 Not our romantic partner's responsibility to heal our attachment style. Like when we're seeking that other person to help heal us, we're seeking them to help reparent us. And oh boy, you and I talk about this all the time, but what a recipe for loss of desire. What do you always say I can want to? I can want to be your mom or I can want to have sex with you, but I can't do both. And I think we live in a society that makes our romantic relationships sort of the holy grail and this should be our everything. And feeling like one person is supposed to be my everything, my secure attachment, my, you know, confidant, my therapist, my emotional support, like all the things. It's just putting too much pressure on our romantic relationships.