 We just had the premiere recently when the narcissist sees you doing better without them. I hope you all enjoyed the premiere. So in this video, we're just going to do a discussion on that video. When they see doing better without them, because believe me, they will see it. They can't just let things go. That's not in the nature of a narcissist. They're very obsessive. When you leave, whether you discard them or they discard you, if you were a grey day source of supply, you're going to fill their mind continually and to a troubling extent. They're not going to be able to forget about you that easily. They're not going to be able to just move on. They are going to be thinking about you. They are going to want to know what you're doing. What's changed in your life. If you're seeing anyone new now, they're going to want to know all of these things. So they will be talking to people about you, trying to find out some new information. They will be on your social media doing whatever they can to just pop up in your life again. And many times they pop up at the wrong time when you've managed to heal and move on and do so much better without them, which is actually one of their greatest fears. It's the last thing they want to see. They don't want to see you doing better without them. When they leave you, they're just hoping that everything falls apart. They're hoping that they can just leave you behind miserable, stuck, unable to progress. That's what they like to see. So when they see you doing better without them, it just kills them inside. They're looking back into your life because they want to see pain. They want to see sadness because that lets them know that they made the right decision. And then they're not going to have any regrets. But if they look back and they see that you've moved on, you're successful. That's going to hurt them because that's not what they want to see. They want you to be constantly thinking about them. They don't want you to forget about them and they want that to be a hindrance to any progression that you might make. They want you to be held back. They want to keep you down. If there's one thing that narcissists hate to see in their past sources of supply, it's progression. Because it just tells them that they made the wrong choice. It tells them that maybe they were the problem. Because if there was nothing wrong with them, then how can you just move on and do better without them? That's how they're seeing it. Thanks Lester, Laura, Flynn. Happy Easter to you too. Hope you're all having a good day. High Fly G123 says, If they discard you, it can be hidden from them. Pretend everything is still bad for you. Let them falsely believe things haven't gone better. That can work sometimes. Maybe then they might just leave you alone. They might not try to sabotage you. Then also, if you're still at the same level as you were when they left you, then they're going to be thinking, why can't they just come back? As though nothing happened. They might think that you still need them if you haven't progressed yet. Because when you have progressed and you've become successful, they're going to know that there's no place for them in your life anymore. They don't belong with you at that point. Once you've managed to move on, when they can see that you're doing better without them, and they're not even going to put themselves in that position, where they could be rejected, where they could be humiliated, because if you have managed to move on and become successful without them, you should know that you don't need them. They needed you far more than you ever needed them. And that's why they just end up struggling, most of them for the rest of their lives. Things never get better. They never change. They just stay the same. Their entire lives are just endless suffering. They're never happy. They're just miserable about everything. And nothing is ever good enough for them. But for you, you can heal. You can move on. You can love your life, which is something that they will never get to experience. And that is why you should never entertain these narcissists. Never take them back, because all you're going to get from them is misery. That's all they've got to offer you. They can't even experience happiness by themselves. And that's why they're so desperately chasing after you. Misery loves company. And they are comforted by thinking that you are also suffering, which is why they're made checking on you in the hopes that you are. Steve S says, being silent for six months, still talk to all your friends and family. That's good that you've gone no contact with a narcissist, Steve. But I'd like to know how things are going by still talking to her friends and family. They will often try to gain supply through those people by telling them things to say to you. They may even turn them into fly monkeys. So I'd be interested to know what's going on there. EJ, can narcissists abuse, lead to addiction? Please explain what you mean by that. Do you mean when narcissists abuse us? Can they become addicted? If that's what you're asking, then yes, they definitely can. I have done videos on that. You know, when this is something they're doing every day, it just completely rewires their brains. They become more predatory, calculating and seeking out different ways of corrupting your life. EJ, good to see you here. Anyway, that's the end of this discussion. When the narcissist sees you're doing better without them. If you haven't seen the video yet, do check it out. It just premiered about a couple of hours ago and we will be celebrating the achievement of 100,000 subscribers on April the 9th. I recently did a community post about it, so do check that out. 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