 Introverts are people who are calm, usually quiet, reserved, reliable and passive. The direct opposite of introverts are extroverts, who are typically more assertive, outspoken, active and friendlier than their introvert counterparts. Introverts like being on their own and are quite shy, but their unique traits sometimes make them very attractive. In this video, I'm going to show you 9 reasons introverts are so attractive. 1. They are good listeners. Everyone, or at least most people have something to say. Two people saying things at the same time is unpleasant, especially because both parties do not feel heard. When couples fight, they yell at each other at the same time and feel heard afterward. Introverted people are quiet. They are also passive. It means they can listen without interrupting you. People do not like being interrupted. They can take a lot of strong emotions without breaking down. This makes them the perfect confidant. People aspire to have introverts as close friends, and introvert is more likely to just listen and reach forward and hug you. They know that sometimes you just want a shoulder to cry on. You don't want to be told you were wrong too. Or given solutions. You just want a big hug. 2. They are deep thinkers. Because introverts are always quiet and reflective, it influences the quality of their thoughts. They process things better because they are not used to responding quickly. They are also more likely to read than extroverts because they are not half-associable. They stay on their own, observe their surroundings, and reflect. Have you ever had a conversation with an introvert? You will be surprised at how intelligent and intuitive they are. They do not usually give up this impression because they are calm and reserved. Extroverts are the ones to answer questions and volunteer for work. But if you get an introvert to commit, you will be amazed at how committed and reliable they can be. 3. They are easy to be around. Introverts typically do not give up negative vibes. They are also not judgmental. They stay in their world and let others be. They are not offensive. If you have an introverted friend, you will find it easier to talk to them than your extroverted friend. You would also find it easier to tell them secrets because they would never bring it up accidentally. They are more composed and think things through. They also do not make you feel like you can't keep up with your fun and laughter. You can be yourself with them. You really don't have to try so hard. They are usually quiet, so hanging out with them a lot can teach you to enjoy a quiet company. 4. They are very creative. Introverted people usually turn out artists and writers. They are quite creative. Their deep reflections lead them to creative expressions. They may not look like it though if you admit them in person. Introverts seem to have the most creative energy when they are alone. According to Quartz, a 2012 study suggests that spending 4 days immersed in nature would improve creative problems of them by 50%. There is clearly a strong correlation between creativity and staying alone. Since introverts are always alone, they have stronger tendencies towards creativity than extroverted people. Introverts may not do well in group brainstorming sessions though. They would rather be left alone. If you are an introvert, you should consider a freelancing career. A social personality type better. As a freelancer, you can work alone and from anywhere at all. This allows you a lot of time to be on your own while doing something you love. 5. They are observant. Observation requires a lot of concentration. Introverts seem to be able to pull it off without stress, if they are in a meeting where a presentation is being made. They will not only pay close attention to what is being said, but they can also read the room to know who is paying attention and who isn't. They can, in addition, tell whether the presenter is a little shaky or not. An introvert is more likely to notice people's body language and facial expression. This can improve interpersonal communication. This is a handy skill. Imagine if someone was in pain and trying to hide it from appearing strong before others. An introvert can tell and give them space but which the person would be grateful for. People who are not may not be able to tell. 6. They are loyal. Introverts may not make a lot of friends because they are always on their own. The few they make, though, they try to keep them. Maybe because opening up for them takes a longer time than it takes for others. Since introverts can read body language, they can tell if you are a fake nice person from a first meeting. They can also know if you drain their mental energy. They would rather have a few friends than many people who add no value to their lives. They are very loyal and can stay by your side through thick and thin, without complaining. They are more understanding and respond better to situations. This quality makes them very attractive. The average introvert is intentional about what they want in a relationship and who they spend their time with. An extrovert can hang out with a lot of people and be comfortable even amid strangers. Introverts would rather be alone if they make out time to be with you. They really care about you. 7. They make better decisions. They process thoughts better and therefore make better decisions. They are not impulsive. An introvert is more likely to save than an extrovert. Introverts really think things through. They also donate a lot of socializing, which contributes a large chunk to a person's monthly budget. They weigh the odds and take more time to make decisions. According to a research by International Journal of Research in Medical Sciences, introverts are better at decision making than extroverts. The extroverts do not rely on impulsive decisions. They prefer to postpone their decisions whenever possible. An introvert also does not rely on people for decision making. They are quite thorough in their approach. 8. They are mysterious. Because they are difficult to read, they have a mysterious appeal that makes them so attractive. It is not out of place for people to wonder about the girl that comes into the bar every Tuesday night, orders a glass of milk, seats in the lounge, and leaves at exactly 9 p.m. every single week for the past two years. Such a person may well be a mystery. This is precisely what introverts can be like. They do not see a need to conform to social norms because they are a bit distant from most. Loud parties are not their thing. They can attend one, but may be outside sitting in the garden. A bottle of water in their hand with their ears plugged, they like peace and quiet, and do not enjoy noisy music, not even if they have fun. A lot of people are not introverted, and this makes them stand out. People are drawn to them because they are different. They are like a breath of fresh air, something different from the norm. They make great partners in a relationship and help their extroverted partners become more aware of their surroundings. Who wouldn't like to experience nature more profoundly? An introvert can show you. 9. They are less needy of attention. Unlike most girls, an introvert is more independent and will not start a fight if you don't call during the weekend. They are comfortable being alone. An introvert does not need you to check on them every second. This is really attractive to guys, especially since a lot of girls are very needy. Guys want to feel they still have a life, even if they are in a relationship, and this works better with introverts. An introvert reads body language better, and is more likely to not get jealous if you are hanging out with some female friends. This type of understanding further endures men to them. No one likes being misunderstood. No one likes dealing with people's insecurities either. Introverts do not need social validation. They are sociable anyways. They are excellent with people holding different opinions because they are independent like that. They do not require people to compliment their likes or like them. This is especially attractive. If the person in question who wants to be with the introvert is often on the media coverage, having an introvert as a partner is a win. Introverts are people who live quiet lives and have beautiful minds. Everyone needs to interact with them. They can teach us a lot. If this video inspired you, subscribe to our channel. We love you.