 وَأَقُولُ فِي القُرْآنِ مَا جَاءَتْ بِيهِ آيَاتُهُ فَهُوَ الْكَارِيمُ المُنزَالُهُ وَأَقُولُ قَالَ اللَّهُ جَلَّ جَلَالُهُ وَالْمُصْطَافَ الْهَاديِ وَلَا أَتْ أَوْوَالُهُ الحمد لله رب العالمين له الحمد الحسن والثناء الجميل وأشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له يقول الحق وهو يهدي السبيل وأشهد أن محمد العبد هو رسوله صلى الله عليه وعليه وعلى آله وأصحابه والتابعين لهم بحسان إلى يوم الدين أما بعد وإن ذا مظاهر دنورهما ويز and forms in which low aspiration manifests إن شاء الله تعالى وإن today we are going to the 23rd form in which it comes about and that is فالكديب lying فالكديب وعمل المرضول lying is an action that is despicable وصفة دميمة a very bad trait وهو خصلة من خصال النفاق and it is a characteristics from the characteristics of the hypocrites وشعبة من شعب الكفري and it's a branch from the branches of disbelief وهو سبب اللي نزأت ثقة من الكديم and it strips away from the individual anyone to trust you ونظري إليه بعين الخيانة and people will look at you as a deceptive individual وهو دليل على باعت النفس وحقارة الشأن وسقوط الهمة it is an indication that a person's soul and the nafs is very low and حقارة الشأن and their affairs is not really high وسقوط الهمة and their aspiration is very low The Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلمه said زرمام البخاري and Muslim both narrated إياكم والكديب stay away from lying فإن الكديب يهدي إلى الفجور lying leads to transgression وإن الفجور يهدي إلى النار transgression leads to the hellfire وإن الرجل لا يكذب A man or a woman would lie and carry on lying حتى يكتب عند الله كدابة until the person is written for them اللايا وقيلة it was said ليس before about lying ليس لكذوب مرؤة A person who lies has no morality or dignity If you can lie and you make up something then it means you have no dignity whatsoever وقال بعض الشعراء في ذم الكديب Some poets they said about rebuking speaking against lying they said وما شيء إذا فكرت فيه بأدهب للمرؤة والجمال من الكديب الذي لا خير فيه وأبعد بالبهائي من الرجال There is nothing that if you really think about it إذا فكرت فيه There is nothing بأدهب للمرؤة والجمال That can remove a person's honor and reputation and the beauty that a person has من الكديب lying الذي لا خير فيه There is no good in whatsoever lying وأبعد بالبهائي من الرجال And it takes the veneration and glorification that you have lying will take that away from you And this is something that is common now ومما يؤسفوا عليه في هذه الأزمان والموت آخرة At this time that we are living It is very common lying كثرة الكديبي وقلة الصدق It is really hard to find someone who will tell you the truth And someone who will be truthful with you It is very hard to find it But it is easy to find someone who would lie If you go to a shop the one who is selling To you would lie about the products that he is selling He will say to you this is the best It is just recently landed He just recently got it Buy it It is guaranteed And this is that And then when you take it it doesn't work When you come back he will say to you Oh no we don't have guarantee for it The local Imam All of it قلة الصدق Finding someone who is truthful is very little And today The people do not want to trust the truthful people They love to take the lies of those who lie You find some people who say to you About The people sincere And giving these people reminders And telling them They prefer not to listen to them These are the truthful people They ignore them And they want to go to the dajala The deceptive people Who lie to them Who lie about their religion And everything They will take those people فما أقل لما يصدقوا في حريتي ومعاملاتي You find someone who is truthful in their speech And their interactions وما أكثر من يكذبوا في ذلك And a lot of people will lie You find a person فمن كاديبن على الله ورسولي A person who will lie about Allah in his messenger ومن كاديبن ومن كاديبن في باعه وشراعه A person who is lying in his training And he is buying and he is selling ومن كاديبن لإفساد ذات البين A person who is lying to make A conflict between two people ومن كاديبن لإضحك السامعين A person who would lie To just make the people laugh إلا كاديبن على مخالفه تشفيا منهم A person who would lie about his enemies Or those he disagrees with Or those who are his opponents He would lie about them Just so he can put them down And cause the people to hate him وتشويها لسمعتهم إلى غير ذلك Present The greatest of those one is the one Who lies about Allah in his messenger He says that Allah in his messenger said this The prophet said The one who lies about me And says that which I did not say Let him prepare his place in Hellfire The one who lies in his buying and his selling One of the ways that they say That Islam conquered Or Islam spread more like In many plans in the world Such as Indonesia and other countries Is not through the sword It was the truthfulness of the traders They would sell their merchant And when they were asked Can I have the best quality For example And he knows that he doesn't have the best quality That his brother over there has the best quality He'll say to him أخي I don't have the best one The best one is with my brother over there Go buy it from him And they were taken back by the truthfulness Of the traders And how they were truthful And the people came into Islam In numbers You find people who would lie about He said that You want to be in conflict between two people You lie He said do you know so and so What they said about you To cause mischief on the earth By lying A person who would lie to make people laugh He calls himself a comedian So he lies He makes up things And all of it It's just to make the people laugh The Prophet ﷺ said in the hadith وَاِلُ الْلِلَّذِ يُحَدِثُوا وَاِلْ بِتَ the one who talks And he speaks Why is he doing it? وَاِلْ فَيَكَدِبُوا وَاَنِهِمْ لَيْزِ In his speech So he can make the people laugh Where he will be to that person Another one He sees a person that he Fills something in his heart towards He doesn't like this particular person He makes up things regarding this person He makes up something To put him down For people to be To not like him For two people to not appreciate him He comes and he makes lies up Lying It's not a great quality They'll destroy you أجيلاً أو عاجيلاً Either now or later People make things up The truth is the best Number 24 إن شاء الله تعالى من مظاهر دونو والهما Ways in which low aspiration is found And that is قلة الحياة Your low in your shyness Shyness my beloved brothers and sisters Is خلق عظيم Shyness is a great خلق عظيم And it beautifies a person And if a person is stripped from shyness And he doesn't have this quality Your level will go down فإذا ما عري الإنسان منه When the person is stripped from shyness وعطولا And he doesn't have من التحلي به دانته متو Your aspiration goes down وسفولت مرتبته And the level in the community That you hold The position that you have In the eyes of the people is very low ولم يأعوا ديوبالي And the person becomes It doesn't care بما يصل على what he does If shyness is stripped from you And you do not have it You will reach a point Where you don't care What you do in life ولكلة الحياة is shyness Or reduction is shyness Lowness having low shyness is a مظهر It's a form It is a way of من مظاهر دون ورحمة No aspiration And There are many ways in which shyness Or having no shyness We can recognize it You don't have shyness Or you can recognize You don't have shyness Is by المجاهرة To be المعاصي When the person Goes out in the open And does sins Such as تدخين في الأماكن العمة Smoking In the presence of the people ورفع الأصوات بالغنة Or listening to music loud In the open Have driving a car And you Everyone can hear you Listening to music For example in your car Or You play it In your house Or you And people can hear it ومن تبر رجن A sister coming out And taking off her hijab And beautifying herself وتبدولن وتكشفن وتعري And not wearing إسلامي clothing The female The brother shaving his beard And coming out Outside with no beard Or The brother having his garment Below his ankles And walking out like that All of that is an indication Of what قلة الحياة That your shyness is very low ومنها Also from it is كثرة اللي جادي وسبابي وشيتان You always وولجر in your speech When you talk You always have to say the F word You have to say the B word And the C word And the D word And all the words That are evil And bad And despicable And that shouldn't be said by almost You say those words You insult Every time you insult Also from the Low shyness is عقوق الواليدين Having no good Dealings with your parents قلة الأدبي مع المعلمين و المربيين The people who are Your teachers Who taught you Who exerted effort in your learning You show them no manners You're disrespectful You're disrespectful towards them The people who nurtured you And raised you And took a role In educating you Your teachers Your مشايخ You insult them And you speak about them In a very bad way This is all قلة الحياة It's having low Shyness And it's an indication That your aspiration is very low The 25th إن شاء الله تعالى is Having a characteristic Known as الحق Some people that have Hate in their hearts Grudges and hates You will find من الناس You from the people من يحملوا نفسا مظلمة They have a dark نفس Some people Their hearts Their mind If you look They speak to you It's very dark و قلبا أسود They have a blackened heart لا يعرفوا للعف و طريقا ولا للصفح سبيلة They in their vocabulary In their dictionary You won't find in there The word forgiveness It's not in their dictionary Somehow it's missing from it ولا للصفح سبيلا And overlooking A person's error and mistake Is also not there for them That word is not present In their dictionary Forgive and forgive They don't have that ف بمجرد أدنا إساءة تقع في حقه من أحد إخوانه تجده يحقد عليه If a slight conflict happens between you and them And you have a And the mistake is on your side You wronged them Okay Straight away they have animosity towards you They have hate and grudge towards you And it's Ten years goes by And they still are holding on to it You find that that person is planning And plotting against that individual يعني ten years have gone by Five years have gone by Or even days have gone by Ten days have gone by Three days after You can't have something in your heart For a Muslim The person is still Planning and plotting against this person And he's looking for وَيَنْ تَضِلُ مِنهُ غِرَّة He's looking for that opportunity لِيَنْ فُدَ إِلَيْهِ مِنهَا So he can execute his plan against them And he's looking for that moment Where something happens They come out and you see them For example He looks for that opportunity When you're down And other people are against you So he would use that moment And he would add on to I've always known him like this And he is like this He doesn't forgive And forget And turn a blind eye And say this is my brother There was a conflict that happened between me and him إن شاء الله تعالى He asked for my forgiveness And I have forgiven him And إن شاء الله تعالى It's over I have nothing more than that In my heart towards them But no This person is sick His قلب is what نفس مظلمة و قلب أسود He has a nafs which is dark He's got a sick heart and mind He can't forgive He can't forget He can't overcome This feeling He can't do that So what does he do? He's planning And he's plotting against this person He's looking for any way In which his anger Toward this person can be fulfilled And he wants it In a In a painful way He wants that person to feel it فَيَشْفِي غَيْضَهُ وَيُلْوِيَ غَلِيلَهُ In order to quench his thirst And hunger So maybe someone might come out With a lie and accusation against his brother He has something in his heart towards him From a long long time So what does he do? He comes in and says Yeah I believe this is true Doesn't research Doesn't look at it Doesn't know what it is It could be made up Just know He jumps into it Because he has something in his heart towards him Cure your heart و نزعنا مفيو صدورهم نغلن اخوانا على صور المتقابلين Clean your heart for the Muslims Clean it Forgive and forget You are yourself not Free from mistakes If someone wronged you Remember how many times you've wronged الله سبحانه وتعالى You've done that which was not right How many times you disobeyed الله تعالى How many times you did what he told you not to do And what do you expect from Allah سبحانه وتعالى And what do you want from Allah You want Allah to forgive you أليس كذلك That is the case For every one of us We want to be forgiven The same way that we want Allah to forgive us We should be forgiven everybody else Every Muslim should be someone you forgive Don't make it your life That whenever you go to sleep That you insha'Allah تعالى forgive Every Muslim out there You forgive them If you still have it in you And you're like that Then remember You have low aspiration و هذا العمل with this action الحق is a what مظهر من مظاهر يدونو ولمة It's an indication of low aspiration فولا يصدورو من النوبا لا حق that doesn't come from the noble people و لا يليق بالعقلاء And it's not something that's befitting for the smart people الحقود The person is filled with rage and animosity لا يرد تفع له قدر You will never see that person rise و لا تعلو به رتمة You will never see their position And their honor go up Because all they do is they sit back This person in their hearts The poet he said لا يحمل الحق دا من تعلو به الرتب و لا ينال العلا من طبع الغضب The poet he said لا يحمل الحق دا من تعلو به الرتب A person whose levels are going to go up And he's going to reach somewhere in life One of the qualities that he doesn't have Is that he doesn't have animosity to other people And hate and grudges and rage لا و لا ينال العلا And high positions are not for منطبعه الغضب The person whose nature is always to get angry He suffers from anger management He's not from the people of العلو High people No And the person who's إن شاء الله تعالى Going to be risen in this earth With high praise by the people Because the people are what شهداء الله في الارض As the prophet told us The prophet told us That the people are the witnesses of Allah on this earth So if they witness to a person's nobility The prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم Told us that this is definitely the case So this individual Who has hecked and hastened You tend to see him That his level doesn't go up و لا ينال العلا منطبعه الغضب And a person who wants to be high Doesn't have the characteristics of anger Can't suffer from anger management And he's suffering deeply From anger-related issues Who's angry? Someone says two or three things You're angry You want to fight with them You're taking off your shirt Come, let's go out If you're like that Then the truth of the matter is You're not going to ever be ever A person who's high Or someone when You fight over something basic And small He's speaking foul language to you He's planning against you And he's talking about He's planning against you He's on the side of your opponent This also is not going to reach Anywhere in life They say that the tongue And the teeth are the two closest They say You bite yourself And you never see Your tongue leave your teeth They stay together The two closest people Are always going to have a conflict Sometimes They say in a crowded room You're bound to step on someone's foot You and this person are together Are close And you say something Or do something That is not pleasing to the other person Because you're dealing with each other On a very regular basis What should you do The characteristics That you need to have with you Is a several patience And a lot of forgiveness If you have those two qualities You'll get somewhere You're a patient person And you're also forgiving You don't forgive Forgive Forgive Forgive Remember Don't do Where you don't like To be done to you You don't Anytime someone does to you You want to repay them back And destroy them Because of what they did to you If that's what you like To do to other people Then expect it For you to be done to you You would like For people to forgive you Right Do the same for those Who have wronged you Forgive them Insha'Allah And always remind yourself We forgive other people Because we want Allah To forgive us We want Allah to To punish us The 26th Insha'Allah Is مجارات السفهة There are some people Allah Tested them Allah tested them Subhanahu و تعالى بسفيه ساقط لا خلاق له They've been tested With someone who has no manners There's this one person In the community Who will not leave you alone He's insulting you He's always hurling Bad remarks at you He's belittling you He's putting you down It might be a family relative A family member It might be a relative It might be a neighbour It might be someone You work with It might be Someone you're in the same Messaged as Someone out there Is going at you Insulting you Putting you down This person has no manners whatsoever Don't steep to their level Some people What they do is They have no aspiration When someone says something to them They straight away They want to respond So what is you do أخذ يجاريه في قيله وقاله You go back to that person And then you go back and forth with that person من ما يجعله عرضة للسماع ما لا يرضيه من قبيح القول ورديه So when you go back to that person If she or he said one thing bad about you When you go back to them So that one thing they said to you Hurt you, right? So you go to them What are they going to now say to you Five things that are going to hurt you again So you end up getting more things That are going to hurt you from them Than what you already heard فا يصبحوا And because of that you become فا يصبحوا بدالكة And because of that you become مساوية للسفيه في سفهه So you now become like the dim-witted one That you saw with This dim-witted individual Who has no manners No أخلاق He's very low, insignificant He's As they say He is seeking attention He wants some recognition You know, they say If you want to be known You're in the Zemzem Water So the person does that They scratch the senior people In order to get a name from it Somehow People are going to remember you Some people are like that They want attention by all means necessary If you steep to that person's level And you give them that attention That they're dying for That they're begging for If you give it to them What tends to happen is You and this person become the same And your level in your station goes down But he said إذا جاريت في خلق دنيئة فأنت ومن تجاريه سواء If you go down to a person Who's like that And you go down And he says a bad word And you go say a bad word to them again And you go like that And with them Then remember فأنت ومن تجاريه سواء You and this person are the same You and this person are the same الأحنا في بن قيسن He said it very greatly He said من لم يصبل على كلمة سمع كلمت ورب غيض تجرعتو مخافة مهو أشد منه إذا كنت محاولة مع شيء أخبار يقول to you أتذكر أنك سترى أكثر than that one word إذا كنت تجاريه فهو only one إذا كنت تجاريه سترى with them سترى that to be 5,6,7,8,9 That's what they're going to say to you And are you able to تستطيع أن تستطيع أن تستطيع أن تتعلم your tongue When they say that in your face Or are you going to say 5 things worse than what they said to you And you end up becoming مخافة مع your presser now Then being مخافة I have to remember this So there's not much wisdom really Steep into the level of people who haven't been nurtured correctly Either their parents didn't do that job And you trying to do it now It's probably not going to work So you just leave them They're probably going to open their mouth Of someone else That is not going to be like you And that person might cause them A physical harm Or even something else So you let them live In this world there's a عجائب A fascination You open your tongue at this person And they might turn a blind eye Because they They don't want to steep to your level But that doesn't mean Everyone's going to be like that Another person You might open their tongue Your tongue to them And they might cause you harm So you just let them live on And they will get The jazz out of their own actions Maybe in this world Or they're hereafter Never steep to the level Of that person However much he talks about you And hurls evil remarks About you And says what he says To your composure Don't let that despicable individual Who speaks in that way Control your emotions That's fascinating Right? How can someone who's there Over there Control the way I think Or the way I act No, I should be controlling myself I should be controlling myself I should know when to speak And when not to speak So restraining yourself And controlling yourself Having Having sabr And resilience Is a quality A noble quality فليس من الحكمة ولا المروأة It's not from wisdom ورب الكعبة And it is not from dignity And honor أن يتعرض المرء لها أولا To present yourself To these type of people To go forward To talk to these type of people To entertain These type of people Don't وإنما تماموا ذلك أن يُعرض عنهم The best way The most complete form Is to turn a blind eye قل موتوا بغيركم Tie with your rage and anger Keep it moving Don't entertain it ويدعوا And leave off ويدعوا مجاراتهم وحديثة معهم Leave off argument Arguing with these people And talking with these people Don't If there happens to be a situation An uncomfortable situation That you'll put in That you meet this type of person What do you do? Just say سلام عليكم today And come to them And keep it moving The ayah what did it say? خذ العفوة وأمر بالعرفة وأعرض عن الجاهل Turn away from the ignorant ones This person is from them Ignorant ones Turn away from them That's a command From Allah سبحانه وتعالى Say السلام عليكم And walk away Look what the poet said He said لا ترجعن إلى السفيه خطابه إلا جواب تحية حيكها فمتى تحرق تحرق جيفة تزداد نتنا إن أردت حراكها The poet he said لا ترجعن إلى السفيه خطابه A dim-witted person Do not respond back to them إلا جواب تحية حيكها Except a greeting That you give to them Say السلام عليكم Or he said to you السلام عليكم And response Don't indulge Or go into a conversation Or a dialogue with that person فمتى تحرق تحرق جيفة If you start going back and forth with them It's like a dead corpse If you move it The smell will increase, right? It's already smelling If you move the dead corpse What will happen? It will smell even more And once you smell more You want to like the smell with you This person if you move them You will get from them That which is not pleasing فمتى تحرق تحرق جيفة تزدادوا نتنا إن أردت حراكها So stay away from it Leave them alone Let them believe what they want Let them say what they want وإلى الله تجتمع الخصوم To Allah سبحانه وتعالى All disputes and argumentations And discord will be brought In front of Allah يوم القيامة Allah will bring that Issue to a conclusion A verdict will be passed by عالم الغيب The one that sees The unseen الذي على مخاينة الأعيون وما تقف السدور The one that knows Was in the chest of the people He's going to bring it forward That day يوم القيامة And he's going to judge the creation Leave it to Allah سبحانه وتعالى Don't always try to get Your rights in this world It puts you down sometimes It humiliates you It shows that you lack The faith in Allah سبحانه وتعالى And Allah تبارك وتعالى Giving you what is better Than what you are trying to attain from Getting your rights I'm going to stop there Anything which I have said That was wrong or incorrect Is from me and Shaytan And Allah And his messenger Are both free from it سبحانك الله و بحمده أشد ولا إله إلا الله أستغفر و قواته و إلي السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته How can you do A two second action Right now That will give you a share of the reward Of everything we're doing On this YouTube channel Simple Like this video And click subscribe Why It will allow YouTube To recommend our videos To other users And imagine A huge amount of reward That could be waiting for you On a day of judgement If you did that With a sincere intention Of spreading The Deen of Allah You'll be rewarded For every single person Who benefits from one of our videos As a result of your like Or subscribe That's an easy Two second action That you definitely Don't want to miss out on Do it now Click like And subscribe And don't forget To make that intention