 When you change too much for some people, they start to criticize you or make snipe remarks because what's happening is you are reminding them of how much they need to do that. So they can't celebrate your new hairstyle. They can't celebrate your weight loss, a new wardrobe option that you have now. They can't celebrate that because they feel insecure by the work you're doing because it shows up the work that they're not doing. And if that can't be fixed and be improved upon, what also have to happen is you have to have new relationships that align with the new versions of you that you become.