 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc Survival Live video, and this one we're going to be talking about when the narcissist knows they can't play you anymore, because for a certain amount of time they felt like they could play you, they felt like they could pull the wool over your eyes, and see them in a certain way, and believe certain things about them, certain things that they wanted or desired from you, as though they wanted a relationship, a future, maybe marriage or children with you, yeah they made you believe that in the beginning, but that's not what they were really about, they played you, you were for recreational use, for their own amusement and enjoyment, and yes they found pleasure and gratification in that, it made them feel good at your expense, they manipulated you, they used you, they exploited you, for their own selfish interests and needs, and they didn't consider you, they didn't consider your feelings, they didn't consider your needs, it was just all about them, they played you, but at some point you begin to realize that this is not right, this was not what you wanted, you desired something more, you begin to realize your worth, you begin to realize that you are not just someone's little toy, someone's little play thing, that they could just come around and play with whenever they feel like it, you begin to realize that you deserve more, you deserve respect, you deserve so much more than that, yeah that's what you begin to realize, and when you realize that, that is when they know they can't play you anymore, because everything you had with them, it was fake, it wasn't even real, they strung you along, making you believe in this possible future with them, but they were never about that, they were just using you for their narcissistic supply, and even then it still wasn't fulfilling them, they had other sources on the side, and it's because they can't find satisfaction in one person, it's never enough for them, they have a void that can never be filled, and that is how you know that even though it may look like they're moving on, and they found someone else, and they're going to be so much happier without you, it's just a mirage, it's an illusion, they're just deceiving you again, because that is never going to happen, it's never going to be a reality, not just with you but with anyone else who comes after you, they're never going to have that with anyone, and it's because they have a void that can never be fulfilled, they have a false character which they use to manipulate you, and that character cannot generate its own power or energy from within, that's why they had to exploit you, and that is how you know that they are never going to find satisfaction in anyone or anything, they're never going to be happy, but they remember what you wanted, what you desired from them, yes you desired love, you desired a future, maybe relationship, maybe kids, marriage, you desired those things from the narcissist, and they knew that they couldn't give you that, they felt bad about it, but they didn't feel bad for you, it just made them feel like they're a bad person, and then they go off, and it looks like they were to prove to you that they can have that with someone else, when in actuality they are just trying to prove that to themselves, they're trying to prove to themselves that they are not immoral or corrupt, that they are not these broken people who cannot experience love or a connection with anyone, yes that's what they're trying to prove to themselves because the whole point of this disorder is to show that they can be normal, and that they can have something for real, just like anyone else, and in fact not only that, but they can have something better than anyone else, and that's just a comment here for the fact that they know deep down that they can't have anything at all, they can't have anything normal, they can't have anything real, and yes they go around and they blame everyone else, but the truth is it's because of them, it's because of who they are and how they created this false character which they use to manipulate people, and they can't just be real, they can't be authentic, they can't be in the moment, and that is why they could never love you, they could never give you what you wanted, what you deserved, you could never have that from them, but don't worry, we don't think that they can just move on and have that with someone else, they can't, they're never going to have that with anyone, and you should know that by what they had with you, by what you had with them, all they could do is trick you, manipulate you, exploit you, that was all they had to give, they never cared about you, if they did, where are they now, why aren't they still there with you, and that is how you know they're never going to care about anyone else, even after you're gone, even after they've left you, and it looks like that they have moved on, they haven't, it isn't real, it is just an illusion, this is just what happens when they know they can't play you anymore, what else can they do, of course they know they have to move on, when they can't put the world of the rise, when you're no longer susceptible to their manipulation, at that point they have no other choice but to find someone else, because they know you're no longer willing to be their fool anymore, so then they have to move on and find someone who they deem to be a bigger fool, someone who they think is going to be their doormat, someone who when they say jump, they will say how high, which is what you were to them at some point, but now you've begun to catch on to figure things out, to realise that it is all a lie, to realise that there is nothing there but a void and all it does is suck the life out of you, it just makes you miserable and it elevates them at your expense, but you've had enough of it and that is why you're watching my videos, because you realise that you deserve so much more than that, you don't deserve to be treated like a fool anymore, because you're wiser now, you're more knowledgeable, you're not as naive as you were in the beginning, but in the beginning yes you were naive and that is how they manipulated you, if you were aware of what was going on, they wouldn't have been able to do that, so you see what they do is they pray on our innocence, that's what they do when they come around innocent people, they pray on them, they exploit them, that's how you know they're not going to have anything with anyone, all that's going to happen is they're going to be surrounded by other fake people just like them, people who are contaminated, foul, depraved, corrupt, because those are the only people who are going to tolerate and accept them, just like ourselves, yes we were innocent, we were naive, but we were also real and authentic, once we began to figure them out we wanted nothing to do with them, and that's going to be the same for anyone else who they encounter in the future, anyone else who is real and authentic, anyone else who can generate their own power and energy from within, anyone else like that is not going to want to be around them, which means that they're not going to be able to get their narcissistic supply in the way that they might like, they're not going to be able to extract that power and energy because all that's going to happen is they're going to be surrounded by other fake people like themselves, because anytime that they're around anyone who is innocent or naive, what do they do? They go straight to manipulating and exploiting them, and that's why they're always so miserable, from the point when you begin to catch on and they begin to devalue you, that's when you see who they are beneath the mask, they turn against you, they get very angry, they become very miserable, because they're struggling to extract that power and energy from you, so then they've got to turn against you, they've got to intimidate and coerce you in order to get that out of you, because they can't experience a genuine connection with you, once you begin to catch on and you begin to realise who they really are, beneath the false character, beneath the illusion, and that's how it's going to be for anyone else who they get involved with, it's always going to be the same, it's never going to be any different, whenever they come around something real, all they're ever going to do is try to manipulate it to their liking, to where they can use and exploit it, and other than that all they're going to encounter is other fake people like themselves, people who will reflect back to them how they want to be seen and how they want to feel about themselves, people who validate the false character and support the illusion, as the narcissist does that for them in return for themselves, and that's just how it's ever going to be for them, it's never going to be any different than that, and I guess that is their karma for what they did to you, and not only for what they did to you, but for what they did to everyone before you, that's the price that they have to pay, eternal misery, because they are never going to be happy, they have the chance to have that with you, and what did they do? They ruined it, they messed it up. When you encounter someone who is innocent, someone who is authentic, you should not try to destroy that, instead you should encourage and support it by recognising the fact that it is empowering you, it's giving you what you want, the energy that you are looking for, but this is what narcissists do, they destroy it, and the reason why is because they're very greedy and insatiable, they have a void that can never be felt, so even though they may encounter something that may be good for them, they misuse it, they destroy it, because no matter what they can never get enough, so they end up ruining it, it's either that or like with us we turn against them, because they turn against us, they devalue us, and then we begin to catch on and figure out who they really are, and then we can no longer be around them and they can no longer be around us, because when they had their chance they blew it, they used us, they exploited us, they abused us, and that's just what happens when they come around anyone who is innocent, real, authentic, powerful, in the end all they do is destroy it, when it could have been something good for them, but then it could not because they have a void that can never be filled, they're insatiable, they can never be satisfied, so when the narcissist knows they can't plague you anymore, they just go and they use the force character on someone else, or they surround themselves by other fake people, other sources of supply, other narcissists, they're enablers of flying monkeys to support this false narrative, and this alternate reality where they can exist as their false character, and that's just how it has to be for them, for the rest of their lives they have to be fake, they have to be meditative, they can't experience anything real, so all you need to know is that you dodged a bullet, you're lucky that you got out because otherwise that would have been your fate, that's all that it would have been for you, you would have had to have gone along with the illusion, you never would have had anything real with them that wouldn't have been any love, a connection, nothing, you never would have had that with them, it would only ever have been manipulation and deception, where you would have had to have validated the false character and the illusion, so don't worry about it, yes they played you, but at the same time they also played themselves, they ruined it for themselves, because when you look at it as the powerful, authentic and real person that you are, and while you may have been quite innocent and naive, they think they got one over on you, they actually missed out on so much more that you could have become and that you could have provided to them, yes they missed out on that, they thought they got one over on you, but you had so much more to give, you had so much more to show them and they missed out on all of that, things that they will never get to see, things that they will never get to have from you, because you had so much potential to be so much more and it's in your empathic nature, I mean of course you would have given that to them, you gave them so much already, if you had more you would have given that too, but because of their greed, their selfishness, because they're insatiable, because they're so impulsive and reckless, they will never get to see that, the world will never get to see that, and so they missed out, they didn't get that from you, and all they can do is just go off with their false character and they may never find anything like that again, and that's just as good as it gets for them, they can never be satisfied, they're never going to be happy, and that's just how it has to be, they made that choice, that's what they wanted, now they have to deal with the consequences, the effects of that choice, and let them do that, don't try to show them that they got it wrong, let them deal with the consequences of their decision, while you, you return to yourself, continue working on yourself, becoming wiser and more knowledgeable, give your attention and focus to a higher power, do good deeds, help people, but also don't allow yourself to be exploited again, protect yourself, preserve your energy for those who can receive it, those who deserve it, but yes, this is what happens when they know that they can't play you anymore, it doesn't get better for them, it's unlikely they will ever find anyone else like you, anyone else who is so loving, so caring, so giving, and even when they find that, if they ever do find anything like that again, you already know what they're going to do, they're going to destroy it, just like what they did with you, they took it for granted, they didn't appreciate it, but you need to recognize your worth and you need to appreciate yourself, realize that you are deserving of so much more, you deserve love, you deserve respect, you deserve someone who will be as loyal and devoted to you as you were to them, someone who can reciprocate that 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