 Let's see here, I got a little volume, a little volume. Let's get my computer on, let's see here. On my desktop today, my regard, bless you. The chat is only open to the blessed tribe members. Y'all forgive me. I'm on here learning about commercial real estate with a little office spaces. And I was reading that email. And my office is near a little bar. So it's very interesting to me that people be at the bar drinking in the middle of the week. You know, like Wednesday nights and stuff. They're very interesting. But I guess, you know, hey, you got to wind down from work, I guess. Happy for the people having business, but I'm like, man, y'all never heard them on? What? I want to pop on here. I posted a video earlier today, where I told my, you know, men getting too nasty. And that's just from, you know, having these conversations and really, you know, hearing about these things. And this the thing, it takes to the tangle. It takes to the tangle. So we're going to need men and women to come together and get the mind right. Because a man can't sleep with itself. So that's what we're going to be talking about this Saturday in class on Saturday school. Just the state of relationships, you know, for singles and how you got to move in this day and age. But I was just very shocked and appalled today in the conversations that I was having about men going to other countries to pay for women, to be with women, and being served up, you know, these women. And it is just the lamest thing to me to do such a thing. Like, I just can't imagine being so cock-held. I don't even know if that's a word to where you're driven by lust to go around the country to sleep with random women who sell their body to tourists. To me, it's just like you paying for, you paying to lose your life eventually. You eventually going to lose your life. It's only going to go so far. You eventually going to lose your life. And because wonder women are going to be trying to escape. Somebody said it could be a bit of a little trafficking. No, this ain't that. This ain't that. What I got told today, this ain't the ones where they is drugged and all of that and, you know, scared and shaking. That's the industry. There are women who they go into. They've been taken advantage of from a young age. And they decide, in these other countries, a lot of it is just like a woman in America stripping. It ain't this ain't the one like on taking what Carly Russell was googling to where they taking them and they putting them in the room and they giving them all kind of drugs. And they came, you really see and know what they doing. Now these here, it's just the other kind. They ready, they ready Freddie. And it's an underworld and it's men in it and it's women in it. And it's willing participants in this out here today to where you got the trafficking and stuff going on. But it's a whole nother thing. It's a whole nother willing participant industry. It's just like the porn industry, just like the stripping industry. And what I really want to talk to is the men. Really want to talk to the men. And the thing about it is is I'm gonna be real enough to where it ain't about beating up on nobody. You know, for beating up on these men, but I really want guys who see this here live now or later and especially, you know, share it with your friends and family. I would say guys 16 and up is we got to do better. And you have to evaluate your mindset to really ask yourself how much control do you have over your life? If your life is dictated and determined by orgasm. How much control do you have over your life if your life is a constant hunt on the next time you can have a release? You have no control. And so at that point, you are an addict and you know different than someone who is strung out on alcohol or strung out on drugs. And you're still gonna have a untimely demise or a very unfortunate situation by being led by the head in your pants instead of the head on your shoulders. And it's very despicable when we think about it and we really come to the human side of things. We start to understand that even strip clubs are disgusting. That is very nasty to go into a strip club and to watch somebody daughter. You know, here goes somebody daughter up there on the pole and you know, clapping booty cheeks and we all know what come out of booty cheeks. So it's like the only woman that a man should wanna see clap her booty cheeks is his wife and even that went and that's when she fresh out the shower. I'm not finna be in here watching unicorn on her third, fourth dance of the night. And that thing that got moist, that thing that loosened up some of the PCs that was pressed in on that skin from her bowel movement earlier. And then me and sitting in the strip club eating chicken wings. People coming up, taking out, what can I get you tonight? You can get out my face, framing old food in here with these PC floating through the aisle. And me and this literally sitting in there indulging and enjoying this and thinking and feeling like y'all kings, feeling like you a king, feeling like you a dope boy, feeling like you missed the it in the strip club. That's nasty. And this the thing, as a man, you've got to change your mindset. And whatever you do with a woman, whatever you do with a woman, you have to ask yourself, would I sign my mom up for this? Would I sign my sister up for this? What I do with my wife, I wouldn't kill if my mama did that with her husband. If my sister did that with her husband. Meaning I want to talk to my wife in a way and be with my wife in a way that I would be okay if my sister or my mama husband talked to them in that way, treated them in that way, was like that in that way. Because I love them to no end. I will take a life for them. I will give my life for them. So any interaction that I'm gonna have with any woman, I want it to be an interaction that I would be okay with a man having that same interaction with my sister or my mama. Because what we cannot do as men is go around and pick and choose which women we feel deserve to be treated right and respected and which women we feel deserve to be treated like trash. Because every single woman is a child of God. And our God played a joke on me, Angel B. God bless you, by making my birthday on International Women's Day. I probably was my birthday before it was International Women's Day. But and then it's the work that I'm called to it. You know why it's work that I'm called to is because I was lost out there. I saw women as a piece of me. And I had to run into Jesus on the road to Damascus. And I had to be woke up. And now when I see how we moving as men I'm realizing this is why we unfit to lead. This is why our daughters can't look up to us. Our sons can't look up to us because of how we moving. We're in the strip club throwing money. When you take and you put that money that men throwing in the strip club on the stock market, every man will be a millionaire. Every man in their family will be a millionaire. If the money that's spent in the strip club, the money that's spent on porn, the money that's spent on escorts, the money that's spent by passport rolls could make everybody in their family a millionaire by investing in a Roth IRA for the next 30 years that they wasted that money. They could have been putting that money in an IRA and letting that compound interest build up. And then when it's time to retire, they sitting on an M or close to it. And some will be over it probably depending on how early they start. But yet here we are as men, we spending billions of dollars a year on the sex industry. And it's just absolutely ridiculous. Like, and then got the nerve to be mad with women for not wanting to cook or not wanting to clean and not wanting to submit and not wanting to do all this. But we taking and reinforcing debauchery. We taking and we reinforcing the strippers, the escorts, the porn stars and it's absolutely disgusting. And I'm gonna tell you, there is no secrets. There are no secrets. What you doing in the dark gonna come to light. It's a woman I probably slept with when I was 19, 20 years old probably still telling that story today because there ain't no secrets. I could have slept with the woman and never talked to her again. She might be telling her home girl, oh, I think I slept with him after the club one night. Yeah, he used to be nasty. There are no secrets. So when I'm trying to get guys to understand is that what the stuff you doing behind closed doors, your daughter gonna catch you. Your son gonna catch you. Your woman gonna catch you. So you might as well cut it out your life. You might as well cut it out your life because the strongest man in the world is a man who can control himself. So if we don't have self control, if we don't have discipline, then we have nothing. Like it does us no good to go out and pursue money and to be ambitious and wanna make money and to be able to get all this money and then end up losing it all. Prime example is Zion Williamson. So here goes Zion. God bless his heart. Young man, I feel bad for him just either wasn't giving the game or didn't listen to the game that he would gain. And I'm gonna tell you, the young guy that's under my voice, the young guy that I mentor that's in the NBA, they're not in the headlines because I'm giving them the real game all the way 100%. And I will make them feel stupid. I will make them feel stupid if that's what it's gonna take for them to change their life. And I tell them, I literally tell the guys, the pro athletes that I mentor and I've been doing, I've been mentoring pro athletes since 2010. I probably gonna mentor more pro athletes than any other individual over four or 500 pro athletes that I don't work with. And I'll tell them, I'll say, listen, bro, you're ugly. Unfortunately, the world says you're ugly. The woman that you are with does not like you. She wants you for your money. I hate to break it till you like that. I know that you think that you're cute because Jay-Z says no such thing as a ugly billionaire. You are not Jay-Z. You're not Jay-Z, you're not a billionaire. Let me ask you a question. This woman that you're sleeping with, could you get her in the eighth grade? The eighth grade version of her, the 10th grade version of her, the 12th grade version of her. Before you had this money, is this what your girlfriends look like? No, no, that ain't, no. Okay then, why did all of a sudden you think this woman who looked like a Victoria's Secret model, who looked like a supermodel, all of a sudden want you? That woman don't want you. And that's how real life be with these guys. And the thing about it is y'all fellas have to understand the spiritual side of things. So you can't go and sleep with a woman who give her body to any and every man and think that that's gonna be a safe space. Like guys are literally pillow talking with women in the sex industry. Just laying there, giving her all their secrets and just pillow talking and just laying up. Like when you look at a lot of the lives that's being lost in the inner city and even in the rap game or whatever, when we see men losing their life, it's always dealing with a woman. It's always dealing with a woman. Something that they done with a woman. They done went and slept with somebody woman, slept with somebody girlfriend, slept with somebody wife, slept with somebody baby mama, slept with somebody sister. They done got into it with her, done cussed her out or done put hands on her and then now he end up dead. And I'm here to tell you man, it's just not worth it. We have to start thinking with our head that is on our shoulders and not the head that is in our pants. And we have to understand what is real life. What really matters in the grand scheme of things. You need your woman that you can love, that you can respect, that you could treat like a queen and that you can build with. All this trying to pick a model and trying to pick these triples and need escorts and need porn stars. And this is the thing. This everyday men too, it ain't just a million hours but everyday man could have a little bag to his name. He might have 10 grand. If he DM his favorite star off the nasty movie, he could say, hey, would you be open to a night with me? How much would you charge for a night with me? That woman might say $1,000 cause she might be getting pennies on the dollar doing the movie, the nasty movie she doing. She might say $1,000. She might say $5,000. I don't coach escorts who don't charge the pro athletes and these celebrities $50,000 for a weekend. These women is going and selling their body right here in America. But guess what? A lot of the average everyday men can't afford $1,000 per hour or $1,000 a night or $2,000 a night. I don't coach the woman who was in that industry and she says she charged $1,000 an hour and $2,000 an hour if you wanna do it unprotected. Now, you already know if she finna do something unprotected for some more money, eventually she finna sell you AIDS. Eventually she finna sell you general awards. Eventually she finna sell you something that the dog ain't gonna be able to take care of. And if you ain't got magic, Johnson money, then you're not finna make it like magic. And to be honest with you magic was so early with that diagnosis, it could have been a misdiagnosis and they just ain't never wanna come out and say it cause even came to spoke first by HIV and how you could overcome it. Now magic, magic put that weight on, magic look like he ain't never seen HIV. But that ain't gonna be your grace, you're not magic, Johnson. That's not gonna be your grace. You're gonna be burnt up, you're gonna be shriveled up and you're gonna be all in medicine, you're gonna have diarrhea, you ain't gonna be able to hug your kids just cause you don't really know how this thing spread that you got. This syphilis, this tuberculosis, it just, we just so nasty as men and it even come down to, and this one I'm gonna tell y'all mothers, if you have a son, I'm gonna tell you, do like my wife, my wife get on my nerves with this. Like my sons, it don't matter what they day has been they got to take a shower. But you know how many boys don't take a shower every night? You know how many boys don't brush their teeth in the morning and at night because they're not being overseen. They mama not watching them, they daddy not watching them. You know how many boys is walking around, they toes spank, they nails dirty, just they dirty because men is just naturally dirty. We naturally dirty, a man has to be taught hygiene. And so because it's also stemming from childhood where men is so dirty, think about it, if you got a little boy, if you didn't ever raise the boy, you know that boy ain't do not like showers. Yeah, it might be one boy that like showers that the world has seen. I ain't seen it. Even as a little boy, I ain't wanna brush my teeth, I ain't wanna take no shower. We used to run the water in the tub, stand outside of the tub after playing all day long, stand outside of the tub, stick our hand in the tub and splash the water. Air a few seconds, air a few seconds, we splashed the water and we outside the water like something gonna happen to us if we get in that water. And then my girl cousin got caught one day by my grandma, grandma ain't had no legs, my grandma rolled in there on her wheelchair, she had electric wheelchair, came in there, seen my cousin in there splashing that water with her hand. I think I probably snitched on her cause I used to like to see people get weapons as the stuff I'd been and just did. And man, my grandma wore her behind her. And this was a girl. My girl cousin, they didn't like taking baths. So a lot of time, this going is, this how you could help prevent this too. By teaching, we have to teach our sons to respect their body, to love themselves, to value themselves. We ain't got to have them not, don't don't not, you ain't gotta have your son painted nails and all of that like these boys out here doing today. And I'm gonna tell you the reason why you see these pro athletes and these rich men. And then if I see a broke man with his nails painted that say he heterosexual, I might backhand him. I might slap fight from him. But at least have you some money if you're gonna paint your nails now. Come on now, bro. Come on now, come on, come on now. But I'm gonna tell you why these guys is painting their nails because they feel frisky. They are feeling frisky. They feeling promiscuous and it's coming from pornography. A lot of people don't understand that people think that the reason for divorce is finances. That's what they put on the paper. If you ever been married, ain't nobody getting a divorce over money. That is what they put on the paper. Anybody who'd have been married ain't nobody ever got divorce over money. Money might be a byproduct. It might be what you go to Oregon over because the man is watching porn all the time and now there's no chemistry in the relationship because they not intimate, they not sleeping together. There's no thing. And then you start fussing in Oregon over money. So when you go to the divorce and you know these records finna be public and people gonna read some of these transcripts from the court and stuff like that, you gonna say it's irreconcilable differences. It started off money. That's the way the finance coaches make their money by telling you most of the divorce is coming off money. I work in relationships every day. The reel behind the scenes and out of the thousands of people I work with ain't nobody ever told me they breaking up over money. That ain't what it is. Nine out of 10 on our problem today with men is stemming from pornography. It's stemming with pornography. And I'm telling you that because it's a perversion. It is a perversion and it is warping the minds. It is still in the minds and it is warping society. And the crazy thing about it is, and let me help y'all understand, the reason why pornography is legal and the reason why strip clubs are legal is solely for control. Because if you could be addicted, you can be controlled. If you don't have discipline, you will be controlled. You have to have discipline and self-control. You have to have self-love. See, it's just like this right here. If I go somewhere to do some work in the industry, they can't control me. Can't nobody tell me what to do. A lot of times I sit and our companies come to me. It's so many companies that come to me and they pitching their company to me, they pitching their brand to me. And a lot of companies that I've talked to have raised millions of dollars. But they have so many holes in their company to the point that I'm like, why can't, how did they raise millions of dollars with all of these deficiencies, with all of these unmet needs, with all of this stuff that does not make any sense? You know why? It's a porn brain. Because the men who invest in, they're so accustomed to giving into lust and feeding lust that they become greedy in every area of their life and they wanna strike gold. So when you don't have self-control and all you wanna do is strike gold with a woman that you can sleep with or money that you can make, you're going to make bad decisions. You're gonna make irrational decisions over and over again. And this is the thing, is this is what we're seeing. And we need responsibility between men and women. Because one of the things I'm gonna tell y'all too, for the women who see this, y'all have to stop getting on your back. You have to keep your legs closed. One of my videos that went viral a long time ago was close your legs. Close your legs, because the woman is the receiver. So it don't matter how hard a man dangling is, if a woman do not get on her back, he got to take his bat and ball and go home. But when a man got something to insert himself into, then it reinforces his weakness, his ignorance, his zeal for lust, it reinforces. And so we have to hold each other accountable. So if you see this man has been turned over to a reprobate mind, you see that he is lost, broken, confused, hurting, trauma-ridden, don't become his hospital with your legs open. If you wanna deal with the man, then talk to him and make him communicate and have a conversation and express himself. And y'all stay off your back to every stripper. Send this to every stripper, every porn star, and every escort. Y'all need to go and take a lash class. Learn how to sell weave, learn how to install extensions, learn how to do blue ends, sew ends. You could do the man units. Men is putting them units on their head. Learn how to do microblading, learn, get you a chemist. And for $2,000, you could formulate any kind of formula you want, make a hair growth oil. It is too many ways to make money for y'all to be stripping and to be selling your body. When you got women who have jumped off the porch with a product and are made millions of dollars, there is no reason that a stripper should be employed, that a porn star should be employed, that a escort should be employed. Y'all do not have to be selling your body to the sorry, dirty, dangling, nasty, degenerate men. This should not even be an industry. We should not even have to protect our kids from this. And guess what? Our children is watching this stuff. It's on their phone because the stuff is free. The stuff free. I remember a lady came to me for coaching and I go down the list with my clients and I feel like they demographic. So I know how to talk to them and what they're doing. So I asked them their location, their relationship status, their parental status, their occupation, their age, and their race and nationality. I asked them all that information because the way that I will talk to and work with a 50-year-old is different than a 25-year-old. Somebody from Florida is different than somebody from New York. Somebody with four kids is in a different place of life than somebody with no kid. So I get all that demographical information at the beginning of the call. Coaching this lady one time, she say she's a porn star. I say, okay. And she say my name such and such. I Googled her name and her videos of sucking and swallowing was right there on the Google video for free. I didn't have to go to a website. I didn't have to put no nothing in. I was absolutely floored that this was right there automatically playing on Google. Just automatically playing right there in the video thing. I'm like, oh my goodness. And that was one of the craziest experiences that I had as a life coach because I'm like, wow. And this was an introductory session. So this one ain't no paid session. And I don't think she ever did a paid session. But in that session, she told me this. And this one I'm gonna tell y'all, this what the lady told me. Let's see how I talk about this cause this one no paid session and we had no NDA or nothing. I ain't saying her name or nothing like that anyway. But I'm gonna give you this here information. You know what that lady said to me? She said, Tony, every woman in my industry would love to sleep with you because of what you represent, who you are. They would love to sleep with you. But the reason why none of us try you is because we don't wanna break up a happy home. I told her y'all wouldn't succeed if you did try. Cause one of her coworkers, somebody in her company in her downline, cause they was all escorts, she DMed me and I DMed her because I had this thing on Twitter to where everybody who retweeted me twice, I DMed them. This was when I was building my Twitter brand. It probably was 2010, 2011, 2012. I DMed them and say thanks for the support. And I just copy and paste. Everybody who I see twice when I'm going through my retweets and I might have 800 retweets on one quote. This high marketing network, internet marketing. That's another little side lesson. I DMed them, thank you for the support. Thank you for the support. Thank you for the support. One time this lady wrote back. She said, I would love to support you in other ways. And I wrote her back. I said, no thank you, retweets are plenty. And then I clicked on her profile and seen all these scantily clad pictures. And then I seen her with this other young lady who also reached out to me and gave me a list of all these celebrities she had slept with. And then I realized from this other young lady who reached out to me that they all worked together as escorts and porn stars. And so the thing about it is, is they got so used to seeing the nastiness and the filth of men that they came to me to see if I was just like every other man. And then when these three women and it was one other, when these four women realized that I wasn't like every other man and then there was two real big striples outside of that. So that made six and I could be forgetting a few. When all these women realized I didn't shoot my shot at them. That's when it restored a faith in men to say, wow, not every man is a dog. Not every man is that horny. Not every man has no integrity. But the names on the list, the list of the men that these women gave me that they had been paid by, I was absolutely floored. I was absolutely floored because a lot of these men are married. A lot of these men are mega celebrities that are married and that are promoting their wife and that when they post pictures, you see couples goals, couples goals, couples goals, couples goals. And here it is these women got them on their body count, got them on their paid clientele list. And so this what I know for a fight. Now, and here's the thing. I see back then it was a little more, the game was different to where one of the ladies told me, she said, Tony, we paid to shut up. So she say, I'll never out one of my clients publicly. She said, I'm just telling you because you're a life coach and I know you not gonna say their names publicly. And so I never say their names anyway cause I don't wanna ruin their marriage. I don't wanna ruin their brand. I don't wanna ruin their life. And some of them could have been lied on but these women they had no incentive to lie. You know, incentive to lie cause I'm not a blogger. I'm not somebody that's finna go say nothing and I'm not finna pay them hush money for these men. But they was coming and they was pouring this out because they want this, they say they want to change their life. One of them became a minister. Another one became real estate. And so here I'm looking around and I'm seeing all these men who promote in their wife and doing all this stuff. But yet they pay any prostitutes which they would call themselves escorts. $1,000 an hour, $2,000 for unprotected. Now that is the stupidest thing in the world but it's really just men who are so given to lust that they paying this money. Y'all gonna give my hurry in job and make sure they ain't sound like my engine. That they paying this money for these experiences. And see what you have to realize is just like, I don't know if it's true or not. I don't know if Drake, child's mother was a porn star. I'm not sure. But I know that he deal with a lot of strippers. And the reason why these guys deal with strippers is because in real life, they were seen as lambs in real life. And even with these athletes, what you got to realize is that these athletes, majority of the athletes, pro athletes and rappers and people in the industry, you have to understand to become a pro at something, you have to give it a lot of time and a lot of dedication, a lot of hours. When somebody is dedicating time and hours and all of this stuff to something, they become antisocial. They become separated from society. So they are at the computer, they in a room. And so a lot of this about, oh God bodies and all this right here be lies. A lot of this tough guy stuff, they get that after they get money. But who they are as a person, it's like when you really was out there, when you really lived it, when you really done seen and done things, you really don't feel the need to go and express yourself in no crazy weird way, like painting your nails and doing all that nonsense. And these guys is getting so many tattoos. And I know a lot of guys with a lot of tattoos. I don't understand it. I don't understand it because it's short sighted because you're gonna be 80 years old. And it's just not gonna be a good look for your granddaughter to come up to you. And when you 60, 70, 80 years old and you got all these tattoos and she wondering why you look like an oil spill. And she's like, what is all that black stuff on your skin, papa? And then you got to say, oh, these are called tattoos. Well, why do you have that? Can I get tattoos? And you're like, no, you don't need that princess. Well, why do you have it, papa? And it's like, we're not thinking. We're not thinking. And it's just, and it's solely to look cool. And that's really why I can't have friends. That's really why I can't be in no end crowd. That's really why I can't be in no industry. Cause I got to tell the truth. I got to tell the truth and I got to call out the idiocracy. And I remember asking the pro athlete, I sent him a picture of himself. I sent him a picture of three other guys. I say, why do all of y'all come into the league looking like church boys? And then a couple of years into the league, y'all look like ex-cons with all of these tattoos. And a lot of times a different hairstyle, like now you got locks or twist and you got the nappy frode, the nappy beard, all the tattoos, what is the point of this? We're in a society today to where men are lost. Men are lost today. And we got to confront it and we got to hold each other accountable. And I'm gonna tell y'all, you know, and for the latest a lot of time, when y'all see for the women who watch this, when you see men talking to men, y'all be quiet, stay out of the comments and let that conversation happen. Because what happened is when women jump in, get them Tony, yeah, get them Tony. Now it looked like I'm a simp and panning the women and saying what women want me to say instead of just being between man and man. And a lot of times when men see women, jump on their back and go to doing all this right here, that make the men worse because they want to do the stupid stuff out of spite for women because they don't want to be told what to do. But the only person really who could check a man is a man. Now who could help a man change? He gonna go to a woman. Nine out of 10 times, it's gonna be a woman's influence but it ain't gonna be no woman from off the internet. It ain't gonna be what he read in the comments. It's gonna be a woman in his life that's gonna keep it real with him and tell him the truth. But today we saw loss and then women are reinforcing how lost men are. And then women are also starting to reinforce the ignorance of women. So now women praising women who's showing off their body who is butt naked in public, basically see-through clothes instead of saying, hey, that ain't necessary to be showing all your private parts. So it's like if you could go to the gala, if you could go to the dinner, if you could go to the concert and you show all your private parts, then that also desensitizes us from stripping to stripping and pornography because regular outfits today is showing all the private parts. So now then why not just have that same outfit on? I remember coaching a stripper and she was like, Tony, I don't take my clothes off. I don't even get naked. She said, what I do is sensual and it's exotic. And she's told me she made $8,000 a night and she was one of the top strippers in the country. And she said, she ain't even have to take her clothes off. And so that means the outfit that she got on on the stage is the same bathing suit that women wearing to the beach. That's the same undergarment that women got under that fishnet cover-up that's at the usher concert. And so now we so desensitized because we don't understand the difference between private and public. What's a private part and what is a public part? So we showing all our privates and we doing all this stuff. And then now we desensitize it. Then we wanna look stupid when our child is 16 years old, 13 years old and addicted to pornography. When we didn't set the tempo, we didn't set the pace. We didn't normalize the stuff. Like I'm literally walking around town and I'm seeing young ladies that is like 12 years old, 13, 14 years old with the bottom of a booty cheek hanging out. And a lot of these young ladies is walking with their dad, they with their dad. Now the ones I've seen like that is Caucasian. I haven't seen a African American or Asian with their dad. I've seen some Hispanics. We traditionally know Hispanic women to be very sexual and how they present themselves tight, everything. And I remember talking to my wife and she was telling me about her friend that's from Venezuela. And was saying that it's normal to have a thong bathing suit in Venezuela. Like over where they from is normal to have thong bathing suit. So it's some cultures that's very sexual and like it's normal to be nude on the beach in some places. And that's just another version of Sodom and Gomorrah that don't make it right. But we out here, we're doing so much and then we're not even raising our children right. And we're not having these conversations because we think that if we talk about pornography, we talk about shriples. We talk about escorts to our children that we introduce them to something. You're introducing your child to nothing. Your child know more than you know. Your child know about more than you know. You ain't introducing your child to nothing. And you know why when you talk to your child about this they start to say, no, stop, stop, my stomach is hurting. You know why they say that? Because you confronting that spirit and it's uncomfortable and it get painful when you confront that spirit. And because you calling them out, you taking that veil off their face. And they like, whoa, how the world you know I got access to this little pornography? Who to put you on game? I'm thinking on, I'm thinking on. My son tried me like that one time. Tom out, you ain't never had cold water in the middle of the night. I said, what you doing getting up in the middle of the night? Uh huh, yeah, yeah. Little how that conversation mobile. I talked to my son about sex and everything at nine years old, at nine years old. You know why? Cause I'm from the old school and that's when I got started nine years old. Nine years old, I was under the bed hunting, doing everything. Nine years old, really was doing it from five years old. So I'm like, if he got technology I ain't have no cell phone when I was nine and I was out there. We just had magazines and then later had VHS that we could get a whole lot. So I'm like, if I was doing that back then that we round here hunting, what do you get doing the day when they got tablets and cell phones from six years old? They know about all this stuff. They know about all this stuff. And then this the thing, this is why these men is walking with their daughters with their daughter booty hanging out. And see, this what I do. See, I studied people. I studied people and this how when my clients come to me and they show me the picture of their boyfriend or their girlfriend or their husband or their wife, I could read that person. And I tell them everything about that person. And every single time they say, Tony, how in the world did you know that based off of a picture? So a guy just told me that not long ago, he said, man bro, you got some game for real. Cause you just described my woman to AT and I just showed you a head shot. I studied people. So the reason why we got these young ladies walking around with their booties hanging out is because their dad is addicted to pornography. So because he addicted to pornography, he's so desensitized. See, my wife, she get, she get uncomfortable with me. When I say something to her like, hey baby, I ain't cool with them shorts. Them shorts, them shorts too tight. Them shorts too short. She wanna get that, she'll go to get that modern woman attitude. And I'm like, see, do what you got to understand about me. I don't watch pornography. So I don't see a woman like that. The men who letting a woman go out the house, looking like they just got off the pole without saying something about how the male mind work and how men gonna be looking at them and how one day a man go walk up and try them. And so now I'm like, listen, you put me in harm's way. Because if a man feel like he got the right to just walk up and grab your booty because of your outfit, he reading this cue as, oh, you want attention. Oh, you want something to be seen. My hood don't be that bad. It don't be half as bad as what be out there. But me, I'm conservative. So I'm gonna speak on it. And you could call me controlling, call me whatever you, I got sense. And I work in the real world and I see what's happening. And so because I don't watch pornography, I don't objectify a woman. So I don't want my woman walking out the house looking like no object. So I speak up and say, listen, I don't think that's appropriate. Then guess what? She gonna put on some jeans shorts. They still be short. Still can see thigh. They still a little sexy to me, but it's better than them Lululemon short leggings that is way too tight. And you can see every vein and every salelite and everything, the blood coursing through your veins is way better than that. Like I'm a woman, no, you even know I know how with no camo toe. If you really need to have an oversized t-shirt because this just, you just invite unnecessary men to come up and say whatever, do whatever. And now you might take and turn this man down. And now how are we seeing this right here? We're seeing men take women life because he wanna walk up and approach her. And then she say, no, I'm straight, I'm taking. And then he hit upside the head or he knock out or he take her life because his feelings hurt because he did it in front of his boys and he got embarrassed. So it's like we also have to use wisdom and not just feel like, oh, everything is about my personal, my agency of my life. Let me do what I wanna do. All this, all this, my body, my choice, I wear what I wanna wear, look how I wanna look and you don't get the right to say nothing to me but touch me cause I got this on. Listen, you have to use discernment. You gotta assess risk. So I could say, hey, this my car. I could go where I wanna go. But if I pull up on zone six or if I'm on 63rd or 64th and I know this is a hot crime area, then I'm inviting the wrong type of attention. Just the show and the flex my agency and that's what's happening today is women is becoming way too sexual, way over sexualized and the reason why is because now women are going to the strip club and women are also watching pornography and that's coming from their man and they man got them into the strip club. They man got them into pornography. So now men is brainwashing women and it just like the man who they say is on the sex trafficking, who they trying to get for the sex trafficking Andrew Tate, like they said by OJ, he did it. He did it because here go the thing. He didn't say it out his own mouth. They had a wealth count business with these women who is on the wealth count. All they did was metastasize and grow it into something bigger. And now they trying to say he doing sex trafficking and he trying to say that they just after him they just want him. They trying to shut him up. Listen, my voice just as powerful. I'm shit. I'm giving more game than he even thought about giving. They ain't pinning me with no sex trafficking case because that's not how that work. You get exposed for what you're doing. You get exposed because you're guilty. And we got too much technology. We got too much forensic science and now they trying to show test methods that these women set them up. That the women never said that they wasn't being sex trafficking. The women never said that they weren't doing it. They just said listen, we fed up, we finna tell. They say we finna tell and not tell them that we told. We finna tell and act like we ain't tell. They ain't say that the people innocent and that they ain't doing nothing. But see all of this right here is coming from that, all that energy. And whether it's true or false is all coming from that over sexualized industry to where men is, and then they showed the boy. They showed the man Andrew Tate. He had a, it's a real, a real long Instagram where he said, when he was in high school or something, he talked to a guy who had a Lamborghini. And the guy told him how he got a Lamborghini. When that real, on that real, they showed that man Andrew Tate, that man had little fuzzy hair like Trey Young on the Atlanta Hawks guy. He had glasses and he was this big. I say, see there? That's what I'll be trying to tell y'all. These men was bully. These men was lame, was seen as lame. I don't like the word lame, I ain't calling them lame, but this is how they was treated. The same thing with these athletes, the same thing with these rappers. When you really study most of these athletes, most of these rappers, most of the culture influences, they are lame. And I don't mean that in no derogatory way. What I mean is they had a tail tucked between a leg and they were scary and they were walking around scared. And then from being in the lab, from consistency and dedication, they became great at what they do. And then they got money and then they got false confidence and then they create the image that they saw the men in their neighborhood and at their school had naturally. But being cool naturally does not produce money and success. You got to be a little anti-social and a little different to really make money and have success. The real cool guys and the real cool girls from high school majority of 90% of the time they fall off. And it's the people who was anti-social or called nerds or called squares or called lame. That's who become the stars, the celebrities, the millionaires, nine out of 10 times. Even Michael B. Jordan that was voted sexist man alive. That lady from the radio went on the radio and said she went to high school with him and said that he used to walk around with a head shot and basically was calling him corny. So when she went to interview Michael B. Jordan, he said, I know who you are. I was corny, huh? I was the corny one, huh? She was like, I didn't say that, I didn't say that. But look at Michael B. Jordan now. Then later called him man corny and tried to take it back when she was in front of him. But when you look at it, when you look at somebody like a, when we look at like a red rose, you take that beard off red rose, what red rose gonna look like? You take Drake beard off, what he gonna look like? You look at Drake from the grassy. So now guys look up to Drake and worship him like he the king of getting women. But when really what he was before he became a rapper, that was always like, that was like, that image, that look was like the bestie. That was the best friend who carried the girl books and carried the girl on teddy bell at the fair. Drake old look, but now he's certified lover boy. No, no, no, no. But see that's why he and guys like him sleep with porn stars and sleep with strippers because they see these women as objects. So they go to these women to learn how to have sex. They go to these women to learn they way around a woman body and they feel like this is a safe space cause this woman is paid to shut up. She is paid so she have to be, she gotta keep this confidential. So if the man got a little thing or if the man don't know how to use his thing, they go to these sex industry women because they paying them for confidentiality. And what they don't realize is nothing is confidential. So it's gonna be told. And this is, this is what's leading society. And so these guys, they showing that it is okay to sleep with strippers. It is okay. You got the guy, Adam 22 who married a porn star. And then when the man put that meat leg on him, the man go and do an interview I think, the black man do an interview. And I read that the man said that he was doing it better with her than the lady husband. So now the guy Adam 22 come out and make a video like he mad. I don't know if it's a publicity stunt though. Look kind of like it could be a publicity stunt to get more people to go watch they take. And I'm gonna tell you, that's nasty. That's absolutely nasty. It is absolutely disgusting. I'm like, what in the world? I'm like, what in the world? I'm like, what in the world? I'm gonna tell you the truth. Me personally, me personally, I'm a coach strippers. I'm a coach porn stars. I'm a coach escorts. Now someone came to me and said they want to change their life. I don't know who all to change their life. Someone could have came just to see if I was gonna shoot a shot. Just to see if I was gonna try to hit on, try to make a move. Someone probably came for that. Now they all seen that ain't shoot no shot ain't make no move on. So then they see, oh, a man can grow, a man can change. But listen thing, when I was out there in the world I ain't never sleep with no stripper. I ain't never sleep with no porn star. I ain't never sleep with no escort. The reason being is because I'm not feeling willingly go lay down with a woman who I know could have given her body to hundreds or thousands of men. That's like me just going to sign up for STD. I might as well go jump off the Golden Gate Bridge. I might as well just sit down every night and play Russian roulette with my gun. Like if I'm gonna go do that, then the dumbest thing in the world. And then the thing about it is, men not thinking that there's such thing as the straw that broke the camel's back. So these women that's in this industry, they don't wanna be in the industry. That ain't what they dreamt of as no little girl. That ain't what they mama wanted them to be. That ain't what they daddy wanted them to be. That ain't what they grandma wanted them to be. So they come to a day to where they're gonna take and they're gonna say to themselves, they're gonna say, you know what, I'm broken, I'm weak, I'm lost, I'm hurting. And these men is taking advantage of my trauma. These men are taking advantage of me hurting. And the next man that tried me, the next man that become my client, I'm finna latch on to him. And if he don't take care of me, I'm gonna destroy him. Because this ain't fair that these men, this is what Eve women saying now, this ain't fair that these men get to go out here and gallivant like they God's gift to earth and God's gift to women. And then I got to sit over here crying myself to sleep because I'm selling my body and I'm being used and abused and taken advantage of while they're with these women saying. So they looking at these men who is out here, they out there getting praise for being the world's greatest husband. And they posting their wife and they showcasing their wife and people in the comments, couples goals, couples goals, couples goals. And people don't even know that these men is paying strippers. I mean, paying escorts, paying for sex when they on the road, flying these women in, having these women sign non-disclosure agreements. And then paying these women is money. And these women is going to telling these names to their therapists, telling these names to their life coaches, telling these names to their mama, to their best friend. And then everybody around these women got to task themselves to be quiet because they don't want to get their daughter life taken. They don't want something to happen to her. So that all of us not, we got to be quiet. And then these women get to see these men go get endorsement deals, go make all this money and then get them pennies on the dollar for them to get on their knees or open their legs or do whatever. And the strong gonna break the camel back. They come to a place to where they say, I'm fed up. I'm tired of being used. And that's what the young lady is doing to Zion Williamson. She say she is fed up. She tired of being used. She tired of being lied to. She tired of being this, this, that, and that too. And he didn't gave her some promises. She tired of broken promises because it's been too many men that have been inside of her and they made a promise while they inside of her and then got up and didn't keep their promise. And she say, you the last Negro that's been to make a promise to me and not keep that promise. And I'm finna cost you everything. And the thing about it is what people don't realize about brands is that anything, any allegation that's made about you the world have to believe 50% of it. It could be 100% false. The world have to believe 50% of it. The world is going to believe 50% of it. So now because of this young lady coming out and saying this stuff about Zion Williamson it could all be fake. It could all be a lie. But guess what? The company can't bet that it's a lie. So this here, this here candle company, Santana, what is this? Lilabo, they was finna go to Zion. And I'm making this up now. They were finna go to Zion and give him $10 million and give him his own fragrance so that all the New Orleans fans could get that his fragrance of that candle off the table. Did he a microphone company? Sure. They were finna go, hey, y'all send me a check now. They were finna go to Zion and give him $10 million to start a podcast using their mic off the table. Did he a tripod company? Did he a car company? All this stuff, it is hundreds of millions of dollars that that young man to loss for being following his little head. Because even if all of it is fake, that woman shouldn't even have that man number. She shouldn't have ever been in his vicinity. And this one I'm trying to tell y'all boys because this is happening on an everyday level. This is happening on an everyday level. It ain't just a multi-millionaire level. This is happening on an everyday level where men is following they little head like Toucan Sam follow his nose and they getting on Snapchat and they getting on these social medias and they is paying these transvestites cause I'm a coach women who they didn't found they men, they man paying transvestites for dangling pictures. And these men is pro athletes. These men is celebrities. These men is perceived macho men, bravado, machismo. These is men who are seen as alphas and they paying for dangling pictures. They paying $100 for a transvestite dangling picture. They paying $200 to see the transvestite jacket off. They paying $300 to see the transvestite stick it in another man behind. And this is the state of men. And this is your principal. This is your police officer. This is your pastor. This is some of y'all husband, some of y'all son, some of y'all brother. This is the debauchery that's going on. And if you was a man watching this and you into this foolishness, you was nasty and you need to be shame on yourself. And I'm sending you a warning right now just like I sent the man who passed away. Kevin Samuels, I sent him a warning. I sent him a clear and direct warning. And I said, listen to me. Do, I said, stop doing what you doing because you are aligning yourself against God when you are ridiculing women for saving themselves until marriage. You are shaming these women into sin. So you are telling these women to choose your word over the word of God. So you are now becoming in direct opposition to God when you are teaching the things that are contrary to the Holy Bible. And that is not something you want to play with. The people on my channel who watch my channel saw that video and heard me send that warning. And I'm sending a warning to every man right now who is watching pornography, who is going to the strip club, who is paying for nasty pictures, who is paying for nasty videos, you are going to get exposed. Do you know what? I had to even check myself. I had to check myself from even being tempted to look at booty on Instagram because these women will have on these tight leggings and be doing squats. And I have on the little short leggings and want to get on the machine that do this in the gym and want to show all kind of booty. And that is enticing. But you know what I realized? You know what I thought about? And so what I started doing is I started going to them. It's something like that came up on my popular page because your popular page is curated by what the people you follow is looking at and engaging with. And then whatever from that popular page that you engage with, it'll continue to be populated. You'll continue to see that type of content, whatever you engage with. But the initial curation is just what's popular online. And a lot of times that's also determined by who you follow. So what I started doing is if I see a woman who is showing all kind of booty in these leggings and doing these workouts, I started clicking on it and started hitting the three dots at the top. And if all the options pop up and then I click see fewer posts like these. And every little nasty woman posts, I click see fewer posts like these. You know what I realized? Because when I watched the social dilemma on Netflix, the movie that's called a social dilemma. When I watched that, I realized that the staff that's at Instagram, that's at YouTube, that they could go to my account and they could see all my account history. So if they see me on here doing a live and I'm condemning men for being nasty and if they go look at my history and I'm looking at booty flexing, women flexing, they booty, they'll be like, Hey, Bill, come here, come here, Billy. Hey, man, come here. Hey, hey, hey, Lizzy, come over here, come over here, Lizzy. Hey, look at here, let me take you in here. You know, it was like Tony Gatcher that we have to monitor his lies because it's crazy stuff he'd be saying and we don't know if he's gonna start a revolution and try to overturn the government one day. So you know how we gotta sit here and watch this? Look at his history. So I had to start thinking about it and I had to start saying, hey, hold on now. I might be looking at this woman picture and I might say in my head, oh, this research purposes, this giving me the topic to see what's going on. I could justify how I wanna justify but then the Lord started to convict my spirit and say, listen, we don't want one soul lost. We don't want one soul deterred. So if you carrying my message, I want you to realize that what you think can't be seen can be seen. I want you to realize that the person at the phone company can read your text messages if they need to. Just how, what's the lady name? Russell. Carly Russell. Just how they went. And just like that, you think you on Google and Incarnita, you didn't know Incarnita? You didn't Incarnita? Everything you searching, they could go and see what you search. Every text message you send, they could see that text message you send. Everything you send. You hit me, so ain't nothing hit it. So you a principal, you a pastor, you a police officer, you think what you doing on your phone is secret? Nope, they watching it right there with you. The staff up there watching it because listen, you remember when Megan Good, Gabrielle Union and somebody else knew pictures was released. And I watched Megan Good on my brother and me. So I ain't Google Gabrielle Union, but I ain't gonna tell you no lie. Now I Google it and Megan Good. I'm gonna research a little bit and see what's going on. I was research and the pizza came up on Google, a hot, holding old bread side and old DaVon Franklin over there, looking in the camera teasing. So I say, here you have a husband and wife having an intimate moment. He say, show me a little something cause I'm on a good roll. She show him her breasts. He screenshot it, he got a cloud on, it go to the cloud. The employees or somebody hacked the man cloud, released the picture. Ain't nothing secret. And this one even know, this one even know funny business, this husband and wife, this husband and wife. From that point right there, I stopped asking my wife to send me anything. I heard Ayesha Curse as she's saying, still curing news all the time. Well, guess what? One day we gon' see dude. What they gon' be alive? I ain't gon' search it now, I ain't gon' search it. That right now, look that up cause I'm like a pastor. Why ain't no, so listen, ain't nothing hidden. So this why I'm sending this warning to y'all men is that you're going to get exposed. You keep messing around, you're going to get exposed and this expose could be one of these women that you cheating on your wife with, your girlfriend with, gonna come out. She ain't got to be no stripper, she ain't got to be no porn star. She just gon' have enough. She gon' be fed up of your lives and she gon' come out on you. And she gon' talk about you. And see the reason why I can talk like how I'm talking cause I'm not pulling no Derek Jackson out. It ain't a woman in the world. And I need to say man or dog because the way these men moving today, they say, oh, it ain't a woman in the world but it's a man that can say you're cheating on your wife or it's a dog that can say you're cheating on your wife. So listen, there ain't no man, ain't no woman, ain't no dog that can say Tony Gaston is cheating on his wife and I'm in a relationship with him. You know why? I'm not finna play with God. I ain't finna play with God. I'm not finna be on here running my mouth and doing all that talking and then got all these skeletons in that closet. Absolutely not. And I'ma tell you something. If my wife got a headache and she ain't feeling good and I'm about to have a blue, I'ma tell you the, I'ma tell you the truth. If I got to squeeze me one out, I literally picture my wife. Now you ain't gon' believe that. You ain't gon' believe it. I literally picture my wife or I have me one picture and I say, well, hey, I ain't cheating. This my wife. I ain't lusting out to nobody but my wife and this gon' keep me from cheating. They're gon' keep me in line. Now they ain't had no cell phone in the Bible. They ain't had no picture phone in the Bible. So Lord, if I'm wrong, that once air nine, air blue moon, well, I'm on the road and I got to squeeze me one out now and I'm thinkin' about my wife. Lord, if I'm wrong, just take it up with me. Convict my spirit and I walk so closely with the spirit that if I'm doing something wrong, I feel a conviction. I feel a conviction. What the Lord said to me, don't take nothing from your wife. Don't give your, don't give your seed, know well. Not even by yourself with your hand. If that's gon' steal your libido and you're, I know it's libido, I just be puttin' an A back there. That's gon' steal your libido to where you don't have the energy to come on to your wife, to be affectionate to your wife, don't take nothing from your wife. And Lord, quicken me or speak to my spirit and give me the instruction. And see this is the thing. What I'm tryin' to tell you is you can mess, you can mess around as a man and be into that pornography. Some can happen to you. You can get in the car red. You can get in the car red and you would just watch that pornography on break. And your wife got to come up to that red and she'd go in your phone and boop, bumblebee triple X pop up. And your daughter's standin' right there with her. I'ma tell you, the way that the sin is death. And it might not be no physical death, but it's gon' be a social death. It might, it's gon' be a social death at least. You got to stop playin' around. We have got to stop bein' nasty. We have got to have some self-respect, some self-love. If you are a man under the sound of my voice, if you want to be, if you wanna be successful, if you want to go to the next level, you gotta have self-control. You have got to change your life. You have to be able to live in the dark like you are in the light. You gotta remember that somebody watching you at all times. Y'all remember when Eric Snowden came out on that movie and that man had to go in exile and that man was on that movie and he was talking about how his boss told him, you ain't got the word about your girlfriend. She not cheatin' on you. His boss was telling him, I'm watchin' your girlfriend on her phone and from her computer. And when Eric Snowden went to talk to his girlfriend, he left the phones and the computer in the house and he took her outside. And he basically had a sign language tool or what he need to tell her. We be thinkin' that all these movies is fiction. No, when you pick that phone up and you watchin' that pornography, somebody could be right on that other end with your phone tap and lookin' right at you, watchin' what you doin', through that phone, through that computer. Ain't nothin' you doin' that's hidden. Ain't nothin' you doin' that's hidden. When you go and you got that nasty dangle lane at gmail.com and that's your account on this OnlyFans, that's your email on this, they could trace that right back to you. They could trace that right back to your phone, right back to your computer, they could trace that right to your address. And mess around and get in some trouble, mess around, something happen to you and people got to go diggin', all that right there finna be exposed. You could be livin' a lot right now for your wife and your kids and die untimely death. And when they go to diggin' through your stuff, find out that you were Mr. Nasty behind closed doors and your whole legacy, everything you stood for, everything you represent. Y'all men is out here messin' with these transvestites and messin' with these other men. You gonna mess around. When you die, your wife gon' be sittin' in there and she gon' wonder why all of these feminine men is at the funeral. And she finna be lookin' around like, why is RuPaul nephew sittin' in here? Hi to who? And see the thing about it is these spirits that y'all dealin' with, these spirits ain't got no coot. These spirits ain't got no respect. These spirits ain't got no self-love. They don't mind by outin' you. It's just like when the man went on Twitter and he outed the White Howard. This ain't really make no news. It ain't make a lot of news because the blogs was already in the man back pocket, in the White back pocket. But I'm on Twitter and I'm lookin' at the trending topics and here go this man who called himself a cisgender. He released a audio on the phone with the White Howard and he talkin' about, yeah, why did you, the White, you told me that you wanna suck D and you wanna get F in the A. And so, why you went over there to that brothel or to whatever? And then they got the White Howard on the phone and he like, listen, calm down, calm down. Ain't she knowin' you? This man came out with that. Then the man say he was releasing it because he say he gettin' death threats from the White security and all the team. And then I Googled the White Howard name. He was on the Washington real wizards and they say he was out with a sword retina, with a sword tailbone. I say, oh my goodness. I say, oh no, somebody went on Wikipedia. Oh no, they were Wikipedia and they changed it. Oh what? But I'm like, hold on, nine. Nine, I'ma tell you like this right here. These folk, they might add a little sauce onto what they tellin', but they got a relationship with these people because if they ain't had no relationship with them, then they'll be lying on all of us. It's like, when you see the work that I'm doin' and you see it on my head doin' this, if the transvestites and the cis genders and the gay men and these other women, these triples, these porn stars, these escorts, if they lying, then they'll just come out and lie on all us. They'll just come out just for clout and say, I'm doin' this right here right now with Tony Gassens. I'm doin' this right here right now with RC Blades. Why they ain't comin' out and sayin' that on us? Because we ain't dealin' with them. We ain't got nothin' to do with no, that Tom Fullery, but if it's gon' happen, oh, it gon' come out. It gon' come out, nine. Now, it could be people, women who pop up from a man past, oh, and say, oh yeah, over a decade ago, I slept with John Doe, and now he's like a motivational speaker. Everybody be like, okay, congratulations. Help us sit down. We don't care about what y'all did 20 years ago. Child hush. But if it's somebody on a mountaintop and they runnin' their mouth, and they out here dirty dangling, it's gon' come out. It gon' come out, cause guess what? It ain't enough hush money in the world. Ain't enough hush money in the world because these spirits, they movin' with a reprobate mind. So these spirits, they movin' in a way to where they also want attention. They also, just like the boy who posted, who was selling them punky pies from Walmart and charged people $250 for the seven-course meal. He posted them screenshots of a man who the man went on a vacation with his woman, and then the man that he supposedly slept with right before going on a vacation with his woman to come out and out of them. Listen, these spirits also want attention. That man coulda just be quiet. He ain't have to say nothing. He ain't have to let none of us know that he's a jump-off for this other man. But these spirits also is hurting. They lost. They broken. And they want attention. So y'all mean that it's on here paying these people on Snapchat and you sending these cash-outs to get these dirty videos, to get these dirty pictures, you're gonna ruin your life. You're going to ruin your life. It is not worth it. You out here, you watching this pornography, you're going to ruin your life. Your daughter or your son is going to find it. They're gonna find it. And if it takes something happening to you, like you're getting sick and then your family got to go through your phone to text all, to text your noops, or to text your line brothers, to text your cue dogs, to text your coworkers. And when they get in your phone and they even got your code, or they got to get your phone open because something wrong with you, you and that coma. And your wife get authorization to get in that phone and she go into that hidden folder and she get in that search history. Or they get into all that, that bike law because somebody's gonna come out and lying on you so now they need to search your stuff like they did Carla Russell. You're gonna get exposed. You're gonna get exposed. I'm telling you, what's done in the dark gonna come to light. We got to get control of our lives. We got to learn how to love our self, how self control and discipline. And I'm telling you, when you find self control and discipline, when you find self control and discipline, you will not miss what you left behind. You will not miss it because you will become so on point. You will become so direct. You will become so focused and so driven that you will produce so much in your life that you will not miss that pornography. You will not miss them transvestites. You got sending you dandelion pictures. You will not miss that woman you had putting peanut in her booty, peanut butter in her booty to seeing them pictures. See, I have to sit on the phone and listen to these stories. I'm sitting on the phone and as a coach and I'm gonna have to hear about men who sleepin' with their pastor, sleepin' with the deacon, sleepin' with the choir director, sleepin' with this famous man, sleepin' with this man over here. I have to, and the women is finding this stuff. The women is catching this stuff. And even men got these videos in their phone. Again, they broke, broke back mountain. Got these videos in their phone, getting towed out the frame. And it just, it just disgusted. It just disgusted. I'm just shocked and appalled. I'm absolutely flabbergasted. I'm just, the Cabalabra Rabilerated. It is just, it's mind boggling. This is just mind boggling. I'm just, the Flabalora died. It just, I'm trying to think and put in the words, the feeling that I'd be feeling at the nastiness that I'm hearing. And it's just mind boggling. And I'm just like, Lord, just come on by nine. Lord, just send something, Lord. Lord, we might need another fire like Sodom and Gomorrah. Lord, we might need, just let the ones that's livin' right get out. And he ain't got to burn nobody down, Lord. Just let a little fire, just hit a little scorch or something. Lord, we might need a little flood, something. Because this, this gettin' out of hand. And the reason why I'm so upset about it is because as men, we are called to be leaders. We call to be examples. We call to be the head of the household. On taxes, they say head of the household. When you feel in that other kind of form, they say head of the household, that is supposed to be the man. But if you around here with no discipline and no self-control, how are you gonna raise your daughter? How are you gonna raise your son? Because when you give it into this pornography and these strip clubs, you are becoming desensitized. And that is why these teenage girls is walking around with their booty out because their mama and their daddy is desensitized from this pornography from this strip club and all of this nastiness. And so now these young ladies is over-sexualized themselves in public. When they could easily have on some boyfriend jean, they could have on some loose shorts. They could have something that comes to the middle of their thigh like the school's require. They could have on some dope look outfits, some cool look outfits, but they walking around with their booty cheeks out. They do not understand the world. And see, I'll be studying people, I'll be watching people. And I'll be watching these men. And I'll be seeing these men. If I see a young lady and she got on short shorts, I immediately start looking at the men. And I'll be seeing grown men of all ages, double taken at the 12-year-olds, at the 14-year-olds. I'll be seeing grown men watch the booty cheeks of these high school girls. And I'll just be absolutely floored, absolutely floored. And when you talk to enough women, you will hear high men and women at 13, 14, 15, 16 years old got hollered at and groomed by a man 30 plus. It's women in this chat right now who might not wanna tell us unless she healed and she using her story for a testimony about dating a grown man when she was 13, 14, 15 years old. And that grown man know exactly how old she is. That's how Chris Hansen had a business. And it wasn't named Christopher Hansen or Chris Hansen. That's how that man had that show. That's how the man had that show. He going and catching man after man after man after man who is trying to get them a 14-year-old. These is school teachers. These is principals. These is firefighters. These are police officers. I'm finna go back and watch the, watch them old Chris Hansen episode just to see the nastiness. And I mean, just be all like them, all like them. And it just, it just, it just wow. And we got to do better. And I'm gonna tell y'all something. As men, we got to hold each other accountable. You have to shame your homeboy and you gotta say, bro, that is stupid. Bro, that's the dumbest thing in the world, bro. You're gonna end up losing your life. Bro, you're gonna end up going to prison. You're gonna end up getting in trouble. It just like with the back page, with the back page that was out in the Craigslist. I know a guy who got on some kind of website, was talking with this woman, was mad with his wife. When I, to meet the woman, he was finna get some fellatio for $40. His wife and him weren't doing good. Say she wasn't sleeping with him, whatever. Went to go get the fallatio, turned out it was a sting. It was a police setup. Next morning, the man on the news. The man on the news for trying to buy a prostitute. Got a million kids. Got a wife. Supervised at the job. But of course, you know, he got a slap on the wrist cause it wasn't no underage. It was he was going to meet up with a grown woman. And so when you talk to the boss, the boss like, man, I just got, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh. The boss was like, what, what happened to my website? She was old, but whoo, I gotta slow that off before I get caught. And I remember that when back page was out and everybody was on the, everybody was in the barbershop. All these men in the barbershop told my boy, boy, I had one last night, boy, a fifth at all, and she brought a friend. And I knew about back page and I ain't even never type it in my phone. I ain't never typed it in my phone. You know why? Cause I didn't want it tracing me. I ain't want it sending no ads to me. My son mess around, be on the phone and here go back page sending an advertisement. Well, it popped up on the phone. I ain't want it in my phone. I ain't even typed it in my phone. You know what? I done heard the name on the fans for so long. I have never typed that in my computer or my phone. Even though I know people on there painting and doing all other kinds of stuff. I ain't never typed it in my computer or my phone cause I don't want no temptation. I don't want that stuff tracing me. I don't want it be showing up on advertisements when I'm reading the article. I don't want it, no one in me because I know what's on there. I know what's on there. And I could go to the store and get a gift card. And I could put a year worth of subscription money on there and get me a back phone that I leave right here in my office and put right in here. I got a phone in my office that I could go sign up and get that subscription. And guess what? I ain't doing it because I don't want the addiction. I want to be a light in the dark. I know God watching me. And it'll be just my luck that one day, one day somehow one of my sons is up here and they dig around, they look around, they in the car, they wherever they at and they find the phone. And they use one of my password, typical passwords or they get in there and then boom, on the fan. You keep messing around, you're going to get exposed. It's going to cost you your family or it's going to cost you your life because eventually what's going to happen is one of these women or one of these transvestites or one of these cis genders or whatever they call themselves. One of these people that you out here dealing with is going to be fed up. They're going to get tired of being lied to. They're going to get tired of being used and they fin to do a murder suicide and you might be the one. You'll never know what your number going to be called for this nastiness and this debauchery because see the thing about it is one of these people going to come to the point where they want to cash in. You don't have no secrets. I remember celebrity man coming to me. Hey Tony, you heard anything about me? You heard anything about me? I say, yeah, absolutely. You need to slow down. These men have to come back and check in with me. Hey Tony, I'm about to do this big deal. Is anything about to come out on me? I can't say for sure, but from who told me about you? They say they ain't going to say nothing. I ain't what I got to pay. Listen, I don't do that. I ain't in the middle of that. I ain't doing no type of extortion. I ain't doing no type of, no payments, no none of that. Cause even if you pay some, you still ain't secure because this person might be on their death bed one day. This person might have an untimely demand. This woman might get leukemia or melanoma and she say she want to tell all her secrets. She want to tell everybody she done slept with who was out here misrepresenting. She might decide she want to be a savior for other women and she is upset that these women, that the wives of these men are being lied to and deceived. And she say, she finna go from being saw to apostle Paul, Paulina. And she finna tell her story and she finna put every last one of y'all name out there. And just like the lady did it. Karen Stephens, who they call Superhead. And she put all them names in her book and told everybody, but everybody just kind of blew it off because of what it was and when it was. But not everybody gonna be in that situation. It's gonna come a day and a time where it's gonna cost you. And so the same thing is what I'm trying to get me and to understand is you ain't got to be no celebrity. You might be a everyday man and you sleeping with the woman around the corner. You sleeping with the woman on your job. You sleeping with this woman or you sleeping, you a school teacher. You sleeping with one of your students. You getting news, you getting pictures from one of your students. And I'd have seen that. I remember when my sister was in school. She was in 10th grade. She say, Tony, you know sudden suck? I'm like, yeah, I know him. He didn't been there forever. She say, man, he out here sleeping with the E high schoolers. He out here hitting on the E high schoolers. My home girl showing me a message that he sending them. And I'm like, wow, this man married. This man got kids. This man is a figure in the community. And he out here moving like that. That's crazy. That's absolutely crazy. But guess what? It eventually come out. That didn't happen with my wife, old coach. My wife, old basketball coach was sleeping with the high schoolers. Was doing it while she was in school. It eventually he got caught. It was probably a year or two ago. He got caught, got caught, got exposed. Listen, your grace is going to run out. If you keep taking your grace for granted. So it don't matter how small your skeletons in your closet is, it's still scary if somebody bump into it. So you got to clean your life up. You have to consecrate your spirit and you got to start living right, doing right and moving right. Because some of the people who are into these, because this the thing, you might be a mom and got you a sex toy. You ain't got it in no safe with no amazing, with no amazing code on it. So what's going to happen when your daughter find your toy? She done seen the toy on Instagram. Cause that's all Trina and the other rappers is posting in these toys. So she done seen the toy on Instagram. Now she done found your toy. Now your daughter in there 11 years old wearing herself out with that toy. Body is jiked up, body threw. Because what she done bumped into from the promiscuity, from the lasciviousness, from the lewdness of her mama or her daddy or his mama or his daddy. A lot of people don't understand that by them being nasty and being a slave to a orgasm, they ruining their family, they ruining their life, they ruining their focus, they ruining their future sex life because they sold it at the pornography or to a battery operated device or to a hand that they don't even know how to appreciate a human connection. We have to understand that this is a trick of the devil to turn us out. That is why you see throughout the Bible when the devil inhabited a place, one of the main themes of that area was sexual immorality. When the devil inhabited a place, that is when you saw man with boy, women with boy, women with girl, man on man, woman on woman. And that's when God had to come in and burn the city down because of sexual immorality. And we see that throughout the Bible anytime the devil jumped on somebody back, he did it with sexual immorality or it was money like Judas. But most of the time it was sexual immorality. So we have to understand that these sex toys, these magazines, these porn websites, these strip clubs, these escorts, these picture senders, these people who get paid for these nasty pictures, paid for these nasty videos, this is all a trick of the enemy and it's gonna destroy your life. I seen a young lady, she looked 16, but obviously she over 18 and she had these young men interview her. I can't remember the young lady name. It's a young white lady and she got interviewed by these two white boys, young white men and she was talking about her only fans and she was talking about the hundreds of thousands of dollars that she make. And when I tell you this is what we used to call, this is what we call Lily White, she looked like a Lily White girl. She do not look like what they call trailer trash. She do not look like she raised with our parents. She do not look like she come from out no group home. She looked like what we call Lily White and this young lady is sitting on there talking about the porn know she doing on only fan. And if you saw the young lady, you would think this is the principal of your kid's school daughter. You'll think this the police officer daughter. You'll think this the pastor daughter. That's what she looked like. And she's sitting there talking to these nasty hand men who is her biggest fans. They watch her on the fan and they so nasty that the little orgasm that they get through the phone was not good enough. They had to bring it in the interviewer and then interviewing the woman. Like what she's doing is normal. Like what she's doing is okay. Knowing that YouTube is open to all of these young girls, to all of these young boys and in the areas of affluence, kids have credit cards from eight years old. So they got phones and they parents so busy in business meetings or in church or in whatever that these kids is subscribing and using somebody else's birth date. And they subscribe to this young lady on only fan and now you got 11 year old boy up there jacking out. Because these idiots is interviewing these porn stars from only fans and putting it on the internet. This is all the work of the devil. And I'm wondering how we can't see it. But it's the Wild Wild West and then YouTube had a nerder to come and limit my video. Turn my green sign to yellow when they got porn stars on here giving out business plans. I say, what in the world is this? How in the world you finna come and limit me? And then porn start giving out a business plan and the video got a million views. What in the devil is this? And that's exactly what it is, the devil. And so this why if you got some sense you have to be over billageant. You hear me or vigilant? Whichever one it is, be both of them. Village and vigilant. You have to, if you raising somebody you got to be on top of it. You hear me? That phone, that tablet, that music because the adversary is coming to seek and destroy. And the younger he could get them hooked the younger he gonna hook them. And then what is happening is they're growing up to be zombies. That's why when you go to the car dealership all the men got a nasty attitude cause they is porn babies. That's why when you have a worker come to your house they wanna get smart out the mouth. The reason why customer service is so terrible cause everybody is addicted to a orgasm. And what people don't understand is that the same part of the brain that is activated from a orgasm is the same part of the brain that's activated from crack cocaine. And when you go too long without that hit you get irritable. You start to get cranky. You start to get an attitude. And that's why it's so many people can't raise their kids right cause they is feeding for their next orgasm from the battery operated device they hand or this promiscuity fornication or adultery. And then we have these dangling in the booty men flying to other countries and paying women to sleep with them. And then getting on camera and going on videos and coming back and bragging about it. So now the 15 year old that hear about this that's what he wanna do on his 18 year old senior trip. He wanna go to this other country and pay for some behind over there. And then the parent gonna look up and see the son over here kitten out and gonna wonder how in the world my dog on son got kitten out over there in the sex rain. Because I don't went to all kind of countries. If you ain't in the dark Alice ain't nobody bothering with you. If you ain't into something you ain't got no business being into ain't nobody bothering with you. Ain't never had nobody in our country try to run up on me, try to kidnap me, try to do nothing to me. But when you over there in that tom pullery when you over there in that debauchery you gonna lose your life or come close to it. And this what you got to understand. So listen, it's time to get this thing right. And people wonder the reason why I have to talk so long on these is because when somebody under the spirit that one minute short ain't gonna deliver them. They need to heal reason on top of reason on top of reason on top of reason. They need to heal real talk nonstop. They need to be able to go to sleep to this two and a half hour video. They need to be able to let this hill play in their ills all day long to come out that spirit to get that spirit off of them because we're out here nasty and it's men and it's women. And you need to look yourself in the mirror and you need to see if you is nasty. And you need to be honest with yourself and you need to get that mess out your life and you need to consecrate yourself and you need to stop living for orgasm. And you need to start living for your purpose. Start living for God and start, stop living to get off. That is foolishness. That is lasciviousness. That is vexational spirit. You need to be able to abstain. You need to be able to consecrate your mind, consecrate your spirit and stop thinking that this is your right, this is your privilege and this is your calling in life to be out here just squeaking and skirting and skiing. It's absolutely ridiculous. You is more than an orgasm. Stop hunting for an orgasm. Start hunting for your purpose. Start living your purpose. Stop being nasty because you're not living your life like God is looking at you. Live your life with the knowledge that God is looking at you. So while you're sitting there with that battery between your legs, what is the Lord doing? When you're sitting there with your meat in your hand watching that pornography, what is the Lord doing? And then you wanna take your little nasty hand and wanna come together for a prayer and ask for a financial blessing. Why? So you can get another subscription. So you can order you another rose. So you can get you another battery operated device. So you can pay for some more booty hole. Come on now. We got to get this thing together and stop being perverts and thinking that this just naturally normal. Little nasty behind. Don't even shake my hand. Give him a fist bump but you might've got something on the knuckles. Just look at me. Just throw your head up when you see me. Just throw your head up. You know you down there with your hand all in the wrong place. Just throw your head up. You're absolutely, you ain't even got to speak to me because it's just getting nasty. It's just getting nasty. I'm gonna tell you. When I decided to change my life stop being a womanizer, stop masturbating and to have some self-discipline, some self-control, that's when my life took off. That's when my life took off. That's when I became the best of the best in my industry. That's when I got into them ranks. That's when my finances went through the roof. That's when I went from making $20,000 a year to being able to make $20,000 in a day. When I got some self-discipline, some self-control and I consecrated my spirit and I changed my life. So while you're waiting on a breakthrough and you're waiting on that next level, you got to be willing to be different. You got to be willing to get off the broad road and get on the narrow road. You got to be willing to do it. You got to be willing to change your life because when you look around, you're going to have to, you're going to have to take off D-Hill. I bought these in, where I was at, I was somewhere, I think I was in London. They were wooden glasses. D-Hill time four, here's nine. You're going to have to take D-Hill and what you're going to have to do, you're going to put D-Hill on. D-Bloodlight, D-Bloodlight glass. You're going to put D-Hill on where you can see clear. You need to be able to see clear. And when you see it clear, through spiritual lenses, what you're going to see is that we live in a disgusting world. We live in a disgusting world. Joy would say, I don't know nobody living like me. Joy, keep living like that. Because guess what? I don't know nobody living like me either. It is lonely. But when people start to see, start working on your weaknesses. Start working on your weaknesses. Work on where somebody look at you and they had to point out a weakness. Work on that weakness. Work on that weakness. When they see that weakness get strong, then they're going to come in and they're going to say, hey, how you turn that weak point into a strong point? And when you tell them discipline, consistency, self-control, self-love, sacrifice, then you'll say, okay, well, what's else different about you? What else different about you? They're going to start to inquire within. Then you're going to be able to minister. Then you're going to start to see people come on over. Come on over off that broad road to that narrow road. But see, when you truly look at things, like we look that Kiki Palmer outfit, normal. We look that it as normal. We look that senior daughter at the house like that then. Senior daughter at the house. Go ahead, senior daughter at the house like that. Since it's so normal, it looks so good. Senior daughter at the house. If you say your daughter at the house like that, you nasty, you is nasty. If you see your daughter at the house like that, you is nasty and you need to be put in rubber bait jail because you're nasty. We looked at Sierra with all her booty cheeks out and all the twerking she'd be doing. We looked at that as normal. That is a hindrance to your brethren. You was causing all these Christian followers or Russell Wilson scripture quoting behind to be on your paid jacking off because you're being a hindrance. Now, if somebody got to look at you and they got to go digging, they got to go searching for a way to be nasty. But when it's right in their face and you're doing something that our wives don't do, my wife don't even twerk for me. My wife don't twerk. So then if I go on Sierra page and I'm watching all kind of booty tea of a childhood fantasy, what is that thing to do to my spirit? Vex my spirit. But we live in this world where oh, you got body autonomy, you got body agency, you can do what you want to do. Ain't nothing wrong with being, that's the man fault for being a pervert. That's also accountability of thirst trapping. That's why you call it thirst trapping. We all got to be held accountable. The person that's given in to the lust and the person that's trying to be an object of lust. Isn't like this right here. If I go and I know a woman is attracted to an eight pack of abs and I go and get on some old zimp it, well, I go and do a lipo, like the boy who used to scam and got on on a fan. If I go and get lipo and then go get on line and here I am as a conscious thinker and then I take that shirt off, I'm causing lust. I can't just say, oh no, I could be on here with my shirt off all down. You ought to be ashamed of yourself for lust it. No, cause I ain't got to take my shirt off. I ain't getting no check for it. Not if me as hell finna cut a check. Okay, then I'm working. But if I just go take my shirt off and I don't make money from having my shirt off, then I'm thirst trapping and I am being a hindrance to my brethren, meaning a hindrance to my sister because I'm causing her to fall into lust and the Bible tell us not to do that. So we got to have accountability. But what we got today, we got this, we got a demonic movement amongst women that is saying, you can go out butt naked and it's the man fall for looking. It's the man fall if he wanna touch. You could go out and show the private parts that he lusts after to sleep with. You could go show that in public. And it's his fault if he look, cause he ought to have more self-control than to look at your private parts in public. That's demonic to even suggest such a thing because what happened when a man go out in some great sweatpants? All the little nasty women come out. All the little nasty women come out. Women shooting their shot. Women talking about what they'll do to that. Women, ooh, ooh. If it come out, oh, such, such picture leak. All these women Googling. They say, Chris Brown thing leak. Somebody else thing leak. All these women Googling. So it go both ways. We're not supposed to be a hindrance to our brethren. We're not supposed to be thirst trapping. And men who are saying the name of God need to be held accountable for letting their wife go out there like that. And letting their wife be a temptress and an object of lust because you could be sexy and sophisticated without showing every inch of your skin. You could still look good without being naked. And that's why I lose respect for people because posting all these Bible scriptures and don't even read the Bible. Don't even see that nowhere in the world, nowhere in the Bible does God condone us being objects of lust intentionally to get attention and applause for our body. No, well. So when we got pastors and we got Christian artists being in a woman over, got a woman twerking, got a woman being sexualized, got a woman doing all this stuff. That is not of God. That is not a God because God want our eyes to be set on our calling, on the mark of the high calling. God want our eyes to be on the prize. We're supposed to be winning soul. We're supposed to be leading by example. We're supposed to be walking in love, not thirst trapping online. And then thirst trapping online in the name of the Lord. And a nowhere in nobody Bible that say a Christian woman is supposed to be out here with her private parts showing and supposed to be out here twerking. And so guess what? When we are calling women who are supposed to be classy, we call them women who is butt, bonkin, naked, online classy. So if we calling that classy, we calling that wife material and women is begging these women who is getting butt naked online for their prayer, for their husband. Their husband is a porn baby because for a man to sit there and have his woman walk out the house like that as a Christian man and not say something, man got a dangling tucked in the booty hole. And I hate to say it. I hate to have to say it. It ain't no way, it'll be snow in Satan house while I let my wife walk out the house like that without me saying something. And if she wanna walk out the house like that and she insisting going on the house like that, let me know. That'll let me know she'd have been turned over to a reprobate mind. Oh, wash my hands. I gotta go. And then people criticize me, but no, I'm gonna have some decency. I'm gonna have decency. I'm not finna be desensitized to Satan world to thinking that being outside but naked with all your booty out and all your private parts out is normal and okay. Because when we was closer to God as a country and as a people, you see how we dress. We cover it up. And then if a woman got on a sun dress or one of them flower dresses that they used to wear in the 60s or whatever with that belt round her waist, you saw that woman beauty and she beautiful. If she had a booty, that dress still gonna fall on that booty and that booty still gonna be bouncing. She have to have no sheer see-through clothes for you to see that her body to bounce back after having a baby. You could see her shape. You could see her beauty and her face and her walk and her aura and what she's stepping with. Her confidence, you see peace, you see love, you see glory, you see happiness and that is beautiful. You don't have to see no booty cheeks to determine a woman beautiful and sexy and all of this and that. And here we is in a world where we so nasty and we so lost and everybody is kissing behind. Everybody wanna be like and everybody's scared to get counsel. Everybody is scared to get counsel. But you know what though? When you serve God, you can't get counsel. Cause God gonna raise up who he need to raise up to make sure you still gonna be taken care of. You hear what I'm telling you? Because when you talk in common sense, ain't nothing to be counsel over because if somebody on the other side could speak their truth, then you could speak your truth too. So if I'm not with something, I got the right to say it. Cause when you ain't with something and you on the other side, you got the right to say it. I ain't finna argue and go back and forth with that's how you feel. That's how you feel but guess what? That's how I feel. And for me and my house, we gonna serve the Lord. And anybody don't wanna serve the Lord, you finna get up out of here cause ain't finna let your brain calamity and damnation into my house and don't care who he is, you could get gone. Because for me and my house, we gonna serve the Lord. You hear me? And so this is what people gotta understand. People is scared. It's scared to be a bold voice for what they stand up for and what they believe in cause they trying to fit in. And then what people don't understand is with these companies, they got to be very clean and careful cause they got to please everybody. They want every dollar. They want every dollar. But when you serve the Lord, you can't worry about every dollar. You can't worry about pleasing everybody cause if you pleasing every man, you displeasing unto God, I can guarantee you that. If you are pleasing unto man, every man, you are displeasing unto God. I can guarantee you that. And see listen, I'm praying the Lord won't have to give me strength to get up here on this late midnight hour, every night I need to, to go on and lie, to just reach one person at a time, to come up out of this sin, to come up out of this debauchery. Because guess what? If you come up out of that lasciviousness and that lewdness and this debauchery, you finna bring your family up out of it. And when you bring your family up out of it, then your lineage is going to be changed and healed. And then your children gonna go and they gonna raise their kids the right way. And it's gonna be a remnant of people who are living a righteous lifestyle and happy by it and ain't ashamed of it. We got Christians afraid to say the name of God. We got Christians afraid to speak the truth cause they wanna appeal to the Pan-African. They wanna appeal to the Hebrew-Israelite. They wanna appeal to the five percentile. They wanna appeal to the Muslim. They wanna appeal to the Buddhist, to the Hindu, to the dissent, to the atheists, to the agnostic. And so they're afraid to say the name of God cause they're afraid to lose a dollar. They're afraid to lose a follower. And they worried about who liked them cause they wanna be able to go to a Reuben party in the Hamptons. They wanna be invited to the Met Gala. They wanna be invited to the Rock Nation brunch. Listen, I wanna be invited to see the Lord. I want the Lord to be able to say to me, well done, my good and faithful servant. You can have your sorry party with the men in there wearing the men Buddha, Buddha hold out the frame in that back room. You can have your party. You can have your secret society. You can have all your little club. You can have your little nasty behind nasty hand club. I want to hear, well done, my good and faithful servant. And we so worried about being cool. We so worried about being liked. We so worried about making a dollar on earth that we ain't thinking about eternity. We ain't thinking about God. And we got pastors who are atheist. They ain't bit more preaching the word of God than the devil is. The devil quote most scripture than a lot of these pastors today. You know why? Cause the pastor wanna be able to be friends with Justin Bieber. Wanna be able to be friend with Kanye West. Wanna be able to be friends with LeBron James. Wanna be able to be friend with this person and that person. So they're afraid to call out sin. Cause they don't wanna offend this artist or this athlete with these satanic symbols in their videos online or they music videos or they clothes. It's like the boy that we all prayed for. Hamlin who played for the Buffalo Bills. Then he go wear a jacket that he think is fashion forward and it's making a mockery of Jesus. And then he got to come back and bring it back and say, oh no, he love Jesus or something like that. Or he Christian or something like that. I said, well, I can't tell. Boy, I can't dog on tell. Who the world told you that's a smart idea. When all these people out here is Christian and you feel how Jesus like that on that jacket for the name of fashion. I don't care what the jacket say. Cause that's how the devil work. The devil try to say one thing and show another. Cause he understand the symbolism and he understand that the people who on his side who follow him gonna know that symbol. And but it'll say, it'll say Lord of Lords. The devil have a thing like he central that say fear of God and the creator might not even fear God. The fear of God might be a gold statue sitting in the corner. Cause I don't know who the person is. I ain't heard him say nothing. But people wearing it, but that's how the devil work. Just like Kanye West. But go out here and start making all this gospel music and now he right back over there. Look like he is having dinner with Satan every other day. The way he be walking around his dress and the way he putting his ex wife through all that foolishness and through all of that right there. But then wanna come over and sell a million records on gospel after just got done calling itself Jesus. But then go make all this money on gospel and they bit more representing God than the man on the moon. On bit more look like sound like act like a man of God than the man on the moon. But see what we got to realize is people today is saying God for cloud. People saying God for cloud. I'm gonna tell you what, because I know this because I had a young man, a gospel artist who he too real. He got too much discretion. He got too much wisdom for the industry. So he really don't even make music no more. He came to me. He said, Tony, man, I'm encouraged, bro. I say, what you mean? He said, man, I watch your videos, bro. And you're not afraid to say the name of God. Do you know for years? For years, Stefan Labossiere, Stefan Speaks and Derek Jackson did not say God for years. They did not say the name of God and I've seen it. But you know what started happening? They started seeing so many women in my comments saying, Tony, the reason why I follow you is because you say God. Here's the thing. Not everybody that say Lord, Lord, gonna enter into the kingdom. After so many women started putting that in my comments, that's when them jokers started talking about God. But look at Derek Jackson. Was he living for God while he was talking about him? Absolutely not. Look at Stefan Speaks. Is he living for God while he talk about him? Absolutely not. Because he went on that later podcast, which this is how you know who working for Dark Forces. You don't know him and not know me. Because if you watch my video, it's gonna serve you one of the else. If you watch that video, it's gonna serve you one of mine. Why the same people that's interviewing me, people ain't calling me? Because they wanna sit in front of a spirit that they gonna feel comfortable in their sin. Did you hear what I just said? They want to sit in front of a spirit that they're going to feel comfortable in their sin. I got three and a half million supporters on social media, across social media. You don't know this speaker over here and not know me because of how the algorithm work. You ain't got to follow me, but you know me. You're the seam of video. You might got a podcast watching me right now, and you're gonna interview one of the other relationship coaches and you ain't call me. You know why? Because your spirit don't wanna sit in front of a spirit that's gonna speak truth. And I see these people who the Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord, Lord. They saying the Lord name in vain, and then they going and they teaming up and they collaborate with people who lifestyle is blasphemy unto the Lord. Their lifestyle is trying to mock the Lord. So this man went and sat on and did an interview with a lady. So it's one of y'all sitting at the meeting. The where he talking about, he was abstinent for five years. For one, can't nobody verify that. But yet on the same interview, he talking about God, but he no longer abstinent. So how is you a relationship coach and you mentioning the name of God and you are in admitted fornication and then got millions of followers? This don't make no sense. That let you know the stronghold that the devil got out here. That let you know what the devil running out here. The way they got single relationship coaches promoting fornication. And the reason why he couldn't say that he abstinent cause he know that'll be gaslighting the woman that he's sleeping with or the women that he's sleeping with. And he doesn't see Derrick Jackson get exposed. So now he know it's been to be an exposed aid if you ain't living what you preacher. Now he know it. And see, I'm gonna tell you something. The one thing that a man love more than sex is money. And that's why you see these pastors that we're gonna be to call the names in class on Saturday. That's why you see these pastors is leaving their everyday wife and marrying million out women because that's how they're gonna be faithful. Now they still gonna watch porn and how they subscriptions on their gift card. They still gonna be on the road watching these porn star and masturbating other women. But when they get a woman with money and with notoriety and fame, it put them in a little bubble to where it make it too hard to cheat. But now the money and the fame and the notoriety gives them the thrill that they missing from cheating on their ex-wife who was an everyday woman. Not a millionaire, not a celebrity. And that's why we see this happening. So we seeing these spirits out here moving and we can't even see it. And you two, y'all ain't know this. You two will show me, you two will show me what y'all watch in addition to watching me. And that right now, I say, yeah, we are all the way lost. We are all the way lost. If these women is watching me and watching these channels, oh, there ain't nobody listening to nothing. Ain't nobody listening to the word I'm saying. I say, what look at? But see curiosity kill the cat. Because see what you got to understand about the mind is that what you listening to, what you listening to, that's gonna affect your life. You're not gonna listen to stuff that is lies and that is unhealthy and not be affected. So when you listening to the e-grown boys and the e-grown girls, give you they so-called game about love and relationships and they now wanna marry. Or they married and they abusive and the relationship is horrible. And you listening to them give you advice, that's finna ruin everything you got going. Finna ruin everything you got going. You got to be able to discern spirits and you will have to pray for discernment. So hey, listen to me. I got to go on and get on off of them time. Man, as I was on the car, I just looked up, I was out 12. Man, look. And see, look, people is up. People is up. People is up. Here go a coach. Coach just text me. 12.52 AM, come speak to the football team. I'm gonna lock it in. People up. Now see that program, I ain't gonna say the program cause I like to keep confidentiality. And guess what? I'll speak to these programs and only charge them. Cause the Lord got me. It ain't bought money for me. I don't charge them and I don't take no camera now. My contemporaries, they record every single speech. They turn it into a bunch of reels. They turn it into a bunch of shorts and they post it to bring in most speaking engagements. The Lord put me in a place I ain't got to do that. I could go in, no money attached, and I could touch a life. If they wanna force me to sell some money, then that's they love offering. But they nobody trying to fight to spend no money out of their budget. Cause if I turn their money down, now they got double to pay this other speaker, who that's how he make a living. But that ain't how I make a living. The Lord done blessed me to be a seven figure earner without having to charge these teams to work with a team. What I'm in there for is to reach the young man heart. I wanna reach the young man heart and I want the young man to know that everybody ain't coming in here for no check and that somebody out here care about you and I'm finna give you this here truth. I'm finna give you this here. I'm finna give you the real million dollar worth of game. I'm finna give you a real million dollar worth of game. I'm not finna entertain you with a baseless conversation and call it million dollar worth of game. I'm gonna give you a real million dollar worth of game and I'm finna set the captors free. And I'm gonna teach you about this real real. I'm gonna let you know that in a real marriage You got kids and you got and your kids in three different sports each You're not having those sex four times a week if you got a class of respectable woman So stop listening to these men who ain't got no kids Making you feel bad about your relationship with your wife because y'all sleeping together once a week Because they are here like bunny rabbits because they ain't got the responsibilities that you got That a wife ain't got the responsibilities that your wife got stop stop letting them A man that's in the closet Sit on a podcast and tell you how you supposed to treat women when he like men Stop letting the rapper who ain't have no daddy raise you Stop letting the rapper who had a dangling top between the legs and Was never no man till he got some money and got some tattoos and got a beard and bought a jet and a mansion And then now he all of a sudden supposed to be a guru on finances or a guru on women And now he giving the game when he was a lame his entire life And now we have men looking up to men I'm gonna tell you I don't look up to a single man I look up to God and the only man I listen to is my daddy That the only man I listen to and there's time that I came listen to my daddy Because if God give me something and My dad's spirit ain't in the right place and he's speaking from somewhere else. The Lord will let me know Turning that on alive So sometimes what my daddy say gonna be revelation sometimes it's gonna be confirmation and sometimes it ain't gonna be an alignment And as a grown man who follow in God I in that moment I got to follow God instead of another man and this and but see we live in a society of men Worshiping men because they want to be invited to the party because they want to be in the end crowd They want to be in the club So they they worshiping other men and this is what we got to get to Y'all give me one second and this is what we we in a society. I have never I Could I could not believe The grown man That was worshiping Kevin Samuels I Could not believe I Will I will flabbergasted I was like wow You was a grown musky married man and You is idolizing and worshiping a single Feminine man I was blown away. I was blown away But you know why? because woman hate the hate of woman Was laced all up and through the message the pedestalizing of men and The debasing of women was the through line of the message But when I started calling it out And people started forwarding the message and sending the message He started trying to find some semblance of balance and people started calling it Oh, he trying to build a black family. No, because if you want to build the black family Then get a black wife and get married and lead by example Instead of telling women that if they go on a date after five o'clock, they need to be having sex So to tell them women that if they already got a kid, they can't be abstinent until marriage If you want to build a black family Then just start a black family and represent that Instead of just talking about it And see that's the problem that's the problem is We got people that's playing and we have grown men Pedestalizing and worshiping other men Because a water man saying that that tickle they ill That make them feel good Give them a look look look look look warm feeling than they tummy And they sitting there want to cross they legs They he'll hit them in the booty teeth let's cross so tight and Want to sit there and then we wonder why these men are here filming it Because ain't nobody telling the truth Ain't nobody keeping the real ain't nobody calling out their pornography Ain't nobody calling out these script club Ain't nobody calling out this idolatry And then we got men who got a mouthpiece and All they want to talk about is sports All they want to talk about is money All they want to talk about is something else When that ain't got nothing to do with the core of the family We supposed to be representing family. So this thing You want to talk about finances? You want to talk about sports? You want to talk about cars? You want to talk about clothes? You want to talk you want to be on twitch gaming? At least show your wife show your wife talk about your wife praise your wife praise your wife For being at the house. I'll test my wife while I've got on here. I said what's going on, baby She said she said I'm all I had to call my tea how and I'm about the Finish cleaning the bathroom and cleaning something else. I said, okay. I'm sure okay So boom I told I still got work to do. I still got work to do. Oh, I don't give me no hard time She had a house with our sons. She'll give me no hard time when I get home She'll be sound asleep because listen, I'm not finna have people on here at noon So I got to work when people up. I got to work with people up If the bar is open the bar is open To the old down from me. I'm here. He got engine outside. They out here drinking So if the bar open Didn't he'll need to be open I Can't let Nobody out work me if I'm doing the work of Lord So this is what we got to understand If we got to come together as Men and we got to hold each other accountable But what I'm seeing men is enabling they brought I'm seeing me and not holding they brother accountable I'm seeing men who they're not checking They brother for not taking care as kids for cheating on his wife For cheating on his girlfriend for scamming For scamming his clients scamming his followers scamming people. We don't have men holding each other accountable We have to have me in the where if you see a man get out here. He's scamming and you to stamp that man A man need to approach that man man a man and say man listen you I don't stamp you I don't put my brand online. You need to come out and you need to do apology Well, you think how you finna have some smoke in the city with me and That's why y'all don't really see me stamp people That why you don't really see me stamp people cuz I don't know nobody. I Mean I know him, but I don't know them. I Don't know you behind closed door because I don't live with you So God God rarely ever give me the peace to stamp somebody If I promote somebody it's nine or ten times a student and it's a part of a marketing plan But just as easy as I promote somebody it just as easy as I retract it I will come right on out. Ain't no deleting the polls or deleting the video No, I'm come right on out a listen. I introduce you to sudden such and Couldn't find out she or he is a scam artist and You need to get your money back. You need to unfollow them. They need to call the FBI SEC you need to call and add to the complaints Just like that. No, I ain't been trying to not still be buddy, but it still be friend behind closed door Still make money together. No, no, no We need people that's gonna be willing to speak up and they're gonna say something and We are here as men is we so worried about being liked by men Let me tell you it's guys that call me in the wee hour of the night It guys I talked to Mentor I'm there for and guess what I Go online and be looking at posts and I see these guys liking all these posts and I won't see them in my like my post now time Because they can't be seen Supporting my message because my message is calling the devil out And it's stepping on toes. You got to realize when I have to do these messages I'm stepping on my toes and I'm stepping on every man. I know now about every man I know toes But the truth don't have no friends Righteousness ain't got no friends Righteousness don't pick sides It's gonna be what it got to be it gonna tell what it got to tell point blank period are and So you got to understand that everybody could get it and Not in the way that y'all think But got to be called out Because every single day I got to call myself out Every single thing I got that I have to evaluate myself and say Tony How did you treat your wife? How did you treat your kids? How did you treat your family? How did you treat your clients? Okay, this what you did get better here get better here get better here So right now I'm right now. I'm in a streak right now right now. I'm in a streak right now of Me being mindful of my of my tone when I'm talking to people Because as y'all hear on my videos and from my video earlier, I Could really I could really get get with you and So I have to be mindful of my tone and I got to make sure that I'm not that I'm not sonning this man that I'm this 50 40 year old man I got to make sure that ain't making him feel like no pump It ain't talking to him with fighting words When I'm talking to my wife I got to make sure that I'm not coming off like no dictator that I'm coming off like her teammate And not her coach not her not her ruler But I'm coming off as somebody who love her her protector her husband and I'm coming off with the with the right tone So I have to evaluate this and this what we have to come to this place to where we could look and we can hold each other accountable and We could say a We need to be able to grow What you doing right here is wrong and we need to grow we need to get better I'm not judging you Because the judge has the sentence I'm not even in the jury on your probation officer trying to warn you so you don't go to jail I'm trying to warn you before You meet God. I'm trying to send a message to you Before you lose your family Before you lose your court your contract Before you lose your job before you lose your endorsements. See, let me tell you something the NBA Used to bring me in to speak I Started speaking to the NBA rookies at 26 years old So some of them guys was my age But a lady named miss Mack. She got me in the door and I spoke to the top 100 high school basketball players and Then Antonio Davis brought me to speak to the NBA rookies Now my rookie class is that I spoke to Ain't none of them went through what Zion Williamson went through Because the way that I'm talking on this here video, that's the same way I talked to them on that stage And when I left up every last one on had access to me Every last one I had my phone number and it's still some of them From the 2012 class. I can't remember the 2010 class 2011 was locked out So I ain't talking to them in person the old Kyrie Irving year 2011 2020 2010 was a John Wall 2012 or Anthony Davis year It's guys from the two I was talking to a guy from the 2012 class yesterday, no today and Them that style for the NBA When I went in there some of them staff told me Tony They gonna forget what you tell them 45 minutes after you done talking Why they still call me today? You know why cuz it wasn't me talking There was the Holy Spirit talking but now I Got a job with a team to be the team life coach full-time So when you go work with a team, you can't work with the NBA Because you now with a team. So when I went to work with a team, they couldn't bring me to speak They had to find other speakers and then They never brought me back So now we see John Moran that one my class ain't speak to his class We see Zion wisdom ain't speak to his class See, they removed the real mentors the real speakers and They brought in doctors D boys listen to Draw Dylan killing rappers. So they say all day long You know what's in my story That they'll What they raffle by? So when I open my mouth And I got an accent so they know that it My school system went all that So now I Got their attention and they sit there With baited breath with wide eyes and they look at me without blinking for 45 minutes Because for the first time in their life They don't have a man that looked like them That sound like them That's talking to them with the wisdom and the words of 80 old man And they ain't got no dog on docked up there Well, yeah, so what I want you guys to understand is the way the mind works as You have a subconscious and unconscious mind and when you're listening to this rap music Boy, but when they hear the stories that I tell them and They know that I don't talk to they porn stars that I'm gonna talk to they scribbles that I don't talk to they Escorts that I don't talk to they snapchat women that's sending them the new Pictures and video when they hear that I'm tapped in and that they name might be on my list But a wide eye But they come to the edge of their seat. Oh my goodness. What them? Oh, this man No, he's talking about because you know why cuz some of them classes that I talked to I Had to see some of them young men name on the list of the women that gave me the list of the men that Don't pay them for sex So when they heard me talking Then oh And guess what? You know how they knew I was lying Because they went and called the escorts and the prostitutes and said do you know Tony Gaskin's? And they look and they could see that these women follow me. Oh My goodness, you know Tony got did you say my name and then next thing I know the woman unfollow me These women started unfollowing me cuz the men started running back scared You said my name you said my name And then God started. Hey, man. You heard my name. You heard my name show did Who you heard it from I can't tell you that Can't tell you that that client confidence out of but I will tell you But the thing is is they don't slept with so men on they just slept with multiple that they don't know man Just tell me the first letter of a name. I said what I look like Boo boo the fool. Well, I'm finna be a sucker like you What I look like Ain't I ain't finna mess up my intel Then right here keeping me out of screeds So if you want to be foolish enough to go pay a woman for sex thinking that that's gonna buy her silence Not realizing that one day this woman gonna be broke One day this one gonna be on her lad leg and she finna come to you for some money And you gonna be retired and you ain't gonna have the money and you ain't gonna have a system to be able to Send her money without being seen and then you gonna have to come out and say I'm getting distorted And if I didn't mistake it I believe that happened to the brother Mark Jackson Who was the coach? I believe it happened to him that a lady tried to start him if I am a saying I might need to do Research and give it for a lie But this right here is the thing this happening So listen to see the thing about it with me Is I was the type of kid that if I do something wrong, I'm taking my daddy to build When it's time for me to get a whooping I stand in I take my whooping so if I cheat on my wife and One and say a tone if you don't pay me I'm finna come out a go on tell the story Don't tell the story and let what come a if I lose it all. That's what I deserve If I lose it all if I lose my wife if I lose the respect of my son's That's what I deserve, but I want I want my consequences for the choices that I've made Because you have miss max had to be this this to me one time We was in the car miss max. She used to speak at the NBA I don't know if they still utilize or not. She said me she say Tony you got freedom of choices But we'll have freedom of consequences, and I knew that ever since Guess what? I want what's coming to me if I'm willingly deliberately Taking my grace for granted Because see this this something that I want that I want y'all to understand is We all fall shorter the glory of God We all fought we all have grace But grace will run out if you taking it for granted if you taking grace for granted It will run out Because eventually God got the step back because God is not finna be there watching and supporting sin God got to remove his hand and the devil got all access to your life and That don't can do anything he want to do to you unless God say don't kill and Sometimes you don't got too far away To what even your life is on the line Because the wages of sin is death And so now we see any young man We send these men. It's me who You never heard of that's not a celebrity That's losing their wife they fiancee their girlfriend Because of what they doing what they were doing on their phone on only fans or or the porn or a stripper or somebody on snapchat and Then you got to realize You and your city So you're not gonna hear about the principle on the other side of the country But every single day a principle a police officer a fire chief a Doctor a lawyer is being exposed in his local news For trying to sleep with a minor or trying to hire a prostitute or trying to what's a caller And we even seen the man now we see the situation with the with the brother polite Who I Don't heard this man talk a couple times for a few minutes because I don't only listen to people talk like that Because I don't want nobody in my subconscious and I'm carrying a message. I want to carry the message God gave me I don't heard this brother talk a few times that brother polite and when I when I heard that man talk I said boy look here if that man knew Jesus Christ and Knew how to live right and knew the real truth That man will be a force to reckon with But they'll have to get him They'll have to recruit him the same thing with Andrew tape if he knew Jesus Christ the same thing with dr. Umar Johnson if they knew Jesus Christ If they knew the love of Christ if they knew what Christ was and they wouldn't brainwash the thing This is a white man religion. It's a slave religion. This is this all this all that foolishness if they truly had an encounter with Jesus They'll be on here like I'm else and they'll have some sense in all that right there. They wouldn't be in all that Tom foodery Because we've seen the same thing see when you get outside of the will of God You get outside the covering of God, you're gonna get into some Tom foodery and you're gonna get exposed. So we saw the doctor umar Get exposed for by a stripper for dealing with the strippers Now we see the brother polite you dispose that the where it's about dealing with a young boy with a young girl with a minor Then we see that the Andrew tape guy he caught up in this hill or sex trafficking case See the thing about it is The devil ain't got no loyalty the devil ain't got no loyalty So he's gonna use you He gonna use you and he gonna take you all the way he gonna take you all the way out And he he's going to let you recruit get you to recruit all these people He gonna get you to recruit all these people you you as a snare you look like a blessing, but you're a snare He gonna get you to recruit all these people and he gonna get you to rally All of these people hopes into what you're talking about and then your sin He gonna expose you So now Everybody you know lead to the mountain top They ready to dive off the side of the cliff Because they really believe what you were saying They really bought into what you were saying and then when they realized you ain't got no character You ain't got no integrity That you made bad choices and you kept making bad choice at the bad choice at the bad choice at the bad choice To the point that you get exposed Not in a lost faith in humanity That's the goal of the adversary and We have to be aware of this we got to be mindful and we got to clean up behind closed doors We have to clean up behind closed doors Because what is done in the dark is eventually gonna come to the light and Lord had let me know Lord Lord had Lord had sent me through a situation Lord had to send me through a situation and say hey, hold on Hold on playboy hold on Hey Don't let don't don't let that money go to your head boy Hey, don't let that money go to your head boy. Hey, hold on Lord had let me go through a little son Not dealing with no woman Lord had let me go through That they get a little humbling The way I say oh hold on Let me check. Let me check. Let me check my ego. Let me check how I'm talking to people How I'm talking to those people around me in my circle in my family and in customer service Let me check how I'm moving Let me check what I'm saying Let me learn from my mistakes of making promises and not keeping them Let me not be so quick to give and to serve and to Over extend myself to where I didn't have to oh, I can't do it no more. Oh, I can't honor that no more Let me start giving my word and then I can't honor it. Lord had a had a check me Tony stop listen You're talking about son You having a conversation with somebody about this project or about this job or about this thing and in that conversation You agree into it before you didn't even consult with me before you even came and talked to miss and sat a suck with me And then now now you want to come in and talk with me before and you know already gave your word and Now you got to go back and say a I had a change of heart and now you look like you ain't got no integrity Now you look like you're a double-minded man. The Lord had the Lord had the check And see that's what happened when you censor them When you censor them to the spirit and See this the thing right here This is the thing that I want to see and I'm finna get off here. I'm finna get on off here. This is the thing I want to see and what I want to see is That's a moment is God bless you for the being a Support on here and helping me out on here What I want to see is I want to see men Focus on the areas of life that matter. I want to see men when I when I look at a man I don't care how famous he is I don't care how much knowledge he has I don't care how much wisdom he has I don't care how much money he has Does he have a wife if the first man That God made Was not complete in the sight of God Without a wife Then I don't look at a man Who is heterosexual who say he want a wife and Who don't have a wife? I don't look at him as a whole man Yeah, you hold single But what you got to do To really be a man Is you got to learn how to love God daughter the way Christ loved a church and I guarantee you Then when you do that if you locked in if you heterosexual And you start trying to love this woman away Christ love the church I Guarantee you That's gonna be the greatest challenge that you know as a man It's gonna be harder than any job you have worked Then any business you have built It's going to be harder than anything you do in your life It's gonna be harder than any mountain that you do physically climb Then any workout that you've ever done To love a woman The way Christ loved the church as a flaw man It's gonna be the hardest thing you do, you know why cuz I'm doing it And I have failed time and time again So and let's listen I could go work out I could get in shape. I played college football I ever ten yards of carry In high school eight yards of carry in college. I ran a full full in the 40 I had a 40 inch vertical The people who were there can attest to it. I Did that I Have made millions of dollars in business. I don't spoke around the world I started 20 companies Guess what Ain't nothing Harder than loving a woman The way Christ loved the church Because that's the purest form of law that the world has ever seen Ain't no religion Have a symbol of sacrifice the way Jesus Christ sacrificed No other religion Don't know body have a symbol have a story of Where the word God sacrificed His only begotten son For the salvation of mankind So when the Bible say in Ephesians 5 that a man ought to love his wife the way Christ loved the church Listen to me what that mean is That mean not controlling your wife That mean not being insecure and jealous That mean not dominating dictating domineering That mean not lying to your wife That mean not manipulating your wife. That mean not deceiving your wife That mean not love bombing your wife not gaslighting your wife That mean not being a narcissist That mean to surrender and to submit to the will of God for the love of your wife That mean to wash her with love and to cleanse her with love and to present her unto God blemish and spot-free That mean to be able to lead your wife with strength and with confidence But also with love and humility, let me give you an example Right now my family budget. I've seen it to my wife today And I hate to have to do it, but I'm gonna be I'm gonna be honest with you I'm gonna be transparent. It's transparent. It's something that normally I'll be behind the paywall This won't be on on YouTube for free But I sent my wife the I have several bank accounts. I work with several banks deal with several banks Because I don't like to put all the money in one spot but I went into a account and I Did the little thing where you could check your Expenses and in checking those expenses It told me that it showed me that my budget that my family budget is $130,000 a month and I Really don't know What that is And I'm kind of like what is they calculate like what what they what are they talking about like what? Because I don't have a budget so They ran see That's a curse word in my house Budget that's a curse word in my house And so I'm feeling as a man Because I'm not supposed to have no hundred and thirty thousand dollar month budget And I'm not starting to realize I'm like man every time I order out to eat It's a hundred and forty dollars So when I'm feeding the family and everybody get to order what they want and everybody eat individual meals and no And I spent about Uber Eats. I'm like I'm spending three hundred plus a hundred twenty. I'm spending four hundred and twenty dollars a day. I Remember a private chef told me she charged four hundred dollars a day and she used to be P. Diddy chef And she told me her day rate was four hundred dollars a day I got a private chef phone. It's been four hundred dollars a day And I'll do that every day, but I do it a lot of days and the reason why is because I want my wife to have to worry about cooking I Don't want to have to worry about doing dishes And I'm and I'm serving in my purpose. I'm working. I'd be drained from talking to people Life coaching all day and then getting on here and doing this before I got on here to do this I just taught a class for two hours So I'm doing what I got to do that's draining. So I don't feel like cooking. I don't feel like cleaning But my wife she might be driving all day with the kids. So she'd be tired But then the Lord said today listen son I Can't take you to the next level until you learn how to be a steward over what I didn't gave you So if you laid on bills If you got a count going in the negative if you ain't got no budget Then you not being a good steward over your money If you got credit cards and you and credit card and you paying your credit card down there month I Tell you my word to borrow become servant to the lender So see this is the thing where in different seasons we have different problems. I Don't have problems with women. I Got problem with budget and money Because I come from nothing And my parents had problem budget and money And they still have problem budget and money and everybody in my family got problem budget and money So when you come from nothing and Then you come into something whatever it may be You don't have financial literacy So I'm looking and I'm like, okay, Lord, thank you for me my need For not let me go without but I ain't supposed to have no hundred and thirty thousand dollar a month budget That don't include business expenses So So I have to lead my wife and my family and I had the right of the day and say listen Yeah Hey, we finna have to have a sit down and we finna have to make a budget And my money ain't the same every week Because as an entrepreneur you can make Z you can make zero dollar Or you make a million dollar and Then everybody need you Everybody need some all your homeboys Even some of your clients Everybody need a loan Some of anybody need a loan need an investment. Everybody want a loan or an investment Everybody coming to you got to take care of this family that family on the first of every month. I Got to pay my mama house and my mother-in-law house That's $4,000 on the first of every month Without fail That's four hundred and eight. That's that's uh $48,000 a year So if they live 30 more years If I'm paying they bills now that mean I'm gonna have to pay their bills the rest of their life But they finna come into no job. Let's finna pay them enough to pay they pay a bill So if they already can't pay their bills and They might have 30 more years or more to live When I do the math, I'm gonna spend a million dollars and so When I look at it, I'm like Lord And guess what the Lord providing I sent that to my wife. She said wow Insane the next word I want to see is Let's sit down and let's create a budget. She ain't say that so the Lord said to me a husband You got to learn how to lead Without being a dictator A leader is a servant So you got to be able to go to your family and say hey listen. That's what we finna do And that's what we finna put in place It might be a little uncomfortable They might not like it But that but that's what the Lord telling me to do So see this what people this what a lot of men don't understand Is that loving your wife the way Christ love love the church don't mean being a sin It don't mean that you don't call shots. It don't mean that you're not leading It just mean you're leading in love You're leading in service. You're leading in sacrifice. So it's like If I'm on a budget in my mind and I don't want to spend no money and my wife showed me this new pair of shoes I said no, I'm good Because if I say yeah, give me them shoes Then that tell her that she could go buy the pair of shoes. She won't Because we won But if I say no, I don't want to spend money like that Then she get the hint like okay, we ain't spending money like that right now And said boom And so she don't ask me for anything Or why don't ask me for a thing? She she never come to me and say can I have x amount of dollars to go buy this to go buy that if she if she mentioned it Like she mentioned. Oh, I'm thinking about getting these extensions put in And this young lady right here She'd do these extensions, but they like four thousand dollars and she'd have mentioned it three four times three four times She didn't brought this up to me never wanted. She asked me But she know I'm a provider and she know I'm the type of man that her wisdom my command and what she say I'm gonna go get so I DM the lady The lady called me my wife got her phone call on Saturday because if that's what she want And that make gonna make her feel good Then as a husband, that's what I'ma do Now if it's in a situation where it's out of the budget Like I can't afford it So it's still boundaries So what I need me to understand is that You could be a leader and not be no pump like you could love your wife and you can Serve and give And not be a sim Like you can lead in love and you could say hey, this is what we have this is what we got to do And this is what we calling this why we have toxic masculinity Because men are feeling today Like we have to put our foot on the neck of a woman and I went through that phase I went through that period where I felt like I had to have an iron fist Where I had to talk down to a woman where I had to be disrespectful. I had to Couldn't say nothing unless I said it angry unless I said it mad But then I started to learn that true strength Is when you could say something That is A directive Or a way that that your family need to go And you could say it in humility and confidence and peace And you can have those uncomfortable conversations without yelling and screaming and cursing And going off and slamming the door And so you have to Look at this And so this is what we have to realize and understand That when you come to this place or understanding what true leadership is It make us a better a better man and it make us a better society But right now we lean And we we live in and we lean from trauma and insecurity and brokenness So listen, this is the challenge and this is what we got to get to Now I'm tired it took a lot of morning. God bless y'all Saturday. We got class. You'll see it on tony gases academy Dot com is called Saturday school. That's where I Could be a little more real than I could be on youtube and I know you might say well, man Tony how much more real can you be because I don't been on here tonight, but you told But it get a little more real in class But and it's over on my network, you know the well you signing up on the academy and we able to talk and All that right now and on those I don't do these are recorded. So people name that I said they come and see it And people that gonna send it to the old people. Hey, Tony, the guy said the name in his video But for me it was like everybody name getting said today Everybody name getting said today and then anybody on the sound of my voice know not to come for me Anybody they know not to come for me because they don't know how much business or else I know And so they already know that for me I'm not gonna throw rocks in the glass house I ain't gonna throw rocks in the glass house Because I know I ain't been perfect and I know I ain't always took care home And that's all I had the Lord had to check me Make sure Tony make sure you leave In the right way make sure you doing the right thing now If you're gonna be out here talking make sure you talking to your wife right make sure you talking to your kids, right? Make sure you send an example Lord show me that but hey Got to go See y'all in class sat in might be back on here tomorrow. I don't know. I don't probably put up two three videos today I think I got a video on the carly russell situation and how that stuff right there play out in relationships I don't know if I released it yet, but if I haven't I will But god bless y'all And we're gonna talk soon Oh, you know what now a I'm gonna start me a podcast But I need somebody who know how to run a podcast who not who know how to work a podcast I'm gonna start a podcast, but that's not I'm not tech like that. I'm not I'm not one of the people that know how to really I don't know how to do all that Set hook up the mic Go all that do the recording do all the editing. I can't do all that That's too much for me. That's somebody else brain type. I could do it. I can give me a talk now So if you know how to run a podcast like you got real experience Like you didn't really produce podcast on right in here time. Oh, I've always wanted to produce a podcast. Mr Guys, I love that. Oh Now go get your little experience start your podcast then reach out to But y'all send me an email if you don't have you know somebody who produced podcast God bless you and we'll talk soon