 Good afternoon, please are we getting some questions online? All right, let us know as well I'll be very brief with them What's the best age for a man or woman to get married none exist Marriage is not for boys. It's not for girls As far as you're not a boy. You are not a girl. You can marry a man so marriage age no Nonetheless, we need to consider. What is the purpose of marriage? If the two of you getting married would defeat the purpose of marriage Then we need to consider number two. Are you first time married couple? You know, some people can marry their spouses might have died. They were divorced They have early children before they want to remarry So all those dynamics will come to play but certainly Marriage is not for children. I was 26 when I was married. My wife was 24. I could have married when I was 24 because I was sorted but if you take someone 24 married and you are 27 so you think you are married. It's not a race We need to check the KPIs Are you indeed ready? Do you have the four trees? The trees good for eye, pleasant to the eyes, good for food, good for food and the rest of them All the things we share so there is no age. The question is are you prepared? Economically, spiritually, emotionally, physically in all dimension, so no age for marriage too What are your thoughts about remarriage for widows and widows? Great idea Why can't widows and widows get married? As far as you are marrying somebody and you are not violating any Biblical principle Why not? A 65-year-old woman or 70-year-old woman can be married Amen Don't let anybody's cultural norm put you to the coffin before your time If you are 90 years and you still have power in your quiver, you can manage a woman Please Go ahead in the fear of the Lord. Somebody say an amen Question number two Pastor, I like this guy But my parents don't like him Because of his social status. He's a good man, but they don't understand They don't understand what should I do and financially stable. He is not but we love each other great idea now Sit down and have a conversation with your parents Mind you your parents have a point If he's not able to take care of a home as a man is Expected to do they have a genuine fear. I as a father, I'll be worried Nevertheless, please don't discount this. This is sometimes when you are young We have butterfly flowing in your system. You want a man who will be telling you sweet things So you throw away wisdom everything is throw away to sway. No sit down analyze The man I'm the boy or the young man. We are talking about he's a good man. What is his problem? He doesn't have financial stability to take care of a home So sit with your period tell them these are the positives out of 10. I will give him nine So set out a timeline sit with the young man. You know, I love you You know, you love me, but the difficulty is that a man must be a man So in light of that, we want to recommend and say that in the next one year, let's prepare So that we can see how we can help each other for you to be economically on your feet I get in the point what must be done to elevate his economic status It should be done But don't discount what your parents are saying and parent don't throw a good man out because he is currently Unemployed or currently not financially stable, but if he doesn't have a job at all, don't marry him I repeat don't marry him But if he's working, he's just not yet there Please don't throw away a good man because today he cannot afford a man number two table stand in life table stand so I Will state and state carefully again Don't throw a good man out on account today. He doesn't have money Some of you when you were out of school, you had nothing and Sometimes parents because of your social standing you want your children to be in that social standing. I know don't overcast Your status too much on your children. They have their parts to also run but young lady Don't think your parents are demon. They have genuine concern. I will raise the same Nevertheless, you see I've answered in two ways We need to come to the middle and find out with some time if you are a parent and your will be a Potential son-in-law is economically incapacitated and there is a way you can lend their hand Why not? It is not out of order It is not out of order, but no young man you feel he's entitled to a help before he marries and take her of a woman No, nobody owes you anything in the world Question number three. What is your take on older women dating younger older women to younger women? Older women to younger women relationship. No, it cannot happen But if you wanted to say older women to younger men, I will address it But what I read here is what is your take on older women? To younger women Relationship I Interpret this to mean Lesbianism so no, but if it is an error you want to say older women Dating younger men Then let me address it that way. I want to assume without as I want to assume without admitting There is nothing wrong with an older woman dating a younger man Say amen to that one Why? Show me where it is wrong in the Bible Look at this people come and beat me if you like come and beat me a Woman is 35 a young man is 30 years. Why can't they be married? Now if it is you are not comfortable say I am not comfortable Don't make it a rule and say it is wrong There is no where it is stated in scripture that a woman must be older than a man As far as the two parties meet the criteria for marriage the purpose of marriage They are ready to pick up your responsibility The man wants to be a spiritual leader. He can take care of a home. He listened there is nothing like that in scripture never the less never the less Are you both suitable for each other? Are you first-time couple? A young man is 30 years a woman is 60 years. They want to get married. I will advise them. It's not the best But it's not the same if they do. Do you understand that? Hear me. Well, this is sometimes don't don't don't project your your thoughts and elevate it to truth Let me say it again For the fact that you are comfortable with something doesn't mean it should be a rule for all of us Hello Hello When a man is 30 a woman is 60 they want to get married. Is it a sin? Yes or no? Is it the best? Who told you? You only need to tell them the challenges Two old people have come and they want to get married. I Can't say no in light of the Bible I can't say no in light of the spirit of prophecy never the less you ask the question Do you want to have babies? As there are some issues do you know the health implications? The possibilities these are issues you raise and you let them see the potential dangers So but if a woman is two years three years five years older than a man What is wrong with it? Nothing, but if you are not comfortable Why not but if the two of you are comfortable and you've gone to cancel it and you're canceling of Expose you to the dangers the difficulties that may come with it Both of you agree and want to make a vow before God To be loyal and faithful to each other till death do you pad? We will bless that marriage will be tied to you if tomorrow you come to tell us you are not comfortable. You'll be there You'll be there You'll be there How can or does a young woman let a man lead? In a relationship without looking like a dominant member of the relationship Right two things you need to consider Number one we need to know the personality of the persons involved What is the trait of the man? What are his strength? What is his personality framework? If we know this then we can tell when you say a man must leave it doesn't mean a woman is a zombie It doesn't mean a woman doesn't think it doesn't mean a woman cannot object It doesn't mean a woman cannot oppose it doesn't listen that is not it I have a presentation on that the dynamics of submission when the Bible say a woman must admit What does it mean don't make the mistake and say that oh the Bible says a man is ahead So no no no no no no you have your own head. He wants you to eat beans You said I'll eat rice. He said beans you say rice. You say beans. It's okay. I'll cook the beans for you I also eat my rice. It's okay But I found out he is a leader doesn't mean he say beans it must be beans He said rice he said ugali it must you got it chapati. It must eat no no no no no no so Be yourself Never the last In issues Where you think it is making sense You do when a man is leading is leading you to a ditch you must not fall Amen We are going into a ditch. You need to raise your hand. Excuse me. We are going to die They're going to die So express your thought you want to you want to buy a land as a couple and he says we are buying it here No, you to do your research and come and say honey. Guess what? Where you said we should buy the land is not a bad place as I check these are the advantages at this place Where you are saying nevertheless? I went to check other side. This is what I've seen the data indicates that in every 12 months Land appreciates in this area by this percentage Houses in this area when bill this I heard they are paying for looking others It will make economic sense if we do the investment in this place instead of that please I want you to go and cross check and see so that we'll come back before we take the decision Take your thoughts as a woman in the decision. Amen and Do it with sense sensibleness and with decency and there is a way You should know your mind and know when to speak for issues to be taken serious when to speak for him to dismiss it Sometimes when men dismiss things Humbly say I understand but I still think we should look at it again. Honey, please I still think we should do it if it fails when you go to sleep rub your head around they said I said honey Please I still think we should do it this way Give him over those and you changes mine Then another question Touch on age difference when dating for marriage. I address it in one other world Somebody says if you are already married And it's not working a lot of cheating Abandonment is it okay to ask God if you want the marriage to work or is it too late? What is the sign? What is what is the sign or answer is no, okay in other words the person is saying You are married. He's cheating. He's not even giving you emotional connection Do you need to pray and be asking God that this should be work or is it too late to divorce? I Wrote here. It's your choice If he's cheating the Bible has given you a framework Matthew 19 verse 9 you can divorce a man on account of him cheating You can divorce a woman on the grounds of if ideality When a man is cheating it's now a lifestyle. He's now we call it now chronic situation my sister you may get disease I Repeat and caught me. I'm on the pulpit. You may get a disease call him to order Let him know the rate of his cheating is becoming too much. You can't take this now to take him to hospital insist on doing HIV or ST STD test Now if you notice This cheating is not helping some of you. That's what I'm coming to talk about my last presentation is about I have broken my marriage But I've been cheating. What do I do solution today? Now The thing is not working. You move right. He's cheating you move left. He's cheating you move forward. He's cheating You pray you fast at his cheating my sister, please you have a choice to stay and He's cheating It is your decision However from a biblical perspective the Bible has given a window for a person to choose to trigger a Condition Jesus and God says that can annul a marriage Matthew 19 verse 9 You can leave a spouse on the grounds of cheating Infidelity is a ground for divorce but if a man cheats if a woman cheats and your spouse Is the offending partner and is willing to make amends change ways You don't need to let the world be aware Deal with it as a family, but if it's becoming a pattern too often Yourself your children may be at risk the choice is yours. I've said what the Bible say if that is clear Somebody say an amen. How does our deal Okay, how does one deal with the husband or man Who was brought up in a shaky family background? one that's or Came to learn later He lacks leadership treat as a man He cheats a lot We have children is it wise to break the marriage number one Prover 24 verse 3 to 4 through wisdom houses build by understanding It is established by knowledge the rooms are filled with all good and precious riches number one If he's a weak-knee mind and roll him to a masterclass five hundred dollars will train him. Don't do it sarcastically We are building a community of men who will take a stand to say will become fathers indeed We are building a community of married women who are going to say we are going to be the best women We possibly can be and support listen We don't know but sometimes we feel we know when somebody is brought up in a certain way You have given a background. He's upbringing is faulty is defective Now this is where you assign himself We need to now dig back into time and analyze the situation and put forth what we call some Intervention strategies that will strengthen the man to be the man. He possibly must be we are okay to go to hospital We are okay to go for that treatment. We are okay to do this thing But the only time we are we take it lightly is when we are ignorant and stupid We don't want to learn sometimes, you know, but I told you here. You don't know enough So we need to upgrade it Sometimes men must sit only at the table for us to have men's conversation And the conversation is guided by people with scripture people with data people with insight It doesn't come with age only it comes with knowing it Knowledge is power. My people are destroyed for lack of all knowledge number two cheating He needs to be converted. It's a sin problem Only the Holy Spirit through the power of his word can do so. This is a long one, but in summary Okay, dear pastor according to the Bible Some sins are not to be forgiven like abominable sin. So if somebody cheats with your wife Must you forgive him? all right, I Refer to Matthew chapter 12 verse 31 to verse 33 all manner of sins can be forgiven adultery Punication all of them they can be forgiven forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us The only sin that cannot be forgiven is a sin against the Holy Spirit So if somebody sleep with your wife Are you mandated to forgive him a capital YES exclamation sign seven? Yes It's tough. It's not simple If it's in your church relocate from that church put another church put in school in place Things that will not cause that to real care Do a detailed analysis. Why will my wife cheat on with another man? What are the causes get to the root cause of it and look at it really don't quickly address it It's not a prayer matter. Please. It's not a prayer matter only there are existential physiological Situations and needs that led to that so deal with it comprehensively any possible you may need deep counseling commercial break to pass the mentor How do you handle a husband who has no time with the family every time he's in the home It is either his cell phone or the news. The only thing he can ask is how was your day? Number one the women are mean. I'm regretting. I've not given a presentation on women. I'm regretting If I give a presentation on women all of you will be quiet you won't Nobody would talk everybody will know their level But because yesterday I spoke about men It's now like women have gotten They are just hitting everybody here if a man is just engrossed with his food and watching television These are the fruits. There are deep existential problems. Number one the families communication is bad Maybe the man and the woman are not at the same communication level Maybe it may be that they don't have the same intellectual power to be able to discuss Maybe when he comes the things he wants to talk about the woman doesn't have the ability to comprehend and contribute Meaningfully some of you the women you are stupid because when we come woman We are talking about serious thing. All you are thinking about is you are thinking about unnecessary things and Sometime it may also be his emotionally detached. He's cheating It may be all the emotional satisfaction. He's sorted somewhere So he doesn't sometimes it may also just be that he is just Irresponsible or careless and reckless. It may not be that he's a bad man. You see I've given various situations It's not just one jacket. So number one prompt him Make an attempt engage him in a conversation when he's bad Read direct his attention from the television and the cell phone By the time he's coming home have an agenda set out How you are going to engage the three hours before bedtime When it persists, prompt him that you want to talk you feel you are lonely You don't know if he's asking you to start looking for emotional attention elsewhere The last thing a man wants to see is to see somebody sleep with a wife The most beautiful woman is your woman in another man's arm So have a real conversation When it persists look for somebody he respects and this may apply to women as well The person is asking from a woman's perspective. It may apply to a man's perspective as well so look for somebody who he or she respects and Come to the table with a discussion So that let's put some intervention strategies because the problem here is that technically there is no marriage There's no marriage It's dangerous. It should not be taken lightly. I Just want to know if it is right for a husband Who is also an Adventist to have code on his mobile phone? Which is kept secret only to himself. Won't it raise some? Suspicion With this kind of lie Possible. I don't know who depressed is it for example some individuals they have people's private issues with them Or not really why should a man put a code on his phone? The wife is not aware Why? no If you can see both of you your nakedness, what is it on the phone that she cannot see I repeat again If both of you can be naked and the two of them were naked both of you have been having intimacy The highest level of secret in a person's life is your nudity You can have access to the woman's nudity. She can have access to your nudity Now your mobile phone what is there assuming without admitting there are sensitive issues there Then let's come to the table and have a discussion I'm not comfortable with your way your phone is so secretive and even if you are going to buff your car in it No, it's suspicious So if you have sensitive information People's issue that cannot be chances are that if a man is behaving like that is also saying that my wife cannot keep secrets her mouth runs a lot of Variables who come to play but if it is because I want to assume without admitting that the man has a legitimate reason Then let's get another phone that will handle the private issues and let one make me feel fine that my wife husband Is not hiding anything. Let's be transparent Let's stop the play in many instances. He's cheating I'm sorry. I'm not saying all instances. Let's be listen. Let's stop playing games in there in the house of God What is it is on this one that a woman is going to see or that your husband is going to see But we demand their password and it's only known as secretive to you. I Repeat if it is a confidentiality issue Get another phone with a password secretive only to you so that all those matters may go there How can you live in a marriage like this? It's bad I'm sorry Thank you pastor for the insightful session the entire week What do I do after realizing that I have a male figure instead of a man in my house? How do I help my husband to become a man and not a male, please? I'm tempted to say let me stay here till tomorrow. Hey, all of you must come here tomorrow evening Let me let me go on the women. It's like now the women have this thing and it's only about men Now I am feeling guilty as a man. I have lent my lesson never again I will present the women first Before I present the men so let's assume you have a female in your house, not a woman You see the way the room is quiet She is Not a woman. She's just a female She is technically irrelevant to what women stand for she's only there as an object called a woman How do you handle it? Number one if you love her Investing her if it's a man You need to do it men. We have ego So you need to be wise as a woman The Bible says a wise woman deals her house, but the foolish one brings it down So if a woman is the female and not a woman what you need to do is invest in Training up lifting her up Number two, how do you do that? What are the difficulties she's facing? What are the shortfalls of her not being a woman but a female when we look at this? Let's put in the intervention strategies. Ladies and gentlemen this thing We are calling marriage being a man being a woman. The problem is some of us listen We have not been brought up in that manner. You will admit that during this week. There were things that we all studied I did not know all of them myself Are you getting the point? We are learning every day. So when you notice oops in light of God's revealed truth this week My husband is falling short of God's ideal as a man please Any way that can be done and do it tastefully Do it respectfully Because you the woman saying he's not a man, but a male You are maybe not even a female below a female So when you notice that First there must be training and education You need to see the areas where he's not keeping it up. Sometimes you like the technical skills And we've now exposed ourselves to it, but now training must happen training must happen Mentorship must happen. You can be 70 years a 30 year man can train you You can be 60 years. You can learn from a younger child men. Let's set aside the ego Let's get to class and land I am still learning. I'm still studying how to be a good preacher. I'm still learning how to be a good communicator I'm still learning how to be a good husband. I'm still learning how to be a good father. Nobody has arrived So being in a place where we all learn together should not be as if I am the problem and sick so if there is this situation we need to come to a conversation and tactfully test fully put it across so that we all join and begin to study it's education and training and studying and practicing same that will solve the situation please help address the issue of bright price Dowery it has become it has become commercialized in our societies today No, I can't deal with it Somebody's daughter and he says this is what we will take before we marry our daughter when prepare. What's your problem? Now you want me to come and say that no bring it. No, no, no, you don't do that the purpose of a dowry Is to show the preparedness of a man In picking a woman if you see the historical trend Dairy from culture to culture deepest if you go to Nigeria if you go to some communities You need some level of cows Before you can marry things are changing in the modern day but assuming without admitting and The first question is who told you that the dowry expected from a certain place is commercialized Every family have their standard Where you are getting to that is the standard So first stop the entitlement behavior as a young man They are commercializing the bright price, please if you are not up to your standard go for your standard I can't be talking as if they are commercializing it. It's so entitlement. No Commercialized by who's standard Yeah, I'm taking care of my daughter Thank you You think you bring me to two bottles of mutton and foul and come and take Susan. I'm waiting for you What is this one? But sometimes the parents You just see especially let me say this every good man knows a good man. Let me say differently a Man knows a good man Chances are the better than a woman if he knows God's word very well and knows the ideal All right, so the issue is if you spot a good man your daughter wants to marry sometimes Lacks it a little but sometimes who the parent just want to see if you man up I've seen places where dowries and things were brought and after the marriage the parents give back the couple But don't be entitled as if you have the right to regulate What must be taken as a diary is disrespectful your perspective in law I will not contain us that if you come out suck you from my house. I'm sorry. I have two more to go. I Am in a relationship with an SDA guy and I want to practice purity till marriage How do you restrain yourself? given the fact that I have had this Conversation with him and he didn't take me serious and we slipped into the routine of sexual immorality Which has brought a lot of guilt Over time. How do I handle it honest question? Go to YouTube and look for my presentation taming taming taming temptation tap 10 top ways of overcoming sexual sin I Looked at it from the perspective of proverb chapter 7 verse 7 to verse 23 10 ways to deal with sexual impurity immorality Now so but quick basic point How do you deal with the concept of immorality when the two of you have sat down? Convicted that God's word expect us to live a life of purity So first have the conversation Number two look for accountability partners number three avoid the two of you being alone avoid the two of you been alone avoid the two of you been alone avoid the two of you been alone avoid the two of you been alone avoid the two of you been alone avoid the two of you been alone avoid The two of you being alone, if not even if we put a Greek Bible on it, it will not stand, it will fall, it will fall, all right. So look for that, there are practical things to put in place to overcome sexual sin. When I was dating Samoala, whenever I'm going, I'll go with Pastor Holy, he was my colleague, I'll go with Mordecai, I'll go with this. When we want to have private conversation, we are sure we are not in a private space. So we can go to a garden, my friends can be having their time, we are at the place to have our serious conversation. Ladies and gentlemen, it's not easy, sometimes I look at my Del Gerfet and my whole body say, What is this? It's too much for me, maybe you are holy, that is why I'm saying my book myself. So what I'm saying, I've been practical in real, I don't like theory, I like being practical. All right, let's not forget, in case it's becoming too much, also you can use the power. Two things that will make sexual edges reduce, is the power of the word. Whenever you are in the world, take your morning devotion seriously and every morning tell the Lord, Dear Lord, I want to honor you, I want to do it to your glory. As I wake up today, just for today, keep me pure, keep me pure, keep me pure, keep me pure. Just for today, when tomorrow comes, you ask for the same grace, a day at a time. Watch the music you listen to, watch the content you listen to, all these will stimulate sexual air. Control the things that enter your mind, you have power over them. What is your version, your view, sorry, on marriage and divorce? No, I have no view, the Bible has a view. Is there an age limit for marriage? So my answer is, the Bible's view on divorce is, and remarriage is this, Matthew chapter 19. If you study it very carefully, you can only divorce if there is sexual immorality, adultery. Now, the one who is the guilty partner, if you cheat on your spouse and she decides to divorce you, he has a right to marry. The guilty partner, if you are married, a man and a woman, can I get a Bible, my Bible? Let's go to the book of Matthew, let me address it so that you get it very clear. Matthew chapter 19, Matthew chapter 19, let's go. From verse 7, they said to him, okay, from verse 4, and he answered and said to them, have you not read that he who made them, okay. But if you read from verse 1, they were asking, can you divorce a woman on the grounds of anything? And he says, no, you cannot do that, you can only do that on the basis. And he says, verse 9, I say to you, whoever divorces his wife except for sexual immorality and marries another commits adulteries. And whoever marries her, who is divorced commits adultery. What the context? I say to you, whoever divorces his wife except for sexual immorality and marries another commits adultery. It means you can divorce your wife, you can divorce your husband on the basis of sexual immorality, adultery. However, Jesus added, whoever marries her, who is divorced wrongly also commits adultery. So the context is this, you can only marry a divorcee if the marriage was annulled biblically. In other words, if the marriage was not annulled biblically, the two of them are regarded still married in the eyes of God. That's why Jesus says, whoever marries her, who was wrongfully divorced also commits adultery. Do you understand? So, I and Samoala, I divorce Samoala, not on the grounds of adultery, God forbid. Now, anybody who marries Samoala commits adultery, why? Before the eyes of God, she is still regarded as thickly mentioned, why? Do you understand? Jesus was attempting to do all he could to avoid divorce. But if it must be divorced, there are conditions that must be met, there must be adultery. In other words, even if somebody commits adultery, Samoala decides to divorce me or divorce me that I've committed adultery, she can be married. It is only after she's married, I can be married. The reason is that I'm the guilty partner. You don't get it, we need a Bible study. But the basis for divorce must be infidelity, adultery. Do you understand? There must be adultery. There must be adultery. So, anybody marries a divorcee, you must know the history. Can you put it back again? You must know the history. You must know the history. Please take it very carefully. The church has a stand. Take the church manual and look for marriage and remarriage is there. And I say to you, whoever divorces is why, except for immorality and marries another, commits adultery. In other words, if it is on the grounds of immorality, you have not committed adultery. Number two, and whoever marries her, who is divorced, commits adultery. In context, the woman was not divorced rightly. She did no evil and she was divorced. You need a Bible study, but check the church manual on the page on divorce and remarriage. It is very clear. The way you are looking at me, you need a Bible study. Last one, is it wrong to engage in a slight romance when dating? Key word, slight romance in capital, underline, i.e. pecking or giving a peck. My response to that is, the book of Proverbs says, who puts a fire in his belly and says it to not burn him? It begins with a peck, then you upgrade to a kiss. Normal kiss, from a normal kiss, we go down. They say, is it Naaman who had leprosy? Naaman, we had a song when we were children. He says, he went down, down, down. We'll be going down, down. Before you be going from peck, down, kiss, from kiss, down, down, down. Don't worry. You want to kiss a woman? You are going to kiss her many times. Just take your time. Just relax. A time will come. How can we be accepted? We can go with that. But I'm not here to legislate the do's and the don'ts. But anything that will arouse sexual desires, are not accepted. Remember Jesus says, adultery is not only penetrating sex. It's even when you look after a woman lustfully. And I also add, you look at a man lustfully. You are committed adultery in the heart. I am done. God bless. What do we say? Do you want us to continue when? Ah, thank you. Thank you. The program we have is we are now coming closer to the end. And I want really to thank you so much. I want to thank Dr. Pasta for the patience. Pasta says he has one question. And obviously he has to answer. So let Pasta answer. Please, the online viewers, I have been unfair to you. They've asked a lot of questions online. But we want to pick one of them. And address them. He's a pastor. A husband has been away in most of their 20 plus years together. The kids are now grown. And he's still away. He's so lonely in marriage. What will she do? They've even grown apart in most aspects. This is what we call abandonment. I'm going to be very technical. The Bible says divorce must happen within the context of abandonment or immorality. Sometimes practical situations make us legislate further things that undermine the authority of Scripture. My recommendation number one, the man as far as he's on earth, let's call the family members of the woman. They should visit the man's family members with immediate effect. They should send a word to him. Is he interested in this marriage or not? They should give him an automaton. If it fails, the woman must travel to where he is. How can you leave a woman for 20 years? He must make his intention close and known. But you see, if you are not careful, you begin to say, oh, 20 years, the marriage is over. They should divorce. The question is, you may be legislating something that is unbiblical. It's a very dicey area. We preach fidelity to the Bible. So in this instance, the man must be pulled to a place where he must take his thoughts. If he's in a church, he must be brought. If he's in a company, the company bosses must know he must be brought to bear to give a stand. I won't be surprised. He's already us, 20-year-old man. No, he's shut down. But it's difficult to use abandonment. Somebody says, my husband leaves me for one year. I can't stay. I'm divorcing. Another person, three months. If you are not careful, it can get messy. So in light of this, the Bible did not say marriages are an all on the grounds of abandonment. If you look at the Bible very well, however practical conditions like this, we need to put an intervention for the guilty partner to declare his stand on this matter. The person asking the question, please reach out to me privately. Let's find a practical solution to it. For those of you who ask questions online, I will take time and go to look at the questions. And if need be, I will connect with you personally on the issues that consent me. And doc may do same as well. Thank you.