 picking up to him that he turns all digital and she wakes up really in fear and another dream he says and we made a breakthrough last night it's what we call true empathy not going into the darkness or trying to analyze it or figuring out but just a joyful announcement that's how her bad dream is met with a joyful announcement we made a breakthrough last night see how different that is from human interactions you know as if fear wants something to relate to it or must to be comforted by something like itself and that's one of the most striking teachings in the course is true empathy just knowing much real and true and staying with what's real and true and seeing how powerful that is it reinforces the truth that you're teaching and learning all the time and whatever you're teaching is what you're learning and strengthening your mind so that's the point really of ultra sessions that was the point of expression sessions too was to come to a sense of true empathy and see that that you're really offering a gift when you offer that Jesus is a good example of that but but it just seems very strange in this world because empathy involves relating to the false that's what Jesus calls false empathy it's pretty much like when Nikita was talking about coming and just opening to see a whole new world not coming to a new place or new people but just really open to a whole new way of thinking and seeing truly think you know like we're taught in the course of America like it's it's the thinking it's a thought system and so you have to think I knew you have to think you have to think with God and so every day was just like practicing thinking in the new way looking at everything just in a new way just absolutely not like like seeing seeing with the vision it's like what is it in me like how do you live it's like yeah it's like no wonder I couldn't I couldn't just told me not to ask any questions because it's like how do you answer that it's kind of like it's not a place you know I wasn't coming into a new place I wasn't coming to Utah I was coming into a new thought system like really entering a new thought system and it's the term being uploaded so yeah it's like I was coming in to be uploaded into a new thought system yeah exciting