 But in 2023, I want you to decide right down, say out loud, put on your screensaver on your device. In 2023, I am not going to be my pain. I'm not going to be my trauma. I'm not going to be my mistakes. I'm not going to be my shame or my guilt or my regrets. I'm not going to be my issue or my problems or my roles. I'm not going to be my identity that I get from religion or from church or whatever group you're in or position in life you have. I'm not going to be those things in 2023. So when I say who you're going to be, maybe it's easy for you to start with who you're not going to be and whittle it down and see what you're left with. Because the list of who you're not going to be is going to be huge and that's a good place to start. That's okay.