 Good morning, who is feeling some type of way? We had a very, very riveting conversation with one very, very lovely Jessica. Kwa mo jawatia ya misdui? Enda tu weitfufu apu YouTube, weitfufu channel, and just download it. Don't even download so you can keep watching. Just in case tima zipote, you don't have to sell all the time of 10 bundles. Just download, okay? Something important that you need to hear. And in other news, we are also asking you a question about teenage pregnancies that is on our Facebook page at Y254. Piyoneza to hit up at Y254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is Y in the morning or WCW. Which is bringing me to the next point. That is why we're here. This is the last part of the day, the last bit of conversation which we will be dwelling on teenage pregnancies. If they're on the rise, why perhaps maybe we think they're on the rise if it can be curbed, if it can be completely stopped. Amatu jifunze kunya maza. And in studio with me are two very phenomenal ladies. So before we get to your comments, maybe perhaps they can introduce themselves. Saseini. Emskasi di keveni muna kavi suri ya ki ya. Like that, like that. Welcome, Suri. What's your name? Amor Elbevali. Hey, and you're very, I like it. You have oomf. Ya! I like it. Kuna ano meka atatua me kogo pa uredi. Venyo meza magina. Wana penda. My name is... My name is... No? Nijifunze kunya maza? Sorry. Hashtagwa in the morning. Where can we find you on social media? Ma'am, just on WhatsApp. Hey! You're exclusive like that. Ya. We can't just find you anywhere. Puea. Find me anywhere. I would give you number, guys, but I think you never pay on any of your pesha. Ya, ii oniku kupe alas mao tu me pesha kaki rukuake, but you can't see me in my office after this. Tamuimuni at Y254 on Facebook, Y254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is Y in the morning. Belim, please re-intraduce yourself to your people. I'm a student of life. I'm learning from life. I don't know when I'll graduate. The only place you can find me on Facebook and maybe you come to my house. I had people getting excited. Stay in your own home if it's cold distance. Semi. Hashtag is Y in the morning. Okay. So, what's going on? Is there a rise in teenage pregnancy? Is it COVID-19? COVID-19 kwa manome, get wambia usipi me manome. Sindio. Okay, tell me what's happening. I think it's on the rise in Y. Yes, it's on the rise. And I think COVID-19 has something to do with it. It has created a lot of idleness. People have got less to do. So, the only thing most of our kids or our girls are thinking of is chatting. Because nowadays the free wifi in the house that what your parents can afford. So, what you do is you keep on chatting. Oh, hi, George. Hi, what? So, the moment you tell George hi, he'll say hi back. What are you doing? I'm just lazing around here. Can we look up? It has just begun that. Before you know it, your shape is changing. Okay. I like to be objective. It doesn't always work out for me, but I like being objective. And I believe technology is a tool. And a tool can be used to do good things and bad things. Because now you cannot tell me in this new month there were no teenage pregnancies. So, what you do is you keep on chatting. You keep on talking. You keep on talking. Before technology came. Before we could blame pornography. The easy access to pornography. Before all these things. So, when do you start thinking about it? COVID-19. Whichever angle you want to attack it from, it's okay. COVID-19 is a major factor here that has contributed to pregnancies. Because you can hear the number of people with the corona and the number of impregnated girls. The impregnated girls are quite larger than the people suffering from COVID-19. So, COVID-19 is a major factor here. How has it brought about early pregnancy? Okay. Students, school girls are idle at home. So, people are just lesing. And you know, now that these people are not busy you are idle here. So, social media has been a factor. So, when you are idle, what can you do? Maybe chat and do all such tasks. I have a story that I read in the newspaper. Not today's, but I think last week's. Ili kwaena sama. There's a girl, so she left me phonga. So, she said, Aliona, instead of going home, apite kwa bo, kwa boyfriend. Pa pa pa pa pa. Lock down. So, kakakapo. So, a few moments later, kaji kutakona mimbap na ashakwa wa wife. So, your story nikama imesha evo. So, are we saying that's everything? That's the whole thing. That's what's going on, basically. Ni wa toto tuwa me amuwa. I am tired of school. Let me just go. Okay. Personal, I don't think so. This thing began early in our fathers' days. There was this aspect whereby your father, okay, when I grew up in those bushes, our fathers could not even allow you to go and visit your aunt, because he knows that your aunt's husband, now the in-law, we start teasing and making some funny advances. Nobody, akuna mutu alikuja. Nobody stood in the gap to stop that kind of myth or the culture. Then it came that now a mother, a mother of maybe some children, you are afraid to leave your kids with their uncles, now your family, because you feel that maybe they'll mess up with them. Nobody stood up and stood in the gap to stop this kind of culture of the myth. Then it just went ahead. Now the mother, you are afraid to leave your own kids with their own father, the biological father, because you know that man, man, they have done it anyway. Now COVID-19 has just actualized what has been happening. Now the kids themselves, you said that I don't want you guys to go outside, don't go this kind of state, I stay at home, when I say I stay at home. So you think they are safe there. They are impregnating their own sisters and brothers here. So where is safety? Where do we run to? Nobody stood in the gap when this thing all began. Baba gana kumusia, nda kwa koliako, watanzaku kuitashemeji, like where I come from. Kwa say, kwa say, kwa say, kwa koliako, watanzaku kuitashemeji. And then from there, father and I believe kwa koliako kundaniza, niza ribikiya. Ah, sasa sidnikuna ya apuakwa home. Ya ya mwenya sasa mekwani, ya ya netera. Anasa nishi kana, afa nye vila na taka. Ime toke apu. Ime kujasa kwa sisi, wenye kwenye we. So I think where we messed it, parents we do not have time for our kids. This thing that came from Beijing, I do not know Beijing, this equality, that what a man can do, a woman can even do it better. Ah, what we really want to take as subui, when our children are made. Om tuta kuna kituna fanya, kila kituna fanya nuna made. The only thing he can do is just to chat, watch TV, is the idol. And you know, the idol mind is, you say it's a best. Devils works up. Exactly. And where the devils involve, a lot of things will happen and one of them is what we are now witnessing. So I think we messed it somewhere. I don't know how we are going to restructure back because that's where it began. We could not go to our uncles because they messed up with us. They thought now they are now protecting us. Now we are here with them. They are now messing us right inside the houses. So where do we turn to? There are some things I think we need to do. As parents there are things we really need to do. And we have to stand now and do it. Like women, as much as you want to go and do what women can do better, please have time with your children. Okay. I'll just say this very cautiously. Mi misi jaza. Sawa. But nimefika mali nesaza. And there are some things I will not sit down and say my parents did not do this for me because I am at an age that I understand parent does not mean superhero. Once someone becomes a parent, they can no longer make mistakes. That they are not subjective to, you know, just life basically in general. And I can also not fault a parent for doing anything that they possibly can to feed their child. However, I want to now just switch it a little bit because we are also age bearing the two of us. Nihambia tukweli. Do you think because someone said it on our Facebook page that the music of today is a factor? Sasa squeeze ni ma gengetun too and the first thing is taniwa me first thing ngeuka ni kubeng. My guy, they don't even tell you nicely now ngeuka ni kubeng. Whom nisi today at least moral police afungue TV na nini that's what's happening here but I have it's a legit question and I'd really like you to answer it for me. Wait, wait, wait. Let us just make sure Valentine was telling the truth. Ha ya. Edukobra says nini ma seleps vene mnava mnafa na hawa toto kutamane yo maisha all 30 pornographic gengetuns playing on your stations what do you expect? Siji tumpe santiza but I think he has a point he's saying something is he not making sense? That person is really making sense. Music is a major factor there. They're dressing coats and all such styles and youths are being affected this thing called peer pressure unona celeb kapa yo ten over ten vene mtuameva you're like wow this person is looking so cute so good so whatever so you also want to dress like that so the dressing code and the dressing code of some musicians of course most of them kuna tine ito advertisement you can just be decent na wkatiwe na kuna vene utava nika kujiyadvertizu we muenyewe it's like you're a half naked so dressing code you didn't attract boy child ya because okay mua na ume una behavior jikawe ni mawe no no ati kaziako ni kuokot watu una thoughts no way apu apu no no no niskize very very carefully because mimika mafalantai nimona watu wa ki demonstrate maju wa ki wa uchi and they said even when I'm completely naked I'm still not asking for it I'm still not asking you to rape me I'm still not asking you ku kujaku ni katia how I dress is about me sasa juni me kapusi katu na traku ni ambia ni ati sani me iti amutu juni me kapusi no Stoose me I woke up and I wanted to wear my hair like this do we have a problem have I interfered with the network of your mind apa na twizi sama evo mama okay my dress my choice good job and in as much as my dress I'm not telling anyone to start dressing this and such men are also human beings and human nature is human nature we are being lured in so easily you see so neza wa umto ne mazugu embe ahone ma nene akua this kagal you know you know that feeling yeah the dressing code and all such stars so ku lebi yoneza kuna jadwad tie za du ki peta evi pa like wah so everyone mstana me umbo vizuri but ata ata nyonyohana tse me tunika haga because maybe there are some people from there are some parts of the country you know built differently kuna mo yatranza wuku before and there is a siding na ata kablata kakav kafike hea hea asha tokelezea this side amayo siding gine and she is under 18 and she is innocent and she is not asking for anything na mevatu jeans and iso jeans no nezimemtoa sii hea kakakusama nene tafanya jonte ato emate leo no aliva tungu na mebi ata li kwa na vukabarabara ande asa idi ane kwa kwa duka flani because that is a family business na mu tutu mu tutu mu tutu mu tutu na muna tu the first thing ni mate and maybe if we just even just leave the teenagers mu yana baka somebody six months one year old what is the problem mi ameji advatais okay wacha nyuli zewi juni me kwa taksa na muna I don't think so initially in the beginning God created us without clothes by the way wali tukosea so if want to say that it is the clothes that maybe the way we dress is contributing to this factor I don't think so it doesn't affect girls even when you see a man bare chest and mini we don't react the way they react when they see us naked so it is not standard fasa izi benye mi mimi me baki sasa kuna mu tutu wanza wa me zoom tu behutu mi me baki atata hao nyesi hips guys we zoom out we zoom out just zoom out so that you can see for yourself that she is blessed in every area sasa utani ameji advatais she not just look nice for the sake of looking nice what is the problem you see they have zoomed out yeah talk to me talk to me Shridhat fasa benye mi mi me baki hivi mi mi to mi mi me baki to be smart and you know men are like this men are in different angles mi kifutakari buna muanda ube mu to utu angali am not telling you not to be smart and someone is going to give a tumgo ref word na times mu na tell me na mu to na yangali wona pa nyanini wuna angali so again dressing code is kind of attractive but ile ama celeb fazi nge hiya wa but they are celebrities but again desensis amata hiya ma celeb mu to mihachat tumbo uche you are just about to tell that person so you see ma students youths are like i'm ever poor then they don't know they are like i want to be like that person ico smart and again there is no smartness there i want you to give me one just one one example of someone you have seen na iqwe kenyan because hashtag leke i over kenyan celeb tu me muangali wuka sama wea java vizuri lakini we are glorifying it first one no head speech ako de i knew you are going to say that i knew you are going to say that what should i do that ako de chida ili ingiha venya li dance tiku moja lakia kami guju that was the only problem because venya ako de na vani venya bionce na va namukotu hapa cigarette is what is the problem what is the problem bionce is that what you want when Rihanna is here gaining weight and showing us how she has been breast why are you not complaining what is the problem all these girls just half naked why are you not complaining why are you bringing it here at the son at kakuske batiju why are you not complaining about hip hop all these mamaring rappers na by the way me make noise i think he many guza maali many guza but i am upset i want to ask this question why do people accuse ako de and then they find it so normal at the beach why i am not accused ako de i am glad you said it i am very glad you said it and i am glad we are addressing it but why is it mtu wa maju at utamwa mbeivo 3 songs ame tu imbe song zungapi tu natu naadvataisapa tu nekakwa tv mtu solu wa litu anishike they almost had a press conference to apologize and we buy this music and we play it in our country but where to wakianza said the problem is in the mind city that's got nothing to do with it mister na mzungo at utamwa pana kinyasa na putishot where we jari bu and it will be your fault ali kutavas from bible in his own city in his own hometown we do with things called culture in kenya so we have culture but with them they don't have that culture to live or abide it so i think zungozi ake na yango nituwa culture i think that was a tabu because of the trending so called technology we want to be like we want to be like them so maybe they think those people bring their own model joku na culture when i think africans we have tabu standards we started with the culture why can't we continue with it and then when they come we start again saying that now you see the way he is dressed but at some point we appreciate them okipata mitu kama kwa baya menda kata kwa stage na kanzu to tansatena so it is about them it has got nothing to do with dressing mungu ali tuba tokiwa uchi na by that time na there was nowhere documented that we got attracted because it was naked so we cannot use clothes as a standard to judge people if you are wicked you are wicked whether you are dressed in a robe or what the only thing we need here is to change our mindset let us go back to our rules the mamu says that go back to your rules follow your rules so if we started by saying that our people should dress this way what has changed why are we coping them they are not coping us you find a Kenyan go to America for just 2 months now we can speak 2 weeks what a month 2 weeks what comes to my Siri what comes to my Siri the point we were at celebrities and how they are affecting our teenagers bringing early pregnancy ok sit back itu na ako tewe to alayaki if you follow ako tewe and not just see pictures and start saying things she will tell you how she raises her children kwezo comments aki ara kwa mbe ya kenya mbe ya mstana kia fanya as fanya she will tell you about her life na vinyame kata lewa suju na mabuana she will tell you about her struggles as a single mother lakini amtagi kwangelia yo why ako tewe will tell you will show you how she went to Turkana to help people when that kanini problem was there yo that's why I follow her on Instagram na sayati nini why are you picking and choosing something that you want from a celebrity and then copy pasting to pregnancy it is your fault what is the problem the problem we have to come back to us we have to debate with ourselves where did we go wrong because for sure we missed something so we have to restructure back our lives and see that where did we go wrong and how can we rectify it otherwise making claims on dressings and labs will not help us that's the same thing those parents did kwenja ko uta uta itwa shemeji na na and then we left them like that and questioned it is now with us it is now eating us I read an article whereby a sister you are biological sister a fom 2 a impregnate sister so do we blame celebrity there where is the celebrity coming in where is the dressing coming in these are people that maybe sometimes they are well dressed they are well mannered in the house it is the mindset what we should do it works so well when we do the reverse role let the mother talk to the boy child let the boy child be taught the girl be taught by the father I think it works better that way tell these people that this thing that we are just about to do is wrong and it has got consequences if we try to cultivate this culture into our kids I think we will have a better generation because this one of ours is already rotten no matter what you do whether you put it on who and who we need now the grace of God mhm but it's not about me today and it's not ever going to be about me it's going to be about you and it's going to be about you guys at 25 from Facebook at 25 for channel on Twitter hashtag is what in the morning all right, Mike Nana says I don't understand how that survey was done and yet all the time we have been indoors at the what at the hospital for pregnancy test and overestimation of numbers and I want to tell you that this information is accurate and if you would like some more proof because it is important to ask questions we can provide it was taken from the national database mhm are we together that means if you have birth certificate you are a number you are a statistic are we together until there mhm mhm Carol Mukami says poor parenting I don't like saying poor parenting are you a parent? do you know the challenges that come with parenthood but it's okay I think kwa unakali shamte wa kwa chinu na mambia doing sex is bad at your age can we just pause on this statement a little bit mimi kama Valentine mhm so are we going to blame parents to say say upon the bone alami yon biani sifanya I think what the person is trying to say na poor parenting mhm mhm mhm mhm mhm mhm mhm open and outrack it open up and learning when bone alami yon biani sifanya don't you have questions no way a kid can do that why can't you do that why is it the parents response where we come up with mhm na nimeski akuna kituna itwa sex what does it mean usha ijaribu akakata so that you come and say open usha ijaribu sometimes you know what will stop kids from doing that is the behavior the parents themselves are not good you have a parent that they kind of dressing now that's a unit of dressing the way she dresses the way she handles herself maybe she comes back drunk mid in the night where do you even get her to ask her such questions it's just normal then sometimes you are allowed to watch some dirty things like the government is doing it's also contributing government is also a factor here with these kind of movies that we watch the same one that is burning songs left right and center just kumutawezana how do they allow such things apu just turudi facebook turudi kwa ko thank you for the content man say okay especially here at the adolescent stage talk to your girl tell her all the dangers advise her and i'm sure but some parents don't have kids so they just go and say rembo merudi it's like they didn't have my parents hey okay pato says it's careless of girls i like that you said this because i want to make it very clear i know we don't sit down and think pregnant thoughts it's a two-person job nasiatinimstana kumstah thanks taitas walasana says hello guys i'm Taitas from Dukamoja Narok nowadays the people don't have work to do even at home many of people today know all behavior having their parents they don't have speech to tell okay so i think what he's trying to say is that parents are not really communicating this parent's thing is an issue okay let me just add a point about that parent thing you see nivizuri kufres life the way it is kukua realistic and logic akuna vene kuna yosatene edim to talk adolescence atahia yako sexually active maybe but as a parent foy kumwambia boyfriend nikitumbaya nini nini nini unamwambia tumtoto hivi na hivi na hivi and that thing is there so it's not a problem nini nambia na hivi and maybe the kid is a fomtref for facing to tom dogo nini nambia na hivi na nini but friend nini tumtumbaya na yumstosa kipatopu chuninti wukovine people stalk in school or groups atahia atahia kujya and that's why you find in most cases these parents who are so strict but don't assume wasana they want to pretend some reality you know life you have to face life the way it comes so you live just a realistic and logic life just two things but before I get to the truth nini ma liza to Facebook nini ma liza kii nimi mechanga nikiwa in fact kuna umtapa meni text na nitotimo ati hi conversation, ati niche pregnancy mefanya nivaya miwani ni wawne vizuri ati na skim na zoom out it's okay, focus where with you gowa imo niya we good morning nadaini we kia I need to sanitize up by our boy we hear you baton ya obo me sema I am watching giyi from 006 a show is let big up to my bro tangila kei pedea other thing is to se memtoto kwa mezo ya kukula skumano gali mo zimzima alafu anonam stoji rani beshtia keo na kukula kuku ato onahia tuwa kumano nulia uemeni kusa guys uemeni touch so it's like poverty I don't want to say poverty but that whole thing for the grass is green on the other side me am not saying anything such thing applying in teenage pregnancy why? once you are content with the life you are living and you want to perfect it and live that life that you aren't given by your parent so what you want say ma liwa chani kulemboga manake akuna mama tenda ibe and the other child anakula nyama so it's you uemeni work hard in future ato ukule nyama but because of greed and most ladies of today they want to admit things your greed na matama mingi so na ona and you want easy thing you don't want to strain and struggle ona nyama then you are like oh of course this guy will give me 200 then he will give me weakness of ladies na that money so it's just upon you with your principles and knowing what you want in life but that factor doesn't contribute what happens if we didn't look at it from the perspective of financial security instead we looked at it from a perspective where there is domestic violence in our home let's say this young girl amizoa tu kelele manze pigwa pigwa kelas kasi ana pigwa kasi vovitus na bunjwa bunjwa if a boy comes and tells her you know what come i love you i'll take care of you you don't have to do this anymore wu ani atenda mam it may contribute and again it may not contribute but womeni jibusana belin talk to me belin is i think this you are talking about idolize poor parenting yes it is but why should you do you want to tell me there is nothing completely you can do like now this corona people are from why don't you even take a gym and do deep in fact mothers give these kids something to do not necessarily study you know you can study from morning to evening give them these other extra things to do tell them this you can weave this buy even a sewing machine teach them how to do this there will be no time to watch tv there will be no time to add around and about this thing kwa jirani wana kula nyama kwa tuwa tuna kula so i think mi mi pi ani pati umutaba nezapuni fanyani that's something that is cultivated in my mind you know you will never know that your neighbor's tea is sweeter until you taste it why do you want to taste some why are you anticipating that it is sweet sometimes that nyama those people don't complain about that nyama is giving them these other diseases i don't know why don't you be content and now you are very healthy appreciate what you have begin to appreciate yourself one day i will admit in this context i mean one time i will get my man and i will get pregnant and i will get my children even getting pregnant is a little bad but the age you find a child like i saw in kakamega just recently i think kakamega are bungoma actually 13 years carrying triplets triplets yes they were triplets and in kakamega i think kakamega are bungoma then she was being interviewed ask that who is responsible actually you know the father is also just a kid like me so what were you thinking what were you thinking where did you get this man where did you get this boy and who taught you this game where did you learn from tv then i'm not paying the wifi kwa kwa giza kwa kari buku sweat sometimes i think we parents must tighten the nuts a bit ok i like that you are speaking on behalf of parents because me miss you kwa apu but what i do need me be speaking on behalf of my white two five four people kwa e buku jeni facebook at what's for Facebook what's for channel to the hashtag is buyin some money ok juliet nilangu says hey bag kia mwening loving the show in nanyuki town you know many mothers don't talk to the children about trade life request anybody by putting a boy right back at juliet monika mwenini says alafu mostly islanders people are so idol by ziwe kwanza put mambio a stay at home monika continues to stay i still think it has to do with society society may make it kai as if sex is swag youths have taken sex age as swag i'm not judging it's the truth when they can handle the consequences consequences sequence josh mwanziya says this conversation is heated up at tival please tell them we accept and play explicit music from abroad and the moment are my guy it's ok the moment are getting it on artists put it up in sueli or shea it becomes wrong have you ever listened to akinamboso vizuri muna skerezo vituwa usema naat tiawai ziban just listen please listen to these things that you think are alright but i hear both of you i hear the ones who are saying music is affecting i hear the ones who are saying music really kama ni kutu affect atau ingine wa abroad i hear all of you hashtag is white in the morning misifabar butawab says it's very sad that both the boy child and girl child have and girl parents have not spoken to them well plus this rate teenagers are growing too fast and also they have now full access to drugs so it has helped especially alcohol get high and venture into sex with other boys at least gava yufungue yufungue chuwa kozi corona y koapa to stay bure our young sisters and kuzos wataru dichu patre patrosi it's careless of girls i think i read this already remember it's a white phone facebook at white254channel on twitter hashtag and very heated guests will say something and they will wrap this up ok in the bininking as Africans as far back as our medlanin takes us tulikwat no lewa 18 up said there are consequences to my last remarks let me speak to parents kwa mama tupunguze ima mbo na machama kidogo tupunguze these are necessary in the case mani una toka una toka asubui kitu sakumi na bilu usha toka kwenibako una rudimaru kutoka kazini nimasomu ya jiyoni please tupunguze at least let up time with our kids let's talk to this generation otherwise i don't know if you have another generation to talk about because every mother or every parent you'll be happy