 Judy says, Jonathan, what attachment style were you? Great question. So coming back to the book attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Header. Folks, my default attachment style is an anxious attachment style. I have a propensity to get rather needy when I'm with an emotional avoidant. I'm gonna repeat that. I get rather needy when I'm an emotional avoidant. So why did this happen to me? Okay, there's a picture of my mom and dad. My mom and dad were married 66 years before my mom passed away. And one of the things, my mom, beautiful woman on so many levels, but she was a borderline narcissist, in other words. I think she must have been a Leo, even though she was a Pisces, because the world revolved around her. Borderline narcissist. And what I mean to say, there was an element of look at me kind of with my mom at the same time, a loving human being who had a great empathy and compassion as well. But I don't think she's ever apologized for anything. Anyway, coming back to my mom. My mom, whenever there was a fight with my dad, a fight with one of my siblings, my mother would emotionally abandon us. I'm gonna repeat that. My mother would emotionally abandon us for approximately 72 hours. Literally, she would stonewall us. And if you're not familiar, coming back to the work of Harvard, or excuse me, John Gottman and Julie Gottman, is they talk about the four horsemen of the apocalypse, one of which is stonewalling. My mother would abandon us, children and my father emotionally for 72 hours. As a little kid who's like, mom, please love me, mom, please love me, mom, please love me. I was crying literally from the, my crib basically all the way to my teens wanting to be loved when my mom emotionally abandoned me. And so I tended to choose women who would do the same. Oh my God. I just became a magnet for avoidant women. I was a magnet for emotionally unavailable women. I mean, I was just, or women who would stonewall and emotionally abandon me. Well, through a lot of work, a lot of healing and learning that no matter what, I would be okay. I had to learn that when my partner would abandon me emotionally, I had to learn that I'm gonna be okay. Even if the relationship ends, I'm gonna be okay. And by experiencing it over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again, I was finally to recognize that I'm gonna be okay. I'm gonna be okay. I'm gonna be okay. I'm gonna be okay. I can thrive. I can thrive because I am okay. Took me a long time to learn that. And now I think I'm much closer to being a secure attachment style. I do, however, believe that most people have a default. Now, I will tell you, when I'm with an anxious woman, I can become avoidant because if a woman is too, listen, folks know me, no, I believe in the two-lane street. So when a woman is expecting too much from me or being too needy or being too demanding, I pull away. Doesn't mean I abandon the relationship. I just pull away. Now, if it's too incessant and the behavior is very erratic and very volatile, fuck that shit. I won't put up with women like that. Women who have trust issues, women who have abandonment issues, women who are avoidant, I don't put up with that shit anymore. At least I don't think I do. We'll see what happens when I meet my next life partner. But from going back to the original question, yes, my default is an anxious attachment style and it took a lot of repetitiveness to learn. I'm gonna be okay. I'm gonna be okay. I'm gonna be okay. And it took a lot of this, folks. It took a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot of self-love to get to where I'm at today. And folks, let me just say this. I know a lot of you put me up on a pedestal. I'm fucked up. I've got issues. I have tons of issues. I'm aware of them. I own them when someone brings it to my attention. But believe me, have I stuck my foot my mouth with women? Absolutely. Do I make mistakes in the dating process? Absolutely. I'd like to think for the most part, I am transparent. So, and sadly, part of the reason why I'm still single is because most of you are suckling, you women are suckling on the need for the rules. And homie don't play that game. This homie don't play that game. You know what the book, that if the woman wants to date me, then she better read the book if the Buddha dated, if the Buddha dated. Because this is about learning relationships in a spiritual context and not the bullshit. Men will claim you if you just sit in your feminine energy. Folks, and let me just say this about feminine energy. I am all in favor for every woman to be in her empowered, sovereign, self-loving energy. I want you to rock and roll your empowered, sovereign, self-loving energy. I just want you to be careful of the lean back method because when you lean back, he'll temporarily chase you and then you're fucked later on down the road. And I don't mean intercourse, I mean you're jonesing because he disappeared on you because you played the game of leaning back. I want everybody to lean into learning healthier ways to date mate and relate. I want everyone to lead into this book before the penis goes in the vagina. All right, you know me, I like to rant. So thank you so much for that question. I took that in a lot of different ways. So thank you so much.