 Supposing that's a picture of you and you stood inside those boots, supposing I am on the dry ground a few meters away shouting to you, you're sinking, step out, get out of there and you'd say to me, I can't, can't you see I'm stuck, why are you saying to me get out of there, can't you see I'm stuck and I'm getting more and more stuck, the more I struggle, the more I'm sinking and getting stuck and I'm gonna say to you leave your boots, step out of your boots because here's what happens, the longer you stay in those boots, you think you and your boots are the same thing, you get so attached to your boots, you don't realize, listen to me, it's not you that's stuck, it's the system that's sticking you, it's the culture that's holding you, it's the friends, it's the friends you need to walk away from, it's the structure you need to walk away from, you are not stuck, you're okay.