 The discussion of the day about Kujitegemaa, Kujitoma. You know I have mentioned Judy several times because she is a self dependent lady who doesn't depend on, doesn't wait for a man to give her money to go on with her life, which is the direct opposite of what most girls do today. My name is Sankaraka Esu and I am Sankaraka Esu in all social media platforms and the discussion is 30% in our social media that is Atwet54 on Twitter at SandaSco. And the question there is, mutu anezafanya ni ni, diazze aache kusumbua kukua omba omba. You know it's amusing to me because when you are omba omba and you are a very clean, beautiful girl and you are called omba omba, you are not sitting in the street actually, but you are omba omba. It's ridiculous, it's very ridiculous and I'm in this studio with ladies and today I have here ladies because it's a learning session, they say that it's good to learn when you're still there. So I'm going, these ladies are going to be my model to all ladies out there watching on how you can survive on your own. The two ladies here in the studio are Kavata and Effie and they are going to introduce themselves starting with Kavata, starting with Kavata. So Kavata you are going to tell us everything about you, you name, your real name may be a pronunciate but I also said one name, you have not said another. So everything about you, your name, your social media platform, what you do and everything. My name is Babra Kavata, I'm a student in KCA, Patekin Economics and Statistics and my social media platform. On Instagram my name is QKaomba, QUE and on Facebook it's Afrika QKaomba. What? You are not QKaomba, you are not human. Because I can see, you do? Economics and statistics. Okay, which year? I've just completed my first year. Welcome on set QKaomba. Thank you. Yes, and then you have Effie, Effie is not your first time here. Your name is and everything about you, for those who have forgotten you maybe. My name is Effie Otondo, also a student at Kisi College, Patekin Information Communication Technology, not yet specified. Social media handles. In Facebook Effie Otondo, Twitter Effie Otondo, Effie Otondo everywhere. Everywhere, you are really proud to be Otondo. Yes, I'm proud to be Otondo. I see, can you help us here when things are not going on with our computers here? I'm still learning, but what I can do? You can do. Okay, both of you are welcome here. Thank you. You look good by Brandt Young, beautiful, everything. So, I wonder why there's something called Girlfriend Allowance now in relationship. Somebody told me that if somebody is a Girlfriend, then there's a Girlfriend Allowance. That other person should be giving you every time you meet. Once you take on it, let's just start with you Effie, because you... Girlfriend Allowance. It looks like there's a person who should be giving you every time you meet. Yes, if you're a Girlfriend Allowance, then there's a Girlfriend Allowance. Yes, if you're a Girlfriend, then there's a girl. But to me, it's not a must. So, you're still a Girlfriend Allowance? Yes, I'm still a Girlfriend, because maybe I wanted to give you a job, but I didn't want to give you a job. So, I don't want to give you any support. But I want to give you support. But that Allowance, I have been in our society, like we have been in our society, we ladies, to make it clear, I should be able to pay the bill, I should be able to pay the bill. I should be able to pay the bill, I should be able to pay the bill. I love your dreams. But... How could you say that? How could you say that? I don't know what to say. Yes, but sometimes we as ladies, have you ever thought about, what if you're the one to give him a treat? We feel good when given a treat. But what if you're the person giving that guy a treat? How will the guy feel? You should revenge positively. Yes, like in Afaiku kwa, he gives, but at the same time, you should also give, because it's a love thing, to not depend on it. See be assured. Exactly. You take on this cover. Let me ask you, Babra, which name do you like between Babra and Kavata? Which one do you like most? I like Kavata, because Babra sometimes is mispronounced. When you wanna quit a barabara, give us your opinion about this girlfriend allowance thing. Okay, my take on girlfriend allowance, it's not bad to be given an allowance. A relationship is based on how to people they relate. So if you feel like it's nice for you to give me an allowance, then well and good, it's not forced. So you see, for an allowance, when you give me, it makes me like api anata person, you know, for a girlfriend, ana portrayi wengi chadi akiako. So ni kei na injeni, mi chapa. Ata fil vibaya. Yes. So I think it's an essential, but it's not a need. Oh. Yes. So, kuna sema anafakufanya ibu, tuko manufaya ake, usi chapa, usi anekana ibu, yuneni girlfriend wa George, ane chapa ibu. So it's for him. No. Ni wanyeturi anata ka, kwa ata billa the girlfriend allowance, I have to look good. Ya. Yes. Exactly. Okay. So, people have taken relationship as a career now. I know you, you guys have parents. Yes. But once you get boyfriends, you want all your problems to end with him, billa yunamek akiako, apkavata meongelia adi, atiata kana chapa kianda. Why don't you have your parents do that for you? Nili sema ata billa your allowance. I have to look good. I have my parents who can give me the money. But you see, I said, kwa manufaya ke, kwa e kuji tole mwenyewe, si eti, it's bill first. If you feel like you love me, and it's like, you wanna give me the allowance, then we're not good. Efi, kavata is sounding like, sila zima pe ane, wunye you sounded that way. Sila zima pe ane, bata ke toa, si zi mind. No. Ya. Exactly. Why don't you guys be, have integrity, kusemaza zenge, ane kiku paya pesa, I don't think I need that money. Just keep it. Aa, kunamto na kataanga pesa. No, we all need money. If you feel like giving, just give, I'll be grateful. If you see kataa pesa at some point you say, maitu, I don't think I need this, you need it more than me. Just keep it. Actually, akini paya, it means that, kuna e niya konayo, ki dogoya kuji, kuji sustain you see. Aa, obviously, atani paya something kasmoli e niya ta feel like. Aa, nimo na you need this, chukwa ego, make your hair, chukwa ego, buy something good. It's more of a toke, like going somewhere and then he sees a nice cloth. Na, ane fikiri e na mue, ah, let me buy this for her. Na ane lete, I'll be grateful. Thank you, you bought it. Ane the next time, mata mi ni ki, and I'll feel like I need to gift him because he does that all the time for me. So it's, at least I need to do it for him too. Na nu nulia na he'll be grateful. You see, that one, we are keeping the love thing. Oh, you sustain it, you are latching it. Ya, alafu, inaka tu, uniki tutu smart, uniki tutu tamu ya, uniki tutu nzuri. Kupewa perasa. Skia we, this is typical kei yazi, ladies behave. Kava tu nasakata perasa wuki ona, your boyfriend I need it more than me. Nasa say mam, just keep it. Na ekonomi, ni kata ipesa, apesa, aje. I need money. I chose this panel. They are young people. Kavata is 20, oh, Kavata is turning 20 on Monday. Today is, today is, Wednesday. So it's like in, you are still 19, you are a teenager. Na wami penda perasa. Fee is 21 and I know you turn 21 just recently. Ya. So these are just more of a teenager. Na wami penda perasa. Like, wami yu wa kwa lazima wa pera perasa. Do you think this is a problem with Kenyan girls? Okay. Kupewa perasa, see lazima. You can work to get your own money. But if somebody feels like akanasa plus money pa tia, then we're done good. Niposa wa open arms. If you see that, she needs money mother. Okay, let me give you my childhood story. Childhood. I was born when there was non-doodies. Doodies came just recently, around 5, 6 years ago. People used to ride by school. Ya, ya, so people would carry their girlfriends on those bikes. But you know those bikes don't have engines. So that guy uses his technology to climb even the mountain. So, a girl who's visiting at his back is riding. Kuna tuka muleima wepia una tuja ma na pandan muleima na choka. Una mulisa ni shukia na mi ya, wepa tu nia jue weni ma na ume jue, yae ni ma na ume ujue yaa ko strong. Si ba do tuwa na ride adia me choka me choka, ba do ume katu. Si na za tu mi ya kili, tu mi ya kili ujue tuja ma, we insist to wacha tu ni shukia tu tembe kidoga pa ni muleima. It also happens with money. You see somebody is really struggling. Struggling to make money kusababu, is struggle si ya ma na ume peke ya kutia una struggle. Si mutua na is a struggle, wone ujue ya ma na struggle, akupe pesa tu yo ya kusema, I want to give my boyfriend's money because I love her. But wone una struggle umuwachi umuwami. Ya, asante, just keep this please, you can you do that. Ya, that's understandable. As in, as in, ni kitu ene, si ni kitu untaona. E wunana na struggle kuhu give you that money. And maybe you guys are well off queen. If kasi si tu ko well off na e munya na struggle, e ondopati ene ata mimi I'll be willing to help. You see, like if my parents, my parents can offer to give me an amount, I can support him to start the business. You see, but asa kitu, lemi say kitu asana maybe to know gopa, ata the men, I'm sure one know gopa, like, you can start a business for someone like the man. And then things kata and as a business grow, maybe at some point yungu ketena, ni wewetena umu support to grow. Asa, grow I'm a change lifestyle. Ehe, anapigaluku. Alafu apuwache. Ehe, ananda kuna watoa klasi ake. And then anapuwacha apu, you see. I don't know wutati kusapotu witu. No, actually me neza support. But uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Uko na iu woga. Nneza toambia to kavaata the same question nizaw na mdu na strago na kupi pesa umrudu siya. Ok, yes. Nneza mtsidia. But, you know, asa ntia punda ni matia kenawadez nizaka kusidia leo kesho niya nika ma misimtu. But if you're on a town that's nika ma it's a life-time thing kia second support you. A relationship is a two-way thing. You give me, I give you, you know. Kitu ni meku leza. Niku petaw sayi. One, I need that thumb other ni urudu siya. Can you do it? Niki ono ni itaji sana na mimi niko on a point that niko tu sawa. I can say unizatu miya kumaitaji ako because right now I'm ok. Ok, let me go back, leave boyfriend, girlfriend, think you don't go to and they kwa ma parents. Yes. Na juo at your age, ni ni past 18 years old. Nalabda kuna angina ni maenwa na itaji imu saada sana. Don't you think it reaches a point that mechoshia atawa zazi kwa omba omba, nitu kwa mzazi all the time na taka peace, na taka notion, na taka what else do you need, girls need ideas imu na yaka kwa makitmanini na taka make up, na taka uchoshia mzazi mzazi ase me. I wanna boyfriend kitu kama, I know your mum can't say that but do you think zazi pia na zachoka kwa zetuna yaka wata? Ok, for me I think wana choka because besides taking care of the children kwa kana pia maisha yao kwa kana vitu investment zawa na fanya and they need that money but you know when I don't ask like for my mum the money ataka kwa like na wiya na toa pipesa ehh oh ehh iyon ni ingin na ya ya ya ya they suspect kuna kitu inanda kwa wiya na toa pipesa ehh hehehe wiya na toa pipesa so sunona ataka kupatia but sikila time unashinda weimutisha pesa ataka shanga ataka wuyuna yae anijali ehh na kana mdogo ake hehehe that's interesting but I had not thought it towards that direction but sosa ni meju wa kwa was tiana pia wana wamba kuku block suspicions na pdaka kutuna wana pia wana boyfriend hehehe that's what I hope for today if you do think about this yaa na support kava ata kus sayata like mums by the way mums are very wana kwa nga worried kwanza for the girls ata ata the dads like umu kuja nyu banyu kwa nango ingi na ya bei yaa ili uli kuna sema luku eh ili luku na kwa like umu titu anguskuizi na apuji kuni wamba pesa but pia uta ikuna witu kakredits kuna point utu uto gopataku wombamsa zi isi liya kilasa mami kreditsina mami pisa mafuta zi nasi jinini but mza zi nim tu ata juwam titu angu wana like ah ii me pita ata nim nunu liya a na kujua ii me ii a na kujua ata kuna time umekosa bata sa wezi muambia bata yae ata kwangali atu na hajuwe wuna na kulete bata ya tiki la time anki mami anki dadia yae una kujua na ikuna po ah ii ii na fanyika most of the time because you know the girls are now balancing balancing between kwaomba parent ama kwaomba boyfriend boyfriend kwaomba parent ama kwaomba boyfriend but at this the only options because underline ni kwaomba regardless wuna omba kwa nanu so this what's bring us to our main point of today other things that girls can do wa tiki kwaomba other things but before we go to that there's this thing called peer pressure kwaume ona mtu ame va kuna wile mtu ame va so wepi wuna taka kwaivo so wuna nda wuki peana pressure tuwazena ii me ii kufa nikia maali labda roommate labda classmate labda friend to waka life ingine so wepi wuna taka kwaivo and not with your money with somebody's salesman orijokwanza if you like the peer pressure is real I can say that let's say when you get to Instagram you say ehh ato ame ngaro bingaluk and you're like and why not me when you can do that so you be like in a place that you want to do it but one thing you should have in mind is that you should learn to live by your own means yes cut your coat of clothing to your size ii presai jwa kupandagifi no actually ni tu ni ni kuji ni seime kuji control ama hiya kitu kaiyo like ukiana kitu umzuri and you know that actually for now maybe niki nda level ingine like now i mean school ii pesa kidoga na tumiwa is the rent is my mail is my everything see by the time da kwa na takangua e lufta to da kwa na jidanganya yo sasa ni like niki nda ku niki taka obviously uta ni uta ni bia ti nda ku amzazi ii uta ni bidi ni tafute another means ya ku i find so for me not to not to do that i have to ni ni alazi ma ni jue so i control myself like ah niya we badosi jafikon niki dogo tu ni konayo achani manage still siparari still na kavizuri na nisa wa tu atwezi toka apa before to onga e dem kitu ina sumbo wana ume sasa kuliko kila kitu say ima mena kukula fair kukula fair asana kabutu epe kukula fair why do you tisha fair in the first place suende tunna fair ya ku kama nanda kumitu na wana wana e tisha fair sa zingine hauna oh ya like sa zingine hauna uta mambe ni tu mi efe but kawukonayo unanda tu na iyo fair ya kuna hafa iku e refund like if you have it na you miss someone you need to go see someone it's ok for me kutumi efe ya yango na eza kuja amata iku yata surprise na eza kuja kukubizeta sa surprise sila zi mu wutumi efe surprise pia ni po asana ko wana ume surprise danger as ko wana ume atupendi surprises wana ume ah zitu pastu na kwa na plaza kuku plan kuku planu kikuja ni kutreat vizuri labda ume ni piga surprise nasi na bilenta kufidu kikuja so surprise waschana surprise kwa ni kuna iyo pesa na eza kuja iyo surprise still ni 12 the amount tender to buy the food ataka ni the treat we do we can cook and eat and maybe after we go for a walk it's ok na eza tumi efe sa ako siyanda kuji tege meya I'm not sure whether you're in a relationship because you're a teenager but na eza henda nafe ya yango ok yes na eza henda nafe ya yango kozai not see how one of standards na eza tumi efe ya ke because you can be talking here but acting different is a kind of na ya na danga ya apu kwa ni kote wa ki ora na danga ya asku danga ii but if it's you know a woman of standards na eza henda nafe ya ke but you know if you wanna see me so much but it's not practical na jwa na eza na practical kusababu kama ume na tumi ewa na ume na kula laik uli ku kuji e alaf ni me kutumi efe ya alafu na then the most annoying thing kenya ni me suma kwa yo Wally Estunji Men Association na kwa nga kwa thanks ni me pata na jitarisha ni me kuji niko kwanji ni me kuji niko karibu kufika na jwa eza ni kwa alafu lastly aki mama me kata na uli kuwa kwanji ya uli kuwa kwanji aksa mama me kupia ni kwanji ya ama history mama me metoka kwanji na jwa labda ni ni muku life you're still so young for kukuna fe me I can say it's practical kus I had a friend actually ume na ume this guy ukuna dei to like the girlfriend na me kuji akum tembele na na mama na nafe na kuruidi kuruidi lakali kuwa kwanji na na luki luske kitu na saema lakali kuja kum tembele ya akumambia lakana feel wende wa tembe katikatia ya the other weekend and then the guy was like sayi I'm unstable sayi sinata pesaya sisi kuenda ku travel somewhere and then the lady was like nana liku wamba pesaya ko ya the lady was like nana naku wamba pesaya ko because the lady is working the man mostly ame ame mostly na fanyanga maybe mjenga ama kazi zamukono ama guza struggle and the lady akuna salon na already akuna customers na na jwa padei kuna kitu obviously ana make so you see that is one in a million exactly ya we are also one in millions but that time tete wa stya na eni wana kula fea tuki manizatu apu na manizia apu wey mbona wa stya na wana kula fea nyi indium na representu wa stya na wahi republic but they are known for that mbona okay personalist jeku la fea wow we should clap for you you are known for never ever eating fea mwengina na I think wutua keza kula fea yako, niku sababu piha kwaishimu Anakwa natu wa nemutu iwi It's not a good habit either way Kukula fea ntabi ambaya gals Msu kule fea Including the name behind that camera Mambaya kula fea ishikabesa Msu kule fea Get your money Msu kule pesaya watu Mji wana tumia jashogaini kuta wata yo pesa People are struggling out here Msu kule pesaya watu Very nice If you are itching to say something If you are itching to say something I hope you understand what I'm saying Ok, kukula fea ntabi ambaya Ya gals is true, kukula fea ntabi ambaya But Kuna batu piya? Kukuna watu wana sumbuwa Like they are guys They are guys very stubborn Kukama uiwa kwa na pesa ina sumbuwa Actually, amasu jinta semata They are guys wana sumbuwa Niku tumia fea ukuje Niku tumia fea Mtu kawu uiwa kutamambia Nini tuma Na ufuliza na ufuliza ikatena Koseku reverse But it's bad Nibaya kukula Hasling is difficult Kuna walo wana chomu wana jua Sana wakifanya Kwanza watu nyu wana wuza Kwa barabara, kwa street VJS Na izo zingine Hasling ningu mu Kitu fea na sayama She's talking from both sides Kama na stragu lo si kula Nibaya kukula But kama kuna wana sumbuwa Siji pesa size gani na sumbuwa Ani kutumi aniku kutumi Kuna dida Kuna dida Kuna dida Iapisa yape na sumbuwa Nada sumbu wa Tama tansibuwa Kama tansibuwa Dili watia kwa tansibuwa Ailafu kuna mtu Apama Itwa seviya mulata Seviya haa, bila Mama sayama Tama kwa tansibuwa Kindunist Square Sh걸 forces back.More importantly we pray for them in what need to be done. Den quickly you're giving is enough. Yes, it will boost the amount for you. You get those money Jedom pulp. Isu sa mtu aizikowa, polenii watuamjengo lakini natiki ni watu mi e Like mtu aizikowa anenda amjengo Yada kutia like 300 in a day maybe Eh 300 anda fui ikuiau kwa eka the end of the month al-i-parent This 300 diwa atu mi e kuku provide ia So you should know the guy we all know the guys that we are dating So kama ba do stability aki kwa chi na ana struggle kuku... Katwukupia? Suntzwa ni kwa kupia? Uppri forces gauvo ame kupia Tata kwa mwa Lishi F.E. wa kama wajahat na nakaweko Now let's get to what the main question of today. Nm kwa kampo, muna wana bile watu wana struggle wangi na wana struggle kwa make the own man. Can you count what wana fanya campus, especially madam, to keep up their own life without begging man? Okay, personally for me in our school in KCA the school has like supporting, hey, it supports the children there. They are still there. I know you are a child and you did it like so, but you are almost getting out of teens. So just go. So the school management supports the students there whereby if you are not well off you get to do like projects in school like cleaning the school and the school pays you. You see with that you get to get some money to to sustain you. Yes, and also around school I've been seeing people selling sweets, selling chocolates, they're trying to hustle. You know in school there are so many people and there's a place we call the children. People chill there. They study over there before the lecture session. You see when you go around each table and say, hi, can you buy for me blah blah blah. People get to buy your stuff and you get some good money. And that good money sustains you. You also get another stock over and over. Una pacha pesa. So still as you remember there are things you can do, things people can do. Yes. List your experience with Kishi University, the post KCF. Actually, most ladies, we don't know if they are blended juice, they come on us, they are fellow students and then at the end of the day we are going to do it. Like if you want to buy something, you go and sell it for students. But the students don't like, they like looking good. So I'm going to say that everyone likes looking good. Una nuna mango, you go and sell, then the profit is yours. You can take another, then kidogo, kidogo maybe una patanga ane zali paka kibanda na eke mango. Zaka eni mtu ana enda shule. What actually most of the people ni moana wakuna boutik, suna pata mtu wakuna boutik. Like on weekends, kama pese lingia vizuri on that week, iyo wiki, anakuja kuchu kwa stocking in Nairobi then on Monday ni mtu kwa classes zaka vizuri and then ana zandi kwa dimtu. Una nana. Iya, like alianza tu na mi tumba, poli poli poli poli poli na mi fika stage ni sasa, akuna boutik. It's ni nizuri. Napia smokey zpene kwa biya shara ingine students wana fanya suna. Kusas smokey zpene, maia isa mosa. Bajia, iya tu kujisapot, it's... Sinuna kuna kazi zi yamba watu ana zafanya shule. But is it that people are lazy because very few of you do that? Like Kisi, she was... What church is ana wana fanya is waka zi? Maybe it's the capital. Capital, iya kwa nzisha. But maybe it's the amount. It's the balance time. Yeah, yeah, okay. What do you think of that? I think many people don't do that because when the capital for starting and also what we're giving them will be like I want to turn you on agi. One thing I shall say usi feel ashamed of your household. Ataka manini. It's a lady friend of mine, kuna church. She proudly studies herself as a mortician. Not what morticians do, people working in the mochet. Hini has only agi. To kwa pamoja evi. My name is so-and-so. I am a mortician. I work on dead people. She's proud cause And I'm a man like me. It's my duty. I know what I'm doing is I'm making apanajuliza for my child, she's on agi. So it's agi. But what I'm doing is I'm getting money and my name is on agi from what I become a man from what I'm feelin', the feeling of doing things with your own money. kwa kwa onmani yaa, aja kuhipeya treat with your friends nani pesayako it's a good feeling I want to challenge you guys is there a way starting with Yuka Wata that you have ever earned your own money at this age oh yes People who know me they know that I have like an online marketing for like clothes household items You are another just online seller like the big companies we have I'm not big, I'm still growing, I'm still trying to get an audience I'm saying you are like them, you have your own platform for selling We should host you for an entrepreneurship Tuesday one time, you tell us how you do it But you make your own money up to now Yes, I make some small cash How much like per month Okay it depends when corona strikes it was a little bit hard Cause people could say atuna pesa How much were you making before corona? I would make like in 11,000 and it was some good money for me Per month Like a week I could sell And I used to deliver in town You see, so here you seem to be to me unfair Come on, 11,000 in a week That's nice, that's good of you Have you ever earned your money Like not your boyfriends, not your mom's money Money earned from your own sweat Yeah What did you do? Actually we were two Tulians and our friend because the capital was Kedogo Tuliko atuna uza bajia iso chipona smokis Ilu kwa ina an visori Kwa mta ama shule? Mta tu Apa tu mta But shule, bados isa pata datka standing But niki pata, stay seated kufanya Cause already I did it, nana jua venye ineza ran You can't get out of it Nana jua kitu neza pata So nili it was a good business But so sayoku So you see you are all models At the age of 19 and 21 These girls have done something Kuna mstia na piya ko apu, ako anha 30s Na bado tu ne to mia saya Bado tu nia Ukotuna haki wo hiye haki wo hiye kwa text Ki wo hiye nifanya You know that it think it's a noise Cause if these girls, girls at this age can do Infact this is one of the reasons why I heard them I heard them all said Because they can do something with their lives Nasi it kitumbaya, vitumzuri, biasa, biasara Clean na, very clean It really, it really encourages But isi pesa me tumiyaku Treatum tu You tell me you know somebody You use this money to treat somebody Yes I can use my money to treat someone And I have Yes Yes Like my girls we go for girls Oh even girls I'm talking about a man A boy child Okay Milacha ku treat someone Milacha ku treat yama Uliyacha Nitaanza Oh utanza Nitaanza See me you don't have a lot of experiences Because Labda U treat umtu wa ku break Vilefia li kuwana sayama See that's why I stopped treating them Cause Nikawa treats We broke up I got another one Ah Did somebody always do that to you Hai See we break up and we move on Koni ni kesho You know my biggest surprise Is that she is 19 Oh you are not yet 19 You should be turning 19 I am turning 20 Oh you are turning 20 You are a teenager But already there is some heartbreak It's 21st century Oh so I should not be living Like when it was my time Because I should behave my third flow I should not treat my third flow As your second flow Cause you guys are not second flow of life Every you are talking about that treatment You think that has money to treat somebody I never did You don't do that I never did Can you do please Ya I can Oh Ya for me I can You are the person who told us that You can do that to somebody And then it turns out when They do that That's what you don't like What somebody did to converter The thing is that the moment you choose to love The moment you choose Kuengia in a relationship You expecting How Jim tachana sangapi Lini What so At this time that you are together You just share the romance Everything The being together Ataka one day Me achana there will be memories As in we should just learn to move on Actually I'll take that as your parting shot Is that your parting shot Do you have anything else to say Pating shot tu na maliza Kitu na zambia Especially madam Your age around your age set Before I say something about Our age to Kitu ni I as in I also think that mums Wana kuangarol models to their girls The moment you are a mom And then Mito toa me groku wana The way you hustle and you struggle And evo evo evo Your daughter Hatapenda kuenda against it Hatapata your energy If my mom Did it Like maybe una pata A long time was as in Mostly utapata Mza zata kumbe Ata nili fika kilaze it ni kata Ata nili fika suji kilaze Ni kata And say If you look at your mom She's something She's something you can be Proud of and tell people That's my mom Yes So mums are role models So mums we should Salute Yeah And jiaze tu piya lazima toa Thank you Thank you for diverting it Just talk to mums Umere onga na mums Wacha eku evo akabata onga na Na waschana Your parting shot I can tell the girls Kujitome Kujitome is nice When you get your own money You'll feel better Than being Given money by people Kuomba Once ni mizuri Laki ni kuomba womba ni baia So jitome too Kus you'll earn a lot of respect to that People will be saying Hey that girl Yeah That one So what was jitome? What was jitome? Yes Kavata amesema If you amesema Salute the mums Let's give them respect And if you are a mom Out there Be a good example to your daughter So that they can be following you I'm proud of these two young girls Because they are doing something in their life They are not onbaomba I may be annoying to somebody Out there For calling you onbaomba Because you live on hand Literally from your parents And your boyfriends When you are of age you can make your own money So you should treat it positively As I wake up call that Going forward You should do something with your life That has been When the morning And the topic has been Kujitoma ku jiteter So I think going forward Nanda ku jiteter