 But you can't silence the guy and too many of our men are Hintect weak Beta whatever phrase you would throw out there now. I'm gonna ask you So the ladies over here that said I You said in essence you submit, but it wasn't the word submit you you have your husband as a protector Do you like men? Who are silent? Liars weak Beta do you like those men are those the men you're gonna give or allow to lead you? No, what? You divorce one before right and so as men as a man and a leader in a guy that is vocal I tell men all the time do not fall for this you will get no women You ain't gonna get none. They're gonna look at you and divorce you oh hell. No, I know I like a man that is strong Like a man that will lead. Well, why would you tell him to stop telling such same things? To an extent I get it some things are really really offensive and if you're offended by what men are saying today Grow up in the 50s men were barbarians compared to what they are today They used to say some stuff that will make your hair curl up right now Okay, some old-school-ass men Alright, so you you think of what I'm saying is offensive The your great-grandfather would have you in a corner in fetal position Now we silenced them in and we shamed them. Oh my gosh shame on this guy. He's a millionaire He feeds families. He supports families He supports families. He protects families. He secures families not just his family everybody that he employs His whole damn corporation and what do we do to the guy? Bring him down For saying something that is true or near true Funny entertaining all the things that we want But we live in incredible times of comfort and when you're comfortable you complain about bullshit And so we take a guy that is a protector and we shame him We cancel him we take away his ability to earn and we're happy. Ha. He lost his money on a false allegation But it was false. Well That's just how he goes We silent shame and cancel the protectors We change the language of the protector This is where we interact now I have a session on my coaching program or my YouTube show called subservient language You're gonna help me out here. This is where you come in You're gonna fill in the blank Happy wife Happy wife happy life. Oh man. No one no matter what she does to you Just don't make her not happy with you now That is the most subservient language that I've ever heard what male protector would go for that a Beta no, I mean not a real male protector ain't going for that a beta will say, okay Despite the fact that I'm getting the short end of the stick here I'm gonna make her happy and that's the priority That is some subservient. Okay. Let's flip it happy husband. Have you ever heard it? Nobody cares about the damn husband in his emotion. Just get over it Happy wife happy life. I think that is very offensive But we can't cancel it because people will say yeah. Yeah. Yeah. She wears the She wears the pants People applaud that oh good for her. Yes, she wears the pants in family. She's got him in line He can't do anything without her permission. I have to ask my wife for Permission I got to ask her so she wears the pants in the family, but he's the protector He's the he's the guy securing he's providing remember we we said that earlier We all agree that that's what men's roles are, but she's gonna wear the pants. Okay. She's killing the spiders She's doing the plumbing. She's growing into light bulbs when the burglar comes in she's gonna grab the bat She's gonna load the gun now. There's some women that could do that But most aren't going to do that. So how does she wear the pants? And why do we promote that? Aren't we an equal society? I'll be a body quality. Why should she wear the pants? Well, she has a henpecked husband and we promote henpecked husbands. I Was watching a Up in the hotel. They had a show called something about Raymond. I've never seen it before and They have a character who's a tall guy Can't remember his name. He's a comedian and he has a wife Well, the wise role on the show is to Scowl at him when he steps out of line the whole show. I watched like three episodes All right Now she's like this and he's a giant and he's just dear the whole time and I'm like, ah, I know where we got it from See it's promoted that he gets a reward Maybe some sex from his wife or something like that if she if he behaves so he better be a good boy Let's go for another one here