 digital marketing and PR before getting into image consulting. And one thing I've noticed with image consulting. Image consulting, I have had many a client, many a female client come to me and say, oh my God, my husband, boyfriend, significant other, his style is horrible. He dresses like a caveman. It's just horrible. And I need you to help me get the man back that I married. I need you to help me get the man back that I married. And I'm like, okay, well, cool, we can do that. We can do that. Helping you get the man back that you married is one thing. I've had plenty of girlfriends. I mean, plenty of women who had boyfriends say, hey man, I need you to help me get my boyfriend back. He's a great guy, but his sense of style is just terrible and it's starting to turn me off. So is there anything you can do to help bring the spark back into our relationship? I'm cool. And they came with cash in hand ready to do this. I've had men come to say the same thing. Hey man, my girlfriend, my wife, my significant other, just doesn't look at me the same way, you know, as she used to when she comes home from these corporate events or whatever. She has all these stories about all these funny, witty, charming men just like yourself. And I just don't feel like I can keep up and compete. You know, I'm a blue collar guy. You know, I make good money. You know, all my business I can provide, but for some reason I just can't do that. So let's talk about it. Yeah. And I like using the straw. So get over it. Before we get into it. I want to do a shout out to say what's going on. I want to bring something to your attention. I want to bring something to your attention. In the 70s from 1970 1975. There was this little show. This little inconsequential insignificant show. That, uh, changed the way a lot of people looked at blue collar men, white collar men, and it did a lot to change the landscape of a lot of things. Just from a TV show called the Jefferson's and it chronicled black man by the name of George Jefferson. He and his wife. Uh, wheezy and his son Linel moved to the Upper East side of New York City. And for those of you don't know, I'm a former New York City resident, former Manhattan resident to live on the Upper East side of New York. You have to have some serious money. Like I did. I moved from the Upper East side down to the lower, the upper West side, right about of Hell's Kitchen in Hell's Kitchen. The Upper East side is where all the blue bloods and the old, old, old money stays. I mean, to move to the Upper East side, if you have an Upper East side address, especially back then, you had made it. Black men that were on that side of town were doormen. There were cab drivers. They didn't live there. Okay. Wheezy, Louise. Okay. And for George Jefferson to have moved his family from the borough of Queens to the Upper East side, was an accomplishment. An accomplishment bar none. How many people in the chat room ever watched an episode of the Jeffersons? If you watched the episode of the Jeffersons, put a one in the chat room. Come on. This is going to be interactive. This is going to be fun. This is going to be fun. How many of you watched the episode of the Jeffersons? Because actually the Jeffersons was a spin-off from a show called All in the Family. And All in the Family dealt a lot with the racist, white, a prejudice white guy named Archie Bunker. And he was... It was a pivotal show. All right. So I'm seeing so many people who said they watched the Jeffersons. The Jeffersons. That was the first time you could see... This is pre-Cosby. This is back when all the black exploitation films were going on. And you really didn't see black men doing much of nothing except being pimps, hustlers, drug dealers. You know, we really... We really weren't much of anything by this time. So to get something like the Jeffersons, brothers felt like they had made it. Now, somebody in the chat room, one of the people who put a one in the chat room, what I need to know, we got 170 likes, man. We need to get the likes over... We need to get the likes over 350. We need to get the likes over 350. And we're going to need at least five folks to throw something in there. Juxtapose the Jeffersons. There you go, Tiffany. There's a juxtapose for you. Shout out to the PhD, Tiffany. The one who don't want to get married because she's a PhD. Juxtapose that with good times about a black family in Chicago with a hard-working father by the name of James Evans. Now, I need somebody in the chat room to tell me what college did George Jefferson graduate from? What college did George Jefferson graduate from? Again, if you curse, talk crazy, you're going to be timed out. Express yourself like the accomplished people you are. Rotaid 504, that is for you. Jared, Dark Force, Tony, what are y'all talking about? Rich? Jared, what are y'all talking about? He didn't graduate from college. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. You're telling me that this black man who moved up onto the Upper East Side of New York City moved his family from Queens to the Upper East Side and didn't graduate from college? Heck, did this happen? I mean, he's a black man. How did that happen? He had to be on Wall Street or something like that. He had to have a white college job. I mean, come on, what are you telling me? Joe, are you telling me this brother wasn't a doctor, lawyer, a moving shaker on Wall Street? He wasn't a banker? He wasn't a real estate mogul? Okay, he at least was a drug dealer, right? I mean, if he didn't do it the white color way, he had to sell this white powder. Are you telling me? What are you talking about, big old swole? James, are you kidding me? How can a black man move from Queens where they got more dead people than the live people? They got more people buried in Queens than the living in Queens. How in the heck did you get a black man to go from Queens to the richest neighborhood in one of the most expensive cities in the world without going to Harvard or Yale or MIT or something? I mean, he was, I mean, how did this happen? He had to do something. I mean, he wasn't a lawyer. I mean, this was back in the days before massive computer systems, and he didn't wear a suit to work. I mean, he didn't go to Howard. I mean, what the heck could this man have done? ZB says he was also a fictitious character. To you, he was, and that's part of the problem. ZB, are you a man or a woman? This man who moved his family from Queens to the up east side of town to where his wife didn't even have to work and their grown son could go to college and he haven't had a room. His wife was living so good the apartment they had, they had a maid. They had a maid in an apartment on the up east side. They didn't have no palatial country home. His wife did not work. She didn't have 50, 11 babies. She didn't have eight kids hanging off of her and she wasn't no super fine. Oh, don't get ahead of yourself, Godfather, but she had a maid. Her job was to get up and to be Miss Blue Henry because George Jefferson was a blue collar man. He owned dry cleaners. He owned dry cleaners. Ownership. What did I talk about in that video I did last week? So many women skip right over the blue collar men and try to go get white collar men and you don't realize George Jefferson wasn't 75 years old when he didn't have to get his wife over to the up east side in the walker to where she had a good four years before hip gave out. No, no, she was in her late 30s or 40s. Late 30s or 40s. She had a whole lot of life ahead of her to sit down, put her feet up and just be Miss Blue Henry. What do we notice about Louise Jefferson? Louise Jefferson was never going to be confused with being a beauty queen. She was dark skin, short hair and rather fluffy. But unlike a lot of women around that time she went ahead and got with a man who was working at a dry cleaner who was ambitious, enterprising married that guy and he built an empire. How many of her college educated AKA Delta, you know, white collar men hmm, how many women today would skip right over George Jefferson? Do single educated women have contempt or the same for blue collar men? I will say yes. I have personally heard and witnessed this far more. See, when I gave that story at the first of the show about the women that came to me to try to get their husbands a makeover they were not black. Never had this happen with a black woman. Had it happen with white women. Rather often started my business coming to get their husbands makeovers. Told you I got two kids named after me. Why is that? Well lack or not Blake Henry or Keith Henry in this particular case. Blue Henry's outnumber Blake Henry's by a fact, by a large amount. Least five to one. And that's an income. That's just income. That's not in sheer number of positions. So why is it that when you're on a show like I was on earlier today with obsidian you got miss private collar or whatever. Talking about it's not as though sisters won't date blue collar men. It's just that when a sister goes to college and she gets educated she expands her horizons and she starts to look at the world differently and a lot of these blue collar guys maybe good guys but they don't want to do anything. They're not cultured. They're not cultured. They're boring. I hear this often from black women regarding blue collar men. I've heard black women diss blue collar men in my face thinking I was going to laugh at the joke. Yeah see over there the guy shining shoes he's a worker. You're a boss. We bosses over here not realizing I come from blue collar families blue collar roots. Let me tell you something black women you're disdain contempt whatever word you want to put in there for the reason you overlook enterprising ambitious blue collar men is why so many of you will die alone. Let's cut to the chase. Let's cut to the chase. The black Henry their wives are sevens or better in the face or eights or better in the body that means if you are six you don't get a black Henry not unless you get him while you're in college after you graduate from college once you're 23 or older you don't get a black Henry you don't get to make those demands like that a love at first sight show that we were looking at by the way they chose to not to end their marriage they chose to end their marriage the brother they didn't really want to work an assistant who wanted to be a stay at home wife couldn't see that coming this is the stay in your lane argument we easy stayed in her lane and we got far too many sisters who think because you have a piece of paper with a seal on it and somebody's greed that makes you more physically attractive nope it doesn't you're not attractive enough did I say that? I said it because like it or not the CJ kings of the world got that pick 100% of the top 20% of women want 5% of men so this conversation is for the women who haven't screwed their lives up the women who are not 35 plus who've already got too far in their career too much baggage on them and think too highly of themselves I've said it to another caller have you noticed that the older or the more degreed or the higher earning a woman is the less she is willing to compromise that's fine you don't have to well let me explain a couple of things first of all go back and watch my other show let me say this definitively I got a shout out over there salute to my blue collar brother I said it before and I said again white collar men ain't shit without you we aren't shit without blue collar men the world runs on what blue collar men do with their hands yeah white collar men may have enough money to buy the house but we can't build the house the only reason this kind of exists right now is the world in general we got first world problems but if the power grid went out and the zombies started coming out give me all you going to want to be around the blue collar men not the white collar guys go look on bear grillers survival island I told this story to a blue collar brother earlier see when you got a bunch of men on the island and they got to survive and there's no food no water you got to kill and eat every you got three meals to provide for every day with no refrigerator no grocery store right you don't have time for a lot of high-fluted ideas hunger is setting in three days without water you're dead go watch episode go watch the first season and the first season there's a guy in there from the rough scrabble parts of London blue collar guy and they got real classism over there the white collar guy you thought he was a pamper pansy the white collar guy they found a net it needed to be repaired it needs some stuff done on it the white collar guy said you know what yeah you're the best fisherman and the only fisherman but you can only catch one or two three fish a day you're just keeping us going we're not going to get any bigger we're just not going to die as long as you fish because the rest of us can't the blue collar guy had to feed them but the white collar guy got a chance to put the nets together and work on his work on that and the net filled time after time after time after time after time after time after time after time but one time the net finally worked and it came up big 21 fish then another time it came up with 33 fish the white collar guy came up with an idea that multiplied magnitudes more fish remember that magnitudes more magnitudes more so a lot of women would look and say look at what the white collar did the white collar guy made sure that not only he could eat but he got the entire group he provided enough bounty for everybody to wear that if there were women there and children everyone would have ate the blue collar man worked hard but he only provided a little the white collar man worked with his mind and provided a lot and that's the bullshit mythology you've been sold but let me tell you something what we as men know the white collar guy who put the nets together he had nothing but respect for the blue collar man because the blue collar man got up there and did the work every god darn day and he brought in the two or three little fish that it took to keep the white collar guy going to have the energy to go back and do everything the white collar guy would have been dead before he could have provided the solution without the blue collar guy see men notice about one another that's why we don't diss each other like that you ladies just look at outcomes but his collar is bigger than that collar and his tie looks better than this blue collar and that's your problem because remember ladies you're marrying a husband a partner for life you're not marrying a check why do non black women seem to have this figured out why do non black women have the same amount of disdain contempt for blue collar men and I'll listen to this woman try to sit back and explain as to why you know well you know it's not really that bad and you know it comes down to this you're in love with the thought of what it could be instead of what it really is blue collar men marriage and education dear educated women blue collar men can earn great livings it's worth remembering if you're looking for a husband or a partner the US economy is aching for more highly skilled technologically and trained people but if the men end up limiting their eventual marriage but if men end up limiting their eventual marriage prospects if they pursue careers in the trades if they pursue a career degree some portion of women who have bachelors or post baccalaureate degrees avoid romantic involvement with such guys holding out for those BAs MBAs JDEs which is to say they seek potential husbands who have degrees that are more generally esteemed than those who have earned in a year or two same with the kinds of training acquired by armed forces this is a vital matter because young men who enjoy working with their hands might choose not to pursue careers in construction manufacturing for fear women would dismiss them out of hand as life partners but do women with more advanced degrees really steer clear of men in trades in similar fields do they really give men with advanced degrees more position in the black community without a doubt it's called marrying down how many blue color men know for a fact you have out earned your black female counterpart but because she has an office job she has a nerve to look down on you and guys like you while she's in tens of thousands of dollars a debt happens all the time why sisters why do you have such disdain for blue color men it ain't how the men look at each other let's also answer these questions blue color men white color men can't do shit without blue color men that's why we respect them blue color men have in my experience tend to have more class than a lot of white color women oh shit why because far too many white color women are so rude so disrespectful so contemptuous so contentious with how in which they handle blue color men and I'm not talking about the guy who's just working I'm talking about the blue Henrys the guys who you blow it because you're fast over George Jefferson because all you see is the dry cleaner you don't see that he has he's doing that to learn the business and he's getting his credit together so he can buy a chain of dry cleaners you don't even get to that point in the conversation you just go in there and hand him your cleaning then when he ends up marrying Becky because this is what's happening see George back in the 70s married a dark skinned woman because George wouldn't have been able to get one of them high in Whitley Gilbert's he married Wheezy but now he's marrying Becky and married soul damn did I say this did I say this that's right colorism ain't no colorism black men don't want dark skinned black women mm-mm what black men are you talking about you jumping over a whole group of black men who are skilled tradespeople who in any other group would be superstars because they're not cultured you can't take them nowhere I can't go nowhere with these guys they're boring they're uncouth and obsidian actually brought this point up if these shows the last couple three weeks have showed nothing else black men you need to understand something right wrong or indifferent this is the expectation pay attention regardless as to what they say black women want and expect men to pay all 100% of the bills all without exception don't listen to what they say this is what they want and this is what they want this is what they want and this is what they expect so when you hear that woman talk about 50-50 or can't we do 70-30 that 70-30 only comes along once they feel good that you can actually pay 100% at least I get an assistant on that when I was going off on an assistant in Houston talking about you're broke if you don't earn two or three times as much as me she said I will pay for a man to do something if I know and seeing and validate it that he makes more money and blah blah blah blah blah I give her credit for at least saying the truth now she'll never get that she'll never expect you to pay all the bills so understand something if you're a black man and you want to get married or if you want to have children you might as well and you expect to marry a black woman you might as well get just divorce yourself of this 50-50 shit that 50-50 argument goes away I didn't make these rules guys and just because they say they'll accept it okay try it compromise versus sacrifice I think this has a lot to do with that 80% divorce rate because like it or not I'm not going down that path everybody got work to do everybody got work to do but the thing is ladies the blue color men are the ones that will be more likely to have stable income for the longest they're not at the whim of companies and corporations balance sheets or internal politics I said it last week blue color men work around men you don't have to worry about blue color men having to affair with somebody they work with and let's stay on the DL so why is it why is it ladies why is it that you have so much disdain for your black male for your black blue color men why do you have so much disdain for blue color bae blue henry bae blue color bae henry high earner not rich yet and bae bold ambitious and enterprising see blue color men like George Jefferson they have to be bold they're not just sitting on working first shift until they die first shift is a means to an end because they're ambitious they're looking to put in overtime and work as hard as they can they're working working working they are working they are ambitious when they're not at work they are looking to do something better they're looking to improve themselves these are the self talk guys the guys who pick up they'll take a class at night time just because they want to learn philosophy see here's one thing on the blue color side if you're a blue henry you do yourself better than a more well rounded man so you can be able to so you'll be able to network with other guys because you're not going to fit the blue color worker never wanting to own anything world you're always going to be thinking bigger than a worker knowing self to the workers but that's it they're always going to feel like why are you always trying to be there we just trying to get overtime after self educate self teach yourself and see this is where a lot of women from other races end up coming in and winning women from other cultures are willing to sit back and evaluate a man based upon not just the dirt under his fingernail they'll listen to how he speaks if he's a blue collar man but he has a better vocabulary and a better reading list than you hello don't you think that's odd or do you even get that far or do you even get that far do you even get that far how many do single educated women have contempt or disdain for blue collar men outright that's the question on the table that's the question on the table and I want to hear from some of you guys let me do something real quick I'm going to play a little music while I'm going to go look in the super chats we're going to bring in the second part of the show second part of the show the call in line is open 3M and you make a video on how to keep and maintain that blue Henry once you get them and you're already a stay at home wife get on the show ladies yeah Weezy didn't work Weezy didn't work man Weezy did not work Weezy had a maid, Weezy had the life somebody asked can you can you tell me how to get a blue can you tell me how to keep a black Henry once you get them what the meeting ended oh we got to do this again no let me do this again I got to start the meeting all over again here we go moderators drop the new link in the chat room my question here's the question lady asked me can I show you how to keep a black my question is this Bre why do you want Blake why do you pick Blake over blue what is it about you women that always want to go for Blake see that's the real question can you can you tell me make a video on how to keep Blake Henry the short answer is yes I can and the long answer is I will not do it for free if you want that you're going to have to pay a premium for that get your one on one yep yep that's what that's what you're going to have to do because if you want to be a stay at home wife to a high earning white color man you're going to pay just like your non black counterparts here we go how many of these women would be ashamed to bring home a blue color man how many women would be ashamed to bring a blue color man a blue Henry around her sorority sisters her mom and them how many how many of you ladies I feel you but I would be so ashamed to bring this guy who's a trucker around my family even though I know he has plans to buy several more trucks and open up a fleet in the training school somebody got you're not on the screen so I can't see you you won't be on the screen there you go I'm ashamed I'm not bringing I'm ashamed if I'm not bringing anyone home other than you well come on ladies testing guests I don't know who this is she says I'm not ashamed okay so let's be honest how many college educated women dismissed blue color men right out of hand when you're in your right out of school this is where this is important right out of college 23 to 28 how many of you are dismissing blue Henry's outright when your white counterparts are marrying them how many of you how many black women dismiss blue Henry's in their early 20s outright because he can't get the time off because he can't run down to Jamaica or whatever he said my boy owns a fleet of trucks with routes all over the US earns over 500k profit regular looking dude with a house in PA sitting on 20 acres there you go how many women did not realize that they were really screwing themselves over by avoiding thinking they were too good for these men let me also say this unequivocally ladies if no one else has told you let me be the first one to tell you you are not doing blue color men a favor by dating them let me be 100% clear with that you are not doing blue color men a favor by dating them where am I getting a lot of this stuff from because I've heard this a lot of my life college educated women who just have such contempt for these guys like yeah I will consider dating him if he's this this this this this whoa wait a minute are you 5 foot 4 and 120 pounds do you have an 800 credit rating and no debt I mean with the kind of demands you're making are you that fine too bad most of the workers are just in their 20s too bad most of the workers that are in their 20s are not in Los Angeles see what you find out is also a lot of women just are afraid to get honest with it it's like dang can I hear you no I can't I cannot hear you but the microphone works just well turn on the original sound try again come on in somebody get on the show I want to see if somebody if I can hear you I need as I need a snow bunny they are F.A. the long hail long haul first up dude you need to learn how to spell what are you talking about they are F.A. the long haul see so I go back to that show married love at first sight you got to know where you rank ladies what is your SMV your sexual marketplace value are you hot enough to demand Blake Henry you understand something Blake Henry there are not a lot of especially since today so many guys aren't going to college these guys aren't just going to be dealing with women they aren't going to be what they want look I didn't make the rules and my thing is this how many women would love to be able to get their minds right how many women would love to be able to get their minds right and get to the point you're like you know what damn this I'm good I'm ready to actually put in 6 months or a year of training to get my shit together so I can end up being a better catch thank chance to say you're not getting white women spilling like that you're damn right you're not getting no women spilling like that thank no see shout out to Eric I'm not putting any group of women on any pedestal but I will tell you this that non black women have been talked to go after their mates strategically I have a question for a lot of sisters if you could not use your sex what else would you be bringing to the table no heat no judgment but if you could not use your feminine sexuality because there comes a time and you know a lot of high earners they're not having butt-naked freaky circus sex for 2 hours Blake Henry is not coming home from a 12 16 hour day and spending an hour in bed with you he does not have that time you're going to give 15 good minutes 15 maybe 30 minutes actually closer to 22 minutes a 30 minute sitcom is what you get and most of that is you servicing him you get what Bernie max said you get 50 good pumps these guys are not trying to they should not have to make you come 5 times you should come just sitting in the house looking at all this bounty can we talk about it you want to be a stay at home wife have a nanny be a soccer mom have kids in private school then you want your husband to come home after a 16 12 16 hour days and you want him to make love to you like a like an 18 year old college student no you're going to be pleasing him that already pissed off a lot of women like what so I got a so I can't get no I'm not saying what you have to I'm just saying my boys my boys have wives they're in a position they are and they're happy to be there they're happy to be there hello let me see hello I can't hear you can you hear me now Kev yeah I can cool it works speak up can you hear me now Kev what you got for me alright first and foremost Kev do me a favor do me one favor just call me Kev Kev I just don't Kev no problem long time fan me and my business partner we've been following you for well over a year we're blue collar we're both retired NYPD detectives and we literally we are in total awe of the subject matter because we have experienced this I've dated women nurses attorneys etc they'll say things like hey you know once you finish a degree X Y and Z meanwhile I make more than them wait wait whoa whoa now correct me if I wrong but don't police officers have like pretty damn good benefits listen Kev I'll tell you right now I have been seriously injured on the job I get 75% of my pension and I'm able to do whatever I want to do outside of that and I earn outside of that whether it's via security whether it's private investigations etc I'm also an expert witness also so we have that range of doing so I talked to one brother that he was like just turning 40 and he was doing high-end security for high-end corporate stuff there's so much money in that stuff listen in New York City if you are a retired cop this doesn't say you didn't get rank at all you're a retired cop plain simple the average retired cop average cop in New York City is making over $100,000 a year you make detective there's three there's three tiers to it it's third grade, second grade, first grade third grades make anywhere north of now top pay of 140 second graders make anywhere 160, first graders make 180 you retire if you retire with a half of that that's so if you just say you make it to second grade that's half of that you retire for the rest of your life as you're breathing with full benefits so let me ask you this how often is it you see your white Hispanic counterparts over 30 over who are in the mid to late 20s 30s who are married they married really quickly because their community understands exactly what they have they have what is called the Long Island princesses and these are girls who work at Applebee's, work at Hooters that get with cops, firemen etc because they know about the benefits they know their pension system better than they do are you ladies freaky listening so I mean this is like you know and you have sisters that sit here that have some disdain, you know, tour cops etc and I can understand that well I mean in a sense well you know what Cap I grew up in a city and I can understand the angst but at the same time though you're a therapy that takes care of all that shit especially when you're sitting at home and you know what's funny is that most of my white counterparts wives don't work that's the joke that's the joke it's like they don't work and we call them the Long Island princesses when I lived we call them the Long Island princesses because these guys when I worked at narcotics we were getting 60 hours a month over time whether we liked it or not so I mean so you're working around the clock it is what it is you're working all different types of hours so these guys used to kill it their wives are not working at all, their kids are going to private school they're paying $15,000 to $18,000 to $20,000 to taxes a year it's a big myth that people just don't understand because you're being told something through television or some other type of medium but in New York City this is what it is let me say this when I was my last years relationship we lived in a very very nice subdivision in Moore Moore, Oklahoma very nice it was one of the best neighborhoods that I ever lived in and there were cops all around the place no one was coming into the neighborhood the units were I guess that's the word, the unit the cop cars are sitting in the driveway and these houses were huge and guess what, the cops were roll out the wives are sitting up in the house going to local Starbucks and it was white as snow and now I'm in there because I'm a corporate executive my girl and I saw brothers living there single as hell and of course they never had a problem with having women but these dudes are like I don't get it man, Charles what's going on man woo the doctor of style and profile is here ladies and gentlemen y'all got it for a second man I don't understand what women are see this is the problem number one I never had problems getting women in my adult life God forbid all women just put a gut at a bad joint they'll just flock to you I don't give a damn but nobody says Jesus Christ the amount of overtime God and I'm on a promotion list to be a sergeant Jesus Christ ah man I'll tell you if you, I dare any woman to look down upon a blue collar guy and a contrition of plumber even the it does tell the dirty little secret a lot of these blue collar guys are making more money than some of these a lot of these so called educated women mm-hmm but they won't take advantage of these guys no you know great looking guys great personality guys oh he's under me because he works on plumbing can you do it do you know how much do you know how much the guy who comes into your corporate office gets paid just to look at that damn pipe right I don't get it man I don't get it but a man who works police fire they have fraternity of brothers in their profession plus they work for I don't want to use the wrong words just call it the state defense like you don't see many brothers firefighters you forgot one thing Kevin positions of power well I know a lot of cops who go on and start their private security firms and do security for international businessmen and I'm like Jesus do you know who I was security for actually bodyguard of Stephanie Mills in common Vivica A. Fox freeway that's just making a thousand to twelve hundred dollars that day well got gun will travel well ladies you heard it coming from what's his mouth thanks guys I'm gonna go ahead and finish the rest of the show appreciate you guys charming in to give me some credibility to this because sometimes when it comes out of somebody like me my mouth they're like you just talking I just look at my non just look at your non black counterparts the average white woman is not a model the average Henry I mean really you went to college sister the average white girl was not a swimsuit model have you never asked yourself yeah you now you knew the Becky's and the Chad's the homecoming queen the football the champion quarterback we know those but what about the run of the meal chicks Meredith Meredith was probably a queen but you know what I mean Karen Melissa you know the girls who were just you know they were five sixes when they got really kind of made up they could be adjustable sevens you know just you know they never got fat but they are anything but they were just cutish you know they could be seen in public but no one's they didn't they weren't they weren't guys were knocking the door down to try to get them but how are these average to cute women still housewives and you'll find ass is never been married single as frick let's talk about it how ladies how because they don't look over blue collar men I don't want to go too deep into this but a lot of stuff started with baby boomers my parents generation women in my parents generation looking at their mother's generation and saying they didn't want to be be like them but what I'm saying is is I don't care how you're raised you give yourself the best shot at giving you you is smart to get have as many options as possible but there's gonna come a time you gotta pick let's just let's be honest you gotta settle settle yes settle settle yes you gotta settle you gotta get off the roller coaster you gotta get off the ride is 24 years old I he's suitable he's great he has I've done my homework he's going to be able to provide that I'm settling and I'm going to be his for the rest of my life instead of trying to always see hypergamy always trying to find the next bit bigger dude hypergamy hurts you because men look at hypergamous women and they have no sympathy for them shout out to Antoine Wade men look at hypergamous women women who try to level up and continue to get the next better deal if you don't think Keith Henry can look as watching your moves and seeing that you monkey branch from here to here to here to here to here you are a climber and my boys avoid climbers because climbers will drop you for the next branch why is it so hard to so a lot of women need to be told they need to settle I use the word settle because that's what it sounds like to a lot of sisters you gotta settle no and that actually what it means is you just need to make a good choice stop trying to find Mr. Perfect you're not perfect notice the women Marsha C why won't you get on the show mm-hmm Becky knows how to identify potential mm-hmm Toyo why won't y'all get on the show because if you're learning you can't learn from just general information just basic questions you have to show your face there are 835 people watching and here's the real deal I want to see happy people anybody would tell you when I started this year it's about happy Henry Henry's are happier when they have women in their life that are there to make them happy I rather have my Henry's with no women versus happening with women that are going to be chaos but I can't lie and say that 95% of my Henry's they want wives so I want the best caliber of women and God did Weezy look unhappy I mean she may have had a complaint or two I guarantee it's a hell of a lot easier to complain from the 72nd floor of an Upper East Side apartment with a maid she wasn't complaining about the gas being turned off the lights not happening they just you'll take Weezy's complaints shout out Mr. G what sister in here don't want Weezy's complaints Marsha you want Weezy's complaints how about this how many women in the chat room would love to just say willing to raise your hand and say I want to be married happily married I want to be happily married put a one in chat room ladies Miss French Twist a lot of men who go for good looking women let me go ahead and put this down here because Sandra Bullock is not a great let me go ahead and put this in here because sound like a sound like a woman we talk to so Miss French Twist there's a lot of good looking men who go for good looking women with great bodies will drop you for the next better looking woman how do you know that have you been dropped for a better looking woman Miss French Twist look at all the people Weezy was George's mother Weezy wasn't George's mother Louise was Weezy Miss French Twist did you get love for a better looking woman that's what I want to know Tank Johnson he said that's a lie I want to see that question while we're waiting for Miss French Twist to answer the question what do you want to be made ok see here's what you want to get yourself hurt lady so Miss French Twist that's what she said instead of answering the question what does she do she came in and said men are visually motivated and always looking so what do we know about Miss French Twist guys what do we know about her a woman who does not answer a direct question with a direct answer and she either answers a question with a question or she moves a goal post or deflects what do we know about them they are disingenuous at best and likely the problem in their lives so all she wants to come over here and do is have talking points Miss French Twist you're not going to be allowed to do that over here you're not going to be allowed to do that over here ma'am I'm not going to say she's ugly of fat but I will tell you she's not happy she's damn sure not happy the question was she made a statement that said men who go for good looking women in a good shape will leave you for a better looking woman and I said that's bull I said does that happen to you and she didn't answer the question she said men are visually motivated so in other words no it didn't happen to me didn't happen to her see no I'm married to a great man who makes good money whew put them on the phone Miss French Twist I swear to God I get more happy women over here with conchery points of view who have no avatar ha ha ha I should play the lottery I get the this is better than bingo I get women who are married happy to men who make lots of money but they're conchery and no avatar this doesn't seem to work out in life we don't believe her Miss French Twist you are not married Miss French Twist your husband is not your boyfriend is not making a lot of money Miss French Twist don't come in here thinking you can lie to us we know better ha ha ha ha ha oh my God Stacey Young what's going on Stacey Young how many women honestly I don't have to work no okay well let me go ahead and help you go ahead and time you out we don't want to talk to you no more I'm going to give you 5 minutes to go talk to your imaginary husband you got 5 minutes 300 seconds to go please your husband how many women are who are over 34 years old who are at the point to where you're willing to change your standards because if you're over 30 and unmarried I mean I'm going to say over 34 if you're over 30 and unmarried ladies you got to change you got to drop those that list of stuff you got to drop that list of stuff because if you're over 30 I don't care even if you find that you're over 30 you don't have leverage over these guys you don't have leverage over my boys you got leverage over maybe the other 80% of men but this is the top 20% of men you don't need you don't have you don't have that we need the KPIs you need to keep performance indicators if you make it over 30 and I'm married if you make it over 30 and you're not married you got to really start you got to put a smart if a man could put his mind in a woman's body men if they were in a women's position that way I can say you know what I'm going to get around a bunch of high value potential men and I'm going to get as humble as hell and I'm going to learn about what they want and I am going to become that because that sounds like safety you know what safety is Mr. Bowtie for a woman a safety for a woman would be to become the best housewife material possible so she could get a man to come in and save her from herself ooh did I say that out loud so he could come save you from yourself Toya says I'm okay okay thank you I'm army ooh army ooh uh oh okay save you from yourself a lot of women need to be saved for themselves in a negative way because you're better off being with the blue Henry or black Henry or remember the hit squad we're past the hit squad you're better with blue or black being the the administrator of his empire or would you rather stay out here working would you rather stay out here working alright I don't want to lag this on let's click to 100 minutes 14 minutes at the end of the day take this as new knowledge going forward it will be wise not gonna go to the army because the army has a lot of stigma when it comes to women army and navy okay for you ladies who are in the military I will just tell you stigma men look at women who've been in the navy and think you've been run through because of the sheer amount of sex that happens on ships and in the army same thing so you're gonna have to deal with that but what was I saying look ladies you are survivors you're adaptable adapt to your femininity and learn and start doing what your white counterparts are doing what your white and your Asian counterparts are doing learn from your white and Asian counterparts and go talk to your Hispanic counterparts because you're not as quick to go talk to your white counterpart the issue between white women and black women the dynamics are just off Asian women y'all probably don't get along with them that well but more likely you can go talk to Latina and say how do you put up with and let them school you swirling is not an authentic solution what are you talking about swirling is not an authentic solution what are you talking about swirling or howdy my opinion far too many black women worry about silly shit like swirling and colorism job number one would be to find a husband job number one should be to find a husband find a good husband and be a wife to him that would be job number one instead of worrying about a bunch of other stuff that would I would say that far too many people get preoccupied with a bunch of stuff that got nothing to do with them be a wife be a mother be a wife be a mother I mean instead of having all these opinions instead of being having all these opinions which do nothing but just do these opinions make your bed are these opinions do they warm your bed at night do these opinions soothe your jangled nerves do these opinions nibble on your air and blow and kiss you on the back of your neck do these opinions grab you and hold you and make you feel hell do these opinions break you do you have something proper like do these opinions do any of that for you do these opinions make carry you around your other girlfriends to where they know damn she got a winner all you and your girlfriends sitting around talking about the same thing all these damn opinions wouldn't you rather be the girl that comes over with the 1.5 or 2 carat ring listening to all your friends' opinions you're just like mm-hmm yeah girl yeah it's hard out yeah man I'm on our brick yeah all that stuff uh oh I gotta get home to make dinner for my hubby yeah gotta get home make dinner for my hubby my hubby bubby hubby bubby yeah I gotta get home to make dinner for blue blue Henry Bay yeah but girl I'll see you next week no I can't do it tomorrow you know married woman problems but y'all gone girl gone ship to Vegas hot girl summer hey see you in 3 months mm-hmm God I'm so glad I'm married you know I'll tell you this women who get married or more often as they sit around and talk to their friends one way but they tell me go I'm so glad I'm married I'm so glad I'm married I ain't got to be out here doing that shit and figuring out which dick to do and nothing thank you Peter sister you're like uh-huh and then Peter sister go home and be like hey blue is she thinking you know when I left this morning he had them stinky ass work boots and then funky socks and then he spilled cream on the floor and then when I went to go use the bathroom he left the toilet up last night then I went to use the toothpaste and left the cap off the toothpaste and he did all this shit around your career girlfriends and you start listening to all their problems and you like oh see what I'm gonna do is I'm going to get this little thing that actually drops the toilet seat back down and I'm going to get a little thing by the front door with some renews it in it so he can just throw his socks right there like a little dispensary and you know just a little cream you know no biggie and the cap off the toothpaste it probably needed to air out anyway what the heck is the name what's going on hey Asta I need you to go here and chill out on the language fam chill out uh-huh doesn't does not care I'm serious I'm serious and when you have stuff that works far better look man as a divorced guy I will tell you none of us planned on being this way we evolved to pair off into working groups a family unit is the default position and the best position for 80 to 90 percent of us holidays I mean aren't you tired of going the holidays are just empty you don't even celebrate them anymore Thanksgiving don't matter Christmas there's no don't matter I mean it doesn't matter you just you're just living living by yourself until you die when are you gonna give all that up when are you gonna say enough I submit I quit you would rather have somebody to chronicle your life with because ladies unlike cues run the world shout out to the cues Tommy dog in the house unlike men ladies we can still at 50 years old decide to you know what get our shit together as it were and still go get a young wife and and still make up for a little lost time you can't ladies your decisions have to come quicker and and and last longer do not why do you does down black women everyone's not the same here you go Karen Thomas yeah you are all the same yes all black black women are the same yeah women are the same yeah yeah you are you're not special it's general it's generalizations because it's broad generalizations because it's generally true and only people that come over here talking about making specifics for somebody I don't know upset women Karen what does your husband say about it when your husband starts to talk about black women does he say something for all the millions of you come on Karen here you go you can come set me straight though tell me how I'm wrong tell me how I'm wrong about it all I don't know nothing Karen said that why do I down people down is there any way anybody can say tell any kind of truth about black women like Karen that they will accept is there any way that anybody can say any truth about black women like Karen that they will accept anything who can tell them oh Derek Jackson right alright I mean she came through here with the mad face invasion and why do you down women everyone is not the same hater mad face, mad face, mad face I mean she came in here like she was saying something I mean goodness Karen what do you want people to tell you well I'll tell you what this is what you do you look at your left ring finger and you tell me what it says does it say occupied or unoccupied if it were a hotel or would it say no vacancy Karen Thomas does your vacancy sign say owned or no vacancy what y'all think here's the comment what do y'all think y'all think a woman who makes this comment has a vacancy sign I'm about as nice as they come as long as you're being reasonable but anyway I gotta get up off of here unlike Karen I got company unlike Karen I have company and yes I had company earlier today and the beautiful thing about these companies is that they know about each other it's gangster like that Karen you got any company coming over Karen it's almost it's past 11 o'clock on Saturday night you got a date you got a company you got anybody to come over to rub your feet kiss you on the back of your neck whisper sweet whisper things in your left ear put their tongue in your left ear wiggle it around and make you all moist you got anybody to come by and rub you on your back and hit those spots and just have you released anybody to help you get one of them you got anybody to help you come by and get that release sister girl anybody got anybody to come work out that last little kink do ya do ya do ya uh uh you don't do ya that's why you over here upset because you have a brother over here who has the heart to tell women what he sees it's like when I was on the obsidian show the other day that angry woman my lady friend was sitting back saying Jesus this woman sounds so angry she said I would love to talk to her but she's just so angry I'm like I don't want and y'all will never see any of my people I deal with that's not true raised as a Christian woman 30 years of the same man this is the best one of the night y'all hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on she said that's not true raised as a Christian woman 30 years with the same man shit you a good liar get out of here get out of here get out of here get out of here get out of here you can't make this up these bible thumping wanna be Christian women oh Jesus Christ go back and listen to the show sweetheart oh my god they come straight out of central casting oh shit alright guys I gotta go on that one thank you Karen appreciate it oh fuck she said not true I'm a Christian woman and been with the same man for 30 years one more to go on Karen be gone demon be gone Karen she is a demon oh my god hahahaha Pizzuzu I see you be gone Pizzuzu you and your good lies he's telling them good lies y'all Karen telling them good lies we see you Karen tell them good lies Karen everybody sing it for Karen cause I'm fine no matter what you tell your good lies I'm fine no matter