 When you do this, the narcissist will return. Many of you may want the narcissist to return. Just so you can punish them for everything they did to you. Just so you can give them a taste of their own medicine. And I don't blame you for that. I understand everything that they put you through. And I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. So you may want them to come back because you want revenge. Or maybe it's just because you miss everything that you thought they were. You miss the love bombing. You miss the illusion. And I get it. I understand. And that is why I've decided to create this video. If you want the narcissist to return. Or maybe you want to know this information to prevent the narcissist from returning to you. You need to take your time and attention away from them. Stop responding to them. Go no contact. Focus on your own life. Focus on things that you like. Things that you are passionate about. Remember all of the things you used to enjoy doing before you got involved with the narcissist. Start doing those things again. Start living the life that you used to live. The narcissist will start engaging in intention seeker behavior. They may play the victim. They may try to love bomb you. But if you hold your ground. They're going to go from just playing cat or mouse. From just toying with you. And leading you on and making you think that they want you back when really they don't. To actually them genuinely wanting you back. And wanting to return to you. All you have to do is hold your ground. Don't cave in. They will try to tempt you. They will try to entice you. They may future fake. They may give you desirable visions of the future. But you just have to hold your ground and just continue focusing on yourself and your own life. Because when you do that they will begin to realize. Maybe not the person that they have lost but the situation. That was working for them. That was benefiting them. And they're going to wish that they could go back to that. They're going to try to make the narcissist return all you've got to do. It's just start focusing on yourself again. You've made this one person so important in your life. When they're really not that special at all. What did they ever give to you? What do they do to make you to make your life better. If anything they probably made your life worse. And that is why I would also like to finish with this message to you. If you are desiring to get the narcissist back. You've only got to look at everything they've already done. Just to get a taste of what you're going to get in the future. It's not going to change. It's just going to get worse. And they're going to want to punish you for holding them off. For rejecting them the first place. So really nothing good comes out of getting the narcissist to return to you. It's not going to make anything better. It may provide you with some self-medication in the beginning. But in time it's just going to cause more damage. More pain. More destruction. Because they're not going to come back to fix things. They're not going to come back to make things better for you. Remember that narcissists are self-absorbed and they lack empathy. They only care about themselves. They're only coming back for their own self-interest and needs. It has nothing to do with you. They don't love you. They don't miss you. If they did then they would have tried to make things right in the beginning. They wouldn't have done all of those things to you. They wouldn't have said all of those things that they said. They wouldn't have smeared your name and said all of these horrible things about you to other people. They wouldn't have done any of that. So please remember that when you start thinking that you want them to come back. But the choice is yours and that's all I've got to say for this. I hope that you made the right decision. But as I said you may desire to want them back and I do understand that as well. I've just been waiting for these fountains to come on here. And they're on now so let's come back over here and check this out. Wow. So beautiful. You may not know but I am now in Japan. It's always been my dream to come to Japan. And that dream finally came true. I am here right now in Otsu. And I'm also staying in Kyoto as well. Osaka, Tokyo, Narita. Just having a great time. Being exploring some temples, shrines, gardens, everything. It's just been an amazing experience out here. But it is very expensive in Japan. So I probably won't be staying here too much longer. There is somewhere else I'm planning to go as well. But yeah I will have some videos and pictures on Instagram very soon. Of my travels in Japan. I'm currently posting things from South Korea. So check that out. My Instagram is Narc Survival YouTube. Other than that, thank you all for watching. And please give this video a thumbs up if you enjoyed it. If you would like to book a one-on-one with me. You can do that on the website. It's NarcSurvival.co.uk I can't really show myself now before I go because it's quite dark. But if you can see me, thank you all for joining me. And I'll talk to you in another one very soon.