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very close friend I was still in my high school wow my high school he just finished his own so me I was in high school so he was like a senior brother I was looking at suddenly let me tell you stories very well you know she was this young girl I used to see her like enter boss in front of our shop in Legos people were like looking at her but she was still small then and then to get close to her I tried to talk to her I found out that the girl I was even dating that time was in her school you understand so I just told her that I want her to be sending me sending message helping me to deliver message to the girl deliver there was no phone no no those days there was yeah you understand so when I write those fan of letters you know how we used to write those letters so I wait for her to come I will give it to her she will go and deliver the letter to the girl but each time she comes I found out that my friends they were like admiring her so I was like what are they seeing in this small girl you understand and I stopped sending her there and I started trying to understand they were admiring so that was how come now I stopped sending her the letters so instead of you sending the letters I was now sending the letters how did you end up in Ivory Coast yes after within a short period that we met you know we started getting close to each other and then before you know it my in law then arranged for my travel so I didn't even tell her I was travelling because we were too close but I left according to people when she heard that I travelled she fainted in our streets really yes she fainted yes it was a shock because I was with him we were together the night to the day he was to travel and he did not tell me to travel them because we were too close where were you travelling to I was travelling then to Italy I was travelling to Italy so now they say she fainted and that attracted the attention of my parents to really know who is this person that had to faint for my child you understand so that was how came but then I am already off to you know but then unfortunately when I get to the flight was from Lagos to Cairo Egypt to Italy but unfortunately when I get to Cairo they deported me back to Nigeria they deported you yes I was deported they were talking about something that has to do with travelling document so they had to bundle me back to Nigeria when they deported me I was like maybe because I didn't tell her I was travelling that's why they deported me my spirit brought me back so I spent like 2-3 days I couldn't stay in our family house everybody then knew I already travelled so I had to go and hide somewhere I hide somewhere for some time before now they now took me to Abidjan because they said I don't need to travel from Nigeria airport again so I had to now go through Abidjan so all this what I didn't even see her I didn't want to explain anything to her I was just trying to look for my future I was 6 more then I was 24 years then I think so so when I got to Ivory Coast I made the second attempt again that one I was from Ivory Coast to Lisbon, Portugal Lisbon to Torino was a connected flight but when I got to Lisbon 2 we were 4 on that trip 3 people entered and I was also deported for the second time I was so frustrated I wanted to even commit suicide then yes I couldn't call anybody I was left I was like the world was crumbling so I was deported but the worst part of it was that they deported me from Lisbon to Abidjan when I got to Abidjan they handed me to Abidjan Police Abidjan Police now don't meet again the police said in Ivory Coast were you having money when you were in Ivory Coast I wasn't having anything I was just travelling I was just going to struggle that was how they deported me back again in Ivory Coast let me understand they deported it to Ivory Coast and from Ivory Coast how did both of you end up meeting again then when they deported me in Ivory Coast I came out I was not speaking French then I I guess there will be a small way you understand so I just find myself in Ivory Coast I didn't know anybody and then I was also thinking about her what would she be doing by now what I was like so I was in Ivory Coast I went through a lot in Ivory Coast but maybe because of her prayers within one year in Ivory Coast I was able to be in Ivory Coast within one year in Ivory Coast I was able to gather up myself so when I said I was getting money in Ivory Coast the first thing that came into my mind was her matter so I quickly flew back to Nigeria from Nigeria airport I started searching for her I went for her house they say they have pack her from the house I went to her sister's shop I was running up and down looking for her but I couldn't find her so now I was I was almost frustrated I thought I gave up I gave up but then in Ivory Coast in Lagos I went to buy a car that was one night then when I bought the car I wanted to go and test the car I wanted to go and test the car maybe just to drive to check the car she too I came out to buy mango I was just in my house so I just felt like I want to eat mango so I came out to buy mango so where I was buying mango he said he drove, he passed we've not seen now like two years he passed and he saw the person from back something like that place is normally very busy very busy road very busy bus stop in Lagos very busy so he passed, he said when he passed love it he calls me lovey so I heard lovey when I turned it was him when I saw him instead of me to run I fainted again at the bus stop everybody gathered I fainted they rushed they poured me water I can't believe I was seeing him I've given up that I would not say him the only friend the only as if my walk hasn't it so you were supposed to go back to I was supposed to go back to every coast then because I just came to like to show that I have arrived as a small boy as a small boy not from Europe I want to let them know that Africa is also a good place you understand I wanted to show people that I have arrived not knowing that I would find her again so it was a very great opportunity for us to meet again and that was the first time I heard a voice that told me that this is your wife so at the end of the day we caused a lot of traffic that day because I was driving so a lot of people he has to pack his car too and cross a lot of people were asking what's going on so at the end of the day we were able to reunite you understand that was the year that was the year and I told her how are we going to do because I am going back to every coast she said me I am not going me too I don't want to go but we can't stay here we have to do something so I told her I didn't know what we are going to do now I am going to prepare your international passport I said yes and I will carry you wow she doesn't know how we are going to do that but she was in school she was in school during my 4 months IT that time I told her that I was about entering university yes I was about entering university so that was how I prepared her international passport she now went and told her sisters her aunties but she didn't tell her parents wow so that was how now both of us now travel to every coast that was 2000 that was the year 2000 that was the year 2000 and your parents did not look for you they were looking for me everywhere they went to my parents making trouble before now we now called them from every coast until the parents said she is in good hands wow so from every coast finish the story when I came back everybody wants to shout you know small girl small age I just went like that everybody was quarreling, shouting, talking then here now after a while again he came again and took me away when I first got my admission now that was 2002 our marriage first yes 2000 it's the same year my first year in the university was the same year we got married the same year I had the second ceiling the second ceiling it went with me to every coast that was how I came back with this package the package the package I came back he came back with this package so he came, did introductions so my parents everything my dad because I was too young I was just 18 years and how old were you? I think I was 25 years then you're not crazy getting married at that time the love I suffered long ago don't be scared don't be scared don't be scared it's really sweet very interesting your story is really sweet if the love is there it's very interesting I'm telling you because then it was just him only two of us and I was the first man she knew you understand I'm the one that started the walk it's not like I have so many young Africans watching us right now both Africans on the content Africans in the diaspora as a young couple if you should advise something like us who would that be like marriage I see marriage as an understanding I don't see marriage as a tradition when you marry as a tradition you end up in mistakes when you marry because someone else gets married the real marriage is not the ceremony it's not how much you spend it's not what you showcase outside the real marriage is from the heart you have to marry from the heart first and just bring outside people to see that you marry it is better that you marry from the heart first than coming to spend the million dollar in wedding and after two months the marriage will collapse so it goes with understanding it goes with patience it goes with patience a lot is involved you have to sacrifice yourself you have to marry your friend don't be that husband and wife I used to tell him did I start seeing you as my husband you understand that day the love will start but now I see him as a friend we play any day don't play with me it's problem he must notice me you see every blessed day he must make me laugh it is a kind of agreement there is no day you wake up you will not make her laugh every day I wake up she must laugh whether she like it or not because if you don't give her happiness she will look for happiness outside if she also didn't give me happiness he will look for it outside so marriage is like when you buy a car you have to make the car continuously working if the car go flat tire that is when the woman have offended you you cannot throw away your car because the car had flat tire you have to repair the tire that is when you reconcile with the woman you understand if the engine knock that is when the woman is not talking to you so you have to go and repair the engine to make the car work so marriage is like one work you concentrate to make it work if you take it like no matter that is when you see broken homes everywhere and that is what we don't like and that is why we have come up with this channel Marvelous Inspiration to inspire marriages you all should check out this channel in the description box make sure you like and subscribe be part of the family go there go comment that what the buyer forced me to subscribe on my channel I forced them to subscribe so like oh please don't I don't have time for that it's a must you know but I just want to let you guys go back my final question what you got yes let me say is destiny you know my first daughter I gave her the name destiny because of the story associated with my marriage I gave her the name destiny we are destined to be so whatever you do if God have destined to be to be so our state in Ghana is destiny Ghana is not the first place we have stayed neither will it be the last place we have stayed I believe in getting my children I am training them by myself so I have stayed partly in South Africa although I didn't stay much in South Africa then I have stayed very well in Ivory Coast like 15 years in Ivory Coast I can speak French you can't translate so Ghana is very peaceful I speak French very well so you have to say something before I conflict yeah it's concerning why we came to Ghana I love Ghana for one thing it's very peaceful we came here in 2000 we came to Ghana in 2012 2011 2011 so we came to Ghana in 2011 and all the kids are here and where they are where they find peace I think I also see peace there so one thing I love Ghana Ghana is a peaceful country I must say that Ghana is a peaceful country and I love I love democracy in Ghana yes yes yes I think they are trying I really try I just want to say thank you so much oh come on you want to say something you want to tell them something I'm sorry please subscribe to our channel subscribe please subscribe please subscribe please so divine what do you want to say check out that channel it's very fun it's very cool out there please subscribe to our channel our family's family is amazing what do you want to say