 I need a wine glass in my hand and I'ma should be a move, cause Jenner does. Hey y'all welcome back to my channel, it's your girl Cara. For today's video we're gonna be talking about how to be a bad bitch honey. Because it's 2019, this is the year of growth, this is the year of getting that bag, this is that year of being the best you, because it all starts with you, because you really need that, you really need to like walk into 2019 like you're that bitch. And I really feel like y'all always are asking me how do you be so, how are you so confident? How do you do this? How do you carry yourself this way? And I'm like let me just have a little chat with them because I want y'all to like know that I've been through a lot of shit to get to where I am today. Like I swear to God, like I was never like this, I never like carry myself like this, I never walked into the room and felt like my presence was felt like by beaches that you know what I'm saying, like it doesn't, like being a bad bitch does not start with makeup, it does not start with hair, it doesn't start with followers, it doesn't start with likes, it don't start with taking a bitch nigga and thinking you that bitch like no, it's none of that, it's none of that shit, it's how you walk, talk your attitude, how do you carry yourself, all that is gonna really make you what you who you need to be and how you handle things through life and you know that's what being a bad bitch is to me and you know I really, I really want y'all to be y'all best self so let's just talk about it, so don't forget to like comment, subscribe to this video, I hope you guys enjoy and let's just get started. So the first thing to being a bad bitch is that you really need to own up who you are, own who you are, own all your flaws, own all your insecurities, like y'all I was so insecure like with myself because all through like middle school, elementary school and then up into my senior year high school I was always talked about like about my eyes like y'all know my eyes are like far apart, they're like chinky, like people always ask me what I'm making to it because like they don't know, they're like why do you have chinky eyes for your dark skin, like what are you, like and it's just like uh like am I ugly as fuck, like is there a problem with having chinky eyes without you know that was back then 13, 24 hours all it starts about like I was so insecure y'all just don't even know like I was I just did not want I hated my eyes at that point like I hated my face like cuz you know I went to an all black school basically all black school and I was always around like the black people and they like made it an issue like like it was a problem of having like chink eyes like they like why are your eyes like that like why you got your eyes all far apart like are you mixed with Chinese like and then I'm just like what the fuck like it's being Chinese a problem and then it's just like I wanted to just look like a normal black girl like honestly like I just wanted to look like a normal black girl because I just did not want people coming up to me all the time like move and it's like now and then like you know I had a like I was so happy I got to wear glasses like it filled in the space between my eyes so I was like comfortable but then my mom was like no you're you're getting contacts like no cuz I start getting like dents in my eyes so then oh my god y'all excuse my voice to I'm coming over a cold so when I got to high school I started wearing makeup and then I just you know put makeup on to enhance my features and I was at school and they were like oh my god you look so pretty like and I was like oh my god like yes like it makes my thing and I love it so yeah like just own who you are and like now like you know people are like oh my god like you don't even look like you're from where I'm from and maybe God gave me this face for a reason like you never know why God blesses you with the things that he's giving you so just own it don't wish you wish look like somebody else don't wish that you look like somebody else because God gave you these features for a reason and I mean if you don't like it you can fix it whatever it I don't have nothing against plastic surgery or nothing but I'm just saying like if you can't change something just own it you know I'm saying like I'm not gonna go have surgery on my second eyes like no I'm just you know all my shit I'm on who I am as a woman so that's what I did and yeah and the same bitch is talking about you gonna be in box like oh my god you look so cute and it's just like what was you saying about my eyes that they so far apart anyways just own who you are you are you for a reason and just own your shade cuz you are that bitch period lifting other women makes you even more of a bad bitch like I always compliment bitches I always be like oh my god your hair so cute like oh my god like you don't even know if you're making a bitch's day like you don't even know what somebody is going through just a compliment to another female it's gonna really make their day like I love gas my friends up I'd be like yes bitch yes like don't be a hater don't be a hating ass bitch like don't be a hater like please don't I hate haters I hate hate naps like why are you talking down on her for what what does she do to you like you see another girl in a better situation than you that's fine go congratulate her go make her feel like yes I love how I love your process I love like what are you what you're doing and I hope I can get on your level one day and you need to grind that shit out and get on her level like hey to congratulate another female it's okay it's okay it's all right congratulations to you because over here I'm trying to be on your level so I'm gonna get to work but congrats to you like you're gonna get there just wait your turn it's a journey it's a process it's no overnight success you just gotta put the work in like she did and you will get there you will get there you can't give a fuck about what anybody has to say about you period like who gives a fuck like if a bitch is always talking about me let's be honest bitches always talking about me they probably talking about my YouTube they probably be watching my shit probably talking shit but I don't really care like I don't care always talking about me I don't give a fuck like I don't care like what what can you say about me that I already don't know about myself I don't care like that's why I say like you have to own your insecurity so nobody is able to say shit about you like okay my eyes are far far and I do have cheap eyes and what and what what what what else you have to say okay who cares like they don't pay your bills they not paying you I was verbally abused my last relationship let's just say that I was verbally abused like he was saying shit like this is where I had bold self-esteem like the beginning of this year and kind of last year like 2017 and then the start of 2018 but no I was verbally abused that he would say like oh you not the only cute bitch in Wisconsin like really nigga like really like I would hear this from a nigga I'm fucking like to hear somebody say that about me like a nigga you fucking you should want they should be like oh my god like you're the only girl I see this that the third and he wasn't like that so basically you have to really know who you are as a person as a woman to really get through situations like shit like that like whoever you messing with like these niggas like fuck these niggas when it comes to these niggas to be in a bad bitch don't give out no second chances I don't give a fuck like I'm not giving out no second chances with no niggas like I learned my lesson sorry like once a cheater always a cheater like I don't care like if you want to fuck with another bitch let her have him let her have him because at the end of the day you're gonna be glowing up and he gonna be doing the same shit he said he wasn't gonna do and he gonna be still doing that shit and you're gonna be on a glow up with a whole new nigga like who cares like fuck him and her don't let up apply pressure like what's really good period never be a fraud I come across so many fraud as bitches that's one way on the internet and then another way in person if you don't got something you just don't got it like stop acting like you fucking do like if you don't that's fine as long as you're working towards your goals and work working towards whatever the fuck you want to do yes do that shit but don't act like you already fucking got it like no I hate bitches like that like I don't have it all I don't have a luxury car like I don't have this big ass mansion like I don't have this fucking a1 nigga like I'm not so happy and love like that like no but it's not like I'm not trying to oh my god I'm losing my voice right fucking now this is embarrassing yeah just work towards your shit don't put on no front and don't put on a front like people are gonna respect you more when they see you going through your shit but you get out of your getting out of your shit and doing better in life like people are gonna respect you more and love you more for that and respect that and want to get advice from you and stuff like that and probably somebody they look up to you never know you never know who is watching you so don't put on the front don't do it cuz that's not cute and if you want to do something do it don't be scared to step out of your comfort zone this year like don't be afraid to do whatever you want to do people are gonna talk shit any fucking ways so do whatever you want to wear what the fuck you want to wear like who cares like I remember I wore this Shane just an outfit a couple months ago like I didn't give a fuck like it was like I don't like undergarments like I don't like undergarments if they're showing that's like no like that's tacky as fuck to me so I wore this outfit and I wear no undergarments I don't care like I don't give a fuck and I'm gonna put it right here and it went viral I don't care like you were like yeah I didn't have no panties on and what what the picture is cute the outfit is cute I'm cute what if you want to wear something weird if you want to go get surgery get fucking surgery like who cares who gives a fuck like just go do that shit if you want if it's gonna make you happy do whatever makes you happy period don't have no second guesses about anything about your happiness never think you're hurting somebody's feelings thinking about your own like we only have one life to live and since we can't live it living somebody else's life you know I just really feel like bad bitches just know who they are they aren't getting told about themselves they already know who they are so it just it's just a process like especially getting to know yourself and having nobody be able to talk shit about you cuz you already know what the fuck is good so it really doesn't matter about anybody's opinion bitches hold their heads high and they walk in a room and their presence is felt it's that there she go that's that bitch over there yes like yes so don't ever be afraid to you know be a little big cocky it's a difference between confident and cocky but you can be a little bit cocky who cares like a bitch is always screaming like I'm that bitch I'm that bitch and that's fine just cuz you saying you that bitch don't me I'm that bitch too like you know what I'm saying like we can all be that bitch like don't ever think that it's a competition don't be in competition with no bitch don't be in competition with anybody I know it's hard cuz you want to be somebody else and you see all these bitches on Instagram don't be in competition with no bitch you are your only competition don't call another bitch ugly don't call another bitch I will her shit if you don't have nothing nice to say don't fucking say it like cuz God is gonna see that and God is not gonna bless you don't even compare yourself to nobody all these bitches with these asses but you know what see me like two of my friends got some big-ass booties and you already know like they have big-ass asses and you know I have a nice shape I feel like I have a nice shape I have a nice booty but it's not all like humongous like this that's they got too much ass for me but and that's fine because I'm there's no competition between us because that's my bitch and she looks good then my bitches and they look good so I'm gonna walk next to them like I got a big-ass booty too like there's no competition like ever like I would never feel like I'm in competition with no bitch stop looking at bitches on Instagram cuz you don't even know what the fuck they doing like you don't even know what kind of bed they sleeping on you don't know what their house situation is you don't know them that shit that's pretty much it for this video I hope you guys enjoy I hope you guys become the best you in 2019 hope y'all prosper in 2019 I really hope y'all find yourself stuff y'all going through something right now with some self-esteem issues or anything like that don't worry sis it's not an overnight process but you will get through it and you will get better and you will step in the room like you that bitch period like the period there's no there's no other way to put it so I hope you guys enjoy don't forget to like comment subscribe and I love y'all so much and I'm gonna see y'all in the next video