 Hi y'all, how are you? I have to get ready for the camera So the title Hollywood actress mindset now. I know I don't look nothing like no Hollywood actress right about now because it is late I had a long day and I still decided I need to come on and do a live video this week because I didn't go live this week at all Hi NJ princess, how are you? Thanks for always moderating my videos. You're still the moderator by the way Just so you know Let me plug up my phone because my battery's about to die There you go, is it even working? Hopefully that will work if I get caught off y'all know what happens, so I'm gonna try to get it in quick Hi, how are you? Okay, so The Hollywood mindset. I mean the Hollywood actress mindset This means you're the star You're the star of the movie. You're the star of the show. Okay any the any guy you associate yourself with If you are associating yourself with an actor, that's the same as you then you know You don't get much advantage, but if you associate yourself with a director The guy behind the scenes the guy with the money, you know the the film producer the people like that Then you're gonna be able to call more shots Have more creative control You know get what you want So it's best to know the director and the producers versus your co-star And what I'm saying is the directors and the producers are the guys that run the show, you know have the money to do this film to support Your needs your wants your desires listen to your creative ideas, you know what I'm saying, so If we talk about this in real life, it's kind of like dating, you know If you're gonna date someone you need to date someone who can who can push you ahead Who can give you what you want who can give you creative control who can give you? Advantage in the industry or in life Okay, so what I'm saying is You're the star you make their movie have it you're the star of their life you make them look good, okay Years and years and years and years and years and years into the future When that movie comes on you're the movie star. You are what carries that movie Into a classic, okay? You are what makes that director stay famous in the future Because of the actors they chose, you know anything especially if it's a movie with a leading lady so just like all the old Hollywood movies with these beautiful Lead actresses no one remembers the director's names of those movies. They only know Who started it? What ladies started it? Why because she's the star. She's the icon She's the one that will attract people to go see the movie Which is what you are in a man's life if you're not that main Hollywood actress of your man's life And you don't bring anything To his life because of who you are Then you're with the wrong type of man, you know Just like when you go out with your man or whoever you're dating or your sugar daddy or whatever All eyes are on him because of you, okay? That's what you have to be. That's the goal. That's the goal If you're not if that's not what's happening when you guys go out you're with the wrong type of man And if they're getting all the attention Then you might be the director, you know, and they're gonna get all the attention That's why I say I don't I don't like dating attractive men I don't like dating guys who look prettier than me that spend more time in the mirror with me Even when I was young. Yeah, I did it for fun, but I would never marry someone like that or take them seriously, okay? So the the moral of story is if you want to be put on a pedestal You have to act like you are the star of the show and if any man does not treat you accordingly then you have to get up and Say you can't you can't work like this. I can't work like this, you know Just like those actresses they get their own trailer in their trailer. They have a list of demands They have a list of demands before they will even do anything. This is what I have to have in my trailer white candles Champagne chilled I gotta have a white I have to have white leather couches. I have to have this type of imported fruit You know, I have to have Fiji water They make a high list of demands of stuff that they have to have in that damn trailer to show up for work If you can't make the same demands as a Hollywood actress to the man that you're sleeping with And he and he does not deliver. You're with the wrong type of man Okay, you are the star of the show the same thing is saying the woman is the prize we carry People into the future we create the future with our bodies. Nobody remembers the directors mean for Certain movies. They only remember the actress who played in it Okay, so don't think for a second That you are not the star and you are not the prize because you are you know Don't settle for less if they don't meet your demands You quit you know what I'm saying if they don't meet your demands, you're not showing up for work that day You're going on strike if they don't meet your demands You know, you're not coming on set You're not gonna play your role either. You know what I'm saying How long do you give up give it up after he cheated and what should he The only reason you should be a man be with the man after he's cheated is if he's rich and paying every bill and we'll give you money to go shopping and do retail therapy and Get yourself to the point where you don't really care if he cheats because you benefit from it That's the only way you take a back of cheater. Okay, if you're taking back a broke cheater Then I don't know what to tell you Okay, go shopping get his credit card if he cheated Go get go get revenge through credit card Okay And less if if he's broke and you stayed Then I hope it's for financial reasons and I hope that you are gonna go cheat too Okay But I would wait a long time like say he has money And he cheated. Okay. Oh my god. I'm gonna be so devastated that I'm gonna get more and more out of it I'm like, you know, I just can't get over this cheating. I don't know if I'm gonna be other sleep with you anymore You know, I just need to get away for a while. You know, maybe let's go on vacation get some vacations out of it You know, I just I can't get over this cheating It just bothers me, you know And now my car is making this weird noise and I just feel like it's you know, get a new car Get all you can't get out of it until he feels like he deserves to have sex now Like dang, I did all this stuff for you. I know I deserve it now When he knows that he deserves it. That's when you give it up. You don't give it up until he feels like, dang, I've done Vacation car Shopping, you know Jewelry now I deserve it. Okay. Now you messing over me That's when you give it up when he feels like now he really deserves something because he's been spent over You know too much And always stay protected say, you know what somebody says money is nothing if he burns you So I'm not having sex with you out. No condom. No more And if you're afraid he's gonna cheat on you or something like that say well, I'm not having sex until Either a you get your you get a vasectomy or whatever whatever just make up some crazy demands That you know, he's gonna have to think about and take a long time and That way you buy yourself time, you know Just don't even give in just like I can't do it, you know I just I can't Feel right anymore Make him buy you back now. He's chasing you again. He he's gonna be too busy trying to please you That he can't even cheat anymore because he's spending all his money trying to make up with you. So make sure You milk him for everything until he feels like you owe him something. Okay Because remember you're the hollywood actress. He's just the director. He just upset you He didn't put that white sofa in there and that champagne and he he was uh auditioning another actress and she was reading for your part after you had already You know been making half the movies thinking about Replacing you because this isn't that okay. Well, no, you've got a contract And you're more valuable as an actress And he figures that out because he didn't leave you Okay, now your demands grow higher now. You want more pay a bigger trailer. What else? Make the list So just think of yourself like this lady Put yourself on the pedestal because if men don't who will, you know If you don't put yourself on that pedestal, man won't do it either You got to put yourself up there first for them to look up there and worship you. Okay So make sure you're not coming in there like an extra, you know Like a uh like a sidekick you're coming in there as the main Lead highest paid actress that is who you are You come in there like an extra you're gonna get treated like an extra You know So the moral of the story is You know who you are Stop pretending that you're something else. Okay Any woman who is in a relationship that is working harder than the man at the relationship is in the wrong relationship Any woman who loves their man more than their man loves them No good, it's not a good relationship Any man I mean any woman that is in a relationship who is giving more affection attention To the man that he is to her wrong relationship Okay, it's it's not right. You're not benefiting from it unless he's paying every single bill and your Fine with being ignored or fine with not Getting the attention that You want because you don't care Fine, but if you're putting in more work than he is You're in the wrong relationship Yeah, and we don't love yourself more than him. You're in the wrong wrong relationship Why My why do women have to love themselves and put themselves first before their man Why must their man love them more than they love them because women are natural Nurtures It's easy for them to overdo it. It's easy for them to fall in love And take things personal and get hurt. It's too easy. Okay. That's why you have to make sure that that person you're with Fears losing you Loves you more than you love them because if they hurt you they hurt themselves more Okay, and You're not left brokenhearted You're like I was waiting on you to mess up anyway because I got somebody else better waiting in line That's how you have to be. Okay. You can't be all He left me. I sent him 20 000 texts a day telling him I loved him and You know, he only sent me one and that wasn't enough and you know, it's just like He might start off chasing you You might get used to all that attention and then once he gets comfortable pulls it back Then you start wondering hey, why isn't he giving me all this attention because he's comfortable He's not supposed to be like he was in the first two weeks or the first two months of the relationship You know now you're worried about now you're trying to over Compensate and give him all this extra attention thinking he's gonna give it back to you And now you just turn into the chaser You can't do that. You just when they pull back you just pretend like you don't even notice It's like oh, he didn't text me five times a day just two. Okay. I'm gonna text him once Every time he pulls back you pull back too He's gonna then he'll notice like dang you call me today Wait, did I text her? Oh, I better text her again, you know, because maybe he can go through then he's gonna start thinking about you You don't See a lot of guys know that women get hooked on that and then they become crazy over them once they put it on them Give them all this attention Prove that they're a good man and then they start pulling back and slacking now the woman is chasing You don't ever chase they pull back You pull back If you keep if you fall for that trick And you're now you're the one chasing it even though when he first met you he was chasing you you got tricked like you got fooled now He's the Hollywood actor And now he's making his demands so you can't do that You know, that's just like He would be the breakout star of the movie. You you're in the movie. You look good Now here comes Brad Pitt. Okay, but one of his first movies Who is that? Oh my god, who is that? You know now everybody's wondering who is that because he's in this new movie And now he's getting all the attention. No You make sure you're always number one The best looking one in the relationship And the one that they're lucky to have If you do anything else, you're gonna have a hard a hard life. You're gonna be like This is too much work. I'm tired. I'm tired of playing these games You know It's just gonna be extra work. Make sure just make your life easy and take the easy route. You know what I'm saying? It's the best way like I can look on my worst day. I look good to my husband. Why because he's old Like seriously like on my worst day. I look good still to him like I'm still like this many years younger than you You know I can look bad all day, but I still look good But if you sit next somebody that's your same age, you're not gonna look good to them because you know Guys don't age like women do And that's the truth, you know Or if they do It's different, you know, they they like young men attracted to youthful looks, you know, so You start aging they might start looking at somebody younger But if they're already old you are younger like they can't get no younger They keep they they're gonna look down and like oh, okay, she looked good for a young girl, but dang You know My wife still look young compared to me Dang, I must look old and they if they try to go with someone super young They're gonna look super old. So they try to stay with somebody You know in the middle. So that's what I'm saying. If you marry older Are you married a guy who's less attractive? You're always gonna look better than them And they'll never be like, oh Dang why I have to wake up next to this And okay, someone wrote that's why United States have 50% divorce rate The reason why then what we have high divorce rates is because of money. That's the number one reason. It's not about love, okay, people don't get divorced about oh you cheated on me because People stay with cheaters even if they're rich, okay It's about money like if you don't have no money and I have better offers I'm leaving, you know, or if I make a bunch of money and I can get any chick I'm leaving or if you don't pay these bills because I married a 50-50 chick I'm leaving and then go get me somebody that's gonna pay have these bills, you know, it's always about money It's not about love anymore. Most people get divorced because of financial reasons. Okay, or you know The other reasons yes, they're there, but most reasons are financial Because you know, it's just that's just what it is Just like that's why I think don't most think about this Most people that married for money are married longer than people that married for love. Okay. I have friends that married for love They've been divorced two three times. I'm still married same guy Why Because I'm married for love. I like none of this stuff that They married for lasted because that's temporary emotions And based on conditions You know what I'm saying? I've just had one condition. Look actually to you know, be decent Keep that money coming, you know, that's it. I didn't marry for love. Oh, he was cute. Oh, he got a size 13 shoe or Oh, he he's gonna make cute babies. I am married for none of them reasons Okay, because when I was young I said I would never get married. I'm never getting married I'm never having kids. I want to travel. I want to do this I want to do that only thing only reason I would ever get married is I didn't have to do nothing But you know married somebody with money I don't have to work, you know So that's why I did what I did because I never planned on it. I told my mom don't expect no grandkids No, I have kids, but I don't have to do anything. So You know It just all depends. Do you put yourself on that pedestal? Because if you don't who will You can't come in there looking like You know A bug on the floor. Oh, I hope no one looks at me. I hope no one sees me or I hope no one Says bad things about me. You gotta come in there flying like a butterfly Right I'm just being honest. Okay I'm very I'm being very honest when I met my husband. Yeah, it was for money We got to know each other. He did so much for me I did fall in love with him because he took care of me somebody in my group today was saying There was a term for women that can only get turned on by men with money. It's called what is it called? A demisexual that can only get turned on by financially successful men And I feel like there's a lot of women out there that are demisexual You know, I can only get turned on by financially stable No money. It's just okay. It's it's almost it's sad But it's just like a man who can't get turned on By any any type of woman but a woman with boobs. It's like being a boob man, you know, or it's almost like, okay, well Only this type of woman turns me off, you know, a woman that can do, you know, this This is the only type of woman I'm attracted to because anything else out find attractive So it's the same thing with a lot of women. We can't find someone Sexually attractive if they don't have financial security. We just can't it's just like You know to us it's different. It's like sleeping with Someone who can't who can't do anything. It's like, okay I might as well be paying for sex, you know So no You So please Like men don't get mad at women for telling the truth. Most women won't admit this, okay Most women will pretend and pretend like they are only, you know Some women don't know some women will try to give you a chance even if you don't have money because they think you have potential And they'll only give you so long and if you don't reach the potential, they're gone anyway, you know So a lot of women don't want to say this to you. They don't want to say it because they feel like oh, well, I'm not married I don't have no kids yet. I can't ruin my life and my chances are ever getting a guy. So I'm not going to tell the truth I'm just going to let she would say it and I'm going to listen and nod my head Okay, a lot of women won't say this because They're not married or In a good relationship right now. And so they can't say it. So I say it for them, you know Um so If you think about it Think about the jay-z and Beyonce thing, you know She's this she makes him him now like if she were to leave him He would they would totally dog him out like his career could fail. Okay, because she's she is it She is the the shining superstar of that couple, you know what I'm saying So You know her by her staying back is doing him a favor, you know, he did cheat on her He admitted it blah blah blah blah. We are knew that lemonade had come out But she knows if she could take down his whole entire career just by leaving him and that that makes make her feel guilty You know if he messed up real real bad to something that she could not forgive And she was just just mad as hell and it was just done She would ruin his career. She would just leave and everything that he ever built would crumble He's gonna be like R. Kelly. You know what I'm saying? That's just it. So So she's helping him By staying with his cheating, but you know, he didn't spend some money on her promised her the world probably I don't know probably went through some torture or let her watch just so she could stay because that's what I would do I'll be like, look I have a I have a strange mind. I would be like, okay The only only way I'm not leaving you is if you let me strap you up to this table And hire a professional torture person to come in here and torture you and let me watch You ain't gonna buy me no diamond ring. I could buy my own diamond ring. I want to watch you get tortured That would be me if I if I held all that power in my hand Like Jay-Z get on it or Sean get on this table and let him strap you down And I'm gonna tell him what to do to you And you have to take it If you don't take it, I'm I'm gonna divorce you And while they're torturing you they're gonna be playing lemonade in the background That's that's what I would do like seriously. I'm sadistic like that and I will do it And and I would take pictures so I can remember it when Um It's almost like I'm sure I don't know. I don't think she did that but that's what I would do Because like after a certain point and you're rich and he's like he can't buy you nothing you can't buy yourself So now comes the the craziness now comes the crazy now you're gonna make an album. I'm gonna make an album Please don't leave me. I apologize to you and his album. Please. I'll tell everybody the truth about myself and all these songs Please don't leave me Okay, so You know, that's what he did But she's still the star and she's on the pedestal So I'm saying he loved her more than she loved him He cheated because you know, that's what he's used to doing. He's a man. Me ain't gonna cheat But he sure didn't make it right and publicly humiliated himself Made her look even better Yep They propped you up What did you say hang the pictures on your wall? Yeah, she probably got those pictures taken in black and white at weird angles So you can't tell what it is look like abstract art and then they'd hang it on the wall And it's him just being tortured and you just don't know like a reminder that would be that's something crazy like rich people would do take sadistic art With black and white photo and zoom in on a certain part. You don't know what it is. But they do it's like a private secret craziness See i'm supposed to be rich because I have sadistic crazy ideas that only people with a bunch of money Will come up with you know, it's like when you're rich, they don't call you crazy. They call you Oh, they're very Uh eccentric when you're poor they just call you crazy so Oh Anyways I'm just I'm just having fun. Y'all don't don't take me seriously. I just like y'all have to realize My background is not My background is you know death Weird stuff, so you can't you can't expect me to think like positive pretty roses and oh they went to marriage therapy That was a therapy these pictures Okay That's what I would be I want to be an extreme marriage counselor For the rich that means I will I will torture your x if they cheated and I'll torture your man or your woman If they cheated on you have pictures taken and made into abstract art Hang around the house as a reminder and that's your therapy Okay, now give me my money And we call it we'll call it extreme marriage counseling I think they had a twilight zone like that Where they were trying to yeah, was that the twilight zone or was that cat sign? Do you remember Stephen King's the movie cat sign? and at the first show the first episode was this man He wanted to stop smoking cigarettes And they said sign this paper. We're gonna make sure you don't you don't smoke. It's an extreme uh smokers Whatever And you know You're not gonna smoke after this program. We promise so the guy signed up. He didn't know he was signing up for But hit and the contract it said that they could torture his wife and kids um and Do crazy stuff to him if he smoked a cigarette they had people following him around making sure he didn't smoke you know And he like snuck a cigarette he was in traffic He snuck a cigarette and somebody saw him And they went and got his his wife and put her in this uh cage and they were shocking her And she was like jumping up and down because she was getting electric like shocks And he had to watch her get tortured because he smoked a cigarette So it's like it was an extreme uh way to stop smoking, but they didn't know what they were signing up for It was hilarious But he stopped smoking Um anyways So Men like I know a men always say women are entitled and they're they think they're all that and they think they're the prize And they put all these expectations on us and blah blah blah blah blah And that's true and we're supposed to you know, if it wasn't for women, you wouldn't do anything You wouldn't get up in the morning If it wasn't for women, you would not get up in the morning. You wouldn't cut your hair You wouldn't shave. You wouldn't even wear the odorant. You know what I'm saying? So of course, we're here to motivate you That's what we do. That's what our that's what our purpose is We're here to make you become a better person and and our reward is you giving us what we deserve I'm sorry. That's just the truth. It's just it's just the truth Imagine they're they're finna have some type of like woman blackout on facebook Where all the women are gonna black out their pictures to show men what it looks like With the world without women. I think it's to raise aware of domestic violence or something like that If there were no women in the world okay Most of the men I'm just like most of the men would turn gay They would go towards the feminine men or the men that dress like women. They already do that now, but I'm just saying They would just go because they're highly sexual creatures They need motivation I just saw um My friend kissy on facebook. She's a celebrity blogger and she just posted Bobby Valentino running out of a transgender woman's house With his shorts in his hand and he he did not pay for services. And so she got him off film leaving her her house and he was like um Running down the hallway Forgotten to pay for services. So you know They're not you know, men are not picky. They they will they will sleep with whoever whoever want to give it to them for free or They he thought it was free So don't Don't ever don't ever think That you know I'm just saying The ones you least expect to Yeah So, okay, okay, so, um What was I was I saying? Okay. Yeah, you take all the women out of the world. Men are just gonna turn gay you know Faster than women would look at women. Look at prison. Look at prison. Let's just look at prison Look at prison women prison versus men prison okay You don't have that problem that you do in a male prison That you do in a female prison. It's it's less of a lot less. You know what I'm saying? So make sure you understand um The man's main focus when they first meet you when they first, you know start dating is to have sex with you That's the main purpose. That's it The longer you can get him to to uh to spend time with you to spend money on you to get to know you without having sex with him The bigger advantage you gain because that's all his goal is in the beginning. That's what draws him to you That's what makes him Do all these crazy things wake up and go to work so he can take you out so he gets up Okay, so make sure you understand where your power is and don't give it away freely Okay Okay, don't give it away if you're giving out free sex and you're not getting nothing in return You're not smart and I'm not saying be a prostitute I'm saying get something else in return if you're giving sex out and you're paying half the bills You're not smart Okay, if you're giving sex out and you he's not taking you out and buying you things giving you nice gifts Paying your you know your bills washing your car doing something and you just doing everything for him Then you're not smart. Okay, because the the thing that you're giving away free Is what most men will pay for and chase for months You know if you're smart about it might not be the one that looks like You know, uh tray songs But he's gonna be spending like tray songs Okay So don't forget it Men will tell you they're only interested in sex. Look in the look in the comments. They'll say Well, that's why I was just gonna pay a prostitute Y'all are just only good for sex or what do you bring to the table besides sex because sex sex sex? That's all I think about So why would you give it away for you? You know, that's just like a crackhead looking for crack always looking for crack looking for rocks on the ground crack crack crack Why would you give a crackhead crack for free when you can make money off of them? I don't know You know what I'm saying? I'm not a drug dealer but It's obvious that there's something there that you a way that you can benefit You know, you you ever seen those those hood movies where they have crackheads washing people cars Doing, you know, uh, cutting the grass and stuff for three dollars Of course. Why because what do they want? Okay Use it to your advantage if you can get your house painted your car washed and your grass cut for three dollars Why wouldn't you do it? That's all I'm saying The men are so mad because they know it's true the reason the reason why Women give it up too soon is because they fear losing the dude or that that the guy will become disinterested Okay, and they will only act disinterested if they know that You're gonna give it to them Okay, if you don't care how they act and you're like, okay. Well, I don't need to give it up Anyway, you know what you can go get it from over there over there for free over there for free But you can't get mine free And you know secretly in the back of their mind They want yours the most because it's not free and they will work to get it So don't don't get upset Don't fear losing some dude that only wants you for sex anyway You know what I'm saying because after he hit it he's gonna quit it The longer he stays around you spends his money on you spends his time with you the the more of an investment he makes him to you You know the the more He does to to get it He's gonna think twice about leaving it And if he does leave it You still benefit it because all you had to do was sleep with him for two minutes probably And he had to spend how much money take you on how many days Do all this stuff by you what? You won even if you did hit it and quit it you still won So don't get caught up and oh i'ma lose him because there'll be another one waiting in line right behind him Just to get what he's looking for you know what i'm saying So Oh shoot Preview of my own Jeff don't think Don't think it's free. It's not free Even chris rock said Hey Never was free never will be free only free It's only free and you get tricked That's it Even in marriage Big husband gotta do something You're gonna clean up. You're gonna do laundry. You're gonna wash the cars. You're gonna take the kids here. You're gonna do this You buying them shoes you know so Make sure you always getting something for it that way You get your man in the habit of giving you giving to you if you want something from you, okay? That's how supposed to be give and take If you want some he gotta give some And not just sex because women don't value sex and men They value what they can offer them and how much they can make their lifestyle comfortable Men value sex and women women value Comfort material things in men. Okay. Yeah, we'll like you let yeah, we like sex, but not as much as you do Okay. Yeah, it's good. It's okay, but it's not as good as it is to you. You know what I'm saying? Like we can take it over even we would rather go shopping somebody said you want to have sex or you want to go shopping Women would say I want to go shopping You know, do you want to have sex or do you want some ice cream? Women would probably say I want some ice cream You say men you want sex or you want to go shopping men going to have sex Men you want sex or you want ice cream men going to have sex man You want sex or you want a job man going for the sex. Okay So remember You hold the power Because of what they want the most you have it and if you give it away for you, you're losing Losing big time and I'm not saying charge for it and be a prostitute. I'm saying benefit from what you have you know Benefit from it. Don't give it away and be like, okay. Now what? It's just like being scammed. Okay. It's being scammed out of something valuable and you get nothing in return Okay, if you don't get anything in return, then what's the point of giving it? The point of giving it up to someone if you get nothing in return You're not gonna get his love Because that's not why he was interested in you the first one. So you just want to sit You know what I'm saying So why would you Why would you give that up to him and give nothing? Be smart Anyways girls are causing problems Well girls are smart Guys try to trick women into giving them free sex. That's the biggest con of all time Unless you meet a woman who's a sex addict or a sex fiend Who enjoys sex as much as a man Great, but at the end of the day, she's still gonna want something I'm just gonna say so Somebody said don't get stretched out for a ten-piece nugget I think they said it. I didn't So if you want to be a man who appeals to women Who they want to sleep with don't try to sleep with them. That's the key don't want to sleep without All right, you reverse psychology. Duh If you don't if you're dating a woman and you're not trying to get in her pants She she's don't know what she's like. Okay. He's not trying to sleep with me. Okay I gotta figure this out Okay, so is he gay? Does he already have a wife? Does he just want a friend? Now she's trying to think about what you're doing And what you're about now. She's becoming intrigued with you. You know what I'm saying? So if men weren't so thirsty I'm just giving you all some gay if men weren't so thirsty women would not have such a huge advantage over there But men are so thirsty. It's so easy You know what I'm saying if men were less thirsty We will actually have to think We got actually have to contemplate. Are you do you really like us or you know, um What what are you about? I can't figure this one out because I think he's gay or I think Maybe he doesn't have enough money or maybe he's not interested in me Maybe he's not attracted to we're gonna be like checking ourselves because you're not you're not trying to sleep with us You know, it's it's refreshing. It's like dang. He's trying to sleep with me. I think I like him Then you become more attracted to us and we're not trying to sit up here and and use you You know, we might deem you special. You know, okay. Well, I'm not gonna go dig on him. I'm gonna go dig on the other dude I'll save him For when I want a real relationship Okay, we're gonna save him for last That's the kind of you marry Um, I don't know if y'all watched that show queen sugar on own network Well, what's her name? She just met this guy She played terra in a true blue. Okay, so I'm gonna call it terra She met this guy and he's not all trying to sleep with her He's like really trying to get to know he's like a total gentleman and they you know, they're interested in the same stuff He got money. She got money, you know So he's like really trying to impress her with other things besides that They they phone to visit each other in different states. They haven't slept together There's you know walk and talk and drink coffee like the stuff I tell y'all not to do But you know, they're both like well established people so I wonder where that's gonna go if y'all watch that show Hold on a second. I'm trying to make sure my phone is charging more in a second Okay Anyway So guys if you want us to be baffled and take you seriously stop trying to chase for sex That's all I'm saying As long as you're chasing we charge you So as long as the demand is high The price is too Think about it business and economics, okay um so Remember ladies always put yourself first high Make sure the man loves you more Do not marry somebody who you love more than they love you. It will never work out. Okay Why I'm saying this is because Naturally, you're gonna fall in love with this person or naturally You're gonna grow closer to this person Anyway, and the little affection you do give this person or the the good amount of affection that you give this person Is the right amount if you love them more than they love you and you're giving them this much affection And they're giving you this much affection. It's off balance And you're gonna smother them and they're gonna want to run and go find somebody else or They're not going to give you the attention that you need. Okay, so make sure The balance is right. Don't ever marry somebody you love more Believe me I've seen women that do that those men treat them like trash clust them out in front of their friends Put them down call them ugly And the one that's just sitting standing there taking them like what the heck like Is this earth am I dreaming? I don't know like why are you standing there you idiot? Like do something what? Girl, he's broke too. No Why are you letting the broke man who's laying on your couch sit there and talk about you to your faith? There's something wrong with this picture. Why because you Ended up with a man that you love more than he loves you and you Sit there and let him talk to you like that. That's the stupidest thing Any woman can do the dumbest thing you'll look stupid You look like you never even graduated kindergarten. That's how you look when I see stuff like this I'm just watching. I'm like I'm giving some popcorn a black I'm like, I'm waiting on her to do something. She ain't doing that and I'm like I'll just start snapchat. You know like look at this fool So if you're one of those dumb women like that who are taking mental abuse From some broke dude because you love him. Y'all got a connection. Oh, that's my soul mate. You stupid Okay, you're supposed to be the star of the show Not the extra Okay, if you're not the star you don't have your own dressing room If you don't have your own trailer if you don't have your listed demands met and you're Here then you're in a b-list movie And you are probably an extra that's your life a b-list movie as an extra Don't don't do it. Don't sign up for that What do you do if you like sex but these rich men are the worst in bed Um get get some operational tools Have a you know To me, okay women who like sex that much Are not using it the correct way If you like sex And you just sex and for sex That's stupid too. Okay, if you love sex you can still get What you want, you know what I'm saying? Why because a woman who loves sex that much And values herself Once she gets that person that special person and she puts it on him and She she can teach him what to do and all this kind of stuff. She can create what she wants out of this man by training him Or whatever he's going to Worship the ground she walks on If you just looking for somebody And get you off And you're not benefiting from it. That's dumb too if you have these if you love sex men women love men love women who love sex And they will give you anything Okay, that's like getting A two for one, you know what I'm saying if you love sex that much go get you a rich man and put it on them Okay, and then teach him like look i'ma teach you we're gonna play a game make it seductive You know what I'm saying time up And this is what you need to do I'm gonna give you an instructor be the dominatrix or something teach him how to do something You can get more out of him like oh my god. I never had a woman talking like this before I'm so in love I'ma put you in my wheel Bam you end up in the wheel Okay okay Get put in the wheel if you love the half sex you should be in some old rich man's wheel Okay If you love the half sex and you giving it over here for free the whoever whoever has the biggest thing and can go the longest That's just like the animal kingdom. Okay We're not in the animal kingdom. We're in civilization We're building up real estate. We're getting uh Money market accounts. We're doing this. We're doing that. We're not in the animal kingdom Okay, if you want to be in the animal kingdom the way I'm bad thinking man, go ahead and do that but If you like sex you need to profit off of liking sex you need to make a man Crawl on his knees because you didn't put it on him. So good. Okay If you if you if you're not doing that and you love sex, but you need to figure out how to do it You know what I'm saying? Perfect example rihanna We know she's a freak. We know she loves some sex We know it Okay, that's picy they freaks But they're classy freaks and they will put it on you and you will never you won't know what will happen It will hit you in the head You're gonna worship that person forever She ain't this out there having sex with everything and she knows that some of these guys she didn't slip with Can't do nothing and you know drake can't do nothing But they still all in love with her Because she put it on them. Okay, so remember that Classy freaks And don't ever tell people you like to have sex. That's a secret. Okay. That's what that's the classy part Like these women who are posting on facebook. I love sex thinking it's like, oh, you know this new Want women's movement to like post all their business out Keep it classy and let it be a surprise That is the best part You know the surprise is the best part You think you just finna get some regular missionaries down and they you bust up in there and put it on them They ain't gonna walk out looking Stumbling and staggering But if you post all this stuff on your wall, ooh, I'm a freak Ooh, I like to do this and they come over there. They're gonna be trying to do everything in the book to you Whether you like it or not because you you a freak Okay, keep it classy. Don't post your stuff on facebook. I see a lot of these women Oh I'm you know, I'm sexually free. I like sex. I need a man That's supposed to be a secret Because when you can supply the man and throw it on him like that And he'll not expect you to be the biggest freak and do any kind of thing to you and only see you as a freak Because that's all that's what they see you as only as a freak when you post this stuff They don't see you as a mother a wife a girlfriend a potential um long term you know They dating situation they think you oh i'ma get it and i'm gone because that's all she won't that's all she's posting about So stop posting about sex ladies. You don't post about sex. I know some of y'all have been trained better than that I've seen it on facebook. I'm like what the heck this is trashy super trashy It's supposed to be a surprise like christmas supposed to unwrap it and see what you got And then See how it performs And then What do you do then you go get insurance on it, right? Okay, so Make sure you keep it classy Not trashy let sex and that the the fact that you like sex be a surprise be like a pricey You're a mysterious. You don't know what we're gonna do. You don't know if we're a freak or if we're Conservative we're probably both but you won't know until it's happening Okay Keep it like that. That's that's the secret know your value You know people that advertise too much people that do this too much and you know people just If she got to do all that it must not be all that you know what I'm saying Let it be let it be a mystery so make sure If you're overcompensating for some type of insecurity by posting sexual stuff Just to get the attention of men because they're not giving it to you any other way They already know that First of all, they already know that oh she can't get attention any other type of way So she must have low self-esteem So let me slide up in her inbox because I know she's gonna get it give it to me And then two weeks later these women are crying. I was taking advantage of this man used me He borrowed money from me and of course he did why because you were advertising it I'm I'm desperate Come take advantage of me. That's all you were doing. Okay Call them pick me chicks over sexually pick me chicks. That's what they're called. We'll stop doing like that Okay, don't do that. It's not it's not even cute when everybody sees it everybody knows what you're doing Like oh, she must can't get no attention the normal way So she got to be extra sexual so she can get some attention Oh, and then she's gonna get a lot of guys in her inbox who look decent Um, and they're just gonna use her up and then two weeks later. She's gonna be talking about how men ain't shit Oh, we already know the pattern. That's what it is Oh, we know We see it too much It's a pattern now So I'm just saying it's just the pattern we see it If you're going to advertise yourself like that, don't be don't advertise how you got dogged out the next week At least keep that a secret if you can't keep nothing else a secret pretend like you win it at least I know if I were in that situation and I kept getting dogged out because I was a pick me chick I would at least keep the part where I got dogged out a secret I mean that's only common sense Like I'm not telling y'all I got missed over Okay, anyway So y'all have any questions? Y'all have any questions? I need a talk show they would they would not put me on tv unless it was cable Because well, I guess it could be like basic cable It could be on a basic cable. You think Oprah would hire me for own You know how they have uh, y'all I fixed my life I would be like the extreme version of that I would be like I would just tell like I don't even want to help you too much of a mess You're gonna have to pay me over gonna have to pay me some extra money on this one Oprah I'm here if you need me How you doing? Now Oprah getting into science fiction now. She's in the wrinkling time playing a witch with some jewels on her face She's she's moving up. She's not she's not trying to do the reality tv shows or talk shows hardly anymore She's moving up to the big leagues Getting her own producing her own shows and stuff I actually did do a pilot for an Oprah show back in the old days back in the old days um it was 2000 and Eight or 2009 I did a pilot Um these people wanted me in the pilot. I didn't I did not go looking for it They came looking for me. I'm like and I wouldn't even on youtube then They just like we like the way you look can you come and shoot this pilot with us and do this this and that I'm like, okay and I was uh, it was a cooking show and it's kind of like You know that show where They redecorate your house like because you had like some bad family issues And they come and take you shopping and a team of people will come in your house and redecorate Well, it was one of those type of shows except instead of decorating They will come and cook you a gourmet meal While you know your family members take you out and then when you get home You have this beautifully chef prepared gourmet meal and table set up And it's like oh, we just wanted to do this to surprise you because you've been such a good mother and you just got through this and that so I piloted for that show as one of the chefs because y'all know I do have a culinary degree And they just like the way I look like you ain't got to be the best chef in the world You just got to look good on tv, right? So, um I don't think it ever got picked up, but it was fun to do it Right and That was the last time I was in well, I actually um I never I never try to audition for things people always try to come to me. I'm like, I'm not no actress I'm not an actress Okay, anyway So Make a long story short if I ever do get a tv show It's going to be over. I gotta be for all network. I ain't I'm not doing it like doing a little cheesy stuff. I have standards Dang all these trolls in here Like seriously I have no life Oh my god, the emoji movie Oh my god, I saw the emoji movie with my kids. They talk so funny about trolls. It's hilarious They said, oh, oh, those are the trolls. Don't worry about them. They show like so ugly troll looking things Oh, those are trolls. Don't worry about them. They still live with their mom. They're single They can't get a girlfriend. They have nothing else better to do Oh, yeah, it was hilarious. I was like They are so so right these guys have no women Live with their mom and broke. I was just like, wow, how did they They know they know trolls then You know, if I were to ever be An internet troll that like troll just to troll like and you didn't do anything to me or You know, and I just trolled like y'all I wonder how bad said my life would be But you know what would be funny if those trolls were like rich millionaire Corporate guys who are sitting up bored at home on their phone On the couch Just trolling like this Their alternate ego That would be hilarious and they would change their name But I doubt these guys have money because they seem retarded They can't be they can't they IQ can't be over 75 So Anyways I'm waiting on questions Okay I'm trying to block on they're like getting on my nerve. They really have no It's friday. It's saturday night and y'all at home trolling. Wow Y'all can't even afford to go out Are y'all in prison y'all trolling from prison Is it y'all this uh internet time on the clock? Hey god, they're trolling from prison Okay I'm gonna get through the trolls. Okay Just ask them I can see them It's like they're little kids and they get off on saying bad words because they're not supposed to be saying bad words It's hilarious Can you post the clip please of the pilot? I don't have the clip of the pilot. It was like years ago I don't even have that same computer. It was years ago I wish I still had it So God these trolls have like 20 names. They must have no life like seriously If I was ever a troll I would kill myself because I would be if I have to go and do that for entertainment my life must really suck Like dang this all I got to do Mike Y'all can't even y'all can't even masturbate or something instead I can't get it up. Yeah, that is reptile dysfunction too Right. What is your proudest achievement so far? self-control self-control because I you know self-control is a is an achievement because People can make decisions and choices based on certain things and it could ruin their life And if you can learn how to control yourself Everything else will fall in place, you know It says if you can master yourself you can master anything So once you master yourself a hundred percent 90 percent 80 percent you're gonna master other things, you know So I think my greatest achievement is self-control and and self-improvement, you know I don't say anything else is an achievement. I think it's an outside reaction or a response to your self-control And the decisions and choices you make in life, you know what I'm saying? For example I if I had broke up with some guy and I was all in love with him And I had the self-control enough to move on and go start dating other people instead of obsessing and chasing behind some loser I had the self-control to say, okay, I'm gonna let this go. I'm not gonna I'm gonna sit here and worry about it My life Improved, you know it might not have felt good to do But the self-control not to do what My emotions were saying to do but my logic were saying was saying to do Got me to a better position. You know what I'm saying? So self-control and self-love is my greatest achievement Y'all like my miss america answer? I will win Who is smarter rihanna or Beyonce? I say rihanna smarter y'all. I'm sorry Beyonce is great, but rihanna is way smarter And she's slick like she's like she'll compliment you and and dis you and you won't even know what happened You don't even know which one she did Okay I think she's smarter, but you know, she's a lot younger than Beyonce I think when she when if they were the same age you would definitely see who was smarter Beyonce is a great entertainer It's just like saying, you know, it's just like saying who's smarter prince or rihanna I mean prince or michael jackson. They're both smart michael was the best entertainment prince had this mind He was a genius like he could play every instrument. He was strategic. He was smart. He was slick. He was sly so I would say Beyonce would be like mj And rihanna would be like prince. They're both smart, but one is just slick about it. You know what I'm saying? One is just slick Yeah mj and Beyonce are both very Somebody's talking about black china. Oh my god black china She's not she is she's devious She will stop at nothing She's the kind of woman that will get revenge on you She that's kind of when I love revenge. She's like that's her new hobby revenge What is your hobby revenge? Tell me the things that you like revenge getting people back dating people's brothers Having children and collecting the child support checks and then leaving Hey, I'm not knocking her up. I think She made a life for herself out of doing the things out of her hobbies When you can get paid for doing for for for doing your hobby you'd have made it You know how to say you don't have to work for people if you find something you love and do it Something you would do for free And eventually you'll get paid for it. That's what that's all black china did She just followed her instinct and her talent and she got paid off of it Some people some people's talents are different, you know some people's talents Are sewing and making clothes and designing some people's talents are hooking men and you know get money from them and blackmailing them and Getting revenge on them Taking them to court to sue. There's a lot of things That's just her talent She's just she just profited off of her natural born gifts. You can't be mad at her for that Hey Where do I find a rich man And do you suggest any dating sites? Seeking arrangements. You can find sugar daddy there Seeking arrangements they tell you how much they make too on that site Okay Tips on dating with children Don't tell the man you have children unless you're serious about them. You know what I'm saying? Um I would say if you're going to date someone They don't need to know you have kids unless you plan on being serious with them You know what I'm saying? If you only plan to to use them up a few times Get some money out of them and you're not trying to marry them or make you know make him a step dad Don't even know like oh, you know, I got something to do this weekend. I can't talk right now. I'm busy You know, you know make up something but don't tell someone you have kids because first of all They're gonna stereotype you label you think that they can get more out of you for giving that giving you less because They feel like single Moms are more desperate and will accept less so don't tell them Say hey You know if they hear some kids in the background. Oh, I'm babysitting my nephew If you know, you're not going to be serious about this If you know, you're going to be serious about this do wait until a couple of You know, maybe a month and then I have kids Well, why didn't you ever tell me? Well, I don't I didn't know if we were going to be serious But now I think it's time to tell you by time by that time they're hooked They're like, oh, okay. Well, I want to meet them. You know now they're all in love. You don't put it on them Now all of a sudden they want to be a step daddy So don't tell them until they're hooked. That's how you do it Haven't you learned don't you see all these women getting married with all these Who have kids from other marriages? They put it on them and get them hooked then they say, oh, guess what? I got some kids Okay And y'all know y'all seen it. I'm sorry I'm sorry guys will take care of them other people's kids before they take care of their own kids Why because that lady's putting it on and if he stopped taking care of her kids, he can't get another Sad truth Hi Yes, Laila. I'm still live What are you doing? Go put your pajamas on and go to bed All right, I'll be down in a little while Good night Love you Okay I'm trying to read How to teach a man a lesson if he doesn't get it It after what first try to teach a man a lesson how to How to teach a man a lesson if he doesn't get it after first try I don't think that man need a lesson but men are going to try to do that. That's just their nature. What like That's all right. I don't know what country you live in but if you live in america, that's just normal You just deny it's like, oh, I don't do that unless I'm in a committed relationship You know If he's a commitment folk, he'll run and I'll never try to do it again Or he'll try to get to pretend like he wants to get in a relationship with you And if he pretends like he wants to be in a relationship with you, that's when you give him Your relationship standards. Well, if I'm gonna be in a relationship with somebody, you have to pay my bills Or I need an allowance I need you to give me this much a month if I'm gonna be if I'm gonna call you my man and take myself off the market You know, so Then they want to do that And if you're worth it They will if you're not and they was just trying to get some and they have other people that they can get some from They're just going to like forget you and we'll get some somebody else will pick me chick or something But after they get tired of pick me chicks and they want a challenge or a woman that's out of their league They're going to do the work They're going to do the work eventually and When they get tired of the hood rats to pick me chick the desperate the desperate chicks They're going to Level up and say okay. I've had all that now. I'm focused on getting this. This is what I want. I'm going to put in the work for this That's why when you get the older men, they're ready to put in work. They didn't had all the pick me chicks They didn't had all the uh The hood rats the pick me chicks They've elevated and graduated now. They want a classy woman that challenges them. Okay so If you have someone who just interested in you for one thing and they dismiss you when you don't give it up They're not done playing with the pick me chicks Okay, so make sure you don't don't even worry about them. They weren't going to be good for you anyway They were a waste of your time, but you did get something like a free dinner out of it at least Okay What age did you originally want to have children I want to wait till I'm 27 right here. That's what I had my first child at 27 At my first child at 27 Then my next child at 28. So I don't think it was too old. I still look I'm the youngest woman I'm one of the youngest moms at those kids school like where I live in the neighborhood These women wait till like like 40 to have kids You know, so I'm still young compared to unless they just look old. I don't know They say 37 is too old 36 is too old not 27. That's like your prime when you're like very fertile And I think they I think they meant 37 not 27 because that's like Two years after being 25 Do I recommend visualizing a lifestyle with a rich man? Yes, that's how I visualized my whole life Like you know how when you're young you imagine your life in five years from now Or what are you going to be driving? How are you going to look? What's your hair going to look like? What kind of house you're going to live in I imagine all that Like super nice and I I didn't know how it's going to get it But I know some man was going to pay for it Yeah visualizing helps, okay What if you're only average attractiveness? How do you compete with these other build a vixen type women? You build yourself into another vixen. That's all you gotta do But if you're average and you got to compete with somebody else You go and get the stuff to compete. Okay. Do y'all remember in the early 90s and late 80s There was two types of women Long chicks long hair long hair light skin chicks and and then then there was like Short hair light skin chicks and then there was bald head light skin chicks And then there was dark skin chicks and then there was this chicks and there was that chick Now everybody got a weave makeup And then everybody can be on the same level if you don't take that chance And you don't compete then I don't know what to tell you I I wear wigs our makeup I got to compete with people that's competing with me. You know what I'm saying? I got to compete with men too Men that dress up like women so And it's not really a competition, but you know what I'm saying I'm saying everyone has to compete if you're not here to compete then you have to go home You know what I'm saying? You can't just say I don't want to do nothing and I want to get picked I just want to look like I did when I came out the womb I woke up like this Okay, well you sit there and you wait for somebody to pick you Or you go could help yourself get some lipstick get some eye shadow Get some hair get some get something and present yourself. You know what I'm saying? Look I have a blank canvas. Let's see how good I can make it look You know what I'm saying because everybody else is painting. Let me paint something on mine, too, you know um It's very rare And I'm just being honest We buy honesty here. Okay. It's very rare that you're going to land a financially six successful man When there's all this competition out there and you're not competing Okay It happens, but it's very rare That's all I'm saying. So if you're just average looking go look on youtube get some makeup tutorials Buy some makeup learn how to do it You know I've seen burn victims get turned into movie stars. Okay You ain't got no excuse. I've seen a grown man with the beard turn it into something better looking than Beyonce, okay If you're average you don't have to be that's all I'm saying You choose to be average I'm average Okay, I'm average The people when they take all their makeup off their average, you know We got to enhance what you got You have to enhance what you got you can't just Well, I'm just not gonna do anything and see what happens Okay Okay With all the multi talk arm in making 150 range right now If they can take care of every bill you have give you a nice lifestyle and give you a nice car And don't ask you to work That works. Okay, if they can fully provide and protect you And you don't have to worry about nothing go for it. I don't I never said you have to Be with a millionaire. I just say as long as they can take care of you And you and you can splurge every down then and you can go on vacation Then go 150 it depends on what state you live in you can live good or you can live average It just depends on where you live. You know what I'm saying? How do I get a man to spend more money on me regularly? expect it You're like, okay, when you know this month, you know, I want my Name something always have something that you want Always have something that you want that way. They know when they see you they don't have to spend or give you something Whenever you get around them just start talking, you know, I really need this or I really want this You know, let's go to the mall. Don't be happy unless They're taking you a shopping to the mall or giving you a gift card saying Oh, I really want this, you know, don't don't think about nothing else. Keep changing the subject back to what you want Eventually they're gonna get tired and want you to shut up so they don't get it for you so that they can move on to try to get in your pants Okay, but don't let it go. Don't be don't be nice. Okay. Remember nice women finish last If you I told my husband the first the first real gift here about me was a Louis Vuitton purge And I kept reminding them about that. I said, you know, my birthday is this week You know, this is before this is when we first started dating like one month after we started dating I said, you know, my birthday is next week. He's like, well, what do you want? I say I want I gave him the number and everything I want the Louis Vuitton such and such and such a purse It Louis Vuitton stories in the gallery on the third floor. You just go You know go in this entrance. I told him the directions everything. I said this that's what I want He said that you don't want anything else. I said, nope. If you don't give me that I don't want anything And guess what I got it and By me telling him what I wanted Got it for me because a he liked me more than I liked him Which is which is that's how you need if you don't like if they don't like you more than you like them You can't get it So make sure that dynamic is in place work Then he'll then he'll give you whatever you want and then He'll try to scoot around it But you have to keep reminding him like look, you know, you can't skip around on this, you know If I'm gonna be with you, you don't need to do this You know, I can go and I can actually go by my own purse, but I want to see if you can do it You know It was too easy, you know, you got you have to just be bold and ask and like it's no big deal like If somebody if you're talking about cash money, that's different get gifts Get gifts that are worth things like get jewelry get purses that go up in value because if you keep asking for cash It's it's gonna get like, okay You know that you're a escort you gotta get gifts And then if you make the gifts gifts complicated, they'll offer to give you cash so you can go by it yourself You know like oh, I want the uh The such and such and said like name something long and complicated that they'll never get And they'll never remember and I'm just gonna give you the money you go get it, you know so Start off small See what you can do Then it's like, okay. Well, you know the new thing is coming out next week and I really want it You know, my friend has it and you know now she's just walking around And making me feel stupid and and I have to go get it now You know play stupid and dumb they like that, you know If you're you know Well, you don't have to get everything and you know, uh that this person gets I said, yeah, I know I don't have to get it But she's like rubbing it in my face like her man Is like making more money and like I can't get you know, then you put his ego Like yeah, I can't really brag because you know, I don't have the latest thing Now he's gonna say well, I want you to have that, you know, I think You know because now you represent him now you represent him You don't have the latest thing and your girl dating somebody and they got the latest thing that made him look bad So now you gotta go get it Here go get it There you go Let's make make it feel like you feel bad like if I don't get this It's not gonna feel good. I don't want to go out because I don't have the new bag and different a laugh at me and this Even though you're probably not even that shallow because I'm not that shallow But if you want something you got pretend to be shallow You know what I mean? Like it's important to you You have to pretend like I'm not that shallow. I don't care. But if I want something I'm going to pretend I'm going to pretend I'm shallow. I'm like, oh I can't go out. I'm embarrassed. You know, I'm wearing last season's Boots I need some new boots I can't go out this fall with last season this on I'm sorry. I can't go out. It's just you know I don't want to go. I'm not even in the mood. I can't even get turned on right now. I gotta figure out how to get these boots that you know I'll get you the boots. Okay You gotta play like a little whiny kid That's how they give it to you Do you dump them if they don't get you get what you want? No, you show up with it And let them let's get it from somebody else Or you go buy it and pretend you got it from somebody else Because you want them to feel stupid like okay, if you don't get it somebody else will the next time you ask them something They're gonna hop on it. You know, they're gonna like game. I better get it for her. She goes around get get it from somebody else I need bill money more than clothes Well, then ask then then say that so you know what? You know, I really like you And I can't really get excited because I'm worried about you know my monthly bills And I can't you know, I can't get in the mood if I'm worried about money You know, I it's you know, I can't really concentrate on this relationship because I'm worried about money Can you like help me out this month? Can you put something in my bank account because I need my bills paid and then I can relax We can go on a weekend vacation. We could get away. I can be more relaxed. I'm so stressed right now I just have all this stress. I need to release And I just I can't concentrate until I get these bills paid You're gonna pay your bills and like, okay. Well, let's go away for the weekend Let's go out this evening and like get all the stress out blah blah blah blah. Okay That's how you gotta play that, you know And a lot of women are very independent and that's beneath them And this advice is for the people who are asking the question. It's not Advice for everyone, you know what I'm saying every woman can't do this every woman don't want to do this every woman Does not think this is the correct way. Okay, and that's understandable some women have um pride And they want to be equals and they want to be this and they want to be that when it comes to relationships And paying and things like that and they would never do that What I'm saying for the women who do want to get paid and get taken care of and spoiled by men You gotta play a game, okay Yes, you have you have to act like a kid protect if you have kids You know how they act when they get to the store. Oh, can I go to the toy aisle? Please are just gonna look And you see their beautiful faces all excited when they see the toys and they're holding their favorite toy And you just can't say no sometimes. That's how you gotta be And you know, they'll bug you about it some new toy that came out on tv And you see how happy it makes them and you just want to make them happy because you really Want them to be happy you're gonna get it for unless it's some stupid outrageous thing But if it's in your price range and you're comfortable spending it and you want, you know You really like them and you just want to make them happy And seeing them happy makes you happy then you're gonna get what you want But you have to have that innocence and that Um You know childlike All about the thing that you want and you have to be extra happy when they give it to you. You can't be like, oh, thanks Oh, thank you so much. You have really just oh my god. You don't understand Like that's going to make them want to do it more like all this praise that you're giving They don't get that praise They don't get that praise from anyone and they're like when they buy you something They're what they're paying for is your affection and praise And gratitude that's what they're paying for really, you know, because no one else gives that to them Everybody expects things from them all the time. Everybody wants things that they're supposed to be this and that and no one is really just smiling in their face bright and Giving them hugs and and just getting excited like it's Christmas You know, they don't get that every day and when they can see a beautiful woman Who they might be able to have sex with? Get that excited around them You know It's a turn on So, um Someone said what what did you say stop blocking me? Trying to read some of these Yeah, act extra impressed when they do get you a gift How do you get him to pay for your cosmetic or? Procedures I want later laser hair. Oh stop. Okay Everything has to do with sex. Okay Everything leads to sex and you could sex in the equation You don't give what you want, but don't give it to him promise it to him or say it Well, I you know, I'm uncomfortable because I really want laser hair remover Removal and you know, I really that's why I'm not really You know into sexy because I a little bit insecure. I need this laser hair remover And I'll just feel so much sexier if I got that I'll be smooth like start like giving them visuals That would be so smooth and Um, this this isn't that and it would just be such such a Better experience, you know, and they're like, oh, well go get it I'll pay for it because they think they want to reap the benefits You don't give it to him before that Then after you get the laser hair removal Then you say, oh, you know what I'm still a little bit insecure. I just have a little bit I need some liposuction if you want liposuction I didn't need a butt lift because I don't my butt looks and then other like Well, how much is it? You know, they can finance it or something. I don't know Do you like black china did? She was pregnant. She didn't want to do nothing. Oh, it's the baby. I don't want to do nothing Oh, I'm still fat. I can't I don't feel sexy. I need liposuction. Oh, I need I need to get plastic surgery. I just don't feel like myself. So I don't feel sexy I can't have sex or guess what world Kardashian did got all this stuff done, right? So That's what you want. That's how you get it. You promise them something that they'll never get Or you promise them something they think they're gonna get you might give it to them. I don't know But that's how you do it. You have to withhold and make them feel like they're gonna get it You know, um Make sure The guy likes you more. Okay. Look at raw Kardashian and uh Let China, you know, he likes her way more. You have to have that dynamic. You can't get someone equal, you know Either they gotta be much older and richer Or much uglier and richer. You can't get somebody your age or 10 years older than you gotta go way older if you want that plastic surgery Or way more or way less attractive How do you build self-esteem to attract a man of better and wealthier caliber? It's hard in my religion, Muslim Okay, y'all you can't ask me about religion because I'm not religious. Okay um The best thing I could say for you is to manifest The type of man you want and don't entertain anything less than what you want. Don't even talk to anybody Don't entertain anybody. Don't don't look at anybody. That's not what you want. Okay In certain religions, they're set up to hold women back Okay, certain religions are set up to keep you in a place or you have no power So it's very hard to navigate in certain religions unless you are not strict in the religion. You know what I mean So I don't know how to answer that but I would just say Manifest And only entertain the type of man that you want to be with Like that means only talk to the type of man You want to be only smile at the type of man who you who you want to be with and don't give anybody else any of your time Okay Okay Okay, how do you break away emotionally from a man after watching your videos? I realize that he doesn't have enough money anymore However, I do care for him and I Do I get myself out of this mindset? That's why you don't fall in love. That's why you don't fall in love for love you can fall in love for What you want out of life first Just like your mom always told you go to school first get an education Get get a good career Get married didn't have kids you doing stuff in the wrong order You're supposed he's supposed to be financially stable set you up and then you fall in love It's not supposed to be oh, I'm falling love and he has potential and oh wait. He never made it. Oh wait I love him now. I can't leave him because I spent too much time and effort into him and invested too much time into him Now I feel bad if I leave him No, you got to get only get with people that can benefit your life If he can't benefit your life in the beginning if he's not stable in the beginning If you can't provide for you in the beginning, you're not with him for the right reason You're with him for emotional Uh reasons you know You know how when someone says oh, you're just emotionally dependent You know what's worse being emotionally dependent or financially dependent? It just depends or both, you know If you if you're financially dependent you can get up and leave any second and find a replacement If you're emotionally dependent, it's hard to get up and leave and find replacement because You're emotionally attached So become emotionally You know unattached just Stop, you know if you did it backwards, you know, that's why I keep telling women don't date guys That don't have anything and fall in love with them because then now you're stuck And you're in love and that's hard Okay, that's why you that's why I say the man has to love you more Because the women love too much and they get stuck even against all logic So a lot of men say when women argue they have no logic and they don't use logic when they argue When they love they don't use logic either and that's why they're stuck in those positions So you gotta use the logic first If anything, you know If the guy is help is is doing good for you and he's not hindering you or dragging you down in any way Then it's really not fair to him if you leave him just because now you're Wanting some guy to buy you Louis Vuitton and stuff and he can't you can only buy you target or whatever What what you need to do is like reevaluate Why you fell in love with this person, you know, do you really want this material life? You know, sometimes it's not for everybody. Sometimes if you fell in love and that's who you love Then that's the life that you want to have, you know But you can't just start watching youtube videos one day and say, okay, I think I want a rich man now But I can't leave my poor man, you know Just watch it for entertainment. You know what I'm saying if you're if you're there Stick it out, you know, or wait till you fall out of love Because the money's drying up wait till you fall out of love And that you don't care If you if uh if his feelings are hurt when you leave wait till that point because it's coming Believe me. That's the number one cause of divorce. It's financial issues Wait till you naturally fall out of love with him I For me it was easy because I'm a I'm a demisexual. That means I can't get turned on unless you got money How do you avoid telling them you have kids that they can't change the subject? Oh, do you have kids? Oh my god kids Kids I tell you, you know I always wanted look get around the subject. That's how you like. This is how you lie and not lie I always said that I would have you know four kids when I When I finally settled down, you know How many do you want or how many do you think? Is another you think four is a lot of kids that this is how you can get information out of them They'll first of all, they'll think you don't have kids if you want to always want to have four kids because you never Said no or yes because you might have four kids You might always want to have four kids and you got four kids Yay, or you might have three kids and you might want to have one with him So get around the question like that. Oh kids. Oh my god kids. I always wanted to have about four kids What about you? Is that a lot of kids? You think you would want to have four kids? Oh, no, I already have three and I he'll tell you if he gets kids Oh, really you got three kids. Is that hard, you know play dumb Yeah, then get him to start talking about them and get off the subject Then he'll come back around to it Or y'all will come back around to it When or if you become serious because if you don't if he doesn't plan on dating you after one month You're gonna get better treatment Out of him If you don't have kids because if you do have kids like I said He's gonna try to rush and get sex and think you're desperate and spend less money on you take you to less nicer places Okay, so don't tell him you have kids unless you seriously want to be in a long-term relationship or date him seriously lie lies They don't need to know if you have kids. What is him knowing that you have kids gonna do if you don't even plan on marrying him Nothing. All it's gonna do is get you cheap cheaper dates And blown off more. Okay. Don't do it. So But sometimes they can look you up in online So don't ever give them your first and last name and get get that fake number You know what I'm saying get that app on your phone and get a fake number. Don't give them your real emails Because they can look you up Give them that fake app number give them fake name you know Or a nickname or I don't tell my last name That way they can't look you up I'm like, oh, I don't really get online a lot. I'm not I'm not online too much. You know, I don't give them some old aol address from the 80s The 90s you know, so, um The last thing before I go because I'm not gonna be on here much longer Somebody said that oh, thank you someone like my hair Um, do you ever know what color is it me? But who are you talking to? Are you asking me if I know what color is in these or someone else in the comments? Oh, yeah, so don't drive up in your own car because they can run your plate Yeah, go over or park in the back and walk around Okay Are you all arguing in the comments? I hope that's not a girl talking back about Is there a pygmy in here? Like a pygmy chick. Oh my gosh Okay Pygmy chicks are like higher from brazil pygmy chicks are like women who Will say that's your gold digger. You shouldn't be doing that. You should only be dating for love and blah, blah, blah, blah That's a pygmy chick. That's like Someone who really believes that love is enough And someone who will help build a man and someone who will build up a man until that man's built up enough to Leave them for another woman so The pygmy chicks they're gonna go strong and hard For true love and building up a man and then once that man gets built up and leaves them for somebody else Who's a gold digger? They're gonna understand so don't y'all have to teach them a lesson. They're gonna learn it on their own. Okay Just leave them alone Y'all figure it out. Most of y'all used to be pygmy chicks until it happened to you I'm not trying to be mean but for real Yeah Um or or do valet, you know valet park You better be going to a nice place anyway I don't have like-minded friends How do you use your vice as a gay man? Well, if you're if you're the feminine aspect of the relationship duo, I would say Play hard to get don't be so needy know your worth like. Oh my god. You're lucky to be with me um I do I do a lot of consultations with all types of people gay straight lesbian You know, uh, even few bisexual people, but I don't like to stereotype people But when I do these consultations, I see so much insecurity in certain people You know what I'm saying? There's certain people that have huge insecurities Certain people that don't some people have too much self-esteem of people who don't have enough And I'm just saying be confident know your worth Have have those standards and expectations if they can't meet them move on to somebody who can you know um Act like you expect things It's not something special to you. Um, and then when you get it the extra appreciative, you know what I'm saying? I know a lot of men of gay guys They're very much into looks Unless they're into money. Okay. It's either a or b it's not both It's like either you're it will strictly into looks or you're strictly into money. You know, it just depends on which one you are Where do pick me chicks hang out? I need to get my rocks out McDonald's um, they hang out at McDonald's they hang out at fast food joints Mostly the nail shop at Walmart Um Y'all are silly y'all Bowling someone says bowling. They like to go bowl. Oh parks. They love parks Free parks Y'all y'all make it y'all bad Free park the museum anything free and cheap. That's what they're hanging out. Okay Applebees Y'all I'm terrible. Oh my god. Y'all are terrible. They're naming them in the comments. I'm like, I'll say no more Y'all know where to find them How do women sell their virginity online? To the highest bidder, okay Question how you get a dude to give you Money he wants it. I'm not giving it. I need to get some money to give Make sure he old and wants you more than you want him If it's if they're too close of y'all too close at the same age, you're not gonna get as much money Promise it to him Live do the same thing they do gosh Promise them stuff just like they promise y'all relationships and stuff like that for and then you give it up and then they Go shoot do the same thing. I don't see why y'all can't do that. They do it to y'all all the time every day all day Oh, I'ma give it to you. Oh, yes But at first I need to go get some new tires and they cost like 400 dollars And then I'm coming to your house put in my PayPal Then don't show up. Oh, they couldn't get to me today. Oh, they have to order my tire Oh, just know that change didn't have your number changed Or say, you know what now they said something else is wrong with my car I need this much money to get it figured just keep lying to them like they lie to y'all I don't see why women feel so guilty for doing the same things that men do to y'all all the time A woman feels guilty because we love more. That's why you have to protect yourself more women will feel guilty for lying to a man To get what he she wants but he will lie to you To get what he wants But you feel guilty about it or you don't know how to do it. Are you uncomfortable doing it? Get comfortable doing it, okay Just get comfortable doing it. You know why because they're very comfortable doing it. They're so comfortable doing it It's an art form to them now okay, so I don't feel guilty for nothing I would take your money the only way the only reason I would feel guilty is if I know you were broke Like and you had to pay your rent and you might get kicked out I don't deal with those kind of guys because they don't have enough to spare Go with someone who has something to spare You know who has something Then you won't feel any guilty if you're trying to go dig on a broke man. You're gonna feel guilty You know Make up something promise it to him and then keep promising it just like they promise They're gonna get they're gonna let you know be your boyfriend or when you do this Then we can be together or when you do this then I'ma leave her and then when you do this I'ma leave him leave and I might move out. I can't do it right now, but I still love you wait for me um, you know I still love you. I'll be the only one I'll ever love even though I'm married to this person Don't worry about her. She's just the white, you know They do it to you all the time and you got issues I'm not talking to you individually who asked the question. I'm just in general. I don't think I'm mad at you I'm like talking in general Women stop feeling guilty or doing the same thing that men do to you Okay Making an art form if you make it an art form and you get really good at it Becomes fun. You know what I'm saying? It's like, oh, I bet you I can get about 3000 out of him Watch, you know how guys say well, I bet you I can get her I bet you I can get her to have six of me and one week watch Oh, I'm just gonna tell her I love her and then she the type of woman I want wife and she's gonna give it up Watch, oh, I'm just gonna tell him that he's the type of man that turns me on and I can't wait to see what he got Watch, I'm gonna get some money out of him first though because I need I'm gonna pretend I need some tires, you know Do the same thing because they're doing it to you anyway. They're trying to do it to you at the same time. You're trying to do it to them Right I am the more feminine part of the relationship. So should I add more feminine like a woman would To her boyfriend or husband well Okay, feminine Is is can mean so many different things. Okay, don't be needy Be feminine in the aspect of Knowing your value knowing how good you look knowing people are waiting in line for you If you leave him knowing That you hold the power That's feminine. You know how to get what you want with your feminine aspects, you know Be extra flirty, you know to him make him feel like a big man brag on him in front of other people. Oh my god He just has so much, you know Talent and that and then make him feel like important. You stand in the background You don't steal the spotlight You stand in the background because you're already the spotlight. They don't look at you anyway But you praise him make him look good. You're He's the director. You're the movie star You make his film look look good. You are the star of the film in 20 30 years from now the No one's going to remember that producer or the director's name of a film They're going to remember the actress who was the lead role you play the lead role But you make him look good. Okay. That's how you got to do it You're the lead role because they're looking at you not because you're leading The director leads but you're you're getting all the The face he's getting the praise. He's gonna get the award You might win this actress, but he's gonna get the award. He's gonna, you know, get the big paychecks people are gonna film his stuff in the future That's why the title of this is be a Hollywood actress have that mindset because You're the star of the film. They're the director. They got the money. You got the looks, okay You got the talent. You're gonna push their movie. You're gonna make them look good. Okay So make sure you know your value as a, you know, have those demands. I want this in my trailer I need that in my trailer Or else I can't be on your film You know know your value Okay So i'm about to wrap it up in five minutes y'all What I am deactivating my facebook if I ever get kicked out the group and I Don't do that. Okay I needed your wisdom the counselor the escape We need dowry systems here in the us or men be paying for marriages Um I at the osprey acceptance speech. I'm gonna thank you. She Thank you You think guys to expect 5050 are guys who grew up with single moms and no strong male figure Yeah, I think they think they're women and I think that it's because they grew up watching a woman struggle and 5050 is being fair to them like okay. Well, you ain't got to pay everything so I guess I'll pay half That's that kind of man Those kind of men need to be corrected and a woman has to correct them They have to say look, I know you think that's normal But it's not You know And if they come up with some damn excuse about the economy say there are so many other people in this world In the same economy that don't ask their woman to pay 5050. That's not a good excuse Okay, if you want me as your woman, I'm not paying for happy fields If you want sex out of me, I'm not paying for happy fields Okay, you want a roommate that sleeps in a different room. Okay, I can do that. I can pay these bills But don't you come up in there unless you got some money Okay Better bring a bill in a checkbook So, you know, I don't do 5050. I can't get turned on by somebody with the handout. It just don't it won't work for me I'm like Sorry, but you know, you're excuse. Well, I'm a demisexual and I can't do 5050 because I I just Would not be sexually turned on by you. That's the real term. Yeah Demisexual look it up google it walk away That's just what I am. I can't help it. Now some people get turned on by feet Same thing Can you help it? Some men will let me say the bottom of your foot Someone will let me see that bank account You know same thing Sorry some wires that crossed in my brain And that's what I'm attracted to I'm so sorry I've been diagnosed Seriously, I went to a psychiatrist And they labeled me Demisexual It's just the fetish Just some wires that crossed in my brain and you know how some guys are attracted to feet And sexually attracted to feet. Well, I'm like that with money And so they'll be like what I never heard of that. Oh, look it up. It's a real thing like seriously I was I didn't know what was wrong with me. I could not Be sexually aroused with the guys that I was dating just make up a lot And I thought it was something like mental So I went to a therapist and they diagnosed they told me this is what I was and They told me that I should only date successful men And so I followed, you know what they said and I started dating successful men and What do you know like oh my god, I was turned on at the best sex ever in my life I you know, I was I was pleased well pleased and it was just like That's what it was just be like telling the story and like Don't be looking at you like Okay, so she's not a gold digger. She's a Demi sexual. Okay That's not like a bull digger me but She says she wants a doctor So somebody ever calls you go digger correct them with the the correct term Okay And they got all these names for themselves bisexual transsexual dem Um, metareal sexual now you got one ladies Right you got one where they call the feet the feet person the feet people Okay How can you date a rapper or athlete be a groupie? Go hang out where they hang out Okay, y'all know I know where to hang out after every game Usually in their hometown, they're going to the the nicest club The nicest steak houses A lot of the the big clubs will pay them to make an appearance after their games So on game night go out to the club close Or you listen on the radio, they'll say oh the after party for the game is going to be at such and such club All the basketball players will show up there a party drink and then you be there and that's how you meet them Okay, they're always in the clubs after the Games they get dressed they take a shower they get dressed and they go out. That's what they do Even if they lose they're going out Okay, and they're always in the vip section. You gotta look good. You gotta compete You gotta go in there looking your best so you can get into the vip you get into the vip by looking good Okay, they don't just let up anybody up in there. Try to look good Get your best weed makeup Put your spank phone Your heels and go That's how you get in Or you go with a pretty girl if you ugly And you average go get your pretty friend that can get you into the vip Okay, and if they extra drunk You know you might have a chance Y'all i'm acting silly But it's true like it's the truth like Reality is a reality and you can't sugarcoat it You know, this is true like If you're average you get the you and you want to get in the club and the vip section you get your pretty friend She's with me. Let's go in. Let's get in. Okay. That's just how it goes. We already know Don't let's not lie about it And not in Atlanta dudes will leave the ugly friend standing alone No, you guys she's my chaperone You know she has to come with me or i can't come This is my family. She's from out of town. She doesn't know anybody. There's a lot Then then promise him something You're gonna love me I promise Okay, literally What about older women over 35? Don't play victim now. I know when someone's acting. Oh my gosh. What are these fat? Come back to the light We're light Um older women over 35 have to be more mature They can't meet like they got to go for the retired athletes You know or they got to go for the older guys the older men with money They're here to go hang out at classy places where they can wear dresses and heels And classy not showing everything, you know where they can wear their nice jewelry and just be um Classy like they'd like fine wine Um Things like that, you know, you can't be a little Groupy girl. You gotta be classy So like i'm just being honest like people are asking me questions. I'm being honest I can lie to you all day and say oh Love only for love be you know Do out to others as you want them to do out to you but that those rules don't apply in this world And we already know it. We already know the world is not fair. Why are we keep acting? Why do we keep acting like the world is fair? Y'all are y'all are living a lie Don't live a lie, you know People will get mad at you because you're not being politically correct or doing things according to society But we know society is not fair So why are we pretending it's fair if you are if you go into a game Following every rule You're not gonna win People cheat and they win. That's just it. That's the world we live in and if you are in denial about that I'm sorry But I want to keep it real, okay I don't play fair. I never will play fair because playing fair gets you nowhere and that rhymes too Right There's either the predator or there's the prey. There's no in between. Which one are you? Be one Think about it. If you're if you are in a relationship You were either the predator or you were the prey There was no in between You either got taken advantage of or you took advantage That's just it Oh, I don't know what y'all are talking about in the comments Whoever whoever thinks I'm lying about whatever whatever. I'm not lying. Whatever I'm saying is coming out my mouth is true I don't have time to lie. I don't have a reason to lie, you know I'm already married I keep I can say what I want to say, you know, I don't have I don't have To pretend I'm something because I want To get a decent guy I already got me So whatever I'm saying is to help y'all it's not to help me. I'm already I'm already good, you know anything so I feel like by telling the truth it can wake a lot of people up like About their relationship status and how they view relationships and how they view men or how they view women, you know Secretly women aren't going to come out and tell you this They're going to pretend and act and do this this and that to get what they want to manipulate because that's what women do Men they always all they want is what's in your pants They're going to try to get it anywhere they can if you trick them into getting to know you Long term investing money into you and then they get it They're not going to be so quick to leave if you're special to them if they fall in love with you Yeah, they might end up getting married to you and have some kids with you But make sure that they always love you more than you love them or else you won't have a problem And that's just the honest to god truth In a nutshell, okay, that's that's how it has to be if it's any other way It's trouble That's just it. It's just trouble Just being so direct about being and for the money scares some wealthy men off No, because okay, think about it They already know that you don't mess around mess around with broke man Okay, because you only want them They know you don't mess around with losers. So therefore you don't have loser people problems Okay Therefore you have a higher standard about yourself and a respect for yourself because you don't mess with losers And you only respect men who worked hard to get to where they are To Be able to provide the type of lifestyle that you want that means you value yourself and you have high self-esteem And you probably came from a good family Okay, that's what wealthy men find attractive and women who know what they want and don't mess with losers Okay, and if you got if you've been messing with losers and you got a loser issues in your life Uh, and I'm not saying anything bad about it They're gonna either a say well, I'm glad you got out of that lifestyle I can help you I can help you build up the business or You know something like that But they're just happy that you have elevated yourself to even think you can be on their level or to even think that You're worthy Because that's the first step in getting anywhere self-confidence, you know Knowing you deserve better And they're gonna think that that's that's good You know so wealthy men If they feel like You deserve something and you feel like you deserve something guess what you deserve something If you don't feel like you deserve it, they're not gonna feel like you deserve it They were like, okay. Well, she doesn't value herself and she doesn't know what she really wants She's still messing with baby daddies and you know stuff like that. So I can't really do nothing with that so Of course, no If you go in there with a mindset, I want to marry rich. I want to be a lady of leisure. I want to go travel I want to you know Be your arm candy. Uh, I want this lifestyle Then they're gonna be down for it They're not they're not Wealthy men are like, oh, she's just using me for my money. They got that money so they can get women Duh Why would you get all this money if you can't benefit from it? You know what I'm saying only new money little new money I mean Little new money like multi millionaires and guys that have their life together That can spend money. They don't they're not worried about that. That's why they made all that money So they can get their choice of women Not Anybody who will give them attention or settle for them, but their choice And if their choice still happens to not be rich, but they like what that woman looks like and how much fun She is they're gonna go for it. Okay. They're not gonna say, oh, well, you only want me because I'm wealthy Duh, well, you think you got wealthy so you can have your pick of woman Okay Just like you got wealthy so you can have your pick of a car Just so you got wealthy so you can have your house. Just like you got wealthy So you can have the nice clothes and the business that you have, okay everything That wealth brings the next is an extension of that man His car is an extension of him His home is an extension of his wealth his Woman is an extension of his wealth. Okay So of course he's gonna want a woman who wants that lifestyle Because if she wants it, she's gonna value it and she's gonna treat him good and she's gonna be like You know, he's gonna have what he wants and she doesn't have what she wants. She's gonna be happy, you know so That's how wealthy men view women who are not wealthy and only want them for their money They like well, I'm sure sure glad I make money because I sure want you Okay, that's how they're gonna be I sure want you I'm sure glad I made this money because I know If I didn't have two dimes to rub together you passed me on by and that is true People say I'm a feminist But y'all need to go look up that definition so y'all start flinging that word around I just empower women. I'm not a feminist You can be you can empower a man and not be a feminist you can empower them for their To value themselves. Okay Not to try to be equal or take over the world. No But to value yourselves and know your power Let me tell you, you know, what's more powerful than a feminist A woman who knows her power Who's not trying to be equal or better or Like a man, but a woman who is trying to be a woman And still be as powerful or even more powerful just by being a feminine woman That's most powerful form. Think about it Back in the old days and the biblical days and the days before, you know television and stuff The most powerful women were the most feminine women Okay So remember that the women that could get what they wanted had the most influence over people the most iconic women were not feminist They were feminine There's a difference Then use what they had to get what they wanted so I'm not a feminist You know, I believe in equal rights, but I don't believe that it means the death of chivalry either You know, I believe that I should have the right the same rights as a man But I don't believe that The man should stop paying for things and opening doors, you know That's just like saying, okay, a man will have equal rights as a woman, but the woman should stop uh sleeping with him and Doing other things, you know, oh, we're equal. I'll have to do that You know So it's it's silly so Feminist versus feminine You'll be a feminine feminist But at the end of the day the most powerful woman Gets what she wants just by being herself and not trying to be equal or better than somebody else Okay People men that watch my videos They don't like what I say, but They understand it They absorb it They think about it And they put it into action and it's in their subconscious mind It's in their subconscious mind. They know what women secretly want. Just like we know what men secretly want So either a they're gonna lie pretend they have it or promise it to a woman who's naive enough to Fall for the trick be they're gonna try to actually improve themselves to be the type of men women actually want Or see they're already on the way to being that type of man and they're just getting some more reinforcement and Ideas and things like that. Those are the only type of men that watch my video trolls Men who don't want to hear the truth but need to hear the truth to scheme Men who are trying to wake up and do what's right and get on the right path Men who are already on the right path get more information to become better men Or you know trolls That's it And the only reason i'm so blunt and forward is because men need to understand This is how women really think when when they're not trying to Get picked or pretend that you know, they're This perfect wife material. This is how we really think This is what they really want to tell you but they can't because society says, oh, you're supposed to be nice and pretty and Speak only, you know and just be be nice and kind and don't hurt people's feelings and don't be materialistic But this is what they really want underneath it all most of the time after they've been In those relationships with those broke build a man, you know and they get tired of building up a man They actually want a real man This is what they want to say, but they can't so i say it for them, you know So They don't like people don't like the truth because It makes them responsible have to have to be responsible, you know It's like nobody wants a 50 50 man or 50. You don't want it wants that Nobody wants to pay rent with a grown man living in the house asking for sex. Nobody wants that Nobody wants to help finish a man being a man. They're supposed to be that already You know, they don't want that They don't want to build no empire together in this bad economy. They don't want to do that Yeah Okay, so You're already supposed to be the man that have built something for your queen or your goddess Or your woman or wife or whatever and then you bring her in you don't bring her into a collapsing building To help you to help you hold it up. You bring her into a nice place What's wrong with y'all? Okay What are you doing? I was made in 88 I need 85 under It's close. Okay. I'll keep it just in case. What are y'all doing? What are you having a drawing competition? Just to help her be to go y'all my kids is still awake. What time is it? Oh, I'm a few. You better go get in your pajamas again a bit We'll get in your Yeah, go pick it out and get in your pajamas and I'll be done I'm just wear something comfortable You can get something new but just make sure it's comfortable. I'm reading these comments What do you do if you are not a very feminine woman or a girly girl? Act Ask any man Most men don't want a masculine woman Okay They don't would you want a feminine man? I keep telling y'all act go get some acting lessons or something What if I'm not this what if I'm not that act You know Keep doing it until it becomes part of you. You know what I'm saying? um Work on it because men like feminine women What man do you know walk around saying who I love the masculine women? I love them hard chicks and hard women because they why because they can work just as hard as a man And do their job. Okay Don't Don't say I'm not a feminine woman. Find your femininity. You've been made masculine You're too masculine for too long. You can get it back. Just Study other women just act until it becomes part of you Practice okay We're softer colors. We're dresses. We're heels. Put makeup on, you know, you know how queen Latifah does Okay, one minute. She got on a dress heels and a wig the next minute She got on car rolls and she's fighting people be queen Latifah be an actress. Okay. I can do it Okay Gotta be versatile Yeah, now she's the cover girl. Okay easy breezy beautiful cover girl Okay, now she got her own makeup line queen collection She went from set it off the queen collection Okay She didn't say well, I'm not I'm not that feminine, you know, she's like what okay. How much y'all paying? Okay Let me get my actress heels together Hi easy breezy beautiful cover girl Put that weave on get the makeup get that makeup on get them dollars in That's how you get it. You gotta act Women have to play many roles Man gotta pay like man gotta play one role. We gotta play a thousand roles Somebody say easy breezy scammer Yes Just like joey and the scammer That's all an act and he got got him paid. Okay He wasn't very feminine either Till he put on that wig and that dress Okay Like every excuse y'all come up with there's a solution for it Every problem y'all have there's a solution for it, you know, you just have to figure out what it is like You know, I heard that you're supposed to do this is that well Does that ever worked for anybody like no then do the opposite? Okay, well, I can't do this. Well has somebody ever done it. Yes, we'll do what they did I'm five six shorties aren't going to work for me I Welcome to my Caucasian home That is hilarious The funniest thing about Joanne is that Joanne has a beard And he's like really convinced that he's this woman the beautiful woman That's the funniest thing that confidence right there is how a ugly woman can get Yes, Laila Go to bed go where's your pajama? Go find some go put on a t-shirt and some shorts or something You have some there you just haven't put up your laundry No saying Like Joanne has this full beard and chest hair sticking out but has the confidence Of a perfect 10 That's how y'all gotta be That's how you gotta go into it. Okay Um, so I'm gonna go now. I'll see y'all on the next video And it was fun and I'll see y'all Remember fake it till you make it life ain't fair. Don't play by the rules And sometimes shooters win. All right. See you later. Bye