 Your why is not an external search. It's an internal alignment. External things can help nudge you towards the awareness of your why, circumstances, events, suffering, pain, difficulty. All of that can help you wake up to your why, but all it's doing is waking you up to what you already had because you are born, every human is born with their why, with their life purpose inside them. But you have to get still long enough and frequent enough to hear it.