 Okay, B says, I have good relationship skills. My guy is wonderful, but lacks those skills and his life is in chaos. He backed away, he's reading your book and another one. Any chance he'll learn? Great question. So, I think back to my journey. It's interesting, I was, well, let me, I'll share my journey in a second, but I was in the jacuzzi earlier today with a reformed sex addict. Okay, this is a man who was a sex addict and he belongs to that organization, Sexoholics Anonymous, I forget what it's called. But what was interesting when he shared his journey with me, he literally had to literally lose everything, to lose everything before he had an opportunity to look inward, he had to lose everything. Folks, when I wrote my book, what the heck is self love anyway? Even though this book was inspired by the loss of my son, even though the book was inspired by the loss of my son. And what I mean by, when Connor passed away, it broke my heart open. It allowed me to look inward and say, what really matters in my life and what's most important is the relationship with myself. When I look back and connected the dots, I'll be candid with you. When I graduate, my parents raised me with a philosophy of go to college, get a job, meet a girl, get married, buy a house, start a family. That was my programming and I followed it to a T. In fact, I reached a level of making a quarter million dollars a year professionally and I had a net worth of a couple million dollars. So I was certainly in the, what could be considered rich category, okay? Until I lost my quarter million dollar a year job and I got wiped out in the market crash of 2008. And all of a sudden my entire identity was shot. And I went down the rabbit hole of deep despair. In fact, I was strung out on drugs and alcohol as my way of coping. And it wasn't until the movie, I saw the movie, The Secret, that I go, wait a minute, this feels familiar to me. And what's interesting is before I got married, I started, I read the book by Louise Hay called, You Can Heal Your Life, You Can Heal Your Life. This was back when personal development, where spiritual work was called metaphysics, metaphysics. And I briefly started to get down that path until I met my, then my wife, and then I abandoned my spiritual practice. Now, I don't mean religious practice, I mean spiritual practice, that practice of getting to know who I am as a person. And while my life was dysfunctional, I watched the movie, The Secret. I started to listen into Abraham Hicks and Wayne Dyer and Marianne Williamson and Tony Robbins, just to name a few. And then as things even progressively got worse, I decided to do the Hoffman process and insight seminars. And as I connected the dots, I recognized that all that work was beginning to prepare me for what was even a more tragic event in my life, which was the loss of my son. And what I recognize now is personal development, self-help and spiritual work is a vaccination to emotional chaos. It's a vaccination, it's a shot of love for yourself. Self-love is the true journey. It's not about whether or not you get a guy in your life, what's more important is you find the relationship within yourself. And you can look at, look at, I know it's the missing pieces sucks, but thankfully we can masturbate. So at least that kind of gives us half of the picture. But what I mean is having physical intimacy with someone. But what's most important is you, what do you wanna have sex with the wrong person over and over and over again? Or do you wanna be the right person and find the partner who's also emotionally healthy so you can go down that path of a juicy, delicious relationship together? So my invitation for everyone is to do the personal development work. And what was the original question? Does he have a chance? Look at my journey took a decade. By the way, Allison Armstrong calls it the tunnel, the tunnel. Listen, it takes sometimes a decade or two to really get to a good place in one's life. But certainly a couple of good years of personal development, self-help spiritual work is a great way to get started. So do you have a chance? Always do you have a chance? But it requires wanting to do the work. By the way, it's not just reading my book. I really recommend therapy, recommend workshops and trainings and that sort of thing. That would accelerate the process than just reading a book. So B, thank you so much for your question. I really appreciate it. All right.