 What should a husband do if a wife doesn't want to forgive or work things out in a separation? Even if there hasn't been any adultery cheating or any physical abuse. There's nothing you can do You can't make your wife love you you can't make her come back to you If you pressure her she's gonna just feel that you're You're bothering her she didn't want anything to do that. So what do I do? What would I do? I've never had to do that. Thank you Lord But what would I do? I Think what I would probably end up doing is just keeping it in prayer and asking God to work in my heart You know and give me opportunity But it's really a matter of the spirit working on her heart Because you can't make you can't make a woman love you if she doesn't want to You can't say look how I've changed because she'll just think you're nagging her You can't do that that it's a really a helpless place It really is when you love someone and they don't seem to love you anymore when you want to reconcile and they don't want to reconcile with you There's nothing you can do you do the initial things you you you ask to get together You ask to talk you ask to the council and you go through all of those But once those things have been exhausted you have to leave it in the hands of the Lord There's nothing else you can do But I've discovered something about the Lord. I've discovered that he Can't touch people's hearts and he can do that through prayer, you know, there's a There's a scripture of the the king's heart is in the Lord's hands like the rivers of water He'd turn at that with or so ever he wills, you know God has a way of touching hearts and so I I take these things to the Lord in prayer and And and I want to be the best Christian man I can be so if the Lord should bring a reconciliation with my wife My life has been transformed by my time with them so that she's actually getting a different man a different man And but that's pretty much all that I could I could say item That's best I can say