 Why I'm talking about this right now is that what's most important is not so much about you keeping his intention. Your job is to be in your sovereignty, your self-worth, your self-esteem, and most importantly, in your self-respect, because I don't want you to ever chase a man. I want you to focus on what are the building blocks to create a healthy, happy relationship? What are the building blocks? That is how you keep his attention. And what I mean to say is how you mutually keep each other's attention. What are the building blocks? And yet many of you are operating from a naive place, from an ambivalent place. In fact, men in particular operate from a naive and ambivalent place.