 Guess who? You're still on a wild morning. Thank you so very much for staying with us. We've had breaking views with myself and K. Alex. We've had the strength of a woman with the one and only Barry Moses. It's a good morning. I mean, really, kuna bari di kidogo, yes, but it's a good morning with the hottest breakfast show around. We are the latest breakfast show around Na Kisha ni Holida. Una tkai ningi ne kamaraia. Just tell me, at the White Wife on Facebook, at the White Wife channel, on Twitter. Hashtag is white in the morning. So, the topic of the day is when ladies dress up. Do they dress up for themselves or to impress guys or even to intimidate other girls? So, we have a couple of masters here on the Facebook, if you'd allow me. We have Zibi Mugresa as good morning. Victor Brooks as good morning Val. In my opinion, I honestly think they do both because if you compare to us men, we aren't much bothered on our looks as long as it's representable. For certain occasions or something, but when it comes to ladies, they really have to put on those six inch pumps, that awesome pouch, and sometimes they're like, oh my gosh, I wore this a few days ago and I can't put it on again. And they still want to capture the jet's attention, understand what I'm saying? I think I get you. Do you guys understand? Okay, I see there are very many of you and I think we'll start with Victor Brooks. Today, you're going to be our star student and we are going to use your answer as an example. My name is Valentine or at Colomiva. Welcome, but please do help me give a very big round of applause to my panelists. How are you? You see, you're supposed to be special. That is the reaction I wanted. Yes. Sosa mamis and King, 30. Makuja kwa miku crown. Konu me trokani ni sayi. I'm coming, I'm coming. Aiko, what's your name? Hello, my name is Pritz. Yes. Pritz, we've had you before. Yes. Laki ni sasandio none kana. Yes. Guys, you see, there are good things behind the scenes. Kujeni media. You never know what you are missing. We are beautiful on screen behind the scenes everywhere. We are beautiful ladies. How can we find you on social media? On Instagram at Pritz underscore kende. On Twitter at Pritz kende and Facebook just kende. Alright. I'd like to finish with the gentleman. Can I finish with the lady's first? Ladies first. Hi, queen. I love your look. I'm a major topic in the granny dressing course. We are coming. Would you please hand it over to us. Hi. Hi. You look wonderful. Thank you. This lady arrived kind of guy. Hey, she won't miss two guitar. What's your good name? My name is Swinton Kadakanana. I am a singer. I look like it though. Yes. That's why you have that free spirit kind of vibe. I can't wait to see him before the show ends. Yes, I will. It's a good day to come to work. Now we finish with the sub-boy child. Hi. Hello. Is your name Kevin? Not really. Ryan? Nope. Jonte? None. We are good. What's your name? Otien Ofabish. Aha. Yes. And you are Mr. Who? Mr. Chuka 2019-2020. Recently crowned. Oh. You don't come with a tiara? That's the name of the day. Men don't do that. For the ladies. For the ladies, for men. Aha. They told you not to be smiling when you are a character. There we go. That's all I wanted to see. Let me ask you. There's a guy called Victor here who said, girls sometimes we can dress for either or reasons. Kuhu kwa attract boy child ama piya sasa kuhu waschana kua fanyanyanyany. What do you feel about it? Okay, one, for the intimidation part, but for intimidating other ladies, that is for you to tell me. For ladies to impress men, that is like number one. Okay. For one, men like to select the figure nana and stuff, as you know. So obviously, if a lady is presentable enough and amevaveli na fa, irigaleso the occasion, amevaveli na fa, obviously, chaliata feel confident enough kutembeno yudem. And he's also said that guys don't really put a lot of effort into how they look. But I can see you're a well-dressed guy. I have to. To anzeh soks. Yadda to say nambali alafu trauza ina kufit lakine jagu kaza sana, you can see there's blood flow. You have a nice coat, aka flower over there machi. Yani, there's good things going on. So it's true to say, or is it false to say that guys don't put a lot of effort into how they dress. That's used to, like, a while ago it wasn't, recently at least now with designers and fashion brands coming across, men are more or less putting in that work to look good and be presentable. Nasiw mama, nikukatu poa. Okay. Okay, but overgroming, I'll say ineza ko mama ki dogo. But at least grooming as a man, and that is acceptable in this society. You will tell me the difference between grooming and overgroming. I have a question for you. Would you date a guy who puts more effort into dressing than you? Definitely. Really? Yes. Would you? I would find it so difficult, but this is just you. Yes, I would. I want to work with someone who looks nice. So yes, I would. Okay. Yani, this guy spends... Okay, I want to phrase it in the way that will not choma picha. As in he is more particular in what he wears than you are in what you wear. You go ahead, it's okay. It will depend. Okay. If he might be overdoing it. If he's just dressing, just dressing really nice. That's okay. But kuna wili aneze overdoing akua utiyaji. So it depends. Like if you find someone wearing a beach shirt and blue trousers and loafers and then you're like, wait. What's going on here? What up? Hold on. Back it up. Hold on, kido, go. Where are you going? No. There are people who are particular about their dressing in that they want to look sharp. But then there's someone who is just wasting their time in front of a mirror. There is someone I would not date. Someone who wastes their time in front of a mirror and you do not have fashion sense. No. I'm not going to work with you. Okay. So the effort should reflect in the product in the end. Yes, the product should reflect the effort. Ha. We are learning valuable lessons today. Okay. Let's start off with our first slide. Remember you can get to us at Y-5-4 Facebook at Y-254. Channel on Twitter hashtag is Y in the morning. We are finding out why ladies dress is it for men? Is it for their female counterparts? I don't know. Talk to me. So maybe I should pick another comment of the Facebook. Niawa surprise. Netamina kwa surprise kwa nesoma comments. Here we go. At Y-5-4 Facebook at Y-254 channel on Twitter. So DD one boy says of course they have to dress just like any other human. But much emphasis on style and fashion is meant to look presentable and impressive. So we have a queen saying yes we have to dress like any other human. But we emphasize a lot more on fashion. Nukweli. Ha. Ha. Ha. Ha. Nukweli. Ha. Do we put a lot of emphasis on fashion? Yes. Really? Okay. Si comfortata kus I really like to be comfortata. Most, no honesty. I don't want to say no. Most ladies of late put more effort on fashion. Not comfortability. Paso na luwa nambdresing. My number one key being comfortable. I don't want to dress in something that is on trend. And I am not comfortable. I am not dressing for. Asi nikiendam to on any kind of trend. No. Mi nikiwa konza nangali comfortability. But most ladies I would say like recently everyone is dressing for fashion and trends. Ya. So yani uki so much nona uusha yana ua stone on other heels na kevi. Alafu na tembe atau. Alafu if kept two point miguzi kataye manze. It's not even funny guys. It's not a joking matter. Manze yu chungu. I can imagine that she is feeling na hana ati via tuzaku change. So that's peer pressure. That's what we are saying. That's peer pressure. And maybe lack of sense of direction. Before I lost. Before I lost. Ya. Kuhu nambta nambia zi pati kanatao na flats. Like what is that? Like mbakakuana via heels. But you see when you coming out of the house and you are like this heels and you are like wait I can make it. I'll make it. And then you find you figure somewhere and you are buckling. You legs are buckling. You are tired. Your thighs are hot. And then you are in front of people and you are like oh did I do to my child. You know. So sometimes we get out of the house and you are like I'm going to make it. It's not that fun. Tachu kwa matatu kaka hawa. And then I'll shu kia town. I'll get another job. Go to Westlands where I'm going to pati. You know you wear these heels because you want to look like you are coming from those places. But then unfortunately haku na matu. Oh my gosh. It's trekking. I say shubaru. Alafu kuna ispesi na nyingine. Kuna ispesi na nyingine, I'm a dam. Alright so you are going to go to a village and you are going to go to a cafe. Ok, it's cuts. I'm a buy jersey. But I can fit one day for. But it's a very diverse. I hope. But you have to go and get a job. Alafu na toka. Every five seconds. Kutuivi. Sisa pwa what's going on? What is the point of wearing something that you feel is short then all day kwa patu? But maybe kwa nne nambana places pwa pwa. But suddenly. Before we buy. Ok. What you come how I think it is better if you decide on what you're dressing like quite early. We buy kwa ni three days early ok experiment kwa mita kusumkiki. Tama kwa yu uma wone. I'll put it this way. Before you go shopping for your clothes. Or before you go to a kutafta mango. Just know your style. Moment you know your style. How to kwa na ipeya pressure kutafta. Akin nili onan. Nili onan kata naka dress. Fla ni ka smart. Mazi. Uli kaba iwapi. Nani how much na taka. Nona Alafu na kata. Akin nili kosa. So nise nili ako nende na yaw rave. Ako pati. Oh. So you can go to a kutafta mango. Trust me ita kutafta. Very funny. Now know your style. Uki anlapa ale. Uno jo me ni body shape yangu. Skaters will do me good. Maxis will do me good. Nona. So with that I'll pretty much avoid body cunts. That is for ladies. Why do you know so much about this? Why? Ameta ja body cunt. But there ameta ja vitumi kimi ki skater. I'm sorry. Why did you go to a kutafta mango? I'm sorry. You didn't give me enough time to introduce myself. Introduce that part of yourself. That one that knows. I'm Muti Enofabish. Mr. Chuka. I'm doing procurement and logistics. Born and raised in Nakuru. In Nakuru apparently I work during long holidays. I work. I work. Kwa shopa yakuza mango. Wastana. Ladies dresses. Wastana. Uko na 07. Just follow me. IG handle. It's done. FAB underscore underscore. Wastana date this one. He can dress well and he will give you clothes. Facebook, FAB, Tila. You Twitter, FAB, Tila. We have a couple of Facebook messages on the screen if you allow me to read. Zipi Mogura. Good morning. Good morning. Zipi Mogura. We have Victor Brooks. Says good morning Val. Well, in my opinion, I honestly think they do, yes, because if you compare us to men, we are not much bothered on our looks, but kunamto minyambia, that is possibly false, as long as it's presentable. Then we have Zamzam Hassan. Says good morning, Y254. Some ladies usually dress for themselves. Others dress to impress the gents, but for me, I dress for myself. Yani self-love. We have a Dennis Ekai. Says yep. Wahenga wale sama kizuri. Cha jiuza. Hence, for these ladies to be attractive, they must dress well so as to impress us gents. Yosiku jichochaki. Hensawa. Celestine. I see you. Celestine Wendera. We're different, I mean. So it's somehow kind of both ways. Tevin Johnson says the fact that they have to dress up is not at all about impressing men, but looking presentable according to the occasions. I like you, Tevin. Lydia Lopez says good morning via hi, Lydia. For me, I dress up not to impress anyone else, but myself. Joanne Sams says good morning. Good morning. Like I myself, dress up to feel good, not for anyone else. Dee, Dee, one voice says of course they have to dress just like any humans, but much emphasis on style and fashion is meant to look presentable and impressive. Sarkos says they do it to impress us. Ha, ha, ha. I love of all. Would you mind wishing me a happy... It's your birthday. Happy birthday, Sarkos. Happy birthday to you. More life. Then we have Sia Godfrey says good morning. Good morning. It's not actually all about impressing someone or all about just being presentable. Ladies feel guilty if they're not perfect. Eh, it's a revise. I'm not to say many ladies dress to kill. To so many weakness. Sindio. Grace Miner says some dress to impress, but 99% we dress because we have to. Ha, ha, ha. Hatuze tembe a uchi. Gyal dem. I see you. Oh, I see you. And you're telling me morning, me I dress up for myself and to be decent, not to impress anyone. Jenny Gishae has it for themselves, not for chance. It's the other way around. Ati guys not dress for us. Kwele. MAwanya na kuna jazz imbiile na u story maisha. Eh, says impress. I see calls ya money members. Wei. Oo, see on game. Mama is a story. Wei. So we have said, impress and Chris Wafula says good morning. Why see I didn't know to impress the gents. Wei, estaga kuru. Good morning. Good morning. A lei, a yo. Kera kwa mna kwa mazawebeli. Zunia kwa mba mazawebi. Lakuwa kwa mazawebeli. Linkaneli saka kwa mazawebeli mazawebeli. Mwaha mwa ya sii kwa mwa, I don't understand you baby, but thank you for the comment. Kenki Gang Stinger, yes to impress, add no more. Hassan Junior says it's not all about impressing gents, but some may do. We have raised music, there are two types, one who do it for themselves and the others who do it to impress gents. Okay, Jeru Dennis says they do it for themselves but ground. We have a different ground, new quaili. New quaili is Jeru Dennis, we see you. We have a new match, we will get you. Yabusi mi later, Jimmy Beba says watching from Wagertown, Prof Elijah White says some ladies do dress to impress, I guess, men. Alright, so we have had your opinion and the general consensus is some people think that Okay, majority of the people think we dress to impress gents. She has so many things to say, talk to me. No, I think at any one point a woman is dressing for two people. You're dressing, I am dressing for myself because I need to cater for my comfort number one. If it's cold, I need to be warm. Thank you. If it's hot, I need to be, I wear something fabric that is breathy, right? But if I'm going to see my boyfriend, there are other feelings involved. So you need to dress like you're bolstering those feelings. So if I'm dressing for a man, then it means it's not like any man at Iko Barabara, I'm dressing for a man who says I don't think that whoever that man is, anyone out there will say no, I'm dressing for a specific man, I am going to see it, right? So there are other feelings involved, like when you, can you say sexy on TV? You can. Yes, you're dressing, you want to bolster feelings of feeling confident. You want to look confident, but not overconfident. You want to look sexy, not slutty. You know there are a lot of things that come into your head when you're dressing for your boyfriend, right? So it will be really kind of immature for anyone to say that they do not dress for a man. Because if your boyfriend prays, brand likes short skirts, yeah? So when you're going out for a date, I know prays, background story. When you're going out for a date, you're going to dress in something short and heels, and that's how you know he likes, isn't it? So why would you say that you do not dress up for a man? Kwa zo kiskiya vidu zun, e na babyo nini na kapo, you go here, maki ok, say he said he looks good. So banya tu kiyende liya kudu dia, kaini kapo kwa nangu moja, you know? Na choma. And I think it's important to... Ok, this is a bit diverging from what we're discussing, but it's important to keep spicing up the situations, you know? Kameni zoya, diki kia evi man zes kumoja, ye? Ni gechi, gechi ya ya, not all the time, just a ninja style, hiding everything. Ok, talk to me. All the same. I think the comments are more or less correct. I think ladies dress to impress men in this sense. It is too cold. Asubu ikul kwa na asubu isana. But I'm so sure out of the 100% ladies in Nairobi, obviously I will find 25% of the ladies will freeze and shine. Ok, but kama wa skibaridi? Kama wa skibaridi? Nimonia, I do have skibaridi. Na kuna nyesha at t-shirt reins. How? Ok, for them it's a different story. How do you know? Winter is colder. Meme sitaki. Freeze and shine for ladies. Freeze and shine for ladies, ok. I will not stress someone to add clothes at jumina skibaridi. How? How is that making sense? Thank you. That is... Ok, obviously you try, obviously any sane person want to work naked. What is sanity? Excuse me, if she feels like she wants to dress like this in town and it's cold. Who am I to tell her? Apuwa duchu nengiza, I might dress my choice. Apuwa duchu nengiza, I might dress my choice. Empowerment, women, ... Even the strongest feminist will still agree with me. Wha do ya man? They'll still agree with me. Ya, we'll not, it's ok. ok, maybe you know the strongest feminist I know but I'm sure a few will still agree with me. Most of the ladies still dress to impress a man. So we have this that I read somewhere that was very legit. So, historically, women didn't have ways of ranking themselves in that male-dominated social hierarchy until the feminist movement. So, historically, atukwa na teoze tu, the men had their thing going on because it was male domination and females would not be empowered yet. So, throw me another slide. So, I've read the first one, the history of men, ladies not being able to rank themselves. So, what they did was, they used fashion instead, that is the next slide. So, they used fashion instead to wajipe teo. So, ekaw na vaivi, I can see your class na umbali. Ve tu me va. So, that is how I guess fashion was taken back in that day. The man has not entered in that equation yet. But how are you feeling about it? Do you feel like it could be true even now? No comments on that. No comments on that. I'm still simamai with my comment. That we dress for men? It's all about the men. Okay, not 25% about the man. 25% about you and 50% about the occasion. And can you tell who is dressing for what reason? Atuklans. Like we are three ladies here. Nani na mevalia boyfriend, nani na mevalia. That is for you to tell me. No, no one was decided. Listen, as she said earlier, your boyfriend loves you in a red skirt and a white top. But still, all the same it's official for work. So, obviously maybe after hapa you're going to on a date. That I don't know. That is for you to tell me. So either way, it's work and after this your boyfriend is going to see you. So obviously lazi maatakwa na nilingu enya na penda. And I know nimi kumapa kwa boichalu, kidokotu yaeswalia, weishu tu kabisa. Let's say again we're three ladies and each of our men have different tastes. They like different things. So if I have worn a way that I know my man will like and she has worn a way that her man will appreciate. But to you, none of us look like we're just for our men. What does that bring out? Does that mean we have to go change? No, I'll put it this way. I won't judge, I won't say you go and change. I'll say this. When a man goes to buy a car, even a lady, unangaliya papa sayo gari. If it's an off road then it's okay. If it's niyalami, it's sour. In this case, piawewe, what you wear, what your guy likes. Irregardless. So men have different tastes. In that mana, they'll obviously suggest that you wear something different. If my girl, let's say I love my girl in a long skirt and a friend of mine, Mel, loves his girl with naskat fupi. Even yake, mimi I won't judge. As long as you're comfortable with a lady wearing such, then it's okay. Mimi borrow mine is doing what nenge prefer. I have a question for you. I once met a lady who had a boyfriend who used to pick out clothes for her when they go out. Isis kuzingine wa kwa kwenyumba yun shorya kere tava but when she came out, he would go pick out his outfit and then go pick for her her outfit so that they go. Yes, womechagwa yu like this dress, okay fine it looks nice but I want you to wear this. Is that something that would sit well with you? Difficult question. When you're going out, both of you are going out for, you're going out for the same reason. You're going out to be seen together. So, yes, I'll be okay with you wear this but not I'm going to work, don't wear that. I don't want you to come down. Okay babies, come slowly. But then if you're going out and it's like okay baby, you put that on and I'm like okay. Yes, yes. I want you to wear that. Don't take that off. I said okay. Okay. If that's what you want, I will listen. I have another one for you queen. So, what factors do you take in when choosing an outfit? What factors do you take in when choosing an outfit? One, comfortability, being comfortable. Then again when choosing an outfit, I want to wear something that maybe people are comfortable with. I don't want to wear something that when I go out there or as you can see, then no queen je, Kwa ground between the two. The things you'll go see at Koroga, you will not see in this tЧu toftown. So, when I'm picking my outfit. I want to wear something that come on like hap'aivi. Niki pita pa li kwa gate, or comfortable. Or then you'll be just you take your dress good. Okay, when I'm wearing I want to wear something that I look good in. Iain bék ك outstandingEric Dh liked to learn to work without thinking about it. It doesn't matter who overlooks me for convenience and we all feel comfortable and comfortable. We will feel well while our stories are exposed to the public. Yeah, everything should be proportional, yeah. I want to ask you the same question... I want to ask if it's the same thing for guys and girls. Concious guys. For me personally. I'll consider my style. For my clothes and ring circle.. No, fub can never wear Balenciagas Why? Because I'm just not a fan The ones that look like socks, no We're all clearing throat here Not because it's a label But just that particular one So when I'm going to shop When I'm going to look for an outfit Sometimes that I know If I wear this, I'm so sure I'll kill with this This one They'll be like How do you feel about what he said? Balenciagas My God You know? I thought it was just To see help at your store It's just Balenciagas My God I'm not a fan What are you a fan of now? Amaniish like this Not really Just Nike Not that I'm choosing between Balenciagas and Nike But I find Nike is more comfy Than Balenciagas The ones that look like socks Like No, that is just not for me Yo ni me kata We have another slide coming up Let's go to the next slide So queen, do you dress differently When meeting a group of guys Versus meeting your girls Do you dress differently If you're going to meet a group of guys Or rather a group of girls Opposites true Yes, you get where I'm going with this On which group of guys you're going to meet Boys Or you're going to meet the Maboids No, I do not have Maboids But then you go and talk to them When you're meeting with the boys You need to look confident No. 1, you need to look confident Because it's a man's world So when you show up You need to look confident You need to look comfortable Like the gospel praises Preaching comfort and beauty You need to be comfortable No. 1 You need to wear clothes that are flex Because when you're out with the guys From the things I have seen People move around a lot When you're out with the guys Plus you also need to feel secure So most of the times you will wear something like Polonegs, khakis and sneakers Because you want to blend in You do not want to be standing out with floral prints It's okay, it's okay Prints And then you're like in a crowd And people are like What do I mean by that? It was titi Masinga titi and you're wearing You need to look comfortable But when it's the girl You need to represent When it's the girl You guys are dressing up for Can you see us? When I'm dressing with praise You're like can you see us? Are we clear to you? We are here Who is your leader? It's gonna be different You're going to be in something playful Like round skirts So that when you move They move with you Fringes How would you dress to meet your boyfriend's boys? Like you're going to see your boyfriend And he's going to introduce you to his boys For the first time How would you dress? Depends Okay Kwanzaa I'd want to know what kind of people they are You see But knowing him the way he is Definitely I expect that his friends Would be like buds of the same feather So would be like character wise And behavior So I'd dress the same way I dress for him I see Ya Okay I like that Next question Short skirts or maxi dresses And or why? Nauewe Atei wukona juwa Which one do you prefer on a lady? Short skirts or maxi dresses And why? I'd say both Why? One We have this rehana legs I need to see them So short skirts We'll do for the rehana legs Formation ladies? Ya For maxis Now that is for roshios and stuff Yo Yo tutango jea But on a Tukiba within Just short will do me good Kuna complaint you said It's like she's not believing what you just said I'm quite offended Come again What do you mean? Slowly What did you really say? What did you mean? It was not personal It was not personal Why do you disagree again? Why do you disagree? Okay, but you look nice Do not defend yourself Wait, just give me a minute It was not personal But then That is a stereotype I'm not going for roshio You know So when you say Short skirts are like That girl is hot Rehana legs And what not And then this skirt No, dude, I have good legs Show us please We are not worthy Show them Yes You know So it's not about If I wear this I'm looking No, no, no, this is me You know This bungly person So you do not have to be roshio To look like this Patience You tell me something Tell me something I have an issue with What he said That the maxi The long dresses No, wait The long dresses maxis That we wait for roshio No I'll wear something short I'll pull it out I'll look really good I'll also wear something long And I'll look extremely good So The roshio What is roshio You can wear Okay, not really short things But you can wear them If need be Short Short It's okay Depends Depends It's okay Your definition of short Depends on your definition of short But I don't I don't agree with you that Easy bito long Niza roshendo all that Niga Niza baki to long Atan kwanda kwa natali Yungu nakapo So If you want to see the short legs I think you can see maybe enough But usifungi Asi baki to long If nakapo I'm comfortable I have a very important question Because now you have Sparked something in me She said that it's just her You know When Yameva even don't express And I started the show Actually to cure presenters What are two I said How I dress On any given day Is how I'm expressing myself On that day But my days change When you know Say Sivi entaka A few hours from now You know When I'm alone In my personal space Kuna venye mi na penakuka Kuna siku na kua tomboy Kuna siku Lone me vasu katimrefu Serikal me me vasu katimrefu Ala fukeshu Maybe it's a money Vaisu katfupi I am the same person But wearing different outfits That say different things Is that wrong Am I I'm going to be judged Kiniwa na leo me ni judge Mu yataniwa na keisho Atani judge Yipo venye mi na And is that right So I'm born na piana Mike Let's even want to start here now Jusawa me kuwa prepared Talk to me Okay People judge you with how you wear That's okay with them They can judge you But it's not good to judge somebody Wearing a boat Vile na taka kuji express Ion ni sawa Neza kuwa na feel Kuvaki tufupi na taka Kufil tu pwana taka mone na Pwana na taka mujwe iwa unaget Then wearing something else It's also okay But I don't like that People would have to judge you With what you wear daily So if they have to judge you Sibasu wata wana ku judge Every time But then that's their problem Wear what you're comfortable with Wear just be you I like that That comes to some ladies Who say they dress for themselves You know When you're dressing for yourself There is a certain kind of image You want to look in the mirror And be like Because when I'm dressing in my house I'm like I need to look happy So which of my clothes make me feel happy Yo yo yo yo This one and this and this and so on Yeah So that is what I was saying At any point when you're dressing You're dressing your feelings Yeah So when you're dressing yourself If you dress like this differently It is because you're feeling differently For example if you're dressing To go for a meeting with your boss You need feelings To bolster some kind of feelings Like I have been saying again You need to bolster confidence You need to look sharp You need to look neat Because this is your boss But then if you're going out with your friends In the evening You look different Because now you're going To hang out with a group of your girlfriends So you're going to dress the way you feel How you're going to dress That is what I'm saying At any one point A woman dresses for two people Herself and the occasion Or the person they are going to meet Yes I'll put it this way Val You walk into a room Full of people All ages All genders First five seconds You didn't say a word But obviously I'll judge you from what you've worn From how you look So At the end of the day As much as we want to put it Like comfort But I'd say Presentability is an umbrella statement But please be presentable With the occasion I have clothes for when I'm sad Because I don't wear clothes That's what I'm wearing Yes If you wear clothes That's what you wear That's what you wear That's what you wear That's what you wear You cannot be sad again Personally I don't wear happy socks Then I'll automatically be sad Eh Yeah Are those your happy socks? They're colorful Obviously they're happy Happy socks A question for the king What do you respond to Revealing outfits Or modest but enticing? What do And this is to all the guys out there If you want to throw your comment Also on Facebook Or on Twitter Do you prefer revealing outfits Or do you prefer modest but enticing? Do you want to answer, queen? Yes What kind of vibe would you rather give out? I'd rather give out vibe You need to be subtle When you're dressing up You need a little subtlety You need That is what I'm saying You need to look sexy But not slutty Buona watuwa ninda conscience One of our manzingos But then what is conscience You're going to see conscience You're going to shake your booty So you need to wear Something that is going to Facilitate your booty shaking No No So that means they have to dress In a manner which to remove That thing with comfort And very quickly Oh, kulekwanakbeba ekstra I think so Kwan is likwa tatubao Are you people comfortable With walking without? Are you comfortable? Sorry, sorry This whole time we've been talking Without a mic But it's good he asked the question That you guys didn't hear Are you comfortable? Yes or no Without repeating the question Yes Yes Yes Are you comfortable? Yes Yes Very much so Very comfortable Very much so But answer us It's a jiggle Oh, I know Priyas Priyas That's what happens in our mind Priyas Another question Are there specific outfits For I need a favor days Or please send me money Agently Tell me Are there specific outfits When you want to go out Just cross legs Can they answer that question? I'll show you here Answer Yes Well tacky Talk to my queen Talk to me I think there are Because when you're going Let me say Let me think about a person I was like You You'll see a favor You want There is someone who said A woman's clothing should be like Babbed wire Protecting the body But not obstructing the view So when you're going to ask You ask for 10 They give you 30 That is Yeah Blessings and blessings Double Double Do you agree? Definitely Oh Kukari boku tuwambia manenu Tuwambia tu No No No No No No No No No No No No No No No That is so true That is so true I'm so sure Men are pleased with what they see Ladies are pleased with what they hear So the moment a man sees Something that he has been yearning for Regales of the favor being asked Obviously he'll deliver Then Like you Wait My secretary Bring me the checkbook Let me sign a few checks here Yeah All right guys This is a very Very heated topic And I'm very excited about this Because you know Kufangu ni amast Unless kuna village Mahali Down Kuna atona wangu Kuna Yiko Is there a village That we don't know A simpler time I remember a simpler time A happier time To get in bed too Dofam pararu Ah, yeah, yeah, yeah Take me back Adulting is a trap By the way But there are some time I wish I wish that there Could be something like Dressing or nakedness To where do you want Neku eni Something that is comfortable To reverse ya ni story Ya ida Bahan, can they how old you How old we No, no, no You know the way we go somewhere And we are dressed Like the best We look like You know those girls If they were no clothes You get up that You get up that You get up that But is the pressure On Uza juku na watuku Injiwa na Paka kumichi say Juhai jia Juzi kunam Kunam saya li kumeti Ka reserve dem Fulani manze Educated Anakuja for tashiri Education in the Nairobi Here town Manze alish kwa jela Tijuali kwa natukaku Weave Weave ya 1,500 Wait This story ends well though Wali kwa sapo kwa koti And then the magistrate Decided watafanya Harambe wa mchiangi ewa Women are being driven To theft Because they want to look nice Ok, that is sad That is very sad Kupu are lost But it's a legit problem Because I'll go to Instagram And see nani Ame piga picha ewi Nyueli ake na ka ewi Ya mevavi tuz na ka ewi And I'll feel the pressure for First of all, I want a photo shoot And then I want to look like this person Or where does this person get their clothes And if I try to get the cheap Knock off to say Mena nachizan kami Meni kwe mchiangi Maybe kuna mali haita fika You see pressure kwa stana Please move with your pace No, please move with your pace But that is something people don't get Yeah, people don't get that But I'd advise people to move with your pace And what does that mean exactly? When you see somebody on Instagram Ok, this is from what I know People I know Instagram is a total lie Like a big nine point Like nine percent is a big lie It has come People are living a life on Instagram And the real life So do not feel the pressure That you see somebody there Is ako anavasi Jwi aji Kila si kwa kuna wiki different Aki valio haru di Una ket Kwa na pisi ako Bi kama nyi liya kwa Si kama tuta What's up? They are right Me I'll say God's timing is the best We just wait Kuna mim flani atina What verse of the Bible do I read To grow a bomb? Aksa ambi wahagai Ok, that is blasphemy I will not comment on that Heavenly Lord, you see me You see me On adding on what Kendeha said Instagram is a highlight really We post our best moments We get a picture Me and Kendeha are going to post We were on TV But then we're not going to be on TV tomorrow I'm going to be wearing these nice things I'm going to be wearing tomorrow Tomorrow is siku yakazi So Instagram is just Most of the social media We post what is the best that day We post our best selves there We post what we want people to see So getting driven to theft Because of someone is so wearing a wig You see on Instagram I think it's good if Uki jikubali tunawungoji umuhof na pesiako There's somebody I really like Anita Soina When I want her She doesn't like When she wants to communicate Something on Instagram She will render things And she will say The way she is She'll definitely go out there The way she is Without mending She will accept her And she will come and She will perform Not for impressing people So I think people should move with their pace Jikubali and If you're saying no please don't say yes Ubalima tokewe Ubalima tokewe If you're getting 10,000 You cannot be wearing it That is nonsense You've not even paid rent That's another giant When you start talking about social media Ushayanezo pichiwatu Kwanza ome poz na po nyuma Nakunagariya po ome ficha number plate Gapokapsho Bahu naza Kwanza yo Bible na mimi Mimi kwa nimi kwa sayana Okay let's read another one Some women believe that if they walk around With an expensive handbag They have more status than other women Because it suggests they have a rich man Who can buy nice things for them I'm going to read this slowly Some women believe that if they walk around With an expensive handbag They have more status than other women Because it suggests they have a rich man That can buy nice things for them That is where people go Yes, because It's nice to have an expensive handbag But then for anyone to suggest That I have a man who buys it for me Yes they might be but it's very rude For you to suggest that You look at me and say it in your head Okay she has a nice man I don't have a nice man I went to work And I bought a nice expensive handbag So I agree with Expensive handbags give you nice status But then that's the kwanpat She has a nice man who can buy it for her That is the meaning And that is wrong Regardless of the fact that sometimes it is true It is still wrong that you start judging it like that Peshas I want to start concluding From over here running at the time So in a nutshell what would you like to tell For a younger sister And by sister I mean that very loosely What would you like to tell her in terms of Maybe someone who's finished high school Juzia mengia kapat eikuna Trends ingine mingi mingi And they're struggling to keep up with these trends And it's never that serious It's never that serious So what would you like to tell her? Please listen carefully Prashu kwenja ni mwob Usyate ube boku yo pressure Dress in what you can afford What you're comfortable with Just Upetu pwa usyate dress Just be you Usybe boku na kuna Do not dress Usyate kukakama huda Usyate kukas jikama nani This pressure is too much Just be you Do not fall into these traps Social media is a total scam So please just be you Town things are very nice Mimi husho Huku yekomba Things are extremely affordable And they look good Kama kuna achangu With like 200 Look for me I'll show you So do not fall into these traps Atuendo ka Just be you Just be you And I'll tell this to my fellow young ladies Fellow young ladies No, you're going to advise them From the viewpoint of a guy From the viewpoint of For example, you're talking to the lady Who solely dresses to impress a man Like mwenye hana thoughts Of oh, inezani kali apwa mimi Maybe I should try different colors Maybe they're just working on Usy kwali ambe Wewe unakapa madame Matizeto apu What would you like to tell her? I'd still go back to what I said earlier Know your style Know your style The moment you know your style Akunam tuataku baba isha Like you want to be trend as it is As it is kutisha Feragamo will come Kuchis will come Zote zote But just do you Kama una joe wekunangu Hee sasa hee meweza You do that Namanzi kuna mangoza mademne zate zate Chambuwa Ingegi kosh Chambuwa Toka na stock Kuna unedakfungu amtumba Yanguia nyumba Yanda kufunguia nyumba Yanda uji tese pata mangoza ko Na just you do you Mfukuia kiki kata usibisha ninawa say And don't steal This female will pretend to be your friend This female will give you open compliments Omg shvalu kanga poa But this female will drop Subliminal comments to make you feel like you've not They compliment you while taking back the compliment Kwa kichua ke She's competing with you You don't know she's competing with you But she is competing with you So you and all your confidence Umajifuwa Yanda kutisha So you and all your confidence Umajifuwa But you will find some lady Some check out Kwa ni nga zileisha Ama umefuwa Doma nga umefuwa How would you Namuwan You feel sad for them Please zoom on her face You feel sad for them And then you just let go You learn how to identify this kind of women Regardless of the fact that we want to sit down here And be like women power They are women who derail us They are women who are out here for your destruction They are, that is true Because that is human nature You need to identify them When you identify them you know what they are going to say before they say it And then you feel sad for them You move on with your life If anything is not interfering with your confidence Let it just go Just achana nae Watuwing yukunjeni wa tupe If people are lost let them get lost You just move on with your path Now for the girls what I would say is You are beautiful just the way you are It doesn't matter what you were If you look at yourself in the mirror and their face Look at yourself and tell yourself Girl you are beautiful It doesn't matter what covers this That is the most important thing I would like to tell every girl around You are beautiful just the way you are It doesn't matter what you put If there is a song that says I am okay here So if you are okay inside You are okay but look nice as well You sit and be okay inside And then you are walking like a bum Look nice You are beautiful Be confident And confidence comes from information So learn things along the way Thank you so very much for coming guys And you are amazing I cannot take or add anything From what you have been given already If you forget everything else Remember you are loved And you are beautiful And it is never that serious You are the one who is alone You are a good person You have a lot of KFC And you have a lot of money So you have to pay 5000 It is never that serious We are at 25 for Facebook And we are at 25 for channel And we have hip hop Thursday With the handsome Tee He is handsome guys I am not even ready Mazil Mazil So teachers, I see you coming through tomorrow I will see you on Friday Ayayani holiday So kilam 2-4 mniwa Y254 have an amazing day Kachu repeat at 2pm And don't do anything I would not do Let's wait Bye bye