 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and in today's video We're going to talk about how to get out of the friend zone with a man Now getting in the friend zone sucks. I've been there most people what most guys that I know have been there some women that I know have been there and and really there's there's one specific thing that you need to do in order to get out of the friend zone and It'll get you somewhere. It'll either get him, you know admitting his attractiveness level for you, or it'll make him go I don't know if you know, I'm interested in that But either way you'll get somewhere and that's what you want to do if you're stuck in the friend zone and so there's kind of two ways to sexualize The conversation that you're having with a guy And the first one is to encourage him to pursue you By telling him that it's attractive and this kind of does two different things here the first one is it does kind of sexualize the conversation and the second one is That it's encouraging him to do things that a guy would do if he was interested in you More than just a friend and guys will do this for women, you know Just as friends and so when you kind of sexualize it a little bit it it kind of turns it into something more sometimes and so what you do here is Just like I said you you tell him it's attractive when he does something that's pursuing you So for instance, you might say did you just buy my coffee? That's hot Right, and so what you're doing is you're you're kind of taking it to a different place There, you know, you could be like oh, thanks a lot for buying my coffee, but when you're like did you just buy my coffee? That's hot. You know all of a sudden you're turning it into this sexual thing You know this thing where it's like whoa, you know, and if he's like hmm You know if he if you know he secretly likes you or you know, he wasn't really thinking about it before But now he is It could do a lot of good things for you and then the second one is just you know creating a sexual conversation But one that's not like coming on too strong But it's also kind of changing the way that you're having the conversation and So one way to do this would be to tell him That his butt looks good in the pants that he's wearing or you know Tell him that he looks good in whatever Like clothing like tell him that it's hot or you know something like that, you know But if you're like hey, your butt looks really good and and those pants, you know You're doing a couple things there when he's gonna be like whoa, wait a second, you know, she's staring at my butt You know like what what's good and she likes it, you know, and so you're giving him clues That can You know if he's wanting to move it to that level, but he's not really sure what to do and he's kind of waiting to see how Interested you are This is basically going hey, I'm interested, you know, I'm interested in something more and You can see where he'll take it from there So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon