 How to make the narcissist miss you after discard. You may want the narcissist to miss you. You may want them to realize that they lost something valuable. You may want them to know that they will never find someone as good as you again and there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with wanting them to miss you. To make the narcissist miss you, you need to stop discussing the issues and problems you had with them. Stop arguing. Stop fighting. Stop giving them a reaction. Stop telling them that you disagree with them because when you're doing that, you're telling them that it's still important to you. You're showing them that you care. So don't even try to prove your point. Let them have the last word because they want you to keep fighting. They want you to feed into it. They want you to feel the flame but when you don't, they're very confused. It tells them that you're unbothered. It makes them wonder what else you're doing. They will assume that you're involved in something that's more important to you. As though something has taken your attention away from them, don't talk about the relationship with any mutual friends or family members. You should only confide in people who you can trust. Don't talk about it on social media. Don't mention anything about narcissists or toxic people because they may be stalking your social media and you don't want them to know that the discarders have any negative effect on you. If you do this correctly, they won't have any information about how you feel. As far as they know, you don't even care so there's no supply. There's nothing to make them feel better about themselves but this shouldn't be an act. It shouldn't be something you're doing just to make them miss you. You may need to process the emotions following the discard but you should also make time to enjoy your life. To do things that you like to do and then you can post it on social media. You can show the narcissist how much fun you're having without them. You can show them that you're not just sitting at home crying about them. You can take pictures with other people. To show them you're not alone but you shouldn't spend all of your time trying to make the narcissist miss you. You should stop communicating with them. You should block them and move on and by doing that it will actually make them miss you even more. It will make them want you back. They will hoover you but you shouldn't respond to their hoover attempts because they might just come back to punish you. They might come back to get revenge. They don't love you. They're just using you to self-medicate and relieve their stress. They're just using you to feed their ego and they're only coming back to you because they couldn't find someone else. You're just an option to the narcissist. You're not anything of significance. There's no sentimental value. They're just bored and lonely. They don't want to be alone. They miss provoking you. They miss irritating you. They miss making you miserable which is why you need to cut them off. You need to remove them from your life. You need to focus on yourself. You need to go no contact and when you do that the narcissist will miss you. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching inquiries. You can email me at coachingatnarksurvivor.co.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.