 You guys are my niece and nephew. So this is, we've had an actual baby that came from my vagina for a year and a half now. And now we're about to have a second one. And I wanna make sure that I make the necessary improvements and I trust your opinions. It's basically a progress report. All right, let's do this. Okay, yeah. Discipline slash restrictions. Oh, God. An F? Yeah, an F. What is my grade in attentiveness? Nope. Can I give you an F in production? This video is sponsored by Audible. The only service that gives you access to the world's largest library of audio books. Now, Audible has an incredible deal right now where you can get a 30 day free trial which is gonna get you one audio book plus two Audible originals at no cost for 30 days. And with Audible originals, you can listen to stuff like literature, journalism, fitness, podcasts, and more. The thing I love about Audible is they're always adjusting and putting members' experiences first. 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Shambudi. To the phone number. 500-500. A in listening. Hi there, lovers and friends. Can I introduce you to some very special people? One that you know. Hey, one that you know, and one that you're about to meet today. I'm Cairo. Thanks, I forgot your name for a second. Wow, wow, okay, okay. This is my first born child, Cairo. No, no. And this is my second born, Zahra. I'm my niece. Yeah. But more or less, you guys think of me as a second mom. Okay, that's for no reason. You guys are like my practice babies, right? Didn't work out that great, but that's okay. Just practice, just joking. Okay. Safety. One, two, three. Reveal. Seize. Seize again. That's funny, cause I never called you guys from the emergency room before. So that's why it's not on her scene. I gave a solid C because she climbs, she ends up climbing over everything and she almost falls in her face. Every time she's on the couch, on the couch in the loft, I have to watch her like an eagle. Let me ask a question. Is she an excellent climber? Yes. Yes, I will give her that. Why do you think she's an excellent climber? Because you let her climb. That doesn't count for safety, does it now? Climbing abilities doesn't- Freedom gives her an opportunity to develop skills for aptitude and for confidence. I'm not saying that freedom's bad. I'm not saying that you have to put her in a cage. But you give her too much freedom. Preparation for being out. Dang. Okay, never mind. You know what? All right, I have one for you. This is probably, you're right. We won't, if this is your worst area, which it probably is, we will not see the F. We always end up having to ask you, did you bring the diapers and stuff like that? Okay, I accept the score. I accept that the preparation could improve. Could improve? Yes. We'll improve. There you go. Yay! So Iggy, because you got such a low score on your preparation, we have an activity for you, or I have an activity for you, and you were going to be packing a diaper bag in 30 seconds. Three, two, one, go. Ding! Time's up. All right, let's see what you picked. So here we have diapers, her juice, crushed red pepper, wipes. I ate it pretty good, so. There's only one thing you missed. You could never have too many snacks. Just an apple. Oh, okay. Ew! No, it didn't even wash. She was on the floor. Five hour rule. Can I lower your grade on safety? Physical activity. Oh, okay. Bap. Finally. Finally! She's so great around you! She is always outside. She is always running around. She is always active. Yeah, and she's very... She's very, she's in it shows because she runs all over the place. She's fast. She can climb. To your point earlier, she can climb very well. I try that she learns from me. Discipline slash restrictions. Oh, god. I lied. I lied before. The question I like to ask people when they think they're good in areas that I don't is, what is? So what are your restrictions? Don't play with sharp objects. Learn what hot is. Learn what ouchie is. Become an advocate for your own safety. Be aware if she's causing harm to herself or harm to others. Oh, you know what? Right, put it down. She does this like, okay, let her play. Something's happening. You made it, you made something. You said, if it brings her joy, it is her toy. You said that. That's true. Cairo, Cairo's got a development happening. I'm interested to see who's development is. I'm gonna raise you a little bit because you do have good points. Discipline also includes self-discipline as well as parental discipline. If we split the two up, there'd be vastly different scores. So I'm gonna be focusing on discipline and I'm gonna ask you three questions, scenarios. If you do really well, then I'll increase your, I'll consider increasing your discipline grade. Scenario one. At a mall, your child wanders into a store. You either, A, let her wander around, or B, you pick her up immediately and walk her out. A, you let her wander around. Scenario two. You're at a fancy restaurant and she starts getting cranky. What do you do? You either, A, take her out of the chair and let her wander, or B, you keep her there and give her something to keep busy. You start with B, but if that doesn't work, then you allow her A to stretch her legs and move about because she's a baby and she can't understand the concept of why she's trapped into a chair and forced to sit there. It's kind of bizarre. I say that, I say that's a good answer actually. Really? Really? Brring, ding, ding. Brring, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. Scenario three. You're at a park and Roy walks up to a random man. What do you do? Do you let her say hi and do whatever? Or do you take her way and lead her to something else that's possibly more in your and her interest? Hey, you let her say hi and communicate with the person because you want to encourage her to be outgoing and you don't want to create an idea in her head that she's a bother to human beings. But you might be trying to pick her up and kidnap her. So, you know what? I'm gonna give you a good on that one. Because, yeah, you do have to let her say hi, you don't want to keep her in a cage. But you don't want to let her do whatever. It's to an extent. I can go with that. After we've had this exercise, I'd just like to know where we are at now, Cairo. I would say I give you a B, I saw a B. You want to have two grades, that's pretty good. That's pretty good. Very good. Very good. Hopefully. Last one. Motherly warmth. This is, the birthday is not a factor score, but I would say, I would definitely say an A. There's a lot of motherly warmth. The fact that she does come to you when she's upset, like when she's super upset, she always goes to you and sits on your lap and she's fine. That's good. You also provide us with motherly warmth. So, you are, in fact, our aunt. Karen's alright, thank you so much. You were incredible, you were honest, you were informative. I love you, you're my people. And can I just give you guys both an authentic A plus plus as cousins? Yay. There is nothing that makes me happier than seeing you guys dance together, laugh together, play together. And it actually is interesting, because it reminds me so much of our relationship when you were younger, because every time that you guys came around, no matter how I felt, I was like, I'm gonna turn up the energy. And I appreciate with you guys, no matter what you're going through or how you feel, you always turn it on, you make Zara, what's a baby's name? Raya. You make Raya so happy. Oh my gosh. You make me your motherly grade. 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