 I want to say though it was interesting because we didn't match on okcupid and then we saw each other on the street and I feel like that was the, we were like wait a minute so it's like online and then we see each other in real life maybe we have to actually meet. This was a full, I actually know the story to a T. Okay, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. Because I was on a date with an older gentleman. Yeah, with an older gentleman. He was like 78 years old y'all. My man was in a cane like just one, I was like wow, we had grandfather right now. Hello there lovers and friends. Today's video is brought to you in partnership by okcupid and oh what a video was about to be. I am helping two dudes that I used to date find love today on a dating app and naturally we're using okcupid which to me is the best dating app on the planet for three solid reasons. Number one is their commitment to matching you on what matters to you. Secondly is their thorough profiles and finally everyone is welcome on okcupid. And as you just heard, that's actually where me and Johan first met a few years ago. But all in all, I'm excited for you guys to meet them. I'm here with in a long time, we went, we're, oh we're live? Yeah. I didn't know. I thought we was just okay. Hey, how you doing? I'm here with a really good friend of mine who used to be my lover. Yeah, that's right. Yes. Can we tell the stories of everything? It used to be my lover. That's not a song. No, it's not. It should be. Just the coolest, most down person that I probably know. I'm really glad you asked me to do this video. Are you actually really glad? Yeah. Yo, I am such a fan of online dating because I met so many incredible dudes that way. For example, remember the butt paintings from my old apartment? Those were actually done by this guy named Ray who I met on an app. My friend Ricky who went on to style the engagement photos of me and Jared. I met him on an app. He now has his own jewelry line and we are big supporters of his. Some of the dudes I met online did graphic design work for me. A lot of the times when you guys see dudes pop up as actors in my video, I dated them first. I feel like I have every right to call myself an expert when it comes to online dating. Why not spread and share my expertise? But before I could go helping them, I had to figure out what they'd been doing wrong all of this time. You said that your OKCupid profile back in the day was Altacos. Yes. No, it wasn't Altacos. It was Nacho Libre. That's different. Okay, so there's a social and there's a work. Oh, that's nice. Yeah, so this is my social. Which is also a work photo. Yes. Yes, but yes. Social is supposed to be photos of you that are candid, maybe around family and friends, you cooking, these are all professional photos. So what does work look like? I think it's the same. It's not the same. Okay. I didn't pick this song. Wait a second. It's good. It's very specific. Yeah, exactly. We're going to redo it. Okay, yeah. I liked it. I'm not saying that we're redoing it because it's bad. Yeah. This could be better. It could be better. It could be to catch a different level of people. A different kind of talk. Yeah, okay. Different kind of talk. Nacho Libre talk. That's a keto, baby. Oh, okay. Here's my bio. I model coach basketball and make jewelry. Want to know more? Just ask. I mean, no, I don't like that. My least favorite conversation starter is like, well, ask me anything you want to. Like, let's talk how conversations go. Like, you give me a prompt. Give me a reason to ask you a question. Like, start a conversation. Okay. This just feels arrogant. Well, we'll change that when we... Entrepreneur in fashion from North Hollywood. I mean, you have beautiful photos. You know that. You're a beautiful man. Thank you. Okay. Now we're going to create your OKCupid profile today. A better... A better OKCupid. An expert OKCupid profile. Now, if you haven't watched my other OKCupid video on the science behind what pictures go in what order, you may want to go watch that first. But if you already watched that, this next part is going to make a whole lot of sense to you. Okay. So your first photo needs to be like a great head shot of you, like nipples and up. Not a professional picture. It can be professional, but not like you with the smoldering eyes. Oh man. How about this one right here? Damn. That's pretty hot. That's a good one. That should be number one though. Oh man. So we'll start with the first. This is a really good first photo. But you know what? Do you have a slightly happier one? It has color preferably. You do have great Instagram photos, but I feel like they're all farther. I feel like I'm not sure if I have some close up stuff to use. Not that I'm on your Instagram all the time. You know what I mean? You ain't snooping. Selfie. Is it smiling? Smirk. That's a good little smirk. Okay. Let's see what else I got. We want like dead on, clean lighting. Here's one with nipples. I said nipples and up. Not being like... Right. All right. So this is you said number two. Are you doing something that invites a question? Hmm. Okay. So I'm just on the phone right there. Right. Who are you calling? Why are you already cheating on me? Damn. That's fine. The best one worked. Okay. Let's do that one. Let me just look more down. Let's do that. Let's save that one. Okay. Look. This you and me. Yeah. I saw that. Your third photo should be a picture of you doing something that's like extreme. Extreme. Yeah. So like whether that... The thing that you do that makes you exciting. Hmm. You go on a hike or do you do skydive? Well, I mean I speak in front of thousands of people. Yes. Do you have a picture of that? Which is like a lot of people don't want to do that. I do. Okay. Now we do a dog photo. What about a modeling photo? That's going to be last. Last? Yes. Oh man. Have you had luck? I was thinking like maybe I've been doing it wrong this whole time. I'm just thinking a bit. We need a weed out photo. A weed out? A weed out photo is a picture of you that represents something that you know is going to be a make or break for someone else. So just like saving yourself time. Okay. Well, I think it should be a modeling picture because if you're insecure or something like that I model so I'm around other models often. Yes. This is actually by far the best profile I've ever seen before. Yes. And just because I'm sitting here curing, I think this is great teamwork. Okay. I agree. All right. So first photo. Let's do second photo fighting. Third photo smiling and speaking. Third photo. Boom. Fourth photo. With the kids. Yes. Fifth photo of conversation. Sixth photo just because I feel like I'm sexy. Then weed out. Then Mr. Rogers. Next we crafted their about me section, which in my opinion is the most overlooked and underutilized section of any good online dating profile. If you put too much like sometimes. It's a little, there's a balance to it. It's a, it's a tweet. So it's less than 180 characters. It's not going too much, but it still should invite a question and tell people what matters most to you. Okay. I am in LA for the week. That's linked up. What's the ask me question? I love to start about these with an ask me about like, what do you think that you are an aficionado at? If somebody won like the best of something, what would they go to you for? Well, usually people come to me for wisdom, advice, big ideas, storytelling. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You ask me. Okay. Hey, beautiful people. I'm an LA native. So ask me where to find the real Mexican food. I have a charitable jewelry line that raises awareness to various causes that are close to my heart. Speaking of hearts, my dog's name is Prince. Meaning, meaning like it's just like, what? So if we think about it, like you got a story, I got a story, but I tell the story that you may not tell. So like when people are doing the vows, when I read yourself summary, I knew that because you were a storyteller and that by trade, someone just liked me. That was so quick. And you were thankful. Thank you. Thank you, Shannon. Thank you so much. Okay. Usually people do not like me. Okay. Cupid has like a thousand incredible questions that are not just hella fun to answer. They're also a really great way to communicate with the algorithm what you're looking for to again, match on what matters to you. So I asked Johan and Pearson 21 questions apiece because obviously I want them to get the best possible matches, but for time's sake, here's just the highlights. How important is religion in your life? Oh, very important. Extremely important. Extremely important to me. Do you smoke? No. No smokes. Do you want them to smoke? No. Not at all. Well, I mean. Do you enjoy discussing politics? No. You're a deal person? No way. Really? No. I enjoy discussing politics. I'm not in it, but I think it's interesting. Okay. Still no way. This is my profile. Can you tell from someone's dating profile whether or not you'll get along in real life? Definitely. How can you tell? Usually you can sense like there's sense of humor thing. That's the biggest thing for me is like, do you take yourself too seriously? And also there's another thing a lot of women put down like, I want an adventure. And it's like everybody, what is this big adventure that people are talking about? And if you're too sort of vague about that, like I like some specifics. Life's an adventure. Yeah, life's an adventure. You should be living an adventure. This is adventurous. Yeah. You should not depend on me to bring this adventure to you. We should collaborate and create it. Ooh. Jordan. All right. You date somebody who was really messy. Depends like they like live with me. I've seen your blaze. Yes. My place is clean. It's clean and sometimes a little untidy. But it's not dirty. No. Like I might have like a jacket on the floor or something. But it's not like there's like dirty dishes. I feel like once your place like all your groceries are just out on the counter. Yeah. But that's not, that's not dirty. That's just like, like you said, like I'm not very tidy. Right. But it's not like there's like, It's like one thing because the cupboard is just right there. Like it's not as if like you put it right where it needs to be. And then just refuse to do that. Okay. But this is saying messy. That means like if you like leave trash, you know, That's saying filthy. You're not like, are you a scumbag? What's the question? Would you consider yourself a feminist? Oh yeah. Easy. Easy. Come on now. Choose a better romantic activity. Kissing in Paris, kissing in a tent in the woods. You Paris. Yep. Yeah. Have you been to Paris? Nope. But I don't want to go to the woods. Do you often make jokes that offend more uptight people? This would be a hell yes for me. Holy. I do too. Yeah. Yeah. Do you want them to also make offensive jokes sometimes? That would be great. Actually, yes. I want to, I want to line up with you on this one. Is jealousy healthy in a relationship? No. I'm going to say that's important to you. Because imagine the person who's clicking yes to this. Or is that still somebody that you're like, I mean... I mean... You're terrible. No, because you have to think like I'm not opposed to just a one-time thing and I'm not opposed to meeting someone I really like. But even a one-time thing with somebody who constitutes jealousy as a healthy component of a relationship. Do you think that person's going to be comfortable with the terms of a one-time thing? Oh no. We're going to just, I'm going to answer this one for you. Go ahead. Okay. You like to read. I'm going to be out right now. It's true. It would be cool if you didn't look at me when you did it. Dang, I know. Yeah, okay. Straight ahead one. No, not that one. No. Okay, so at this point we have determined why they downloaded OkCupid. We chose the best photos of them. We wrote a killer about me. We answered a bunch of questions to help the algorithm make the best matches for them. Nothing left to do but to do it to it. What does this percentage mean? That's how much of a match she is based on the questions that you answered. You got it. Yeah. Oh, that's awesome. I think yes, right? I would go yes. Okay, wait. Six, seven percent match. What do you think about this? Let's see. Hard, she's a hard worker but she don't know the difference between two and two. Okay, no, right? So we got it. I'm sorry. I'll just say yes. It can't hurt. Look and then, and then, oh definitely yes. Tongue ring. Wow. Spending time with me is like being on a never ending adventure. Adventure? I told you. No. This is kind of fun swiping with someone. Much more fun. I think that's why I'm in Australia is very wide. I actually, I appreciate that about you. We should probably narrow it down a bit more, but the range of people that you're like, Oh. is interesting. I'm just, you know, trying to leave all the options open. Oh, she's lovely. Nice girl who loves to keep. Come on. See, but that, you know what? You're right. The summary is important because if you ain't saying a damn thing, then no. I'm just a girl who resides in LA with a strong, intense interest in science, fitness, and psychology. Oh, she's a master for me. She is currently a student majoring in psychics and on my way to becoming an astrophysicist. I'll say no because I understand why you would say no, but this would be a yes for me. Just know that. I like this a lot. Okay, let's go. Are you happy with this? Yeah. I mean, just the Puerto Rican. I love to have eggs at mushrooms. Yeah, I'm not. I'm usually reading. You like to read. Yeah. That's true. You can read. Is that what happened? Yeah, let's go. This would be a good, like, one-time thing. Right. But you're not swiping for one-times, are you? No. Because one-times will just naturally occur. My mom's quote is like, you aim for the stars so you land on the treetops. If you aim for the treetops, you land on the ground. So you should aim for the people that you're like, this is my few months to a year, but if it doesn't work out, we can at least do a night. These cultures and Brits find me hilarious. You know what? Right? I like that she put laissez faire in there. What does that mean? It's like the low-key leader. Oh, you know. I didn't even know that. Yeah. So it's actually a style of leadership. Oh. Mm-hmm. Well, hell. So you know what? Let's go. How do you feel about her misspelling English? I'm going to go with the S. I think I have a flair for what you're looking for, though. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Let's see. Looking for my best friend. I have two dogs that I adore. I work as an analyst. No, is it bad? Because I feel like two dogs love too much for me. Really? Yeah. Well, maybe she's a house. I can't. I can't do it. I'm sorry. You're going to say no? Yeah, I can't do it. You put the dogs in your pictures? Yes. It is a good habit to put a picture of you and your dog. But not a dog. But a headshot of your dog. No, I'm sorry. I can't do it. No. I don't like people who describe themselves as blunt. I feel like you're just saying that people find you disagreeable and contentious and you've made that a part of your character. I say honest sometimes. I think when you describe yourself as honest, you're like, people think I'm a dick. That's what you're trying to say for code. I do think that people sometimes get that. Oh, it makes sense for you. How do we feel about it? I mean... Let's give it a try. Okay, let's give it a try. Okay. Let's do it. Boom. So we were open to many things. We got three solid, very unique candidates here. I think that your profile is killer. I mean, only because of you. I know that. Let's be real with it. It was one of those compliments. It was like playing wall-ball through it. But I knew it was coming right back. Yeah, you knew it was coming back, right? I think we should end on this note. I like her, yeah. Please. Okay. Well done. All right. As you can tell, I had so much fun doing this video. As a matter of fact, if you want me to come and like, okay, keep it with you, I just might be down. Oh, but speaking of down, I got to give a shout out to Pearson and Johan for being down to do this video. I asked a lot of people and they were the only two that agreed. So I got to give it to you now. Here's the floor. Any last words? Do we do a follow-up or something? I would love a follow-up. Okay, let's do it. Yeah, let's just follow up. If you want, maybe we'll do some messaging coaching. All right. Although, I feel like you might be, this might be your strong suit. Yeah. I mean, I do okay with the communication part. Yeah. It's kind of, it's kind of a thing. You know what I'm saying? If you guys want to learn more about Johan, I'm Lilianas. You didn't know my last name. It's okay. It's hard to say it. Yeah, Johan Khalilian. You want to know more about Johan Khalilian going in the info box below and finding all of his stuff. If he wants you, go find him at okaycupid. What's up? I'll be there. I want to know. Keep me up to date. If you want to date with somebody. Okay. Yeah. I think we've done- Should I keep you up to date if there's no date and something else? Yes. Keep me up to date if there's no date and something else as well too. Thank you for inviting me. Thank you for attending. Now I have an okaycupid. You do have an okaycupid. I mean, I see you for a minute. You be busy. That is it. And if you haven't already, please go in the info box and download okaycupid so that you could start matching on what matters to you. And in the comment section, let me know, could you or would you do this with your exes?