 Okay, so here's something I don't understand and maybe it's a white people thing, but I don't know It's no, it's not a bad thing. It's just I'm not a white person. I didn't grow up in a white family It was first come first served you eat and you eat and then you're good But okay my mom, but that's her personality. She just wants to serve people and get people food Anyway, the debate is do people or other families? Or I guess a white is this a white thing? The Midwest thing do people when you're you know when you're about to serve food or about to eat Does your mom or anyone in your family or anybody? Have you heard anyone say hey? It's time to dish up When I first heard that When Sarah first said hey, can I dish you up a plate? I thought What in the world does that mean? Can I dish you up a plate? And I thought I've what did I say I said like what I Said what do you mean dish me up a plate and so I guess Can I dish you up means can I put food on your plate and give it to you so you can eat? That doesn't make any sense to me So Sarah is putting food on her plate to eat right now, or should I say Sarah's dishing up right now? What would you say it is weird? I've never heard I've been around white people a lot In my time and I've never heard anyone say hey, can I dish you up or hey? I'm gonna dish up Or hey, my folks are gonna dish up. I Guess that would make sense in a way But like I understand I now understand what dishing up is We've been married for three years, and yeah, I guess you say it all the time And I'm like no I don't want to be dished up, but yeah, I'll take some food Just to clarify This is dishing up Literally putting food on a plate and then eating it right? Yeah Is that my plate? Is it You dished me up. Can I dish you up? Can I dish you up? Yeah, that's a good point we're gonna eat because these two are calm