 All right guys, here we are again day number three at the 21 convention London the men's conference of The century. Yeah, exactly. So coming to the stage next is a very animated fun guy and If nothing else, you'll love his hairstyle. Please welcome Sasha day game Thanks, dude. Cool What's up? I know you're all thing. What the fuck DJ Fuji what? No, no, how you guys doing you guys enjoying the cell? Everything's good happy fun good Oh How fucking awesome was Marcus? fucking awesome, right? Like basically when I found out there was there was extra time I just basically was just like Anthony dude. Trust me. Trust me. Look at me. I contact put Marcus on he's awesome And yeah fucking great hard to follow because he's so fucking good. I'm just like yes And we were actually very similar in what we do like we spent hours on Skype talking about shit Like all the funny wind-ups we do and all the pranks and just fucking with people and we could go on for like hours I might bring you up in a bit just for fun. Just to tell him some of the goofy shit we get up to But yeah, man for us. It's always been about just having fun entertaining ourselves. It's like a really key thing And like me personally I've been doing stand-up comedy my whole life Since I was like 18 years old. That's that's it. I've never done anything else. I've never had a real job I've just always been telling jokes and And that's kind of really permeated through throughout my existence and And I just I just love making people smile. That's just my thing Like I get up on stage and you know, I'm trying to cut it down because it like if I didn't cut it down I would just be up here like doing jokes and you're like it's hilarious and they'd be like we didn't learn shit But just it was really funny But it's and I found I found that by like again By entertaining myself and just really loving making people smile and having fun That has gotten me a lot of success because again Marcus was saying I really put my own amusement First, you know when I when I meet people it's like I want to meet them and I want to I want to have fun I want to enjoy myself. I want to you know, that's my whole life is about just making people smile I love it and throughout the years. I you know I brought other elements into that so like, you know being really direct recently I've been on this massive direct thing. So I like you know, I like like flirting with girls and telling them They're hot and just being really honest and expressing myself And I think I talk and it's hard to really sell what I want to talk about I guess it's going to be what having fun and self-expression and just being direct and just kind of going for what you want Not being like a pussy, you know, I think my favorite expression over the last month is uh, why be a pussy when you can be a dick I think that's my favorite new expression So that's it really um And I think yeah, again a lot of people go wrong because they take all this so seriously, you know like, you know They're coming up to girls and they're like, okay, um All right, I'm gonna I'm gonna do this and then the opener and then I'm gonna try and I'm gonna try and build our thing up and then I'm gonna get an attraction I'm gonna do all this shit and then you're so in your head worrying about like what's gonna happen And what you're gonna do in planning the shit out where you just you just lose the plot and you freeze up And that's why your your people are in their fucking heads And I find when you're just out there actually enjoying yourself and having fun that trumps everything Like if you're just there and you are loving every moment. You're just having fun. You're making people smile You just don't give a fuck that destroys What am I gonna say next or um body? Oh, I gotta I gotta keep my shoulders back and I gotta I have a good body line No, man, do you think do you think if you come to a girl and you're having a blast and you're just immediately? She likes you you're just having fun and she picks up that you're having fun And you don't give a shit about what she thinks or anyone else thinks that is so much more attractive That destroys everything else that trumps your body language that trumps, you know the angle you're you know I'll come in like this from the side. I don't want her to know shit I like you know it destroys everything else because you're just You're living life and you're being in the moment when you walk into a bar Okay, you walk into like a bar or whatever say I mean personally I hate you know, I don't like bars club but just a room with like a bunch of people If you look in that room and you're like, okay, uh, there's some chicks over there And uh, yeah, okay. We'll just don't look at that. We'll go stand over here for a while And then we'll be at fuck as soon as they see you they're just like yeah, okay You know, they don't even say just whatever doesn't matter you walking over you're talking with your friend You're joking around you're having fun. You're just being a complete dick You're messing with people and you just you don't care You just walk in and you're in your own little world and you just you don't care about what other people think You're not caring about what people are looking at you or what people are thinking that that bubble of energy is just like It will spread and women and everyone in that room is going to look at you and be like These guys are just in their own bubble of fun and you're having that bubble of fun Everyone wants to be in that bubble You know, you've all seen that you're you're there somewhere and you just see a group of people You could be on a bus. There's just a group of people and they're just having fun. They don't care They don't care. They're being loud. They don't care people are watching them. They don't care about any of that They're just being dicks and being loud and having fun and you're just there going fuck man I want to be I'm gonna be like that. I want to be in that group So it's all about being that creating that energy being that and you know what if you're if you're out there And you're like, you know, I'm gonna have I'm gonna have a blast. I don't give a shit That is gonna get you so much success. You're gonna meet so many interesting people You know, you're gonna meet other people who are on that energy level who just want to have fun You're gonna meet girls, you know all the girls that I've that I've met in my life You know, that's what I'm attracted to. I love girls who are like They'll laugh at my jokes and I can do stupid shit and I could just you know, just have fun Those are the most amazing people in my life And by coming up to women or just people and being that way Immediately I'm meeting the people that I want to because if I just come up and do some goofy stuff and girls look Whatever, I'm just like, okay There's there's nothing for me to continue But if I come in and I'm doing my thing and girls are like, uh, you're crazy I could tell you're creating that there's immediately vibing with me and they're joking and having fun Instantly, I'm like, it's on It's on I like this girl. Okay. I don't have to fake any stuff. I don't have to build any attraction The chick like like I'll be telling the girl what I really feel. I'll be like, oh my god Because I'm being me. It's so easy to be like you're fucking cool. You're laughing at my jokes You know, you're uh, you're just smiling. You're you've got a great energy. I fucking, you know, I love you You're so cool and that's all true. I don't have to fake anything ever I would never fake an emotion I would never pretend to be anything I'm not because I'm looking I'm just being the way I am Which is for me is just a little bit of a you know, it's like the crazy level of fun And I'm and I'm sucking in the people that I want to be around I'm sucking in those people who you know the people that want to just do crazy shit and do stuff Dumb stuff and I'm going to share with you guys some of the stuff I get up to That's just uh, that's just fun. That's just fun and uh And always it's always about me. That's the thing. This is always about me It's not about oppressing anyone. It's not about anyone else but you it's all about you Hmm, this is the one area where you can just be selfish man. It's all about you Whenever I talk to people I fuck with them. Okay, and this is something that Marcus taught me actually initially. That's right I told you I would plug you properly Uh, so much of the stuff like I've learned more from this guy than anybody um And so it's pre frames