 beautiful views here from my balcony it was amazing waking up this morning to see this I actually leave my balcony doors open overnight so Nala can go out whenever she likes and of course there's no way that anyone's getting in here it's very safe all right so this is definitely a question that a lot of people have they want to know is the narcissist doing better without them and this is actually very simple you've got to look at it like everything you saw from them everything you experienced that was them that was what they had to offer you dealt with them already you experienced what they had and you experienced abuse manipulation lies cheating stealing that's what they had to offer you so that's what you received and I'd like you all right now to take a moment to remind yourself of that tell yourself in your mind maybe your narcissist's name was Richard so tell yourself in your mind I had the Richard experience I experienced Richard because that is what Richard had to offer to me and it's really as simple as that you experience them you experience what they had to offer to you so there's no way that they're gonna move on and give a different experience to someone else that is not gonna happen but of course it may look like that is happening sometimes it may look like they're doing a lot better without you and you may watch this and think oh my situation must be different to what narc survivor is speaking about but actually it's no different at all because you just need to remember back when you first met the narcissist and what they portrayed to you and how they love bombed you you need to remember that and how it was all a lie it was fake you were deceived I mean if you knew everything that they were about to do to you if you knew how they were going to treat you you never would have got involved with them in the first place they only managed to get into your circle your life because they gave you a set of appearance a false impression of who they actually are so they tricked you and when they move on they're just doing the same thing to someone else they're tricking them to but it serves two purposes because not only are they tricking them but they're tricking you again and this may have been the case with the person they were with before you not only were they tricking you but they were tricking their ex they were making their ex believe that they had moved on with someone else and now they're so much happier without them they're just doing the same thing again and never ends it's a cycle and it's the only thing they know how to do and in some ways you shouldn't even blame them when they move on when they act like they don't care about you when they act like they've moved on to someone else and they're doing so much better without you you shouldn't even blame them for that because the way you got to look at it like of course they're gonna do that what else are they gonna do what else can they do they have no other option other than to do that you just got to see it as though they're just doing all they know how to do because that's really what it is it's like when you see a cat trying to chase a mouse and kill it might make you hate the cat but that's just what the cat is biologically programmed to do same thing with these dogs and it's quite sad when you think about it when you look at things from this perspective you will actually start to pity them so sad because they never change and I look at myself a few months ago a few years ago and I can't believe the amount of changes that I have made in my life how much I have improved as a man and you can look back at my past videos and you can see my evolution you can see how much I have grown I'm so much stronger and more confident now everything that I have been through it's made the man that you see today and it wasn't just positive things I went through a lot of difficult things too and while those things may have broken me down in the moment I got back up and became stronger than ever before everything I go through it makes me stronger but with these narcissists not only does everything make them weaker but it makes them even more manipulative and deceptive to where they hide who they really are even more they learn more about how they can manipulate you from their past targets so they don't get better they get more manipulative they get better at giving you the force of period of them doing better that's all that is it's all a game it's all a trick and yeah any time you start to have doubts any time you start to think that maybe you got them wrong maybe they are doing better without you just remember everything you went through with them remember everything they did remember how it affected you and your life remember how it affected your emotional physical and mental health remember how it affected you financially it didn't improve your life it made your life worse and tell yourself whatever your narcissist name is if your narcissist name is Richard you can say yeah I had the Richard experience I experience Richard I experience what Richard had to offer to me tell yourself that remind yourself because it is important it brings you back to reality instead of getting too involved in their fantasy world with all of these crazy illusions which make no sense of reality because your scratching your head thinking hold on a minute when you were with me you didn't do any of that you caused me all of these problems you destroyed my life sometimes you just got to come back to reality and look at things as how they actually are because deep down you know you know exactly what you have dealt with you do you know how it's affected you I mean many of you you're going through it right now you're struggling mentally emotionally financially and there's a reason for that because you weren't going through that before you met them you were doing fine that's why they targeted you because you were doing good and then they left once they destroyed you that's what they always do so yeah just remember that there isn't this whole of the side to their personality what they had to offer you got of course they'd love you to believe that there's so much more but there isn't the only thing that you may not have seen is more manipulation that they've learned from dealing with you all this new person that they're involved with and is that what you want more manipulation more lies more future faking I don't know about you but I don't want that in my life just got to show this view again it's really incredible this has to be one of the top views I've seen in my life got the city there the sea it's bright green and all of these islands here it's just incredible I think this may be some kind of nature reserve and that's some random bag floating in the winds I don't know why but it is yeah okay I hope this video was helpful if it was please give it a thumbs up down below it helps the YouTube algorithm it gets this message out there 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