying, it's fine. I think you're your biggest enemy. Yeah. You're your biggest critique. Oh wait, actually you're not drinking. Is it because you're hosting? I'm like about to finish this. Yeah. Would you guys rather want a five-year-old Ashley or five-year-old Jones or five-year-old Subin or five-year-old Subin? Oh, I know what I want. I want five Jones. Oh yeah, I want five Jones. Oh, one five-year-old. One five-year-old each and then I want five Jones. Five Jones can take care of one five-year-old Ashley and one five-year-old Subin. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Even three Jones can take care of. Oh hey, you know, I think you are making it. Yeah. You just want one five-year-old Ashley too. Yeah. Oh, I find Ashley's too much. Because I know. Why? You did a one five-year-old. Five Jones will make hotels. Like I know that. Dude, I love crazy Jones. And it's just enough. One is enough. Yeah, one of us is enough. Yeah. Yeah. No, no, no. We came to an agreement so it's all over. I was like, oh my gosh, I wish there was like another me so that she can take care of emails and she could take care of the filming and she could edit. Like do you not think about it? I always think of that. I never thought of that. Oh yeah, right? Yeah, like I want to be at like three places. Oh really? A traveling Ashley radio actually. Yeah. Yeah. So good. The next question is who do you think will get married first? Shall we point? One, two, three. In person. And you're like such a mom. You're such a good hubby to me. But then I say hubby but like you're a wife. You are a wife. Why Ontario? Like I feel like if you have a child, you'll be so good to the child. Like I always tell you this. You'll be great. You too. You're just younger than us. But by the time she gets married, you'll probably get married at the same age she is. So maybe. Yeah, I feel like you guys are both like just very motherly loving and that you have that trait. Claire, Mary's hair is going to be on me. It's like interrogation process. Like, you know, it's like come, come. I'm going to give you an interview. It's going to be like five Jones coming your way. Five Jones is one. Like I will come at you, bro. But why did you point at yourself? Because these days, you know how I go through faces. Like I've been going through a phase of like I'm going to live my life. I'm going to get married. I'm just going to do mean do whatever I want. But then now I'm at a phase where I'm like, I want to get married. Yeah. Like I don't know. I don't know about marriage in particular, but I've been watching so many YouTube videos of like on like how to be a good parent. Like a parenting one on one. Is that what your YouTube's on? No. You're out of them. Yeah. And I've been watching videos of like experiments on little kids, like how little kids behave when they were abandoned by their parents or like if they grew up in a loving family. And I've just been watching a bunch of those videos. I don't know why, but maybe something like inside of me that really wants like to be a mom or something. But then I don't know, it's not going to happen anytime soon. Yeah. I think one day, but then there might be another phase where I'm like, No. I'm going to do it. But I feel like when I first met you and like the first couple of years we were friends, I always like knew you're going to get married and you're going to have kids. Like I think that just kind of, kind of you have that energy of just like loving people and taking care of people. And so for me, I was like, this girl is going to get married like as soon as her contract is over. Like I literally thought that. Yeah, she's going to get married. But I think it's just like if you meet the right person and like the timing wise, I feel like you're ready for it. Yeah. I mean also like not everyone is ready for it. I have friends who are married and having like kids and they still don't feel ready and stuff. But I think like whatever happens, I feel like you will handle that situation so well. Like whatever comes at you, you'll do it. Like I know you will. Yeah. Aw, but it's so hard to raise another human being. I don't know if I could do it. I feel like you started thinking that after you became friends with me. No, I'm not. I think it's before when we were kids. It's okay because we'll be really good at each other. I'll be caring for you. You will be like, I'm going to be the best Imua. Yeah, me too. I'm like hey, little kids. Like I love you. So don't worry about that. We'll be taking care of a baby. We're going to take care of a big job for your baby all the time. Yeah. Because I love babysitting and I love babies. I really don't think I can have a child, but I know for a fact you will. And you'll have support systems. Yeah, dude. You have us. You're fine. I'm going to have it while we're still young. So you guys have enough energy to take care of the baby. I love her baby. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, I feel more relieved now. It was my first time hearing this after a while. Like, you know what I'm saying? You're hearing it first. Yeah. What is something you want to do or achieve before reaching 30 years old? That's like five months from now. I was going to say oh, I still have it. But then I was going to say for you guys. That's like. Don't like. I'm ages just a number. I still feel super young. I feel like my body is definitely like. Aging. Aging. I still don't have hangovers. But then like sometimes when I drink, I'm always like, oh, like this might be like what a hangover is. Like I'm like, oh, yeah. You think you're actually getting hangovers. Yeah. That's why you are not drinking right now. But also my period. Like we're talking. My period has been crazy. Like when I was in high school, I never understood why like girls would skip school for period. You just like didn't just want not want to go to school. That was like a genuine concern. I was like, oh, like maybe whatever. But then now I'm like, if this is what they felt at the age of 16, like I would never go to school because it was so painful. And I think this started to happen at the age of 29. Like I've never had cramps. And so I think like now I feel like I have headaches. And so I think ages, my body is aging. But my mindset is not. Yeah. All right, guys. I would just like wanting like just like dance or something. Like a club. A club. That's what you want to do before you retire. You want to go to a club and dance. You're young, you know. No. When we go clubbing, they will be dancing. I'll be at the bar. She'll be drinking. I feel like, all right, give me everything. I would like to go on like one last trip. Do we never go to a club together? No, we did. For our birthday, we did. I might sound like an alcohol, but like I can just consume a lot. I might sound like an alcohol? Alcoholic? Okay. Sorry. She is an alcohol. I am an alcohol. No, I have one. I'm doing a license. You guys don't have a license. Yeah. Oh yeah. Well, it's impossible. I can't get a license. Why? Why? You can't. You have five months. What are you talking about? Okay. Let's really answer this question. Starting with you because you have more time. Yeah. Lucky. And then you have more time than three days later. Yeah. Three more days than you. Cool. Actually, you are 6'9". 6'9". 6'9". 6'9". 6'9". He says 6'9". 6'9". What? What? We are 6'9". 6'9". Oh yeah. No, we are 6'9". Yeah. I remember you guys. You guys wrote this too. Wow. I would want to be like good way. You know, like spoiling her. You know? Like a sushi omakase. Yeah. Like first class flight to like a really crazy like five star hotel. You know? Like going all out. Yeah. That would be like a really big accomplishment for me to just like see her like happy like that. Yeah. But you know she's still happy without you doing that, right? You just seeing her daughter. Why is she coming out? You know? I'm very excited. She already said baby. Yeah. You're so cute. Yeah. I've been saving a lot of money and not buying shoes and stuff. Yeah. You need to wear sneakers. Yeah. You already got enough. Yeah. She has like a freaking Christmas tree of sneakers. Yeah. Dude, it's hard for us because we literally were 20 or 30 in a few months. Oh my gosh. Maybe our subscribers don't know that. Thank you. What would you want to accomplish at the age of 35? Ooh. Ooh. That is incredible. Housing prices are insane. You know what's crazy? We used to talk about like hey like where should we go? Let's meet. Like have you been seeing any cute cat face? Now we're like guys. That's changed a little bit over time. Oh my gosh. Our friendship has aged. Like what? Yeah. Especially if I'm not going to get married and have kids. Like I don't want to live in Seoul. So it could be outside of Seoul which will make buying a house a little easier. Yeah. But that's what I would like to have. Yeah. True. How about you? Kind of like you. I think I want to have a place in LA so that my family will always have a place to be in LA and then I also want to get a place in Korea so that my family will have a place in Korea as well. So like I've been trying to, I've been saving a lot of money and then you know it just takes time. Saving is hard. Yeah. Every year you know like housing goes up so it's like tough and tough. Like housing prices goes up. You have to pay your taxes. You know it's just like it's just like an ongoing circle. Yeah. It's tough for people who are Americans living in Korea because we have to pay for both. Like I pay for both taxes and so it's just like I get owned in the month of like April, May, June. It's okay. I'm down for it. She's drinking a lot. Yeah. More than usual. Yeah. Because wine is actually not my, but this is a good beer type of gadget. Yeah. I like it. I love two bottles. I underestimated you guys. I love two hours of bottle and two hours of cake. How could you underestimate me? Yeah. That is keep on right there. One bottle is like daily. Every meal. I'm starting high school soon and I'm nervous. Any advice? Okay. You could go first. Me? Why me? Me. It happened most recently for you. For you. For the back for us. You know you graduated high school with me though? 2009. Yeah. 2010. Oh you went to school. My 92s. 92s. Yeah. For me when I would only go from school like Hagon Academy, like school academy and like church, school academy church. That was literally my routine. So I would say like just have fun like you know like make a lot of memories with your friends. I know like it's really hard because in high school you're pressured to just like do all your studies you know going to college and stuff but I feel like sometimes when I look back at like my high school memories I don't have like a lot of like high school memories in my opinion. So I would say like just do that. But I think it's like normal like to piggyback off of her. I feel like it's normal for like our neighbor because we like lived in like the suburbs. I like lived in the suburbs and so that was a very routine for me. My tip for high school students would be like to join as much as like fun extracurricular activities as you can because when you apply for schools it's not just about grades. It's about having like you want to package your entire like college application as like you want to look like a well-rounded person. It's not just about grades. It's really about like what extracurricular activities you did what you ran for what how much hours of community service you did and again like I don't know how high schoolers like or y'all these days but personally for me that's what kept me busy in high school. It wasn't just studying because studying is just like do your homework, you take your tests and it's like it's done and then maybe you go to SAT, I don't know. But just try to have fun like you said. Have fun and extracurricular activities might show what you're really good at at the same time. So like find what you would really want to do. Right. And so just like kind of see what your school offers and join whatever you can and have fun with it. Because you know everyone thinks that high school is like so stressful but I'll tell you now it's more stressful now. Now. Literally. Literally. Yeah. That's why. It's just like you know it makes it we make it seem like it's like more fun and easy but trust me it's like a lot harder when you're an adult. And so once you like you can use youth as a cheat code to just do whatever like have fun and join whatever you can. So you can do a lot of things. Yeah. Like you might be an awesome tennis player. You might not know yet. You know? Like I don't know. Like I just keep thinking about this. Like if I joined the sport like. Yeah. Like I'm like. Maybe. Maybe. Okay. Basketball. I like watching it. So sometimes I think about like if I joined a more competitive sport in high school I feel like my life might have been a little different. Because I was a really fast runner. Bet you didn't know that. I was like. If they watched our previous swine tops they would know. Oh yeah. We can talk about that. Well Bet you didn't know I was a fast runner. You were an awesome star. Okay. She a runner and she a check star. Wait what was your mile time. Oh well but I heard your mile time got a little.... Yeah my math is pretty high. Yeah. I'm not even gonna go there. I was like 7.30. Yeah like, if I was under eight. But I think like. But that's like for us. It's like really fast. Yeah. In our body now. 7 minutes is a lot. Cause you....you were super fast. I was pretty fast. 7 minutes is pretty fast though Since you are the ultimate student of our high school life I think Ashley experienced high school though Although it's different, we're suburbs She was in New York There are subways in New York We didn't have subways No, but I was in Queens, New York, not Manhattan, New York But you knew how to get to Manhattan Yeah, but it took an hour and a half We didn't go to LA when we were in high school Well, in high school, going to the city, aka Manhattan, was on special occasions Like on someone's birthday or something So it was very rare High school... Honestly, I spent a lot of my time during high school outside of school I didn't really have close friends in school, maybe like one or two I always felt like I just didn't fit in with my grade students I had friends a year below me, like 92s But I didn't really have any close friends my year So when I went to school, I always felt like I didn't belong But now that I look back and maybe because I didn't try hard enough to make friends I was just close off of it Yeah, I was just like, you know, I'm gonna just go to school until like 2pm I'm gonna leave, I'm gonna go to Dan's school And hang out with my other friends Yeah, so I don't really have much memories from high school Except just, like, pajama day I'm sorry, I was so random I'm sorry We have that too, I forgot If anything, I enjoyed my junior high school more I feel like in high school, everything's so clicky And you know, it's hard to kind of figure out who your friends are You're basically just friends because you guys see each other every day But I feel like friends goes beyond that, you know But I hope your high school experiences are the same Yeah, same Okay, so Joan and I answered this before, but we want to hear your story So since you're new here, we want to hear your story So what's like your worst and best dating experience? It's time to spill the wine Oh man Why do you think I'm gonna get some more chips? Why do you think I'm gonna dump it after? Dating experience would be probably dating an idol For too long With idols, I know like a lot of people are like, oh my god They have like crushes of irons and stuff But like, they seek a lot of attention They get a lot of attention from people Right And I think at one point Everybody, when you're an idol, there's just so much people interested in you And I remember it would be really hard to kind of get in contact with this person Even though we were in a so-and-so, like some relationship And I just remember being really stressed out Because I was like, oh, I thought that we kind of clicked and stuff But to that person, it could just be like Another perfect point, you know? Good girl I'm gonna do the food What are the pros and cons of dating an idol? Is there a pro? Do you think of a pro? I think the pros was schedules Like it's very hectic, right? I mean, idols will have different schedules And I feel like understanding that is going to be a lot Final question How do we conquer burnout from ways to deal with burnout? I just stop everything I just don't do anything Whatever is burning me out I'm sure it's work-related I just stop And I spend time away from work Meeting friends, going out And I try not to think about it And then there will come a time when I'm like, I'm gonna do it again So I just rely on that I just don't think about it I don't do it I had a really hard time with this Because even during burnout I would force myself to film, edit a video, and upload But I think recently Within the past couple of months I started to just kind of let go And I used to never do that Because personally for me When I just started YouTube I didn't understand when YouTubers would be like I'll be honest I really do understand why they would not upload Because it's not a big deal But honestly, it's a lot of time A lot of effort A lot of work That goes into uploading one episode Each of you guys will probably understand that Because filming takes time Thinking of an idea takes time Editing and getting that up And responding to those comments It all takes time And so this year I think I've been trying really hard To slow down a little bit And even though it's like one video a week It doesn't compare to the 10 videos I uploaded A week Which it doesn't exceed It really doesn't But like Last week I didn't upload a video Because it was level 4 locked down I didn't leave the house I just didn't want to upload Before it would kill me But now I'm just like I'm just gonna take the time to focus on my mental health And like I was totally okay with it And I think you sometimes need that Like I feel like the inconsistency of my channel Has like finally started to show on this On my channel And like I hate it But also at the same time Like you really need to take the time off It's not just for YouTubers It's for everyone out there Like before it would kill me And I would be like so depressed And like punching myself for it But like now I'm just like You know what? Like I needed to not upload Cause one video a week is actually a lot of work It's tough Yeah But I did 10 at one point in my life And I'm like you know At one point that was okay Like I was able to do it But right now I'm not capable I think we always talk about Joan Like the Joan at Joan's day Yeah We always were like She was crazy We were like we don't understand Yeah And like I really didn't have like a proper break afterwards And I'll be honest Like I say like I'm gonna take a break But I'm constantly thinking about work I'm constantly thinking about how I'm gonna come back I'm constantly thinking about Like what I should do next You know? And so like until I don't do any of that That will be my proper break You know? I don't know Like yeah I'm glad we were doing that though Cause we need a break like Yeah Everyone needs a break Everyone does need a break though I know But I'm glad to hear that you weren't like all like Being yourself up or not uploading a week Yeah Cause the J and me would be like What are you doing? Not like a year ago Joan Yeah Or even like four months ago I would not understand like Why aren't you uploading a week Like you know but now I'm just kind of like used to Like also the pandemic really slowed me down Like I hate to use it as a mixed use But then because I'm not going out To film as much anymore Like I'm literally home Like everyone's like Okay you're literally home But why are you in Jeju You're literally home Why are you in Busan But I'm like I'm literally just going for that moment And coming back It's just like It just seems like on social media I'm constantly like You know Doing something and just like Taking pictures of like things But I don't know You're doing great Yeah you're doing great Thanks guys I know you know what True fans are always like You need to take a break Everyone's like Everyone's like You need to just stop Don't even think about it Yeah thanks guys For me I think At first What kind of like Starts a burnout It's kind of like It could be by yourself too But it could be also like Comparing yourself to other people's work Ethic And I feel like everybody Has a different way of working But you know There's no right or wrong But I feel like The way you kind of Might burn yourself out Is trying to follow In like other people's paces Or like what is right Because there usually is no right or wrong But I feel like Sometimes you're just like Oh this is like Kind of like The general or the norm And I feel like It really kind of took me A while to break out of it Also I do think that Like with personal problems Or like family problems It would also Definitely like change I think that with me Like Throughout the pandemic Obviously like Things have slowed down But like Throughout the pandemic I dealt with a lot of personal stuff too Having enough time to actually Rest Heal Because I feel like Burnouts The reason why you keep getting burnt out Is because You're not Fooling like Charging yourself It's just kind of like Like mini charge And then like You go back at it And stuff But I mean I think Everybody has a different way Of like So Alright guys Thank you so much For watching this video Please subscribe to Joan And it's to Mimi's channel Follow them on Instagram And show them some support And love Thank you guys For being a part of this Thank you for having us Yes Now we're going to go Take some selfies We'll talk Let us know in the comments What you guys Would like for us To talk about again In the future And thank you so much For watching We'll see you guys Next time Alright We have one more To take We have selfies You guys Guys What's going on? It's been 3 hours It's been 3 hours It's really close It's really close Yeah, it is We did it We did We did