 You always wanted to get engaged when you were 23. I did, yeah. We're 23. What's going on, Infinite Fam? Well, go back to another video. If you guys are new to the channel, make sure you guys hit that subscribe button, turn on your post notification bell, leave a positive comment down below for a chance to get a whack. For a chance to win a shout out in the next video. That is right, guys. So, as you guys can tell, let's head on and thumb another video. We have something explaining to do. Janice and I, we have been secretly married for like four years now. Showing the ring. Is this one right here? Yeah, I got it out of like a quarter machine dispenser thing. She honestly loves it and it was the best thing ever. Great budget. Yeah, you guys have been DMing us, like messaging us, commenting on the videos and you've been asking, have we been married? Are we married? Are we engaged? And the answer is yes, we have. We have been married for four years. Show, show, show, show. Because they're really going to think that. Show, show. Guys, we are not married. We are not secretly engaged or anything of that sort. You guys have always thought that we were. We see the comments. We get the DMs. It's all the time, guys. And that's because Janice is always wearing the ring on her finger. Now you want to explain to them why you wear that ring on that finger? The main reason, there's many reasons, but the main reason is because when I was working in the mall back in Florida, guys would constantly hit on me and I found it really annoying. And so I thought if I were to just wear my ring on this hand, that they would just leave me alone because they think, okay, she's married, like let me not try, but it actually made them try even harder, which is really annoying. I feel like they saw the ring and they were like, ooh, challenge accepted. I will get that ring off. And it just made everything worse. It brought more people than ever. Yeah, it did the opposite. Yeah, so it's like you might as well just not wear the ring. I feel like that was more effective. But you want to explain to them why we're not married yet because I feel like this is more on you. Me personally, I feel like we aren't married because honestly, I don't feel like I'm in a rush, but I also have a lot of things that I'm thinking about. I don't know where I want my wedding. Weddings take preparation. So I want to have everything sorted out before we just get married. You can't just get married. You need a lot of planning. And I don't know if I want a big wedding, like a destination wedding. I don't know. There's a lot of things that I have to take into account. Guys, basically she just doesn't want to get married right now, but that doesn't mean that she doesn't want to get engaged. You're okay with getting engaged, right? Yeah, I'm okay with being engaged right now. It's just getting married now. It's not it at the moment. Guys, I feel like, I don't know. I feel like you guys put a lot of pressure on us, especially me and Bloop. It's just a napkin. It's just a napkin. There's nothing on it. I feel like you guys put a lot of pressure, especially on me. Like, when are you guys going to put a ring on it? When are you going to put a ring on? And it's like, chill. Like, I have my ways. I have my plan set. I know exactly how I'm going to do it. She obviously doesn't know, but I know everything. And what's crazy is that you always wanted to get engaged when you were 23. I did, yeah. We're 23. That's crazy, yeah. I always said that in high school. Like, yeah, I want to be engaged by 23 already, married. And 23 came really fast. I know. Now, you're like, maybe I can wait until like 24. You're like, you want to push it back a little bit. But guys, you can be engaged for like, you know, five years, if that's what you want. It's completely up to the couple. You don't have to be married as soon as you get engaged. Yeah, like my aunt's been engaged for about five years now and it hasn't even felt like it. It just goes by so fast. One of my old coworkers has been engaged now for like nine years. That's crazy. He got engaged at a really young age. But he was like, I can, he was like, we don't have to get married. So he's like, I can do that. That's the thing. I think there's so much societal pressure that once you get engaged, just like, when's the wedding? When's the wedding? Like, our friends got engaged, our best friends, Gab and Miguel, and everyone was beast in them talking about, oh, when you guys getting married, they're like, it's not about that. It's not that simple. And it's like, guys, that takes money too. Yeah, it's a lot of shaving to do and a lot of preparation. Big or small, the wedding costs money. So it's like, as far as when we're getting married, I can't say that. And it is, well, I shouldn't say married. I should say, when are we getting engaged? I can't say. But that's completely up to me, because obviously, you know, I'm the guy, I'm the one that's going to do it. I know exactly how I'm going to do it, where I'm going to do it, who's going to be there. You obviously have no idea and you're not going to find out any information. But whenever the time is right. I have a pride. I like being surprised, so I'm not going to pride. I'm telling you, I got everything locked in. I got everything set. Bloopers is going to be the ring carrier at the wedding. He's going to have a little pillow on his back. Right, wow, wow. You guys always thought we were married or like, oh my God, I see the ring. Oh my God, you guys got to tell this. And it's like, that guys, that's just so she doesn't get hit on. Like that was, it's literally just that. But we feel like we wanted to make this video to clarify because we get so many DMs. You guys always ask us on Twitter, Instagram, you guys comment down below so many times. I see the ring. Oh my God, the ring. Oh my God, they're secretly married. They're engaged or not. When it happens, you guys will know for sure. You guys will be the first. Yeah, you guys literally know like all everything about us. So you guys will get the update. Trust me, you guys will get the update the minute it happens. I think it's because for them, you know, they, a lot of them just binge watch our videos and stuff like that. And it's hard as a viewer to realize like people's lives are actually living. And so it's, it's not going as fast as you think it is. Yeah, it's just like, I don't know guys, you guys can look at an old video of us and then you guys can look at a new video of us and you guys think like all that happened within like a year. And it's like, no, we've been doing YouTube for like, what, four or five years now, technically since the beginning of our channel, since the day we made our channel. So we've been in the game for a little while now. But like I said, I have everything downpacked, planned, I know what I'm doing. Just give me some, come some slack guys. It's true, it's true. I know what I'm doing, chill. As far as right now, like we don't know when anything's going to happen, everything's out of here. Well, I know, I know, you don't. Yeah, I don't know. Okay. As far as when we're getting married, we both don't know. Exactly. Because that all depends on how long we've been engaged for and you know, money and finances and all that good happy stuff. That's really it. We just wanted to give you guys an update loop. Again, it's just a napkin, my boy. It's just a napkin. Relax, look. But yeah, for the fam, that's pretty much it. We just wanted to clarify. It's a very short, quick video. You got anything else you want to say or explain or anything like that? No, I just really, I was just going to get into like getting married in what church and all that, but you know, we don't have to get into that. Well, we're not going to. It's just a lot of decision making for me. Yeah, there's certain things we want to go about, especially for like the wedding, the actual marriage. There's things that she has that, I don't know how exactly to say you'd be able to explain it better, but she wants to choose like a certain pastor, a certain church and it gets really detailed, but we'll worry about that once we're actually engaged. Besides that, is there anything else you want to say? No, but this is the final time I'm addressing the marriage question. Yeah, so if you see the ring, it's nothing. I promise you it's nothing. Unless you guys see a video saying, I propose there's something like that, then you guys can be like, okay, yeah, it makes sense now. Right now the ring, it just doesn't make any sense. When I get proposed to this ring is going to go to my thumb because I'm obsessed with rings in general, and I'm lefty, so that's why I have all my tattoos on my left arm and I have rings on my left arm because I want to see it constantly. Not only that guys, believe me, you'll know it's an engagement ring when you see it. Oh, excuse me. That doesn't mean you're going to get like a rock the size of this. No, I don't want to rock that size. I know you don't because I know you. You know my type. I know your taste. I'm telling you, I got everything down the pack. I'm telling you, I know everything, but when the time is right, I got it. All right guys, so at this point we're rambling. I think that's it for today's video. I hope you guys enjoy. No, how? I think you're getting nervous. No, I'm not. And if you guys did... You all imagine? I'll be like, what are you doing? I'll give you a napkin blue. That he's trying to eat. He thinks it's a marshmallow probably. Oh my God. Infinite fam, that is it for today's video. Quick, short, we just wanted to get that out because you guys constantly think we're engaged or whatever, but again, I feel like we're rambling. Time for today's post notification shout out. Today's post notification shout out goes out too. Pep Morgan, shout out to you. Thank you so much for having your post notifications. If you guys want to post a notification shout out, all you guys got to do is... Like, comment, share, and subscribe, and turn your post notification bells on so you know if I remember we post a new video. That is right guys, so with all that being said, we'll see you guys in the next video. Bye.