 My issue is I'm 35. All right My issue You're saying you're absolutely correct, but my issue is a Lot of you men do not hold each other accountable. Just like I know a lot of them ma'am ma'am Is this are you about to ask me to have some balance? No, I'm not asking you that Many have been held accountable men get held accountable for our actions Since me at the dawn of time You're right. So please get on to the real issue That's my real issue though, like I feel like why who holds women accountable Man No, no, because if men help women accountable and you listen men wouldn't be having to grab single planes they have Are you right? But I know I know I know. Okay. Let me ask. So here's a question What do men? What do men say they want a woman's weight to be they say they want them to be overweight in shape or fit What I agree with all that. I think that we should all be in shape No, I said what did no no no no no no you want to put it in the genders men want women who are fit But yet in our community 80% of the women are overweight and 80% of that are obese No one holds women accountable for their weight Women got children out of wetlock Ma'am, that's a fact that you cannot get around How many women on this show tonight have been 200 plus pounds Okay, but what man So who's holding women accountable? I'm sorry, but who is going to get liposuction. Who's no no no what the french toast liposuction It's called push away from the table drink while to eat vegetables and exercise like a No, man, it's called exercise. It is called exercise Yeah, absolutely. See what I mean? See what I mean? See what I mean? She said I said who's on the whole women accountable and she Well, who's gonna go get liposuction wouldn't need liposuction if you didn't allow yourself to get 200 some odd pounds Holding you accountable exactly I agree with everything that you're saying Kevin, but I think that men should You guys are the leaders. You guys are the ones that where's your husband? I don't have one then who's leading you I'm leading myself right then. Okay. Listen if we're the leaders tell me the man in your life that you're following I'm following my style. Exactly like most women today. No one's leading and you say we're the leaders You're only listen. No, listen No, no, no, no, no, no, you're not gonna talk over me Because I'm leading this show You women come in here talking about men are the leaders and you're not under anybody's goddamn leadership Now ma'am, you can unmute yourself, but you will not talk over me Sorry, my phone is dying No, I muted you because you were talking over me and that is unacceptable Absolutely men are the leaders But how can a man lead if women are not following? Can I speak? Yes, you said you're not married. I said, who's leading you? You said you're leading yourself Yes You're right because I I mean you're right on saying The reason why I'm leading myself is because honestly, let's be honest Most of Us are leading ourselves. Like we're leading our um You have any children? Yes, how many I have one Boy or girl I have a boy God bless So you thank you. Absolutely. No, no, sorry. I mean so you think a woman Who's not under the leadership of any man? Is capable and qualified of leading a boy into masculine manhood No, I absolutely think it's a hard job Absolutely. No, I asked you is it okay? And the reason so many So many of our boys are so soft today is because so many women are like yourself Not under anyone's leadership. Why didn't you marry his father? But do you think that that why didn't you marry this father? Yes. Yes. It's your yes. It's your problem Yep, it's your problem. No, it's my problem. Why didn't you marry his father? um I didn't marry his father Okay, I'm gonna be honest. That was my decision. I was younger At that time and that's that's still not um, why didn't you marry his father? I didn't want him But you had a baby with him See what I had an abortion the first time. I don't give it. No, no, man. No, no, no, no, listen No, I know this is the problem. See You're a woman outside of anybody's leadership You didn't marry your father. You married me. You had a baby for before you had a wedding. That's already a problem Then he he wanted to marry you. You didn't want to marry him And then you're trying to raise a boy and then you're gonna question why men are what they are Because you ladies women like you make the very men you complain about Absolutely So so don't ask me about why men aren't holding men accountable when they when this all starts with women like you Absolutely I allowed it. I absolutely agree with that. But your question came in man. I'm asking why don't men do something And men can't do anything with unruly women I I don't feel like I'm unruly though. I feel like you're not under anybody's leadership You're not married my decision though. Is that my say I asked you why you did not marry his father You said you did not want to That's your decision I listened very well, but you decided to do something and bring a child a boy child into this world And he's not under a male leadership You're not under any leadership and you are going to create likely create the same thing You are going to complain about at the beginning And that's the problem. This is a cycle Over and over again. How do you fix it? Get up under somebody's leadership Submit stop being so masculine But I don't think that that's my problem. I don't have a problem. Oh really huh So Right So why didn't you marry his father again? Okay, I didn't make the best decision Why didn't you marry his father again? I never why didn't you marry his father again? Because I made a bad decision. What does that mean? That means that I wasn't going to have he wanted to marry you Yeah, he's scared and you did and you did not marry him No, I made a bad right. No, no, no, no, no He wanted to marry you you did not want to marry him, but You but you decided to have a baby See No, listen Listen, sorry women today Becoming a mother is far less of a decision than becoming uh getting getting married That's the problem you have women who are quicker to have a baby than become a wife That is in fucking saying Becoming somebody's wife is a big deal but becoming somebody's mother. It's no big deal I'd never thought that But you're moving that way I know all right. All right, ma'am. Ma'am. Ma'am the net net of it Is you create the very men you have an issue with Absolutely, and it's your responsibility not the men Women are the first teachers of culture you're under no male leadership You're you're following no man, and I'm sorry based upon this call. This is who you are And who is going to try to fight you for control of your household and that boy They will say she's for the streets and keep it moving and there'll be another boy floating around out of you Without any masculine leadership because his mother is too Headstrong harry hated masculine You feel like I'm masculine Look in the comment section after this video is over and listen to what the men say Hell yeah, you're masculine. I'm sorry. I can't deal with half the men I'm sorry Well, obviously you can't deal and that's the problem you can't deal with them because they're telling you about yourself You don't want to listen The men aren't the problem man It's like that smoke alarm beeping. That is a single woman tell Because see men wouldn't be Men don't allow that shit to be beeping you masculine ass women allow smoke alarms to beep incessantly So you can't handle me. No, you can't handle me in telling you about yourself But understand something the men you don't seem to like I hope to god say you don't raise another punk But masculine masculine women masculine women tend to raise punks You're muted yourself. I'm you Who is his mentor? Where's the male energy in his life? Nobody I don't believe it Can't make this shut up 10 billion dollars in black hair care 10 billion Take nine billion of it and put it into your black suns Not athletics They're academics Science engineering technology mad skilled trades You love your son show it take it off your nails take it off your head and put it in your boys