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Hey, so check check in You know, I'm saying, uh Man, it's been uh, it's been long overdue Me and his brother, man, we've been chopping it behind the scenes for a long time A lot of people don't know we should have been hit the record button on a lot of our conversations, man Really really putting it together the right way But I got my man Kevin, Samuel's in the building. You know what I'm saying? Say what's up to the people, bro What's going on everybody? Hey, so check it out. Kevin following this shit ever since I was cooking old ladies I was cooking a whole lady and he hit me up. It was like Yeah, we gotta do something about the old business and I was getting flag left and right and I was just I was in the street And we couldn't we couldn't get this shit done Then I came up with the notion about this 90s shit and the niggas said hold up. Hold up I won't in on this shit. You know I'm saying So, you know I'm saying so I said man Who better to tell us about the 90s dating scene than a motherfucker who survived That bitch boy. Oh, we got Kevin Samuel's up in here We're doing today before we go to the movie review because you know, we still got that coming up tonight But we're gonna deal with the 90s scene. Where are they now? I want I want I won't care to break everything down from uh, the dating the clothing of the uh How these chicks was acting? I mean just so many I got a lot of questions, man, but let's start first with, um You know How was that how was the club scene? On the 90s on the 90s tip because like we're pulling up a lot of movies And I mean I I feel like we're getting an accurate depiction of a lot of things But how was it when you was really on that scene like that? rough We we was out From wednesday To saturday wednesday night Ladies night So ladies got in free before we left Okay, and what what city was this? Uh dallas or what houston dallas new york city. Okay uh, so but this is any city and then then uh And towards the end of the 90s, we got to fuck around with first friday, which was in the fucking same Okay, so the club was every every club Was happening dion had a club called prime time prince had a club called monopolies So every city had spots and it was like The draw was to try to get the i'm getting feedback Let me make sure I got all my stuff closed So the draw was to get all the women there and if you get the women there the men will come So ladies got in free before 10, right? Now the music will be pumping that have the the latest whatever And in the 90s we switch from You know, it takes two kind of shit to you know, that's when the down south rap hitting the booty rap Okay, this shit will go crazy, but then it would also flip And it will go to the slow songs So you had a chance to actually get in the woman's ear. So that dance too. Did you have to dance? Yeah, but you didn't have but you didn't have to do that kid and play shit Okay, okay See that's when dancers dances see the games start getting fucked up around about that time man because You dance with a woman, man You come out you got your fucking Versace shirt on and you sweating and shit And uh, the smooth the dudes that couldn't get no ass dance Because you could dance your way into some pussy I'm not gonna lie. I dance my way into a lot of pussy I build you to not nigga. I was michael jackson competition anybody who fuck them Break dancing and shit, dude You could dance your way in the pussy because the woman's sitting there looking how you move your hips Me like that dude can fuck Okay, okay, you know, we're doing a jungle walk and the snake and shit and you doing all this shit It's like, oh, yeah, because I was a skinny dude, man, but you could dance your way into some pussy But here's the thing, but if you had no game You could dance to overcome your lack of game, but eventually you still have to say something to a chick Uh, but by the time you say something to it, you probably want to get with you anyway So I want to I want to stop there like The approach with men on that scene like from what I'm gathering because you know When the 90s, I was like in grammar school Just about to get in the high school. It should about the end of the night So I wasn't out and about clubbing and shit like that, but As we we going back and we researching it just seemed like the approach to women was Was like experimental like niggas was still trying to figure it out and get their feet wet So that's why you got a lot of the dating coaches and shit like that Who had the water liners the pickup artists and all that shit You know I'm saying so kind of explain like how was the approach and All right rejection game or the bitches at that time. How was that going? So I'm gonna break it down Before I pledge and after I pledge because I'm a cappa. Okay, so by being a cappa You you got extra props on the yard, but here's the thing with the 90s The notion of game we we were all playing pickup basketball. We had no there was no uniform game Think we couldn't even get uniform music. So he was trying to just make shit up. Let me tell you here's I went from trying I I'm a I'm a salesperson. I sat around and tried to come up with them one liners and shit. They didn't work for me, man You don't know what my game was? Uh, look here. I ain't got no rap. I ain't gonna Mac. I'm just trying to get some conversation I would go up to bitches and just say that because I had no rap and no Mac Only one liners and shit didn't work for me And and and if a woman smiled she would be like, okay That's a more little more original and she would give you some time This is when Alan Roger Curry frat brother came up with around the late 80s 90s. He came up with that mode one stuff um And I stumbled on to just being direct Because I got tired of just trying to be some sort of Rap game dude that I just didn't have because I didn't have shit to back up the game with That time in the 90s. See 90s was but also a lot about cupcake it too A lot of dudes would sit around and uh get on that baby face shit. I'll pay your rent. I'll tie your shoes and shit like that and the funny thing is dudes like that could get a lot of attention from bitches but Most of them dudes weren't fucking like they say they were Because chicks that was fucking around with those dudes they were letting them pay for shit do that shit But they they were really still fucking the dudes that that that could actually stand up to them The notion of a lot is red pill checking a bitch and all that shit that that was This is this that was nowhere existing back then back then you were expected to uh open the door Be a gentleman wine and dying Keith Washington was I got the candles and the flowers Well, you think I got this shit from anything but the 90s you coming Nigga you came into my nigga I had you call me in the 90s and my entry to the to the fucking uh answer machine was I had the echo machine. Hello. Hello. Hello. Hello. You reach Kevin Kevin Kevin Kevin Kevin Nigga, we was we were doing anything we could to try to seem smooth. You had that one or two mistakes Now I remember in the 90s. I used to get bitches my car In the mall like I got got cards made up in the mall. I think I sit on the movie or something. I did that shit now How accurate do you feel that you know what I'm saying like movies like boomerang and shit like when you see like how these women work You know, it's like what they really shitting on brothers once they got their education and you know the talk shows and things like that like When we equipped to deal with that shit in the 90s No The the shit you see in the 90s boomerang. Yes dead on robin gibbons dead on uh, I think you did uh, I think you did uh strictly business Yeah, yeah Dead on man with that left right up down when especially when you had them ivy lee You know, she went to northwestern. Yeah, aka the short crop bar cut. Yeah, dude Because we can stay away stay away from any any bitch from the 90s with a shortcut Stay away from this shit They were shitting on brothers because honestly brothers, you know, I was in corporate american in 90s and i'ma tell you man, uh It was I was a rare breed I didn't see black men where I was black men were in the mail room Or on Customers they were on the floor. They weren't upstairs So i'm upstairs with a bunch of black women Trying to smooth with white guys. She's trying to compete with me to get the position. So i'm her competition Right, so if the company is going to send two people away to get their mba and there's 12 of us Somebody's going to get a 30 thousand dollar education and an additional 20 thousand dollars of a year in pay Back when the minimum wage is three 35 an hour. That's a lot of money So sisters had a lot of problem Dealing with men on an equal footing because they were outpacing us Brothers was the brothers who was going to the military and they had a different track when you graduated at 18 you had three paths Good job Let me be a broke dude military or college And college is the path that people wanted to go to Uh Job was the least valuable the job if you got a job It was assumed you couldn't go to college or the military now Like they had good jobs back there too like the factory jobs. That's what I was about to say now when I say job I mean a job. I don't mean that good gm job. I don't mean them good factory union jobs They were dying out about that time. Yeah. Yeah, so Uh and here's the net of it when you got brothers going to college and you getting all this feminist ideals And the first time you were away from home and most of us Were raised in a in a under our mothers We out here and these women around all these white women getting all these liberated ideas Dude, I remember the first relationship panel I sat on in 1989 Before shahar azalea came out Dude, that's the first time I realized we got a major problem because these women were out For blood and here's the fucked up thing a lot of the shit. They were talking about They personally never experienced They're importing shit that their mamas and their aunties are talking about my mother's generation I used to hear them boomer women run down men so their daughters who were generation x came along in the 90s with this I don't need no man shit so When brothers brothers was sitting down and like well You ain't gonna argue with her off the rip because you got no no data no statistics no youtube You don't want to be the alone dude out there. So dudes like yeah, all right cool And a few dudes that did uh standard straight tended to be athletes Or dudes that had different sources of money That didn't have to tie to some corporate job. See a lot of black men were in that time We were neutered because you know you had to play that Dude is strictly business. You have to play that. Hey, how you doing? I was a threat man, you know and it and to the point to where When a black woman knew that she could get you in a trick bag She would use it to to get her power up. Now. Here's the funny thing the funny thing is When when brothers finally started realizing that this shit is this this shit is again. This shit is a hustle Very few dudes really wanted to stand up or say anything because that just wasn't the market You took a lot of punishment in the 90s from sisters looking down because They were making more money than black men. They had more position. They had more shit Uh, and you know how that is when you got a woman that's got more than you Yeah I think that That was the time that was a period where it really really empowered black women and With that power I to this day, I don't see them producing anything that actually helped us. No, you know what I'm saying like they they were all out for self in that period of time and now You know the generations down a line. They want us to pick up the pieces and Fix what they fucked up while they were having a good time Period so like as far as when you was on the scene Was it an influx of single moms? No, well So What about college too? Was it a lot of that? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, what did you start to see the single mom? sure late 90s like 97 to 2001 we started to see more of them. See when I came along it was still taboo you Women that had children didn't go to college Back then. Okay. You had a baby. You were out of college. You were Bridget Criswell You can't go So women knew today if they wanted to get out they couldn't have no baby and they wouldn't and and they weren't trying to put babies on dudes Who athletes like they are today because dudes did because going pro did not secure you Going pro back then you weren't a multi-millionaire back when Barry Sanders and thermatomas came out They was making a million five a year. They were no there were no 20 million dollar contracts Oftentimes a lot of dudes that played ball at oh you which was one of the powerhouses back then oh you miami know today Uh dudes like that would go to the league for a few years and end up selling insurance So, you know, what's the name? I mean, unless you went and there weren't a lot of broadcast positions for brothers I mean all this shit came along in the 2000s So what helped me out is I ended up fucking around with an older woman. I had me a sugar mama Okay, and and she put me up on mad game um, had I not run along across her and I just deal with how a woman really should move because she had the paper And the credentials to back it up. She wasn't talking shit. She actually had work to show So when I'm gonna deal with a shit talking 90s chick or deal with a woman who was 10 years older than me who actually had a house in Naples and was here game driving her jack her second jag around I could see the difference, but uh, but again, she was 10 years older than me. I couldn't really see being with um fucking with her and And uh, marrying her or nothing, but it was good learning experience Now like did you guys foresee that these women from that 90s era was going to eventually Turn into like this these failures these feminists these You know, I'm saying like these like like because I know like you You're bumpy like an age that you're in you bumping into some of these motherfuckers like damn We went to school the other day and you know say and what are you seeing? Are you seeing these bitches like? um How could I say like? Doing good for themselves looking good in shape shit like that or how they really fell off And had no real plan from what the fuck was going on in the 90s and just kind of just trying to pick up the pieces uh Who was drafted before Jordan was an anthony buoy? You don't get me to lie, man. I think so. So no dude. Honestly. It was not foreseeable that they would fail the way they did See they had here's why we couldn't foresee it Black women have always been put ahead of black men as far as the family if somebody had to go to college You sent the girl to college because the guy could get their good factory job And then they would always come back home and try to uh pool the money with the family But this but my generation was the first generation That they're turning their back on the family traditions on they kept all the shit for themselves and the problem is um They kept it all to themselves and this is when you saw a lot of people Getting married and around the late around 95 to 96 you saw a lot of people getting started getting married Or trying to have children around 26 or 27 26 to 29 But the shit wasn't working because you got a woman who Think she's better than you she's not your equal So you button hands with this stuff. So this is why you see short term marriages falling apart my generation That's why you find a lot of dudes my age who've been married twice We still tried to do it like I was always wondering about that like as far as like the divorce game It just seemed like the 90s had The the most vindictive The you know i'm saying like that was the height of the that was the kickoff of the divorce game The alimony game the runner man through the uh the ringer game right that's when it was My mother my mother's generation. I was my mother wasn't married to my father but that generation They would never they would not take me into uh, I asked my mom. Why didn't you take my dad to get child support? She's like I got too much pride. We did all right And at the time I was like shit. We could have dealt with that extra, you know I could have used that money But I didn't understand what she was saying my mother and her aunts my mother and her two sisters who was Sat around and say I feel sorry for y'all with the kind of women. You know, they are not like us because when black women at this time realized That there was more power to be had away from black men They start going in droves. So It's seven almost 80 of divorces are filed by women black women black men aren't the ones leaving So that's why you see black men who a generation X have been married once been married twice somebody married three times It's not the men who are divorcing. It's the women and here's why they're divorcing They're always they were always trying to find the bigger better deal Thinking if I got him over here. Well, you know, this dude has an MBA But it didn't work So you asked that you see that they were going to fail no because they weren't Leaving the man or their husband and going to get another husband They they tied all that stuff up in their job and here's what's happened job I need people to understand this Black women always talk about they putting in career 80% of women do not have careers. They got jobs. You're not an executive You're not a vice president. You're not a director regional manager You have a the largest employers of black women to the federal government and retail You're an office manager. You're a supervisor. You got a job not a career with a pad So they were getting paid a lot of money for jobs and they didn't feel like they needed a man So this is so when you don't need us They the dating scene started to turn It started being from you could go ask a woman to dance She'd be like cool to start to turn their nose up to where, you know, when I was in college women didn't dance in groups But 10 years later, they started dancing in groups to crazy ass songs. It completely flipped man Now the funny thing is fast forward to when women people start hitting around age 40 You start seeing women But out of shape overweight Two, you know kids one to three kids by two dudes and then when you back up You go to the the college reunion and tisha is 225 pounds and didn't have a stroke Now she's trying to see I always liked it you What Now you didn't want to fuck with me when you was a size four and your collar bone was showing But now you now you now you 225 pounds And you got big ankles and your fat fingers and your hands and I'm like no, ain't you so these Brother when when I turned 40, it was like the world opened. I was like, well, you bitches Well, well, yeah, what was all this compliance and stuff when when it was time for that? See, I think black women really believed That they would really be all right. They really believed that they were going to be happy with their Jobs and no man with their nice flat and their outies and their girl strips not realizing that that shit was temporary and fleeting and in 2008 When the economic collapse happened and it hit white collar people and we were losing 700,000 jobs a month That was in white collar jobs. That's when they got here Then you saw this shit go real off. That was my generation Uh, there was in in the bill crunch because you got a lot of these women who were trying to be managers at jc penny or whatever And they were getting outsourced And so now it's like, uh, that's when the gender war kicked into high gear because you got a bunch of 40 year old people unattached Hmm Now, okay, so when you were dating chicks in the 90s I know right now dating chicks right now in the 2020 era Fucking is like It's like getting a neck, you know, I'm saying it's it's it's going to fucking happen I don't even it's it's not even anything to discuss These chicks are aggressive freaks. They are, you know, I'm saying and they're extremely easy like a sunday morning But it just seemed like the 90s y'all really had like again Because it was a lot of experimental games that y'all had to run y'all had to do the flowers the the candles, you know, I'm saying You know, y'all had to be on point on every last thing like one slip up or set you back three weeks, you know, I'm saying What like so do you feel that the women of the 90s had a little bit more standard about themselves? uh Yeah, because they weren't they they were not fucking uh As much publicly See in the 90s, I mean back in we were fucking We were fucking back then thing is that Women weren't proud to talk about their their sexual history Uh, and they they they kept them they kept at least an illusion Uh, uh virtue So yeah, the three date rule, you know, this is when the dating economy was still out there because you didn't have cable tv and on demand stuff you wanted to see a movie you had to go to a movie you had to We had places to go the reason this hookup thing is happening is because Everything that moved online Well, I don't want to go down there for so yet dating was different So you could actually go out with a woman your take her out to three nice dinners And and and nothing happened. You just out of pocket and you were expected to just all right. Well fucking didn't work That was that was the and that was the culture for air for the entire wasn't just black people else everybody to the point to where Dude started and here's the thing You weren't really fucked up about it because that's what everybody was doing Um, because it seemed like a lot of niggas had to be like Marcus off of boomerang You know, like even if you had a lot of holes All your holes still wanted to do nice shit You know, I feel like you still got to have two tickets to the show. Yeah to the concert, you know, I'm saying Uh, you know drive thruers all you have to do all types of shit You know and bitches like activities back then That's how they get it more because it wasn't it wasn't so much that you were just fucking with uh Fucking with Brenda. Brenda had to be able to go back until somebody. Yeah, me and jot went to uh Uh tavern on the green and caught uh cats. What y'all do? Oh, y'all just what y'all do y'all just went to eat. Yeah So that's how they kept score. It wasn't with bags and purses. It was with shit so And here's the thing you also had to fuck with the dudes that wanted to do that stuff and had a paper to go there and Could actually uh cold switch and go to these other places See in the 90s, there's there wasn't there was uh before The lovejones and those poetry slam stuff happening There weren't a lot of black businesses that were around so if you wanted to go to a nice place You had to go to the white side of town so even if you had a good money working at A blue collar job You had a lot of brothers who didn't feel comfortable Going over to la cirque. They're like, I don't want to do that shit So if sister wanted to go over there so she could have something to talk with About to her friends at work and she ain't dealing with you. She got to try to find her brother It was it was a lot of pressure on brothers to be fucking superman That's what it was like. It did like I feel like back then Okay, so back then y'all had to know what romance was y'all had to be romantic and shit like that And you know for a fact that doesn't apply right you don't even you have to know any of that shit When did you start to notice the shift and when that wasn't going to be a requirement because I know you come from an era where You had to be smooth. You had to know how to talk had to have a good music playing low light shit like that It had to be romantic. When did you realize that it was like a shocker to bitch like You know, they don't they're not even requiring this shit no more Uh, about 2001 2002 Okay, uh So would you say that's a shift from the uh From the from the Whitney Houston Yeah, uh Vanities and now that I've been he's probably like the 80s Uh, I'm trying to think of invokes. Okay. Let's say the invokes to The adena how would loop in the era because this is this is still in the 90s, but Invokes Cynthia. I used to fuck Cynthia Shout out to kevin, man Cynthia when she came to the yard motherfuckers like is that nigga, that's what's up Here's the thing back in the day women would fuck they wouldn't give a head up that you was I told motherfuckers. I told motherfuckers. You weren't getting Back then you better not say shit and you know, she's probably she's probably terrible at it when she did it I got a reputation around for being Uh, uh knowing how to fucking keep my mouth closed But I didn't talk the only people I talked to was my frat brothers And then a couple of dudes that I was tight with I didn't say shit So women knew that I keep my mouth closed so women talk so they wanted a fucking dude that Can handle this business and gonna ain't gonna say shit because they had to keep up appearances But here's what happened though in the late 90s This is what I told you and everybody started kind of coupling off getting married and shit, right? But then forces of stuff start happening. So you back out there, right? So around 2001 to 2003 when I'm back out out there ripping and running uh, I wasn't into women that are younger than me and They ain't requiring none of this whining and dining in the restaurants. They're just like, oh Let's just go get it in It was a twist because I'll tell you there were brothers. We'd sit around talking. I was like You ain't gonna take her out. No, no, man. She just want to go back. We're like, this is confusing, dude They were wanting to get right to it. It was like We hit no something for brothers like you coming from your age A lot of guys didn't make the adjustment and was over dating these Trying to try to cupcake whining and dining trying to foreplay nigga. What no You would hear women talking. I would hear women talk about how weak this nigga is and this nigga wanted to kiss And I'm just trying to fuck me see and see like, uh My last straight up relationship my last straight up girlfriend She looked like the cold murky. Let me see if I can pull up picture of her ass, but her generation man She was 13 years younger than me. All right. That was the last serious relationship I had These women they want to come right like today You fucking and uh by the time you getting out the shower. They gone Ain't nothing ain't they women ain't trying to leave shit at your house dudes ain't trying to back then they were trying to they would try to leave shit at your house nest And that was in the 90s in the 2000s that shit starts stopping And dudes is like what's this dudes had a hard time catching up to the game women were playing because women Had realized they could fuck talk about it and not be called holes Hence the beginning of whole culture. Yeah, see like I'm thinking about like, um Like like, uh, dina howard the luke era uh bike fest freak nick You know I'm saying like I know a lot of that a lot of the freaky assholes was like the frat the frats like, uh Freak nick even changed freak nick when I was on the yard It was the cap of beach party That women weren't getting naked That what that shit wasn't happening that didn't happen to the late the late mid to late 90s to where what started happening then you start having uh The street the the the D boys and the dudes from the hood start coming to the yard To try to highlight the college women and they started allowing all the parties to be open So used to be on the college campus. You had to go to the Kent to the college to to get into the party And if not you had to show a college ID Kind of like what facebook was facebook was right Then it got it got nigger five when he let everybody start having parties off the yard Uh, then dudes start coming in the quality control dropped and then more competition came in it got crazy because like freak nick The shit that was going on with the people at freak nick I can almost guarantee you most of the people were not in college. They just showed up Hmm driving when you see them women driving naked in the jeep They weren't going back to uh They was going back to fifth water acres homes and some shit man. They weren't going back to the yard So They was so the 90s they had a period of time where these women were really really up You know I'm saying Because he's still with the church Nigger you still went to church because let me explain when you I said we partied Wednesday through Saturday, right? You notice I left sunday out They was you had to go to church on your grandma was still alive You can't be out at the club kicking and such and so forth doing all that shit Because there's no matter where you at You got to go back to west side baptist and if somebody is your grandma here about that shit mm-hmm Church was still a thing and and men were here's the funny thing and men were still in church at this time too men didn't stop men didn't start leaving the black church till around the early 2000s So the early 2000s is when whole culture came in and when men are not around Women become like lord of the goddamn flies. They just they devolved man man Now as far as like the gold digging When did you start to kind of see like, okay? um Because I know that that's that wasn't like big in the 80s like that because niggas wouldn't They didn't have gold to dig. Yeah. They didn't really have yeah Niggas wasn't really getting that paper like that but that 90s That's when niggas when niggas whether he was at the factory jobs or you know, you was a singer or whatever like that Like Okay, this is when the line started. Okay back when you you didn't in the 90s You mentioned you had business cards you would hand out and I remember I remember getting some pussy because I had an email address on my business card See a lot of people don't remember and in late late 90s the internet people thought it was a fad but in order to have An email address at that time you had to work for a company who had internet access I had an email address on my business card and a bitch leaned over say he got an email address That was currency to her that meant he's working for mci A lot of you guys don't know at&t's largest competitor used to be mci That was known as good goddamn money a black man working for mci with a business card with an email address It says major account manager It might as well say 12 inch gold plated dick I had a company car jab And then I had an expense account for my car. I had a american express with kevin samuels mci niggas was paying you paid with that company card and bits be like They got a company card That's why when you laugh when you see these dudes dropping these at&t receipts man because that was the bait That's crazy niggas was coming up. I had dudes asking to borrow uh you know Borrow your uh your work batch So they could buzz into the buildings uh Because back in the day they didn't have your pictures on them. So let me take you to my office Walking in dude working in the mail room, but he acts like he's working upstairs Now, you know the reason why I started this whole series about the 90s Is I got tired of old niggas who wasn't smooth like you giving me real good game Old niggas just telling me This these old niggas I tell we tell the story my cousin tell the story all the time These old niggas told me and my cousin shawty the deacon willy two time Y'all niggas ain't never had no pussy cuz you ain't never been burp Hit me when the bitch burp. I was like what the fuck These niggas and then we talked about condoms like condoms. I ain't no bitch ass nigga. I want some pussy I don't want no rubber But when did those niggas go from the smooth Operator niggas to the thirst bucket niggas in that 90s bracket When was when did you start to see the shift and what what was kind was it the freak nick that brought these thirst bucket ass niggas out Them niggas was the ones that didn't those dudes Are the dudes that that that never got married See a lot of dudes they got a lot of kids. They they they never got married They got a lot of kids, but they never got married. Okay, so they were still out here fucking see it's almost like married A lot of black men like myself who were their military job or college got married and that and we were out of the club scene We were out of the party scene. So you take all them apex predators out, right? You got me and uh dudes like me And we ain't in the club Wednesday, thursday, friday, saturday night Then you got these motherfucker dudes that who couldn't who couldn't get a fucking shot at one of these chicks They become the top of the food chain So they just running crazy and with the pussy it ain't even had it like this before because you look at a lot of these dudes You're like these old dudes. They fly They ain't flying now. So, you know, they just feel like real real loud um, they really obnoxious, you know, I'm saying they're like, you know Unruly they kind of scared of bitches, but they always You know, they lead with their dick. They always saying outlandish nasty shit And they get to talking about the shit today we're doing and these things got a lot of wounds a lot of kids and shit like that like you know, now I know on the 90s too. Well, this was when uh Magic Johnson had to uh About about eggs How do you feel being actually on the scene like How do you feel about safe sex and how was it promoted like Like like asking to get wrong or was the niggas going wrong? No, no, no, no No in the 90s man, look here Uh You were fucking in the 90s. That was no condoms. The first time you couldn't even buy condoms They weren't widely available. I remember going to the Eckerds, which is not Okay, hold on. Condoms were not available. They weren't widely available. No. So like when I went to Eckerd, which is now CVS I'm in My freshman year of college You there was no birth control aisle, right? They were still trying to legislate morality this time. You know what the condoms were? Back in the pharmacy. You had to go ask the pharmacists for the condoms So you already know that I do remember that So they will get on the loudspeaker. We need it. We need a uh price check on condom Can we need condoms to the so everybody looking at you and and remember you're not supposed to be fucking He's supposed to be having this Me and aren't not supposed to be doing this thing because you you gotta be a grandma at church. Yeah Jap is he I saw Jap it at CVS and he was getting some condoms Cora. No, so But a lot of women were on birth control They weren't remember the women these women these college women were not trying to get a baby Because there was no there was no money to be had from these dudes in college We were all fucking with the women were on birth control Now 10 years after college when they weren't married. That's when the bird control stopped Dudes were still fucking like we was fucking from 18 to 23 And now these dudes are getting trapped. See when matic johnson hit it was 91 So I was around I was around about 24 25 That's when everybody really started getting tested And the first time I got tested All the dead bodies I hit I was like this and when it came back clear that was the time I became a every time every time Uh and more condoms we start becoming available. I want you to go look at the porn Go look at the porn from the 70s on through the 80s. No condom then from porn from 1990 to 1995 almost 100 of the porn had condoms on because I do remember TLC Really really pushing condoms and making condoms Fashionable, you know, it was like a big big push But it just didn't seem like it was resonating because The niggas that I speak to from that era are anti condom niggas You know what I'm saying? It's like and I'm You know, it's like we speak in two different languages like Like if you watch back draft Though the firefighter in back draft people just run up in the building With a uh with a scarf over his uh over his mouth and a pickaxe and just go grab people You know what I'm saying? But like firefighters now be looking at this shit like hold on man Then he's putting on oxygen masks all types of shit. You know, I'm saying we're not walking back in it Okay, so from it's just how they was that in when they when them two different those different eras talk It's like a foreign language like dog. Do you know you can get cancer from walking into that? But understand from dude. Yeah these dudes came these except my These guys my father has 13 children We come from Our mothers didn't put our fathers on child support. Okay We don't understand what child support is when we're fucking at the same age that we're fucking the women were on birth control The worst thing you could get would be chlamydia. Okay, there was no No Herpes really wasn't even a big thing. It was it was kind of the thing, but it wasn't a thing. So It was a joke to a lot of dudes. Uh, you got you got you what it's called. You got your adults The thing dudes worried about getting they worried about my daddy used to say something about the little red school house Yep They used to worry about getting crabs more than they worried about getting a fucking uh A venereal disease, but but see after 90 This is five 96 you got a lot of women who've been fucking since the age of 14 up until about 27. They're not wife They're not doing anything and then we're in the mid 90s They stop fucking like their mothers start fucking they start telling dudes i'll take the condom off I want you to go wrong. I'm allergic to latex because a lot of Are coming on to the market. Oh, it's these things aren't pre lubricated I can't use this one. I can't use that one So dudes are still like well all my life women have been on birth control But see women start playing a different game in the 90s. They start playing If I can get this nigga to go raw up in me. I'm not married. I don't have really anybody suiting me I'll got baby fever kicks in and then child support kicks in This was new job No generation that had This happened the women imagine if my Wendy's was the child support era. Yeah, because think about it. My father has 13 kids by five different women He didn't pay child support for any of us Why do you think dudes had all these women women didn't put kids on child support? They just didn't do it now see what I started using more condoms is because I didn't want to be like my dad I didn't want to have 13 kids So when I really got my head about myself, it wasn't that I was uh Under the threat I just didn't want to be that dude and I also was in corporate america unlike a lot of black dudes So I had some shit to lose A lot of black men felt like they didn't have shit to lose They had them good jobs with them good benefits dude when you worked at gm Your out-of-pocket premium for sign up premium medical insurance was $5 prescriptions were free Uh Brand name prescriptions was three dollars. I had cancer right my mother worked for firestone good union job My chemotherapy treatment was almost $400,000. My family paid $16,000 out of pocket because of that good insurance So dudes at back that time figured even if I do have a kid You got benefits But then these jobs start to lose And here's the funny thing black women knew that all this stuff was happening But at this time they became all about self Men were still in the community Black women were really it became Supremely selfish right then that's when the child support things start happening Running through dudes through the ringers and dudes is trying to play catch up I mean, why don't you tell your kid? Hey, I want to talk to the church. We got kevin samuels in the building You know, I'm saying we talking about that 90s scene an authentic nigga who's been on the 90s scene Did it lived it survived it? We hearing it from the horse's mouth you niggas better motherfucker come out of pocket go to motherfucker Kev's channel Subscribe to his shit become a patreon become a patreon on my shit because i'm turning up on patreon now You know, I'm saying that you motherfuckers better donate to the goddamn church Make sure you follow us on all social media platforms and stop fucking around. All right get back to this shit kev so you got dudes like Sean kim who was in the lead And he was having babies everywhere and when when it started getting around That women were starting to put men on child support uh Dudes was around in the mid 20s early 30s. This is when you see a Dudes fucking multiple women at one time and they start having a lot of babies But if you didn't but if you got caught up back then With one of them women you were in trouble. But see when I was around at age, I was dealing with younger women I weren't dealing with generation x when I was I mean women around my age So if you aren't going to get caught up with a young woman It was 10 you're going to get caught up with a woman after 27 before 35 Because that's when you see a lot of sisters back then having babies Because the that's all they could do they weren't going to get a husband It was it was a it was a different deal now How was it how was the experience? Knowing that you know, I'm saying like you guys had this uh this stigma on y'all like this bad reputation you know that All black men ain't shit This game you're going to jail. You're broke all it's like how was it? You know, especially you being an educated dude that these are all you talk white shit like that like We had the television shows You know, I'm saying and they was just tearing black men apart the fucking uh ricky late sally jesse rilanda queen latifa uh God damn that's like jenny joe. I don't want to know it. Yeah, uh oprah all of these shows Was frying niggas. Mm-hmm. You know I'm saying like how was the experience like actually walking up to a black woman at that time? You don't say how was the approach If you approach the black one by herself It's one thing you got it was it was still pretty normal But you when you start approaching in groups, that's when the nuclear rejection started Because they started getting off on the insults and brothers because they were our image was being destroyed Our image was being destroyed everywhere we turned so when I would go to work if Oftentimes my non-black co-workers would ask me questions and I felt and I'm like the the representative for all black people I had to represent all black men That's a hell of a burden to carry and it's like you didn't get any support from black women in the office because You were being torn down and they could shine better. So let's say you walk up to a sister uh, who's Well, I don't know. She's just she just came out of uh Out of the mall You could still chop it up and talk to her because they were still used to men talking But when you go to the club, which is where we used to interact with each other The music and also the music became more aggressive See we went from new jack swing And you know kid and play, you know, we were happy We went from net to y'all niggas ain't ready. No the music became aggressive and it was bitches ain't shit But I mean so the the tone change It became pistol grip pump on my lap it all the time, you know, it became real aggressive So I remember being down. Give me a second. I remember taking that cool smooth shit I'm came roses are in stepping down with the bitches throwing the rose petals and shit and coming to america I'm coming down at the the aisle doing the step show and bitches are going crazy And the suspenders and the bow tie and the slacks and doing this cool. Shit All that smooth shit in oklahoma moved down in houston Go down to the capa beach party and I got a frat brother. This nigga look like shabba ranks This nigga was through completely finished ugly We had this fly-ass convertible red beam And this bad yellow bone walked by and that was my she walked by and I and I came out with that You know matching polo with the matching polo socks and the kohans and the the starched Uh shorts and you know that whole fucking obsession cologne or whatever or was it skate And I and I came and I came with this and I came with that that baby face game And hey, hey, I tried to say something corny to and if this turned around looked at me Nigga like I had shit on me because she was with her friend And I was like, whoa, whoa This is before I started using the bitch word. I was like, I'm like, bitch, you know who I am I'm a fucking kevin simp. I am the shit everywhere I go. I am king capa kevin. Bitch. Do you not know? No, they didn't I'm in houston. I don't have that rep down here And and and and and new turn to me said No, no frat That she don't work down here. They didn't know how you do it Now he plays the year after I did and he's put me up on I'm like, what are you talking about? He's like, I know man. They how you do it. He's like, let me show you She walked back by with her girls after they got some chicken or some shit, right? Now remember this motherfucker. I'm smooth and shit with the with the waves of baby face head and shit He slapped this shit old chick on the ass on her chick And she walked by a red come here You know what she did job and she he hit a hard man to where her ass ripple I was like and she turned around What she won't nigga I was like This is back when brothers used to stop talking and say, hey brother. Hey brother. What's up? They used to call each other fool. What's up fool? Let me ask you this The 90s was this when cat calling started? Yeah, because Before that you actually were expected to go actually interact with a woman in a civil way because The guys from my era right we don't cat call And but I hear women still use that shit as an argument And I feel like that shit came that's the old thirsty niggas that's yelling at bitches and shit like that You know I'm saying like I just gave you an example of why it happened You I approached a woman courteously and she looked and I'm a kappa Well known at the cap beach party and she looked at me like fuck you nigga But then he slapped on her ass and hey red. That's what they used to call it. Whatever you was wearing a red red dress red dress red dress pink shoes pink shoes That's what they would do whatever you just picked what a bitch had on White skirt white skirt. Hey white skirt white skirt. You ever watch anthony m anthony adams anthony and He's a brother No, no, he's a brother spice adams Spice adams. He's a brother who used to play football. He's got a youtube channel. He's always you love him. He's always doing old school players Talk about this shit all the time Hey red. Hey red Now like the era that we in right now a lot of our women, you know, uh They don't they don't really have a plan Could you say that the women in the 90s actually had like a plan On like marriage or family or shit like that. Oh, yeah, nigga. Yeah, you're gonna get an interview You best believe it because especially the women I dealt with So I was dealing with, you know College educated aka's deltas that kind of shit, you know, because they're sitting down like uh on that Uh, my my kind of woman I dealt with was if you go back to soul food the Vanessa Williams character That was my kind of All right, but that's but that's the point those are the bitches that have Okay, okay, Kevin. So what do you want to have? And then nigga, I don't know you going to you interview dude Okay, well, uh, I I went to war Uh, I graduated this and I'm in three years. I like to be fast-tracked a partner partner Bitches who had ovulation scare I'm not joking This is what because this is when black women were in corporate america And they got they got introduced into how to do business and they did and but instead of going to start our own businesses working together Their business became black men But black men in large weren't working in corporate america. They were still working like most men did Oh, this was I mean, dude You you go back and look at movies in the 90s and you got a ball breaking 90s woman And her underling black man and she's got peppering him with questions Because they have the grizzled thing is they're trying to match it with their their white counterparts Because their white counterparts have husbands and plans and this and that But both of them come from the same college and went to the same places so you would say like bitches like that that was like the Um, the career woman was she like was she boring like the was it an excitement? in relationship or it was more like in a uh It was more like a uh agreement or um She was she wasn't as bad as they make her seem Um, but she damn sure wasn't here's the thing. She wasn't left right up down something so forth I mean these women these women would fuck Okay But there was always something reserved. They always held back It was Too late Well, you would also have women that would not want to have orgasm Because they wouldn't want to lose control Black women got a lot of black women got swole on that power. That's why you started seeing brothers Like myself start leaving those kind of women and this one next to you not dealing with us You started to deal with kisha from the block. Well cause kisha can keep her head down and be cool. Bitch. You you you're a bitch You're a bitch all day and even fucking you it's like it's all it's okay But it's like you ain't busting it open. You ain't doing no tricks. I mean it's just You're not what the fuck what do you think from that era that caused the the strong black woman movement? Well, I think a couple I think as many things happen one when Affirmative action really hit and companies realized that black women counted twice so I went to college in eight fall 87 That was the that was the fall 87 was the black Monday when the stark market crashed So the cover the business started changing Reaganomics was hitting full stride arms is leaving so brothers Either you went to the get a job military or college. Well, you had to ride that path out There was none of this flip flopping back and forth whatever you did you did But a lot of black women went into college So women are in college making more money and working instruction environments and brothers are out here Trying to figure out and make it right so you got more black women on In getting into middle management being seen as black women Were seen as the leader of the black community because they had the power positions That's where I think a lot of this strong independence stuff You back then you weren't strong and independent if you were a baby mama with three kids back then you were a loser That shit did not happen until whole culture kicked in There that was still shame those women you didn't you weren't rolling up in church with three kids by two different Two different dudes sitting on the first row of church No, no, you weren't going because they was because you still had baby boomers And silent generation Preachers were still silent generation So The church Was the last little bit But like when I would say when my grandparents died when my grandparents died when my generation generation next grandparents died That's when it was all bets off because the boomers The most selfish generation ever became The seniors And they did they spent all of the money that all the previous generation said they was fucking having all these kids Not leaving nothing to the kids so my generation We never had a generation x we were called x because they didn't know what was going to happen to us We we acquired nothing from our boom our parents because they spent it all and In black community when crack happened Even worse black men my age now 40 plus are Where a lot of guys were in their 20s so You use but our but our women weren't So they an average black woman looking at a black man knew It's probably she the probability said I'm more educated got more money and got more shit than you that was just a probability because brothers If you weren't if you're in the military, you're not in the country, right? So you're not on the table if you're in jail. You're not on the table. So if you're still here It's more likely that the women had more than you But but black but what happened Was black men took that L and got our got our ass kicked But we went and did what black women didn't do we started working It started getting our stuff together and now you see brothers are rising We start teaching young guys. Don't do this shit, man. Don't be going around Yeah That's the advice we need to really get our older brothers and start knowing telling your brothers what not to do They telling the just did someone instagram. Yeah. Yeah. I'm definitely gonna speak about that I was that was that was like the best that was some of the best advice I heard from older brother in a while He's been through it. Was he in the 90s? Uh, and we yeah, well, he's late. Yeah Here's the thing though You the my grandfather's generation They didn't do that My father's generation was the one out there fucking and they had no responsibility So they couldn't speak to what the what the sins of the The sins of the father visited on a sign Um And the environment wasn't such that you could say anything But now the environment is such that guys are telling dudes. You don't want to go down this path That's number one. Number two Dating out When you talk about interracial dating used to be black man black and white woman That's what everybody out of mac do you think but no now it's big now. It's latinas Yeah, span it. I mean latinas agents Uh Now this is what I did want to actually in the 90s, right? This was the jungle fever error Right How was that dealing with like, you know, I'm saying like how was the rage from black women when they're seeing you entertaining a white woman or just just seeing you with a white woman or Uh, just a white woman being in the presence. First and foremost We got to salute the patrick lemo for the hundred dollar donation going on patrick one of my dogs right there Oh, man, you bring it over to you bring it over to uh the flock. Okay Appreciate you bro. Coming over here man showing love to the church but um How how was that like because right now, you know We we kind of dealing with it a little bit But they not as hard core as they was in the 90s Like you would like as community use the worst nigga in the world if you were fucking with a white woman in the 90s well, well first off The first time I dated a white woman or dealt with a white woman I was confused Okay, I was confused because uh, I never had never had a woman be nice to me I mean, I remember No, no, bro. Let me tell you I was I was sick, right? I was sick Sick with a fever in my uh my condo Her name was amy and her sister's name was bonnie And this is back with and you know, they lived in midwest city They drove up from the city She came with my favorite pizza Uh some groceries Cleaned my house made me homemade chicken noodle soup Gave me pizza This back in the days where you know, didn't have cable or whatever. I had a beta max or vhs put in uh aliens watched And after she did all that came and sucked my dick and left nigga I'm saying this again She drove 30 minutes away. Yeah brought groceries cleaned my house Woman clean. I mean with the gloves and all pines all fresh. Mama would have been proud Made me homemade chicken noodle soup while cleaning the house now. I'm laying in bed eating the pizza. She brought me in paper Watching a movie that she put in and made sure that it stayed up And after the house is all clean and I'm feeling good to the temperature My medicine over here in this net sucked my dick and left Yeah, I want you to look at my face I'm sitting here now look like this I didn't understand what it just happened You thought it was a setup I'm like first off you you brought you paid for something you brought pizza and food. I didn't understand I did not understand. I went back to a frat meeting after I got better. I was like I got a talk. I'm like what happened. I was like They're like, yeah white women are nice like that. I'm like what This is how Because my roommate in college is a white dude And I've been around white women. I had fucked around with white women, but I never really You know dated one And she was not my girlfriend. We were just dating so Brothers who did crossover had to deal with that cultural experience. It was a shock There were not as many Hispanics in my part of the country. You in chicago and oklahoma They wanted in the middle in the midwest. It was very homogeneous. It was white and black with with the um With the ratchetness And I know you like the we the white bitches out there, you know, it was nice But when did you kind of start like? Okay, we were watching boomerang and There wasn't like Ratchet, you know I'm saying like big like ratchet weed like purple weed Right shit like that like these bitches actually was looking good When did you start to see the bitches? Diminish their beauty into like this transsexualized energy that's coming now Dude that that that was That really man. That's been in the last 15 years man that it came right after At the beginning when women probably start we can't really sexually liberated and talking about sex Adina Howard, I need to freak in the morning freaking evening. Okay You really start talking about fucking and sucking and all this other stuff You had good girls or women who tried to keep their public persona clean This is when the passion parties and all that stuff started. What do you think they were learning issues from? They were gonna learn it from the women who were industry out there or gay guys So you started having these women who had never been like that all of a sudden why don't you become 40 and become this way? Yeah, I want to ask you like Okay Are you seeing bitches that when you were in the 90s seeing she was classy? Yes, not that she's 40 She's a ratchet like Why are you 45 years old? Fuck motherfucker nigga, motherfucker. Fuck fuck nigga. They fuck fuck fuck suck my dick nigga. You can eat this pussy You weren't saying that in 1991 Do you think it's because she looked good in the caliber of men? You know had to come and finesse. You know, I'm saying it It wasn't so it wasn't so acceptable. First off. She's lost a lot The women who do this are not married They're not married. They may have children, but they are not married They've lost a lot They have looked at life at 40 years old with children and they're looking like their counterparts You're not no one expected to get to be 40 or 40 plus single Jack that's just not what our world was. We saw people married We saw the neighborhoods so they're disappointed They had all these opportunities all these jobs all this stuff and this is what it nets I got I got a son. That's a fucking soy boy I got a daughter who's gonna have to deal with these weak boys that we didn't raise I am overweight. I just got a job I I passed over all these decent dudes and this is as good as it's gonna get. They're angry And then so what do they have left? They you're getting this this all started when they're whole waiting to exhale And shit start happening when women started Raging out, but then you got to ask the question who you mad at Y'all are filing 80 percent of the divorce is y'all don't want you fucked your life up And now you want to be mad at men. So you got to ask yourself why are you got so many women 40 plus That are so foul mouth And so so ratchet and and and it's like that didn't exist. You didn't grow up that way You were not that way as a young woman In college you weren't like that. You couldn't get away with that on college. Well At that time you couldn't get away with that on college games. You couldn't go to class talking like that now we watching uh waiting to exhale and uh What is her goddamn name? Uh The chick the chick that plays sunshine and uh Okay little shine refined as motherfucker probably She goes down in the history books for beautiful She was was but now um in the 90s Were the women that looked that good that promiscuous Uh And were they able to hide it? Well Permiscuous they were having they weren't fucking they weren't fucking 50 dude. They were fucking two three dudes a week No, no, they were you know Now I'll say yes, I I didn't deal with ugly women So I deal I dealt with a lot of beautiful women and it was a smaller circle But you kept your mouth closed But they they weren't racking up. Um A lot of these women still wanted to they didn't they wanted to have a Long-term relationship. They weren't trying to Uh serially date It's like lila rashaan lila rashaan You know people wanted to be like her but you gotta but she I think she has when she had grave disease or something like that Something she got really big She got really big and a lot here's a problem a lot of the women back then Waited too long stayed in the game too long overplayed their hand And life caught up with them So now let me tell you something that happens I know so many women job who around 25 years old Got that kid we talked about earlier, right? They were fucking in college But never they never had a baby in college, but they got their kid around 27 Uh 25 years old, right? Yeah, all right Then here's something another phenomenon start happening when that kid and I know the the name you're gonna say You don't want to say it when that first kid they had Turn 18 All of a sudden they go out and get pregnant again in their 40s mm-hmm Why because they know they they that that one kid was their their their family They had another why you got a 40 year old 40-plus year woman having another baby And you didn't already done it once because they know they're they're not going to get a husband There's a book called promises I can keep why Why someone when women choose to have children over marriage See a woman knows when she has a kid that's going to be unconditional love and all this other kind of With a man you're going to have to do something So when you started seeing women in their late 30s and 40s Having kids Uh, here's another thing to start happening for the women who didn't have children in that uh window They started you coming to brothers like myself asking them to make baby packs What's that? Uh, hey Kevin We went to college together. I always thought you were a good dude. You know what? Um, thank god, I want to have a kid. Tell you what You will do it. Can you donate your sperm? Here's the paperwork you can sign off on that You have no legal responsibility at all. I just need a donation Now we can do it the old-fashioned way. We can go to the clinic. I can pay you a baby pack go in half on a baby Legally they were because because the chances of having they would rather do it with somebody they knew Then just getting some random dick from Rodney in the club and making the baby baby pack Mm-hmm now The generation that we got now, uh, they're heavy in the drugs and shit like that Um, how did you on the 90s sing? What was it a big drug scene like that as far as like abusers? Oh First off if you remember nwa talked about you don't smoke weed assess Because it's known to give a brother brain damage your brain damage on the mic don't manage nothing But making the sucker and you equal don't be another secret respect yourself. That's nwa in 86 Dray drop the chronic in 91, but the worst it ever got was a little weed smoking It didn't really start getting bad till you start getting The mid 90s when the hot boys came out and they started doing that sipping and and and that down south poured out Screw screw rap not screw We're rapping all that stuff coming along that syrup shit start coming along and then start having dudes in New Orleans on that heroin and shit and people start popping pills And then it started making it into the music because it became part of hip hop culture And that was a carrier virus to affect the entire culture But no man, if you were if you did drugs back then you or because remember we were we were just coming out of the crack era Dude people were hyper vigilant against drugs You smoke you do drugs. Um, you couldn't even smoke cigarettes back there now The tack to to tack tools and shit like that. It wasn't a lot of that going on with the women How do you feel? How do you feel about the women of the 90s? Do you feel that the women of the 90s look better than the women of today? Yeah, they did And a big part of it was because when we came up you still had pe physical education school Grew up and we had a recess. We played we we missed meals We didn't have as much food and then you didn't have as access to all these sodas and shit So we had a healthier diet. We cooked more Um, so what I'm coming to see is that y'all actually had some women that were worthy of rawin Video in your chat room that one I'm like now dog tisha Campbell Yes, you yes, bro. We you have we had women that you'd be like All right, she get pregnant. I'm good with it. She finally motherfucker. I mean Yeah, like, uh, I'm just thinking about like, uh, Vanessa Williams Uh, and the pussy was better It was good, man. It was better. It was better because of the hair It was better because uh, here's how I think it was better the hair Uh I think it's also better because The baby oil and the cocoa butter they took women took care of themselves back The skin was clear. They drained fucking you can see the little the the rib cage in the middle of their titties I mean you look at a woman's hands back then even if she didn't have her nails done With french chips or something their hands were clean. They didn't have see today Sisters they were all as if they were a lot of makeup if they were and the Tattoos out of shape colored hair. It's like, you don't even know what you're getting man When you talked about that woman in uh, I'm gonna get you sucking when she was taking all that shit off Yeah, that was a joke, but that's really kind of what you get right now In the night and here's the thing women were softer back then too because you be fucking a bitch and she's Oh, and she's all this morning. She didn't eyes roll them back and uh and instead of looking you and I like Come on you go come on. Come on I mean like These bitches these bitches will fuck back dude I mean and and the thing is we have women to fuck back then but even fucking back then they fuck back And they would they would give you something they would give you they would give you that feminine moan. It wasn't that Come on You could be you could be destroying her cervix and she ain't gonna say shit She Cause okay back in then and something else we did we actually kissed You fuck him on fucking you look at him. It wasn't just darkest. Are you looking at the motherfucking and women be looking in your eyes and Because like me y'all was on a dance floor y'all actually had slow dancing They go you would you could get you you could fuck on the dance floor Now tell you dude, you could you could dance your way into some pussy. I bullshit you're not Slow dances nigga. That was that was that was a that was a skill Because you could dance with a bitch who normally won't want to give you time of day but if you got your cologne sitting right your line up and And she had a distance from me when that bitch get up on you that air conditioning hit just right So she got to get a little closer to you and you'd have been working out and the muscles in the shoulders She just uh uh and you just you hit grab the smaller her back right above her It's a rap dude So did like okay when you was in the club back then did you really have to like buy bottles? Really really like trick on a bitch like you know what I'm saying like was it you had to run it up a big crazy town You you you would buy a drink you will buy a drink And you and here's the thing that the unspoken rule How your approach would have been like, you know, a bitch in the 90s They playing some motherfucking uh some johnny gill can you feel the magic you so you put them this side, you know You know If that shit was planned you wouldn't buy a drink you're gonna dance Bitches back then were drinking coolers Bottles in games they were drinking coolers. They was drinking they was drinking the hell out of wines white zinfandel Uh, they was fucking with sex on the beach Fuzzy nipples. They weren't really drinking heavy amaretta sours Because if this is now like these light-skinned bitches now, they drinking Henny They're gonna Tequila shots and shit now back in the night. So yeah, this is how you would do it. So let's say You you you spotted one of you on you on a hollet uh First off everybody goes to the bar when the slow song come out And you peep out what she's drinking before and you go over to the bartender and you're like, hey Greg Whatever she's drinking I'll have a Hennessy up water back and then she look at you like, oh you drinking a man's drink And then you buy her and whatever she's drinking. Let's just say she's one of them sex and as well sex in the city Shit, that's when it's kind of start changing. Well, let's do that. Uh back in the love jones day She's drinking the cosmopolitan All right, the cosmopolitan man, this is in the this is back in 96 to like Uh 99 that's in that fluted glass. You can't walk around with that motherfucker. You gotta stay still or a glass of wine You gotta stay still So the the the general rule was a drink For seven to 10 minutes of conversation She would talk to you while she's finishing her drink. It wasn't no buy a bitch a drink and she leave A woman would take your drink accept your drink and talk to you And then you should be just shy. This was that get your number error. Yes. Um, yeah I know that the 90s was like a big time for bitches to really turn niggas down But did you find that they were like see like bitches turn niggas down now too? But it just seemed like it's more it was really hostile then man Like, you know, if you if you because niggas because I got said a lot of it was experimental game Like y'all was trying shit It was a lot of things going on So where you work job If you and it depends on where you work the setting determine the caliber of woman If you in a hip-hop club, dude, it's the fucking wow. I was You in this back in the days. We had jazz. We had smooth jazz clubs. We had jazz clubs You're going to a jazz club You're going to have a higher you're going to have some corporate kind of shit a different caliber Smoothed out you're going to like rmb like a mix 25 and up different things But oh if you go to first friday first friday is the shit where This is when the world became crazy first friday was nationwide the first friday of every month They'd have a party In a location like in houston they would have a party at the word them the word them Is where they would have the opera you'd have four to five thousand people at one party And they would have different rooms the reggae room the hip-hop room the jazz room the the rmb soul room and then the lounge to get to know you now imagine you go to a place in chicago And it's agreed that everybody in your city is going to drive and go there four to five thousand people Parking lot and after that, you know, there's after parties all over the place So it was easier to go meet people. So if you want to highlight a woman She's more likely just to ghost you. I got to go to the restroom. She just goes to another room Because it was there was no upside to embarrassing you and stuff to like that Because the parties were too big um now if you were at a at a hip-hop club like At club blue And everybody's coming in there with you know, george and a fitted And and and a jersey smoking black and miles. I'm like You get turned down and she thought talking crazy to you. That's just that's just kind of the environment Okay, now in the 90s were there like, uh Lesbians, but like the the the cutesy lesbian Of you know, I'm saying like but that was like on the scene, you know, I'm saying like because like now we got Bisexuals, that's probably Bisexual chicks was that shit popping like that in the 90s or this is some new shit No, it happened in but see what how I was back then I said this to my ex wife Uh, I said, I believe every woman's had at least one one bisexual experience and she cussed me up one side down the other You know, uh, we had to knock down drag out argument Then after we got married she confessed that she had had one Most women have had a bisexual experience a kiss to woman Especially in college You see a fine woman in college and aka dealt with especially sort of girl. They have eaten some pussy They have eaten some pussy because women like soft in beauty. So let's say like, uh, I uh, how many people I I led a wild life. So Women I've made it used to Be bi-curious. So oftentimes let's say let's say I'm dating Sonia Sonia will get approached by a woman Uh, and she's wanting to give them and she's just say honey. Can I take her home? Sure and we would all get down together um The thing is if you're dating a really pretty woman Of a let's say she's a Chicago eight and a half or nine. Yeah But she's gonna get hollered by everybody and beautiful and and beautiful women just like women back. They've always liked women The thing is would you be cool with? Uh, your woman kiss a woman you would be brought into it though And then she wouldn't necessarily be doing that shit without you. That's the difference There was no, uh, there weren't as many, you know, women couples running around. There was some shit They would do but it was more like a phase Now this whole this whole the what really got fucked up is this whole download shit got overblown Yeah, they used to they used to they used to Because you were doing this shit because women were doing it. So You know Black women if you point something at them, they're gonna always say well, what about the men? See they knew they were guilty So they have soon well if i'm kissing over here if i'm a if i'm over I'm a lipstick lesbian over here, then you gotta be fucking your frat brother. No No, no, no That ain't what the shit we did And the problem is the dude That was a big segment big segmentation the dudes that were gay We knew they were gay We knew they were gay and we didn't cross those lines We men have never been accepting of this lgbt shit Yeah Even at the university of oklahoma the starting fullback for the national championship football team was an alpha Big old nigga gay as hell And how i know he was gay i verified gay because you walk by as go by drop down the street He had a big bay window and he land up in the bed with his other frat brother and the thing is like All right, man, but but rodney was but his thing he was gay, but their motherfucker was like I don't want to say a masculine gay. He wasn't one of them flaming dudes See back in the days the dudes that were gay they would they would talk with a lisp And and they would openly signal That they were gay so they would hang with each other and it wasn't this shit trying to change men and try to Yeah, dude may try to say something but they weren't there wasn't this campaign to try to fuck you So this whole gay shit this whole this this whole new shit, man Brothers have never really been down with that shit and it was not a bunch of black men fucking each other That's that that's the one thing in the 90s. He used to piss me to fuck off Because because as myself as a brother who's always been tall Being attractive and then being in fashion and shit And and and my part of corporate america I got pepper with that shit all it's i'm hell I've got pepper with this shit on youtube. I'm like are you motherfucker serious? But we got that see a brother can't be smooth And they don't they don't understand that shit, you know what i'm saying? I didn't see niggas try to call pimps. Yeah, I'm like come on man. Like not that shit Oh, but you don't know they don't know like that type of shit. They just think You know, it's different types of dudes, you know, I'm saying Can't be smooth and handle your business. See if you smooth handle your business Um, you because that's not the norm for black men. You gotta be doing something fucked up Something gotta be wrong with you. See every other group of men can be that the black men You gotta be the word gentlemen if you slow it down a little bit And listen, it sounds different when you slow it down I grew up in the I grew up in the 70s. My uncle was a mac. I learned from pimps How do you I got my my from the church and from the pimps and max my uncle was mac of the year 1975 for the tree bus club nigga. Yeah But this back in the days when clad Frasier and all these dudes dudes used to dress back in the 70s, you know, they had their one long fingernail They carried the bag that had their blade or they pistol in it And they little dude someone do you shit about my bag? I'm like go back and look at don magic one video Right here on all the pimps man. They carry the bag. I'm like you motherfuckers don't know your where you come from When I called you out on that video with the first coat. I'm like, yeah, you realize some of the best black men that ever did it This is how they dress three four weeks ago. Dr. J turned 70 He had his 70th birthday party here in the restaurant. I go to at least two three times a week I'm in there with dr. J and his folks Accidentally, I wasn't invited and I'm sitting around looking at all these brothers just clean Those guys would have been called Corny or gay or lame or some shit today. See a lot of brothers that we've we've allowed black men have allowed people to take our smooth shit away from us And that's not and doesn't help us. Yes help us like It goes kind of back to taking the 90s tactics like a nigga like Marcus Going around these wolves these untamed Animals, you know I'm saying like it's gonna look like man. What the fuck is this? What's with this nigga? Is he gay? You know I'm saying like I remember we me and my guys We went down to Atlanta and we was the only niggas with fades. Like this was the the uh, the uh, the gold teeth Uh, dreadlocks big beer white tea A-town stomp little happy era around that time. We all went down there And the bitches was looking at us like is y'all what is y'all gay or something? We're like the bitch. What the fuck is you talking about? You know, I'm saying happen to me too You know, I'm saying we was clean cut. We look like rmb group. We look like b2k I told you about when I slapped it when I was trying to do the cupcake shit and my frat bud looked like shabba ranks That's the same shit. It happens in cycles of black men like that. Yeah It doesn't help us all You couldn't be smooth amongst like and then that's when the women say I want to rough. I want rough Gotta get a rough thing. I want a motherfucking dog. I want a I want a soldier. See like that's the equivalent to That's the that's this generation's uh, uh, I need a rough neck. So what happened see what happened is My men and my father's generation they wouldn't allow that shit They was the oj's the whispers them niggas was going croon and they was going to control you singing them back then the bitch panties off see Black men back then determined our style and how we went a bitch could say she wanted a rough neck back in day Nah, nigga, you don't get processing the durag. You don't get you're gonna fuck with this finger wave You're gonna fuck with this perm You're gonna fuck. That's what you're gonna get and you're gonna go make me a sandwich and you're gonna like it see And but that was a different generation. They were raised by more masculine more men My generation was raised by absentee fathers so We would more likely take cues from females The generation because you were raised with women So when the women start talking about Mary J. Blimes came out doing this shit Dude's like, well, this must be what the women want. So Dude start trying to be there instead of just being on that cool. Shit. That's when we kind of lost it Think about hammer Hammer tried to go hardcore and they laughed his ass off. Yeah, uh, bump to the bump so Uh, yeah, I mean the 90s was the 90s the funny thing about the 90s man is It was a good time, but it's it's sad to look back at uh How the women fell off man See I was clowning the women like, you know Like, yeah, you know, because like, okay, uh, if you watch, uh Uh, uh, what was the movie? Uh Jungle fever when all the women was getting around and they was looking black man I had used that scene when I first launched the series and That's kind of like how I started just always think like all bitches from the 90s that they are the bitches Because I'm I'm dealing with these old bitches now And you know what I'm saying when I started a day older, like I was fucking with a 40-something year old bitch and then you know Bitches that I've worked with just being around these old bitches and hearing a hearing a fucking mouth I'm like, yeah, these bitches come from the 90s, but then I started looking at the um The movies like strictly business and seeing holly berries and seeing all these fine ass bitches and I'm like I can't remember and jungle feet had real soft gentle women. That was fine In the jungle fever the white the light skin chicken there Lonette Lonette McKee she was my mother's generation. She's a 70s woman She she was old for that time, but the women in there were in my generation But they were still around 23 to 24. They were starting They were just getting in the corporate America And they were looking for black men to be there with them and we didn't have those jobs They did that's when they started down and brothers So they didn't want to they didn't want to marry a dude that worked at mother fucking Please you work for ups because brothers couldn't get those jobs So they were mad at black men because black men could not get where they were And it's not as though we didn't want it and if a brother did get there, let me tell you something else Let me tell you about the playing side If like myself if you could get the nigga the world was your oyster In the 90s man, please it was like shooting fish in the barrel because the the College women wanted you the middle class one wanted the women from the hood Wanted you this is when dudes started running, but the problem is those dudes How you address women? A lot of dudes was lying to bitches Tell them I'll be I want you to be my wife. They was doing a lot of damage to women They weren't just saying I'm just trying to get these bitches to get that shit from now That's where it is. So like when I was out when I was see I was I was a player, but I wasn't a dog I would I would tell a bitch straight up. I'm looking for a good time. Not a long time I'm looking to do this this And because I would get it straight up front Because I ain't trying to lie to you and I'm not trying to put some baby face in your ear And try to tell you when I'm fucking you. I want you to have my baby now, bitch I don't want you to have my baby. I don't want that. I don't want no part to that I want to enjoy our time together. I want to if we go to root chris I love beautiful women sitting across me eating dinner. I love the norm of tell your ass up when I leave When you with me you get all the benefits of being in a relationship except the title and I'm in my player phase and women It's been my experience when you tell a woman upfront what it is They're more willing to be down with you and there's no I didn't I've never had tire slash Cars key to whatever because I always gave the woman the option. I gave her a choice now With the bitches that we got now I mean, I I'm just gonna go out and say I know these bitches don't appreciate shit Yeah, but back then when y'all was doing all the romance and all this shit. Was it appreciated? Uh Not to the level that we thought Not to the level we thought we we thought it would have been appreciated more But it was it was damn near expected They expected it because they most black women felt like they were better than black men. Anyway, so You're really buying her time That's why they're so selfish the average generation X black woman. It's extremely selfish and jaded they really believe that it face You spend you spend 95 percent of the money they think if they bought Burger King, they're doing something You're asking what they bring to the table. They keep score. They keep score Oh, they keep score and they really think that just by showing up and giving you some used vagina That we're equal. Bitch. I had to work to make myself this way that pussy comes standard So did they bring anything to the table in the 90s? Uh debt Because there was all the stuff they had their jobs all the stuff they had It was an illusion You know, I mean any women I rolled up on who lived in downtown Dallas who drove a bmw Who had a nice condo who were in the Vinci Donna Karen all the other kind of stuff Then you sit around and kick it with them and I'm just kicking it with you But if I decide I want to really get serious with you and I pull that curtain report and I'm like, oh Wait a minute How much glue long debt you got and you're making $45,000 but your rent is $2,000 a month I mean your rent is $15 a month. You got a $600 car note and you 20 what thousand dollars in debt at 24 Why I like to shop Okay Here's the other side of it Let's say you wanted to accept all that Women of my generation could not cook We were the generation we were Men in my generation are better cooks than the women Because our mothers taught us how to cook they didn't teach their daughters. Hey, I'm gonna be honest with you now. This is the thing I'm gonna put this out there y'all Minister Jack can fucking cook. I mean I could really really fucking cook I could cook a lot of shit. I could Good food. I will cook the panties off a bitch The only bitches in this era right now that can cook Our single mom and I feel that they had to learn how to cook in necessity You know I'm saying Because of having children, but the bitches that I date that don't have kids Ken and won't fucking cook nigga. You ever have a macaroni and cheese soup No, you know you make macaroni and cheese soup. Oh my god. Don't tell me it's the uh It's the microwave mic uh macaroni and cheese in the cup and she put too much water in it. No nigga. She she it's that recipe Except it's not microwave. It's in the box But in the box it says boiled noodles, right? Yeah, and then you take the cheese sauce and milk and whatever But you make soup if you don't drain the fucking water Bitch didn't even know to drain the water You ever have a ham sandwich with mustard on both sides of the goddamn bread to fingerprint you? When i'm sitting in my girl's when i'm sitting there at my girl's house eating and She makes me a sandwich and I bit it in the ooze mustard my scalp started tingling her mother sat there and was like She went to the bathroom. So let me take that she knew This was Cosby people They that woman never taught her daughter how to cook a goddamn thing women in my women in my generation Cook I would the I would the cooking school for three years just After work Men in my generation had to learn how to do all this stuff. So here's what we thought we thought And we were different than our dad We would get different treatment. We were told men ain't shit Men are horrible Black men don't do nothing. Look at all these black men with all these kids And even if my mother never said anything about my father. He got 13 kids or that We never I never got his side of the story. So you go to school You'd have been I do doubt everybody would have been jealous of Jack Jack got a mama and a daddy You got somebody to come on father's student day. They didn't we would have been jealous of you We knew that was something wrong. So all the boys tried to learn how to compensate I'm gonna be better than my dad. I'm gonna go to school. I'm gonna take care of my mama I'm gonna learn how to do this. I'm gonna treat women this way. I'm gonna because that's what we were told Now now the bitches of the 90s do you feel because I know They had a lot of opportunities But whether a lot of women that were bombs and did live with their parents still or you know, I'm saying like Because it's a lot of bitches right now that's like I don't want they kind of bummed they're bums, you know, I'm saying like they live with their parents still You know I'm saying like our generation got the fuck out. We had to get it And here's one thing I will say about our generation. That was none of this 24 living in home with mom We got at 18 As a man, you were put you were being pushed out of the house before graduation Okay You got to understand a lot of motherfuckers had checking accounts and shit and they name it eight years old My credit was fucked by age 13 nigga. I had light bills and shit I went to open the check account and they were like you had an account since 1976. I'm like nigga I'm what I was born in 69 so We had to get it out the mud And we wanted to become adults because we wanted to get away from my dysfunctional even though we loved our family We wanted to get away from their environment And there was a lot of lack and a lot of shit like that we wanted to get out on our own These folks have been loved entertain. There's no meals They've had that this generation has never had to lose anything. So yeah, it's more common for folks to sit around and then you got the one two third generation of women of Women raising kids and you go out and you see grandma daughter Kids I take pictures around Atlanta all the time. We see three generations of women and no men Women don't live alone. That's why they allow their children to live But here's the thing job. You say these women are bums today, right? Yeah, I guarantee you There's no father in that house There's a man in that house. You got to go because mama want to get fucked on the coffee table Mmm, there's no man out now the 90s What a women did the women have Standards and wanted to be courted like I mean, okay all women want to be courted But did you have to do this shit? You know I'm saying and Did they have real stand you had to make you had to make an uh, I'll put it this way If you were not Shout out to Alan Roger career if you were not up front and direct I didn't know it as more one, but if you weren't that way you had to make a show of doing it And here's the difference. Here's what I mean I knew That I really didn't have to do that stuff. I could fuck on the first I could fuck sooner than the average dude, but I know that her Image of reputation Needed me to appear to be willing to do it Does that make sense? Yeah, so she so If she fucked me on the first night She had to be able to go back and tell our homegirls. Yeah girl. I gave up the panties. Mm-hmm. Yeah, but He's the kind of man. He I knew he was going to do these things anyway They had to keep up a facade now. It's not required in the hookup culture today. You fucked before you date I recall like back just back in the days, man Like you actually had to meet bitches parents and shit like oh, yeah Did you did you have to do a lot of that let going on in the 90s my ex white one see and I had a really strange upbringing I grew up in the ghetto in the projects of Oklahoma. We had projects Kanye West Family was in Northame projects. Shout out to Kanye carbideo projects. Yeah, Kanye ain't from Chicago He's from Oklahoma City It's people from home city. His mama went to Douglas with uh my honor Is my yeah my second uh Yeah, you had to meet In my neighborhood you did But I grew Well, let me let me take this back not widespread idea, but was it widespread? Not as much as it was in the previous generation But there was an expectation that you had to meet the family if not the father There was no driving up to the house blowing the horn Even if she was raised by her mother you still had to go up to the house And knock on the door because there were older people that still lived in the neighborhood So I think we underestimate how much when the silent generation died my grandparents generation the last people that watched everything And watch your house while you gone a chap uh while you was gone. I saw somebody over at your house that you You know Edna would tell you shit, but when they left It was the baby boomers and they they were selfish they weren't worried about that They just wanted you to get up out the house so they can have some time in themselves That's crazy man man, so I'm really like it's like I'm It's the 90s man. It was a it was a real good era. It had Good parts a lot of bad parts. I think the the the bulk of the bad parts was like Really the women and the niggas try the wick the way the women abuse they power And I would say that The fact that niggas was the sacrificial lambs to the game that we have right now because They was trying a lot of shit out And they was living it up and getting kind of reckless as far as you know I'm saying having to unprotect this sex and shit like that, you know, I'm saying I would tell you this what in my opinion. This is my opinion As a dude, there was a player who's lived both sides of Is what fucked up the 90s And I can say this in the church black women you betrayed your men You were put over your men because you were a double minority And instead of doing what other women do and look at your men as a team You were our competition This was said last night on the night before last on the show I was on This is what we continue to say black women have have always looked at black men is somebody to compete with so When brothers finally start realizing that these women aren't on our side If you give them what they want, they're still going to leave and divorce you do the right thing and you will get fucked over That's when men started realizing there were no mick towels and going your own way and all that shit before But what happened is men start realizing that there was no making them happy and it was always going to be your fault No other group of men had ever been Betrayed by their women. Here's the thing They tried to make it seem like all black men were doing that 51% of black men don't have children 100% of the women who had kids were having kids were roughly 10 to 20% of the men That's why you got dirty dick Rodney with five kids and in this dude over here with no kids So it's not as though brothers did not try we were there We we were there in the 90s wanting to marry Mm-hmm didn't want to marry they didn't they didn't want to be wives okay so Going back to the title of the show. Where are they now? We see you You know I'm saying brother you you survived a lot of wounds of the 90s and shit like that, but you came out on top and he's successful Now your counterparts you you 50 48 49 50 51 Okay, the women from the 90s your exact age right now Are you seeing more brothers like yourself? From that era Or are you seeing more of the brinders that the big booty brinders as big as hell as big as a house now fucked up like Who who who came out on top from that from that era the men of the women Uh black men have come out on top and I'll tell you why The black men who survived have come into their own Before this show I went back and looked at all the women who I who were my girlfriends All of my girlfriends there were seven of them seven One is Mary The other six Are single and they're all attractive all college educated um now Of the seven that are married four Uh of the of the of the seven and one is currently married five of them have been married But they got divorced early on and never remarried. See black men Will marry and remarry and here's the thing. Here's why we're winning job I'll tell you right now if I decide I wanted to get married. I could be married in a year Standing stop right now. I know I can go My phone has been blowing up And and the thing is a black man who survived what you survive who's not bitter about it Who's just willing to speak the truth? You're still out here. You got your money, right? You're in decent shape uh We're commodities And and the and the and we're not just commodities for black women other non-black women are Coming for black men in droves and sisters Don't really see this I say 30 percent of college educated black men are marrying out 836,000 more black men are married than black women and there's two million more of them What do non-black women see in black men that black women can't see? Because they don't brothers aren't having a problem out here finding women finding Finding people to be in a relationship to marry what you're having a problem with is finding a black woman To stay in a relationship because eight out of ten times when their black relationship breaks up It is the black woman that's leaving So like the women who come from that scene you're saying they're losing and and how many I mean Is it just because the looks? of are they They added to I mean because you seem like a really happy y'all right now. I mean you You know Your money right you live in your life your kids grown The world is yours I don't see, you know, even when I see the women on youtube like to With uh with deborah cooper come from your your era Like it's they're like comparing me like you took deborah cooper I couldn't even see you entertaining a deborah cooper It's nothing fly about her and it's like You come from that era, you know, I'm saying like and this is the outcome This is what she did with her s deborah cooper s squire all her titles and letters But she's not at these I don't know her personally. It's the attitude It's the attitude more than anything else As a man who's been divorced and we should sit on divorce care seminars The first thing most black men say is if I ever do this again, I just want to deal with a woman who's nice There is no way that 40 plus 50 year old black men Should have to skip our women of our generation and go to millennials Or late zennials for dating, but we know That the women of our generation By choice their attitudes are horrible as the typical generation next black woman About her problems. She'll tell you she'll list them out ask her the name of her therapist and it'll be quiet That's her problem You got all these goddamn problems and you got an education and you doing fine and something so forth And you've never had counseling on your own part. Then I don't take you seriously I I I used to be cool on a lot of people's panels and shit until I made a comment one day I choose to date women under 30 That's when all of I became all of I became gay. I became all these other things That's when all the crazy shit start happening. Did you all of a sudden did you wonder why they came out nowhere? But for years, I'm around YouTube and all of a sudden everybody he's he's just cause I didn't insult black women I just happened to mention I was out with a sister from Africa and we were getting a bunch of dirty looks and that panel Just exploded into a bunch of black female hate for women I never said anything negative about you know, I don't be the crazy part about it After you say that right Let them tell it. They don't want you You know I'm saying so it's like So hold on like after you after after I revealed to you that I'm fucking with this this woman You say that you don't want no nigga like me. Oh, fuck that nigga. He think y'all that he a little mean This issue about me your light skin as it you don't want me. So why are you worried about this shit? You know what I'm saying? But the truth is they are mad like because we're not in like when we look at the swirl movement Yeah, my skin are laughing at it. We're like we're amused by we're not pissed because It's not even realistic You're like the white men that want you are actually stupid. You know what I'm saying? Like they are really fucking crazy. They don't know what they got themselves into That's why it's fucking hilarious making videos talking about please stop coming out to me just because you think I'm white that I'm not any better and As soon as this little twirling movement I said the other day. What do non-black women see in black men that black women don't see number one number two If y'all when black women marry out, we don't care But they care if we marry out But here's the thing you don't want the men who are marrying out. You say you don't care about them But yet you'll tear them down. Here's what they really care about. It's not the marrying out It's when you bring up a white woman It's white woman That's the big program And the crazy part about it is they want to be her so bad, you know, I'm saying they want her status You know, I'm saying white woman status Let's let's talk about status the average black the average white man in America makes $50,000 a year That means the average white woman still has to work The average married white woman still has to work And he gets feminine into cooperation and submission He makes $50,000 the average black man in the country makes $40,000 Are we honestly saying that black men are $10,000 away from black women treating black men like White men go boy. Don't bring it down like that. You know, we not Niki if you made a hundred thousand dollars a year, you couldn't get cooperation out of a black woman so they don't They don't they want black men to be perfect bill will kind of kill white supremacy racism and everything else And then they will think about cooperating with you. But here's the difference job And my generation women that say that she they sing with mothers. Yes. I raggedy niggas But here's the thing in my generation Interracial dating was really taboo. It was oj simpson was you see what they did to him He was Still It decreased Majorly now It's not only acceptable other groups of women are openly coming for black men shout out to dr. T. Sond Johnson I mentioned how he teaches black masculine studies at university of california fresno And he's got women coming to his class on black masculinity To learn how to get along with black men because they like the data I'm like you got you got non black women coming to your class to learn how they The black culture so they can be around black men and you can't get a black woman to buy you a cup of coffee You know what's so crazy? These these black women had to come up with classes And etiquette to teach them how to get a white man, right? You know what I'm saying? Now that that's that's all in itself. But this is About this is what I respect about With black men getting white women as opposed to Black women getting white men When a when a black woman gets a white man She totally changes Better she actually talks better. She's more ladylike. She she Everything that she was that pissed you off. She's not with him. She's sort of polar opposite. She's doing everything You know I'm saying She changed her ways. You know what I'm saying? She's not even being in trooper league. She's not being herself No, she's put she's doing whatever she has to do to put on this show not a black man Nigga we don't change for no white woman We the same niggas and we didn't brought the white bitch to the trap Why we got the white bitch playing spades right dealing cars? But she's dealing cars. We got the white bitch fly chicken Ain't nobody changing for no white woman, but I have seen Your motherfucking black woman change for the white man. I'm talking about completely start talking with the kings english Man black man still drinking hennie Still shooting dice still talking shit with the bros, but you know what it is now because generation x black women are the apex of black of Black women. They had more education more opportunity. They had more than anybody any black person in this country And look and here's the thing and what did they do with it? Where are they at? They're not happy black men Have they saw what we had to deal with but you see the average 50 year old black man and he's happy The average 50 year old black woman is miserable because they know niggas your age I got I got a I got a homie. He bought like 65 70 these niggas these smiling. I mean, I'm seeing Oh, we survived. I didn't even know you had teeth. I didn't even know you could show the back of your teeth These motherfuckers these motherfuckers smiling and happy and say hey Jack, what are we drinking baby? They're happy. They're happy. You know what I'm saying? They're getting them young chicks living Because they so bitch. She ain't she ain't terrible. And here's the funny thing. Could you imagine what those men could have done? If they had been given the opportunity that black women would get Look at what they made out of what they got it out of the mud they So if and here's the thing if black men could be happy, why can't black women? And in the ultimate question the ultimate answer is it's always be the black man's fault It's always our fault So if it's always our fault, what are you going to do? You deal with somebody Either you find a go find a black woman who's not from here who's not culturally conditioned to blame you Because here's one thing my I tell them I asked I have black women asked. Why do you talk like this? You're educated. You're this you're that you you have you you don't why are you doing it? You don't have to do that. I'm like, uh You're destroying the image of black men. I'm a black man And I don't want to see brothers go through the I don't want to see any more men go through this shit So I don't have a son, but I can have a legacy I don't want to see I was like y'all know I was like I talk like this because y'all don't I don't hear y'all talking to the younger women saying I fucked up I should have did something different. You know, so when they double down on the misery they uh, when they when they piss They still lie to themselves Instead of just being honest and be like look Ladies you do not want to be like if Deborah Cooper was to be like look y'all don't want to be this because hey Regardless of what how much wisdom y'all think I have Me coming to a bedroom near you Y'all have like brothers is not trying to fuck with me like that. I mean, you know I think the whole dusty thing. I I've been like this is amazing how much you know I'm saying like What man finds this shit attractive? Zaza Ali. See, I don't this is so crazy, man Kev, I want my enemies from youtube To stop looking like Deborah Cooper's. Yeah Stop looking like saw some rays. Stop looking like I want Zaza Ali's beef it with me See, you know And I will tell you dude We had that and and the rigor about 1090s. We had that. Yeah, I had that Yeah, we can sit back because I can I'm thinking about relationships seminars the panels I used to sit on I'm like Yeah, we can do all this shit, but that damn you look good I don't find bitches cussing me out You know, I got these orangutan titty Hey man, Kev, man, it's been it's been a blast man. I appreciate you bringing your people over here, man For sure definitely top it up. We got to do it again part two Wrapping this up man. I got more more movies I got to go through and shit like that But I love how you be a part of this this 90s uh this 90s trip we going down, man I'm gonna do a whole finale with freaking it. I got chris law here He in 11 he gonna tell us about freaking it because he was going in the at age 13 I know you have some stories and whoever else want to call and talk about this 90s scene and break this shit down Hopefully we can get some more uh, uh Viewpoints, you know, I'm saying from from all different angles of it who been in the 90s and shit like that Because something up over, you know, kind of feeling offended because I was going in on the 90s, you know, Sam but it was I think that y'all had it going on man, but you didn't play it right man Set it up for me to be dealing with the shit we dealing with now, man. I think the thing is We we were working with every generation deals with the best information they got at their time We honestly did not know here's the problem our fathers If we had actually been able to talk to our fathers We would have been a more like than we did learn. Okay, because I was taught to think my dad got 13 kids That's that's a bad man. You don't do all that. But then as I got older, I'm like come on fucker He's got millions of dollars and uh, he never sold he he's he's the same dude. He's always I was like my dad It's kind of red pill I was like, you know what I've said, I would have been a I would have been a more solid dude Earlier in life if I'd have actually been up under you versus away from you That's the problem. We were taken away from men So yeah, we played it wrong. We were programmed to play it wrong The fact that we even got this motherfucker back on the track and to be able to kind of hand that motherfucker off to you No, you ain't gonna get first place in a relay. Nika, but you ain't gonna come up last when sweeten If you can still place So that's why we're generation x they didn't know what was gonna happen jab. We ain't supposed to be here Crack was supposed to take us out and it cracked it. We had crack Reaganomics and hiv Bro, that's three major plagues the generation and that's crazy and out of all that the black man Is happier He's looking better He's looking younger than all of the bitches coming from there Like I I I cannot stand these bitches from the night We're gonna continue to cook a man. I care man. I appreciate you, bro We're gonna talk more later, man. But definitely man. Thanks. All right church, bro. Later church. Peace out. Peace Man, y'all that was kevin samuels. You know, I'm saying uh, man Old school game smooth player, man These young niggas don't know about smooth players, man. That's them niggas remind me of my uncle, man I want to shout out all the people who super chat it all the people who came over on the strip for care Uh, make sure y'all go over there Subscribe to his channel, you know, I'm saying if you're fucking with the church, man Shout out to everybody who's been donating, man. We definitely appreciate y'all. Um, we're gonna get into Just waiting to exhale. Shit um man, oh man I might have to get the energy drink, man. I I'm getting a little sleepy, man But we're gonna be back y'all. I appreciate y'all