 Hello there, coming at you from the flea market in Israel. I promised I'll do some more exotic locations for the videos. And what I want to talk about today is actually the opposite of motivation and the whole idea of, you know, aim big, want more and how to actually persevere during tough times, when you're trying to build your business, when you're trying to, you know, become more fit, more muscular, when you're trying to find a great partner. Anything that takes time and usually relates to like a lot of disappointment or a lot of not seeing the results you want for a long time. So the way I used to go about it, I would just go all out. So that was what I like to call the do or die method where basically I would create a situation where if I don't succeed, something really bad would happen. For example, when I wanted to start my first online business, I literally took like a $20,000 loan, moved to a hotel to live there at like I think $700 a day cost and plus invested another like $6,000 in a mentor. So that was a great way for me to really make sure that there's no chance that I don't get it done, basically. So sorry, traffic and shit. So that was the old way that I used and I could still use it if I'm in a situation where I really want to make sure something happens quickly. I call it like a do or die commitment or you know, back against the wall thing. But another way that I like to go about it is which I developed in the last year or so is the I don't care way which I know it sounds kind of funny but hear me out. So the I don't care way is basically like this. You decide what you want. For example, I want to have like a successful online business and then you decide which daily habits you'll need to have in order to get it. For example, I need to work on it for like two hours a day. I need to listen to my mentor for like 30 minutes a day. I need to do this, you know, you can make it like very general goals, habits that you need to do every day or you can make it very specific things that you need to do every day. But either way, just build up that list and then when you decide that you're going to start, just decide I'm going to keep doing this no matter what until I die, you know, like I'm going to just stick at it, keep doing the daily habits. I don't care if I see results or not. It's just the way I live now. So you kind of embrace that self image, you could say of the unsuccessful person, like the guy who's just trying and trying and trying and nothing works for him. I'm going to move from the noise. Basically you embrace it. So imagine you taking on the self-esteem of an unsuccessful person but like you don't care that you are that person. Like imagine you're like the guy who goes to the gym and like he's not seeing results but he's like fuck it, I'm just going to go every day. I'm not saying again, don't be stupid, don't like not learn and see what works and all that but just embrace it that there are no fast results. It's going to take a shitload of time. You're probably not going to even get to it. You're just going to be that guy who works out every day and nothing fucking happens or maybe you're that guy who works on his business and builds his funnels, pays for the domain, builds the content, uploads videos, nobody watches his videos, nobody, no sales, nothing. That's just the way you are and that's just who you are. You just keep doing it quietly without fuss, without complaining, without bitching, without saying how pathetic you are. Just like yeah, that's just who I am. I'm just that guy and you accept it and you keep doing it every day. And surely enough, eventually, you're going to start seeing results. So again, you can be that guy who just approaches women and nobody likes him but he just does it. You can be the guy who works out every day, nothing happens but he just works out and you can be the guy who works on his business, doesn't see anything, any results, but fuck it, that's just what he does and when you embrace that, it gives you a lot of power and the reason it gives you power is because you don't care anymore. You don't take the emotional hits. The main thing that makes you want to give up is not the fact that you're not getting results, it's the fact that it feels like shit that you're not getting results. It's like oh god, every day is the same, nothing happens, I hate this shit, I keep trying and trying but it doesn't work out, what the fuck, what's wrong with me but imagine if you just embraced failure like yeah I'm a failure, fuck it, I just don't give results but you keep doing it, you keep learning, you keep taking the actions that will produce results because learning and taking action will produce results, eventually, they have to so you just keep doing it. So that's the way I go about it today whenever I start something new. Again, you can go by the do or die back against the wall kind of way but I used it at the beginning because it was not even successful at anything yet and I just wanted to break that wall and get success as fast as possible. Again, it's very dangerous, you could go through a lot of shit if you fail or it could catapult you into quick success or again, you could just stick through the daily habits build it slowly and then see the benefit of having no ego and just fucking doing it every day and just saying fuck it, I don't care. I just take the action and what happens happens. So that's the message for you today like I said in the previous video from the desert I'm going to start uploading 2, 3, maybe 4 videos every single day from now and I hope you like it and if you haven't subscribed yet and that would be a good time to do it. So see you soon and check out the free gift at the description if you haven't done so yet. Bye bye.