Video Summary: Building a healthy relationship is a life-long endeavor, not a weekend project. Spend time learning about yourself, the opposite sex, and the critical psychological building blocks that govern love and sex.
Know the defining characteristics of a co-dependent relationship, an independent relationship, and an inter-dependent one. The co-dependent relationship is the least healthy and unfortunately the most common. Both parties are looking to their partner to fulfill them, which is not only impossible, but typically catastrophic. Independent relationships may struggle to take-off, but offer the potential of becoming an even-healthier inter-dependent relationship with sufficient cooperation. Inter-dependent relationships are built on the individual strengths of both partners, and the synergy created when these individuals collaborate.
To best prepare for a healthy relationship, work on yourself first. Operate from a position of abundance, at least in terms of potential partners. Learn to be happy all by yourself. Build yourself an awesome life, and use personal development to work on any "opportunities" for improvement in terms of your personal psychology.