 Hey survivors in this video. I'm going to be talking about how Narciss provoke you to react Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos if you would like to donate my PayPal link is in the video description If you're interested in one-on-one coaching you can email me at NarcissFiverCoaching at gmail.com Narciss provoke you to react The Narciss will constantly push and provoke you to react to them. They have to create drama and chaos They have to induce stress and anxiety within their victims Narciss cannot function properly without their needs being fulfilled and One of their main needs is a dysfunctional environment They cannot survive in healthy environments with people who do not put up with them They cannot survive in environments where people have boundaries or set standards Narciss target and gravitate towards people who have been abused in the past So it leaves an opening for them to get in The abuse left a wound and these Narciss further attack that wound to provoke a reaction from you Once they've learned you and study your vulnerabilities weaknesses or insecurities They can also create new wounds This is all to ensure that you remain susceptible to the abuse You must be likely to be influenced or harmed by what they are doing to you This is how you become a good source of supply to them When they know that they can push your buttons as and when they need another hit Another little high to regulate their emotions or boost their self-esteem Because that's all this is about It's about using this victim a naive or vulnerable person To fulfill their own selfish needs and at the victim's expense Narciss are dependent on your emotional reactions to them. They are dependent on you doing something feeling something or having a certain thought in Response to something they they have said or done But most often it has to be more than an action or thought They have to be able to witness your emotions When they first meet you It will be all about provoking stimulating positive emotions within you, but once they have secured you as a source of supply and Positive again positive positive engagement is no longer fulfilling enough for them They will be trying to provoke negative emotions within you They go from provoking positive emotions to provoking negative emotions Because they can no longer get the same fulfillment from interacting or engaging with you in a positive way It no longer gives them the fuel that they need It also makes them frustrated and resentful towards you Because they realize that you can be fulfilled from positive interactions or engagement It reflects on them and makes them feel as though there's something wrong with them As though they are less than perfect Naturally, this will cause a narcissistic injury and narcissic rage Especially if they witness you interacting or engaging with was so un positively Outside of them then it really drives it home to them that other people can be fulfilled by interacting with you But they can't it really makes them feel as though something is wrong with them It makes them envious and jealous From this point on They will see it as a competition and a point that they have to prove That they can interact or engage in a positive way, but of course It's not going to be with you Due to their frustration and resentment They also have to find a way to project their feelings of envy and jealousy onto you So they will interact or engage with someone else and it will usually be someone of the opposite sex This is intended to provoke negative emotions within you and at that moment It may seem as though the narcissist has no problem interacting with this new person You may start to believe that there is something wrong with you, but that's exactly what the narcissist wants you to think When they witness you interact with someone outside of them They realize that they could not get the same fulfillment from interacting with you in a positive way and that made them feel frustrated and resentful So now the goal of them interact with someone else is To project these emotions onto you when they are provoking you and trying to get you to react to them It lets them know where you are in the mind It lets them know if you are still emotionally attached or emotionally connected to them This is another reason why they do this It's about establishing this connection or attachment to you Which is built on emotions So that they can develop a further level of control or dominance over you It makes it easier for them to manipulate you and control your mind and your emotions Sometimes you might think they are trying to be more intimately involved with you or they are trying to tease you But this is actually all about control It's about controlling your thoughts and feelings and being able to induce whatever feeling they want you to feel Whenever they want you to feel it. I've said in my previous videos how narcissists do not see you as a separate being They see you as an extension of them and everything they do when they are around you is literally to turn you into an extension of them They want to be able to control your every thought and action They literally want to use you as an extension of themselves Where if they don't want to express a certain emotion They will project it onto you. It may seem like you are connected on such a deep level But you are really just being used to regulate their emotions When they're doing this you're like an extension of their brains They are trying to turn you into an add-on or a component of what they are So that they can interact with you in a way that whatever they think or feel you can reflect it back to them It's like they basically want another version of themselves in a separate body To play with and reflect back whatever they are thinking or feeling in that moment And when they're provoking you to react or projecting these emotions onto you They will act as though something is wrong with you or you're not right When really you're not even there in their minds anyway They don't see you as a separate being They see you as an extension of them when they act as though something is wrong with you or you're not right That's just the next step in their emotional regulation And it's based off their past experiences When people from their past provoke them or project a certain emotions onto them They remember how they acted and made them feel They made them feel shameful or embarrassed As though they shouldn't be reacting in that way All of this goes back to their childhood if you go back far enough You will see that everything they are doing to you now Is just them trying to recreate a certain situation or event That made them feel pain or discomfort. It has nothing to do with you They are just using you as an extension of them To express these emotions or experience these reactions for them Narciss don't self reflect or look within They don't want to do the work to heal their childhood traumas Everything they do to you is their way of temporarily relieving the pain or suffering They are experiencing from these past situations or events It's too painful for them to express those emotions or have those reactions So they use you as an extension of them As an add-on or a component of what they are To regulate their emotions and boost their self-esteem Remember they don't see you as a separate being They see you as an extension of them They don't care about you They don't have an interest in what you think or feel Unless it relates to them if you are an emotional healthy person Most often your thoughts and feelings might not relate to them So they will push and provoke you Until you do begin to adopt their way of thinking and feeling Then they can apply their negative traits to you and create this bond They are dependent on you and your reactions To regulate their emotions So they don't want you to go anywhere They want to ensure that this connection or attachment stays fixed in place Where it is able to provide them with what they need Whenever they need it As I said at the beginning of the video One of their main needs is a dysfunctional environment These environments have the ability to provide them with the emotional reactions that they are looking for These environments allow them to get away with certain things Push people around Cross boundaries Just so they can feed off their emotional reactions And use them to regulate their emotions and boost their self-esteem Making them feel powerful and in control They don't care that they are causing pain or discomfort Because people are just objects or extensions of them anyway They exist to serve them and provide them with what they need Narcissus are self-absorbed and lack empathy They only care about themselves They will not feel shame for what they are doing But they do feel shame as though they are bad people And this is actually what drives them to do what they do They spend their lives doing all of this to dodge the shame They are shame-based individuals Doing everything they can to avoid reflecting on their shame This is why they are always trying to push and provoke you Trying to get you to react So they can call you a bad person And project their shame onto you They know that you will express this emotion And express it for them Which further helps to regulate their emotions And boost their self-esteem But the shame continues to grow within them And this is why the game never ends This is why they are never happy or satisfied with anything in their lives Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos We have a private reddit community Where survivors and frivers can share their experiences and knowledge If you are interested in being a part of this community You can sign up for our Patreon page The link is in the video description Check out the Narx Five of Moose Dice store Where you can purchase your own Narx Five of T-shirt or mug We have a variety of designs And it is a great way to support the channel The link to our Narx Five of Moose Dice store Is in the video description Thank you for watching and I will talk to you soon