 Y'all give me a little second in my soccer fan. Make sure my internet working real quick. That ain't working yet, because you see how, okay, there it go. Now, YouTube, YouTube be hiking up on you, boy. YouTube gonna hike up on you now. One thing they gonna do, is hike up. Now, I already had me a haircut. I'll just be having on a hat. Forgot my hat today. Y'all about to go to Turkey and get my old hat line put on. So ain't got no how to eat half fibers, but they want to be able to use my pictures all over the world. I said, no, no, I can't have my thing in here. I got all over the world, I pay for it. So, yeah, I wanted to pop on here. It was a couple of things. I was just talking to him a 16 year old. I'll bring him to his soccer game. So, he play in an hour. So I got a little bit of time till my wife get here with chairs. We drove separate vehicles cause she wanted to take her little nap. And Jezebel earlier today told me she could see in my eyes that my wife cheating on me. The lady says she could see it in my eyes and hear it in my voice. I'm like, nah, where you heard my voice at? If you heard my voice on YouTube, how you, how, what do my voice sound like that say my wife out here sleeping around on me? I say, boy, if people say, I say, well, we can't let everybody out of their cage, boy. Everybody can't be let out of their cage. My goodness, Lord. But I say, you know, Lord, just bless him, Lord, just bless him. But yeah, so we had to drive separate vehicles on my son, ready to get here. We wanted to give her an hour early cause he got a different feeling and coach today. And wife wanted to take her little nap cause we was up late last night from going out to dinner. And I was thinking about something coming over here. I was talking to my son, cause my son, he still had, he ain't had his roast spur yet. That's what she was doing. She was, she was no shock. Cause I think she wrote me some time back talking about some other foolishness. And then my thing is, it's like this, I'm a hundred percent faithful to my wife. And I'll be honest with you, I don't even get tried. And when I do get tried, it just shows me how when people be termed out cause when a woman tried me, she looked like the devil and walked up behind. Anytime a woman tried me, she looked like the devil been dragging her since she came out of mama womb. And I'd be like, I'd be like, Lord, I know the devil gonna try to temp you and test you. But I'm like, Lord, I'm starting to get offended at this point with the women that the devil send me. I'm like, my goodness, like at least let the woman look half decent. I showed my wife a lady who shot or shot at me not long ago. I'm like, baby, look at this. Look how this woman look. My wife's just chuckling. She's just chuckling. Cause out of the women who shoot, they shot at me. We ain't seen now a cute one. I said, boy, I must look like I just fell off the back of a truck. I say, boy, I must look like who shot John and forgot to kill him. Cause that's the start to get the ego after a little while. It's like, listen, at least if I'm going to be hollered at least let the woman look decent. At least let me have to go to the Lord in prayer. Like Lord, give me the strong Lord. Give me the strength to pass this test. Only I'll be having to go to the Lord offended by Lord. How in the world are you? Let this thing come to the shot at me. But that also showed me the state of men. It showed me that men, that a lot of men are so nasty that these women have shot, they shot at a man and had thing put in them from shooting, they shot at a man. Cause a lot of men will, I'm not going to lie. A lot of men will sleep with anything. I ain't going to say walking cause she ain't even got to have legs. A lot of men will sleep with anything. And that, and I realized that when some of these women look like they be on fell off a bike or a watermelon truck and got hit by the car behind it. I'm like, ma'am, why is you shooting a shot? Come on now. And so the lady going to come in with DMs. I had a block of Tomite. She could see it in my eyes and hear it in my voice. Tomite is my wife stepping out on me and Tomite, she doesn't sign the NDA. She'll sign the NDA block, block. But I wanted to tell y'all something. Something I was thinking about because my son, he is like five, five. He ain't had his growth spurt yet. He might be about five, six. And so he's about, he'll be 17 next month. So I'm five 10, five, nine and a half on a bad day or with a bad bike, but I'm five 10. So I'm two inches under the cutoff cause every woman that I done ever did matchmaking for her list say six foot. And I'd be on the phone with my coaching clients and the women be like, yeah, you know, I dated this guy. He was just so short. And I was like, well, I totally was. He was like five 10. I'd be on the call like, I remember meeting one of my clients in person. She was a Hollywood celebrity. I walked up to her. She was like, ooh, you short. Mind you, she five one. I'm five 10 and she calling me short. And her baby daddy five eight. I said, oh boy, would y'all women to do anything to try to knock a man off his horse? So my son five five. And the thing about it is with this young generation and this is for y'all ladies to talk to y'all daughters because my son will be 17 next month and they are dating at that age. My son still have not had his first kiss to God be the glory. But you know why my son have not had his first kiss because he five five. My son told me that he cannot get a girlfriend because he is not five 10. Now, I don't really believe that he goes to a predominantly white school. It's a private school. Right now he in virtual school and they saw him grow up and my son used to have a real bad ex of him. So when somebody know to owe you, it's hard for them to see the new you when they know to owe you. I told them like some of you go to a different school. Them young ladies probably be all over you man cause you're not no ugly guy. Like that big old nice perfect smile. That good old hell, you know, you pulling up in the exotics. I'm like, but see you don't want no woman that wants you for the wrong reason. And today from the teenagers all the way up to the adults. I'm noticing that relationships are becoming more of a business deal. It's becoming and not even there's a business deal. A lot of it is, it's based on the wrong reasons. And you got to make sure and people we hate to hear this, but you got to make sure that the person you choose has the character that you want them to have because if the person you choose if, you know, it's for the wrong reason. If it's because of the height because of the money because of the last name because of the job. So it's kind of like I really want my son I almost want my son to meet his wife now and be high school sweethearts and just learn how to build a relationship before he meet a woman and she come from poverty and know that if she get married to him she married into money. And know that he gonna because his daddy has done decent that he gonna figure out a way to do decent and I ain't gonna let my kids struggle. I'm gonna help them until they find a way. I'm not gonna kick them to the curb at 18 and see eventually my son gonna meet him a young lady who she gonna know about the business side of things and be with them for the wrong reason. But I'm noticing adults is doing the same thing. And just like we see this here this relationship that between this young, this older lady, 39 year old lady, Drell with the young man, Jalen Green. She 39, he 22. And a lot of people is saying, hey, don't worry about, you know, we too focus on other people's life. We too, and that's just life. That's just life. Yeah, we gonna be focused on other people's life. Everybody knows it. Do you have a nose? Then you gonna be nosy. Like, ain't no sense of being mad about people being in people business. Long as we can smell, we finna be in somebody business. That's just life. Just like the lady D on me talking about, I look like my wife, she know me. I say, well, I'm looking bad. I was like, I might need to go get me some Botar. Go get me some filler. I'm looking like that. I say, boy, I'm not told of what she look like. You look like you got stepped on. So just like with this older lady, let me help you understand this because men and women do this both ways. The reason why that older lady got with that young man is because the men at her age know the game. The men at 39, 40, she has become what they call, this ain't my turn. She has become what they call a pass around. So y'all come up with that term. So because the young lady, Drale, Michelle has become what they call a pass around, the men her age, all they want to do is whine and dying her enough to sleep with her. But see, because, and that's unfortunate, that is unfortunate, but that is the game. Everybody know that's how I go. And what they'll do is they will call you a pass around if they don't see you date two or three people, which is not fair. It's not fair because the young lady could have literally, since she'd been a celebrity, she could have literally, all I remember her is being with the NFL player, Orlando, Orlando Scandri. That's all I really remember. And then way back in the day, we hear rumors about maybe her and Chris Brown or something like that, but I can't even remember if that was the person name. And yes, she probably dealt with different celebrities because not every celebrity gonna show her to the world. They just wanna sleep with them. And now it was talked about a long time ago with the young lady having, they say that she left her son at home by herself and the police came to the door and the boy was in there by himself, nothing to eat and all of this. And say she was out of town with a man, you know, on vacation with a man. Now that ain't just a celebrity thing. I just seen a lady on the news who left her child in a room by the child's self. And the lady went to Puerto Rico or somewhere on vacation and the child died. And this lady, she wasn't a celebrity or nothing. I guess she just wanted to get away. And she got arrested and probably gonna do some time in jail. So this the thing with this, with this drill young lady and with these relationships and you see how the dynamics go and you have to be able to learn it for yourself so that you can protect yourself because you gotta prepare yourself and you gotta protect yourself. And this is what I try to tell my clients, like you have to be able to see yourself. Like God forbid me and my wife, God forbid something happened to my wife or me and my wife went through a divorce. If I had to be single again at this level in my life, having been married and been in love, I would be like apostle Paul. I would stay single the rest of my life. I would be single and I would be asking it the rest of my life. And I wouldn't date again because I wouldn't be able to tell if a woman like me for me or if she wants money. And for me personally, it wouldn't be less about that. It'll be my wife is my true love. So if God forbid something happened to my wife, if she left, you know, God called a home which he ain't gonna do that, I'd be single. And that's why I try to tell people when they be like, they lose their spouse. I think it was, what's the man name? Pastor Tony Evans, I think his name is, I think I've seen he just got married or something. Or, and I think his wife died. And that happens. That happens at a certain age, you know, men lose their wife to like breast cancer. A lot of men lose their wife to like breast cancer or MS or different situations. I don't see how they move on. I don't really get it. I don't understand how they move on and that, but I also say you can't judge people if you ain't never been in their shoes because I don't know what it feel like to be alone and to be like lonely or to be as a man and wanting the part that a woman bring. I never lived like that because I always wanted a relationship. But what I'm noticing today is relationships are skewed and relationships aren't being built on genuine connection, it's being built with ulterior motives. And sometimes it's from the man, sometimes it's from the woman, but it's going both ways. So like what happened is the young lady, Draia, it's hard for us on the outside looking in because the young man could be a nice guy. He looks like he's a nice guy. He looks like he's a charming guy. He knows how to treat a woman. Every man knows how to treat a woman, but not every man chooses to treat a woman right. And then with him making millions of dollars, that level of treatment is on a whole nother level. So, and then he's young, so he's not as jaded as a 40 year old man. He still got hope. He still got rose colored glasses on. So he may get a house full of roses. He may get a Cartier Chanel Gucci Louis. He putting on a private jet and he flying around the country, flying around the world. Like he got rose colored glasses on and he'd know how to treat a woman. And so he got a wine and Donna then. So here go Draia old behind. She's sitting up there and 40 is not old. I just turned 40 yesterday. 40 ain't old, but I'm calling, but you old when you got your, somebody young enough to be your child. That's when you old. So now Draia old behind. She, and I say that affectionately. That's not, I'm not saying to creep it. So now Draia old behind, get this young whippa snapper. And she like, man, I'm being treated better than I was when I was with Orlando Scandria. And then so she'd have had men her age, who done dog died, who done probably put hands on her, who done cheated on her. And cause the thing about men, this is the thing with men is men worry too much about what other men think. And so in a lot of times, and it take a special type of man to not worry about what other men think. Now, if I'm not mistaken, I think her child father, her baby daddy, Jalen Green, will they last? No, I don't think they're gonna last at all. Cause he way too young and he got way too much money. I get them three to five years. Absolute mikes, but what he, but let me tell you about some with them about a man with money. A man with money do not care about child support. Most, and when I say a man with money don't care about child support, I ain't talking about every single man, but on average men do not care about money, meaning like worship money. That's why the strip club exists. Think about how many kids, think about how many underprivileged kids could have been put through college with the money that men have thrown in the air in a strip club. Do that math, do that math. I coached a stripper one time. She said, she hired before life coaching to create a get off the pole plan. She wanted to be off the pole in two years, but she couldn't handle the truth. So she only made it through two sessions with me instead of four. She paid for four and only made it through two cause I'll be telling the truth. And she had to get off the pole plan. This probably was 15 years ago. I think she might still be on the pole. And she told me one night, she made $8,000. That's a year tuition at some little schools. Think about that. So men don't care about money. So this young man, Jaylen Green, let me tell you how this happened cause a lot of people don't understand this. Okay, when you young, like Jaylen Green, and you meet an idol. So Dreya is a idol to Jaylen Green. The same way Megan Good was an idol to Devon Franklin. The same way Sierra is an idol to Russell. So the same way Superhead, Karen Stephens was a idol to all of these different celebrities that she dealt with. So men idolize women. That's why Samson got his hair cut off by Delilah. That's why David fell into sin with Bathsheba. That's why Boaz could not concentrate once he seen Ruth been over in that field. And men idolize women. That's how Jezebel exists. That's how the Jezebel spirit exists and is so powerful because men idolize women. But here's the thing. When you is, her name was Superhead, Karen Seven. When you are Jaylen Green age and you paint your nails colors and you are biracial and you light skin and you have soft curly hair, you battling a lot. He battling a lot of different combination of insecurities and sports saved him because one thing you know about men, if you know about men, light skinned men get bullied. They get picked on for being light skinned. They got whole memes and jokes about light skinned men versus dark skinned men. And so light skinned has always been seen as soft. And that's why like even the rapper D1, he say he locked up his hair because people was telling him, you can't lock up. I bet you can't lock up. Bet you can't lock up. Cause he like, you know, got a lot of different races in his blood. So light skinned men go through a lot. You get light skinned men get called soft. They get called lame. They get called weak. They get called punks. And so now you got this young guy Jaylen Green. He light skinned. He got that. He got soft curly hair. He painted his nails. I think he the one that got a video of him getting pumped in the booty. They got clothes on, but it looked like it was guys in the dorm room playing around. And I think somebody, one of the other guys pumped them in the booty. And guys go to playing like that because they looking at each other, scrum bike. They be looking at each other, bike and booty and angle line in the locker room. So a lot of these guys that be in locker rooms, they whole life and they be on buses and planes with they team, they whole life. A lot of these guys do become by curious. So when these guys become by curious, they care less about having a wholesome woman because they spirit is turned out. And then also the young men that's Jaylen Green age, they are, they are what I call porn babies. These young men that's Jaylen Green age was raised on porn. So what that porn does is it defiles your spirit and it warps your sense of reality. What porn does is it warps these men and women mind. That's why I've never watched porn because I understand the mind. I know what it'll do to your mind because if porn made sense and if we was supposed to watch it, then it would be normal practice of us looking through our neighbor bedroom window while they being intimate with their partner. You're not supposed to watch two other human beings be intimate. It's demonic. But see, I guarantee you Jaylen Green watch porn. So when you watch porn, you're going to see a much older woman who take care of herself, her body because she underdeveloped. So Drea, Michelle, it's not that she, she what you call a late bloomer. When she was 18 years old, she probably looked at 10. And so she what you call a late bloomer to where the weight put on late, late, late, late, late, late, late, late, late. Cause if you look at the young lady Drea, there are some of y'all teenage, some of y'all was built the way she built when you was a teenager. Some of y'all had more meat on your bones. Some women have more meat on their bones when they was 12 years old than what Drea got at 39 years old. So she what you call a late bloomer. But then from her being out here with these celebrities and her showing off body with her swimsuit, that seduces a man, especially a young porn baby. So the same thing with the porn baby is, no, this ain't an RV, this is a Sprinter. So I'm gonna say this Sprinter. This is my soccer van, my travel van. So with these porn babies like Zion Williamson, Zion Williamson on the New Orleans Pelicans, same thing as Jalen Green, porn baby. They raised up on porn so they have a warp sense of reality. So when they see a woman, they don't read the woman the same way a man who has a hold of his reality would read a woman. So the way that one of us would read a woman, we will see her for who she is. And I'm gonna try to help you understand this. So there's women who because you ever seen tales from the Crip and tales from the Crip that old show used to come on or maybe a Twilight Zone, whichever one of them was, it had like a skeleton with some old white hat on it. Which one that was, tell from the Crip or whatever. So whichever one of those right there, that's what some women look like. Even though on the outside, they beautiful. On the outside, they are absolutely gorgeous. They body is perfect. They skin is perfect. But when a seasoned man who is not mentally warped by porn looks at that woman, we see that skeleton with that gray half from Tales of the Crip. That's what we see. Twilight Zone. We don't see no voluptuous beautiful woman because we could read a woman's spirit for seasoned men who done been renewed by Christ especially. So you will be able to see a Jezebel. See the thing with Jalen Green is it's not that he got finessed. He didn't get finessed. He know exactly what he doing, but he does not care. He don't care about her age and he don't care that she got a child his age. And he don't care that he gonna be paying child support for the next 22 years. He does not care at all because he is warped by this society, this over sexualized pornographic society. So his rooting in reality is completely different. And that's where most of these young men are in reality. They not rooted in reality because porn is not real. It is acting. So when you watch that and you engage in that and then you promiscuous on top of it trying to fulfill those fantasies that you see on that porn the same way Zion Williamson did. The same way the other young boy on the Minnesota Timberwolves, Anthony Williams maybe his name is or something like that. On the Minnesota Timber, he got us, he slept with this woman. The woman say she had conceived. And then they say something about he supposed to be paying her off or something. Some people say it wasn't real. But the thing about it is a lot of these men a lot of men with money pay to sleep with women. And then, and they paying either they put in cash in her hand to pay her or they pay by private jet, steak and lobster, lobster, pasta, Chanel bag, Birkin bag, they still paying. But see men, so many men, not every man not God fearing good men, but so many men are so warped by the porn that they will spend any amount of money to fulfill that lust. They don't wanna fulfill that lust. And if they got millions of dollars a Birkin bag or Chanel bag is nothing to a multi-millionaire. So it ain't even that Jalen Green was finesse cause he know what he doing, but he don't care cause he got money to blow. And then he looking at Drea and he like, man, my baby gonna be pretty. He thinking he finna have him a pretty baby but what he don't realize is a baby might look like it fell from the sky because a lot of time when both of the parents are considered attractive societally. A lot of times the baby look like that baby that your grandma got the bite of tongue on. You know sometimes your grandma see a baby and she like, oh, Lord forgive me. Who baby that little? Oh child. Y'all gonna Christian the baby? You to seen them kind of baby. So now every baby is cute. Every baby is cute. But so he probably thinking, oh man, my baby finna look good. But one thing I saw growing up as being an observationist is that the prettiest girls in high school had the least attractive parents. And I used to be confused about that. And then all other mommas that was beautiful daughter looked it like a child of God. And I just was so confused about that. Now there are exceptions to the rule. So here goes, so what Jalen was doing because these boys have these porn dreams he dive off in the unprotected. He dive off, see Darlene telling the truth. He said, don't know how to do that with some of my grandkids. I hope don't know your children following me on here. So he dove off in there cause he watched porn. So he all in there swimming, unprotected. He swan diving in there. All in there, unprotected. Why? Cause he watched porn. Had he not been a porn watcher, he would have seen her for who she is, which is a woman that have lived that Hollywood lifestyle and have been out here and been around with different million now men and you not gonna be able to save that woman, change that woman, tame that woman. You finna get God for every dollar in your bank account. You about to get God and I'ma tell you something cause I seen this. I seen this, I seen a celebrity woman who ain't gonna say her name cause I ain't that messy. But I seen a celebrity woman one time, I have worked with a celebrity woman who I showed her a guy and she said, ew, disgusting. And I said, you Google images. I say Google all, hit all. You clicked on images, click all. When she clicked all and she saw that his income was in the eight figures. This mean 10 million up. She said, Tony, I got to have him. She connected with him. She got pregnant by him and she had his child. They did not work out. They did not work out and he is paying child support for the next 22 years. But because she was broke, she was going broke. She needed to get a little ugly. And this demand is what I call little ugly. And that's why we need to form a board. We need to form a board that you got to come to the board and you got to ask us, am I ugly? And we are going to tell you in nicest way possible if you is little ugly and we is not hating on you. It is a jury of 12. We is a board. We are honest and we are going to tell you the truth. If you look like who shot John and forgot to kill him, we is going to let you know that you look like a basket case and we're going to tell you in the nicest way possible. But for some reason, this man did not know he was ugly. And he slept with this woman and this woman is a Jezebel, she is a black widow. She got pregnant by him, she had his child and now he paying child support for the next 22 years. Now Jalen Green is not little ugly because he tall, he athletic, but he is dunking balls. In more ways than one. When a man paint his nails, he dunks balls. I'm going to tell y'all ladies something. I don't care what trend is out here. I do not care what fad is out here. If a man paints his nails and I'm not talking about clear polish. If a man put a color on his nails, he play with balls. And I'm not talking about NFL, MLB and NBA. There is no exceptions to the rules. If a man paints his nails, he play with balls. There is no other way to put it. So the thing with Jalen Green is he dunks balls in more ways than one. And when you are a ball dunker, you do not care if the woman you sleeping with is considered a HO. Because anything will do when you need you somebody to lay down with. And these women sometimes become cover-ups and they don't care. So the woman will say, the woman saying she need his money. And he saying, I need you as a cover-up. And so they do a business deal, a swap. The man will get with an overly sexualized woman because he operating from a spirit. He operating from a spirit, because I'm gonna tell you something. Although most women have had multiple relationships, one thing that a man does not, one thing that a real man does not want to do is be with a woman that he knows has had that he can pinpoint the woman relationship. It's one thing for a man to know and assume that this woman has been in five or 10 relationships. But when you can Google image the relationships, it's going to a real man is not going to be with that woman because men are territorial. Women think it's the other way around. Women think that that make a man confident and that make a man secure. No. The men who do that is men like P. Ditty, men like Neo, men like Jamie Foxx and now men like Jaylen Green. And one thing that you notice that these men have in common is that we all kind of, we all have heard rumors about the men going both ways about these men being bald dunkers. And that's the thing because that's when you don't care no more because your spirit is turned out. So that's why Jamie Foxx made that song about he don't care about a woman pass and about the numbers and all of that. And Neo made a song saying the same thing. He don't care about a woman pass and about the numbers because when you get out there and you get in feel traded, when your in get filled, when you get in feel traded, you lose sense of reality. You no longer care about stuff that you should be caring about. Uh-oh. And the boy coming to play my son, they pulling up on his charter bus. It looked like they coming to kick some behind. Uh-oh. So this is the thing. And the thing about it is this stuff is in the public. This stuff in the public. So I have to teach on it now because what this stuff is doing is it skewing the relationship world. And it's skewing, it's messing with the young men mind and young men thinking, oh, I'm finna go get me a woman that's 20 years older than me. That's not the mood. That's not the mood. That's not what you wanna do because guess what? If him and Dre stay together, she gonna be on depends. When he's still a whippersnapper, she gonna have to wear the pants. And then when she pushed this child out at 40, now it's women. I've heard a woman having a child up to 53, but when she put this child out at 40, stuff finna start aching up. She finna start having little peas. Just like, you know, when a woman body go to change, you know, a woman can laugh hard and pee on herself a little bit. And so Jaylen, he young. He finna be out and she finna, and so stuff gonna change. And also, she gonna be old school. She gonna be wanna put some rum on the baby gums because she 40. The way you used to swallow a child at night and the way you feed a child and do all that, he finna be like, hold on, hold on. Jaylen finna be in there like, what you doing with castor oil? What is castor oil? And then he trying to get in touch with her, he got the right on AOL.com. Like, why you email, I was trying to forward this email about our trip to your AOL.com and it kept bouncing back. And so, because she finna be old compared to him. And I'ma tell you, he 22 years old, the words that they use, we don't use them words at 40. They finna be two different languages. It's finna be like a Spanish person talking to a French person. And at the end of the day, they just finna be because that age gap is too great. And at 40 years old, every woman know that that body start, that the woman body start to change at 30. 40 hormones is different. Now a woman could have a sexual prime, 40 to 50, maybe 50 to 60. But still, hormones is different. A 22 year old man not gonna really realize and understand the complexities of a woman body. 40 years old, the period might go to smelling different. That pee might go to smelling different. 22, he finna be, he used to the little young whippa snapper. He go in there after she done pee. Did you have some asparagus? Oh, you didn't have no asparagus? He on the phone with his momma. Oh, momma, I want to know, when you was 40, like did your urine start to smell just a little? I don't know the smell, but maybe I think they said sulfur, my teacher said. He on the phone with his momma and she like, listen, boy, I tried to tell you, I tried to tell you, I tried to tell you that that one was too old for you. That woman give me your baby room to go to sleep. That woman swaddling your baby in Jesus' cloth. She holding the baby upside down to make it burnt. He just finna be in over his head. And he not gonna understand, so now listen. Now, we ain't talking about literally, but it's gonna be a difference between being 22 and being 40. It's gonna be a different. And now, somebody's talking about not true, I smell better than ever. Nichelle, babe, you just told on yourself. You think it's all like those cause you could've kept that to yourself. The fact that you had to come in the comments to defend what you smell like when ain't nobody talking to you, ain't nobody talk about you, just let everybody know your pee stink. Cause it stepped on your toes. Come on now, you already know what Brahman said. And that's what Dreyal gonna be saying to Jalen, a hit dog holler. You could've just kept that little stink pee and been offended and been quiet. But when you come on here, arguing in the comments and ain't nobody talking to you, you telling on yourself. It's not worth it. Like OJ told y'all, when he say if it don't fit, you must acquit. If it don't apply, let it fly. Stay out the comments. Y'all need to learn a lesson in being quiet. So now you don't let the whole world know your pee stink. Now be quiet while I'm trying to teach. So this one I'm trying to tell you is these relationships is getting upended because a lot of these young men are looking for a cover up. They're looking for a cover up. Because a lot of these young men because they want to, because they want to have threesomes, see if a woman is going broke because you got to think about it, it's hard to make money. When you, it ain't start raining, that's my AC. It's only tundra or nothing. My AC blow real hard in here. It's hard to make money when you are in the public eye like Drell. And she got a swimsuit line that I've seen before. And the baby suits look good. But once you buy that baby suit and the strain's coming up, you going back to fashion over. You going back to fashion over and you're not going to be able to outdo fashion over. So fashion over, similar chat. So you going back to fashion over so guess what that income finna do is? And if you not on no TV show and you too famous to go work a regular job, nah, you got to live off of dinner dates that money start to get funny because I help coach reality stars. Who when the show is over, we broke. When we do reality TV, you get your check up front. By the time the show air and by the time the last episode hit, you don't spend that money. You bought now bought on somebody couch unless you got some support. And so people don't realize that though. People don't understand that. People don't realize that. So with drill, yeah, he could, yeah, Jalen could be a nice guy, but he got that bag on him and the boy good. Now the boy good. The boy ain't sorry now. Jalen ain't sorry by far. So if he keep his head on straight, Jalen gonna eat, Jalen gonna eat off basketball money for the next 15, 20 years. So she's great. She's great. And that's what that was about. Because it wasn't about a love connection because love also got to make sense. So what this is, it's kind of like, and this was a lot of people don't realize, would you let, think about this mama, if you a mama, you have a newborn baby and your baby come out cute. You got your cute little boy, newborn. Would you let your newborn baby date a 18 year old woman? Why not? She ain't gonna do nothing to kiss him in a mile. Why you ain't gonna let your newborn baby boy date a 18 year old woman? She just love how cute he is and she wanna be a mama to him. And the man her age just immature, she fed up. She just rather wait to your newborn that she finna date. Just get his wisdom and get his stuff going. See, we don't look at it like that. We look at it like it's different, but it's not because a 40 year old woman got 18 years a game that a 22 year old boy don't have. 18 years a game. Think about it now, every woman that is not a virgin that's on this video, think about this. Every woman that is not a virgin that is on this video, if you have been in a long term, really intense relationship where you were sexually active and you started to grow with that man, evolve with that man, explore with that man, sexually, you telling me you don't know a trick of the trade in conversation, in the bedroom, in cooking a meal that a 18 year old ain't never seen. If you 40, that a 22 year old ain't never seen. At 40 years old, you see what I'm saying? 22 years old, he was like, whoa, what was that you just did? Oh my, what, he got on the phone. Hey, yo, hey, Bill, I need to send a wire. Yeah, Bill, listen, do I work for you or you work for me, Bill? Okay, I need to send a wire. I wanna send $100,000 to this account. I'm gonna give you the account right now, Bill. When that 22 year old man at 21, cause what y'all have to realize is these boys who play these high level sports, cause I've worked with these young men since they was 15, 13, 14, 15, I worked with these young men. He could have been in one of my groups when he was in high school from me working with the top 100. But listen, these young men don't really have a lot of experience because they so busy with their sport. They with their sport, they spend more time with their teammates than they spend with their parents. They don't have a lot of experience. So when they get an older woman, that woman could rock their world. That woman rocked their world. That woman rocked what just happened. Oh my goodness, ma'am, you can have it all. What you need? Cause I'm telling you, I'll be like that with my wife. When my wife, when I have, and I'm a grown musky man, my wife will mess around and be done, love don't me. And I'll be like, baby, hey, go buy your Chanel bag. Yesterday, my wife took me out to eat. I was like, baby, transfer $3,000 to your account. Just for taking me out to eat. I didn't know how to eat. She ain't, we hadn't even done nothing. She took me out to eat. I say, baby, transfer $3,000 to your account. That's how we did. So I'm, so you think Drayla hung around Chris Brown and don't know no tricks and don't let her have to hung around Trace Hall. If she don't hung around Trace Hall than Chris Brown, man, Drayla, no tricks that got Jalen Green's head spinning. When I came that boy's head spinning, he got a little bit of that monkey. And he came on, Jalen got a little bit of that monkey. And when he's scratching on this armpit, swanging from tree limbs, I'm gonna tell you the truth. I already know, cause I already know how it go. I already know how this stuff work. So listen, I'm gonna tell you something. When you as a millionaire, think about this. Think about this. If Jalen had to pay $10,000 a month when they break up, if he gotta pay $10,000 a month for a year, that's $1.2 million. I mean, no, that $120,000, my bad, I'll think of $100,000. That's $120,000. After 10 years, this man has paid a million dollars and some change after he's paid $1.2 million. After 20 years, this man has paid $2.4 million in child support. Guess what? He made that in six months. So to get Swabba Lobba, to get Swabba Lobba, double-double-double-gibba gobble by Dre Michelle for $2.4 million, he feel like that's worth paying the price because that's what these guys will do. That's what they'll do because guys is doing this. Look at how much money Floyd may want to spend on these women. He'll have 13 women and buy all of them a Birkenbad. It's like Floyd could have built a whole other continent of Africa by now with how much money he would spend on Birkenbad. But hey, I got to go. God bless y'all. Y'all listen back to this hill. Understand these relationships and make sure that you're not being finesse. Make sure that you're not being finesse. Make sure that you're doing the right thing. Make sure that you is picking somebody for the right reasons and that you're not finessing or being finesse because that's what's happening. But God bless, we'll talk later. I'm going to move it tonight. So probably gonna be back on tonight. I want to fly to the Houston for that rodeo just to see that rodeo but I just feel like I don't know if people you race the side of it. Y'all got a rodeo, a cup of rodeo ticket sitting with a cup of rodeo ticket. God bless, we'll talk soon.