 Hey, so watching you guys on stage right now ten pretty accomplished dudes the lights are on you guys in a lot of ways It's easy to think that you know as a listener you might be cut from a different cloth So I have kind of a rapid-fire question. I want to show an answer from each of you But what is one way in the past year that you've been criticized proven false or made some mistakes? And how did you grow from that? Wow when have I not been criticized Now you have to have a tough you have to have a tough skin to you know give advice and put videos out and so on You just have to keep going and I may make mistakes all the time. I'm certainly not perfect but I did the key to it for me is That I don't worry about it's to me. It's never a loss only a lesson That's kind of what I live by when it comes to what I used to call mistakes now. They're just lessons So allows me to move on much faster no matter what anyone says Or what happens or what wrong decision I make I just simply Accepted I did it what did I learn from it and I move on to the next thing and the faster you can do that The better off you're going to be because that applies to everything Proplies to applies to rejection and so on if you just like say all right next next next What did I learn move forward move forward move forward? so I Am routinely criticized for refusing to believe that all girls are special snowflakes And I'm always criticized by this especially by the women that I've been that I've been dating in the past I've lost female friends over this one. I stand by my guns. I know what the statistics are I know what the survey said I know what I know about human nature. So I always stand by it I am willing to lose a potential friend or a current friend Because I feel very strongly about this and I like I said I've got the research to back it up and the experience to back It up as well. It's not easy But it's kind of necessary I often get criticized for having long hair and and being called a wimpy faggot in YouTube trolling comments and To that I think well, that seems strange because I'm not a faggot and I get have sex with women a lot And I think my hair looks very pretty So fuck you and your short-haired muscly dude with no chicks I guess I Want to talk about something that I've talked about in the speech, which is like avoiding confrontation and In the relationship that I've just been in recently. I've had moments where there's been criticism from her and that's been Powerful to realize because it's like guys look at someone like me even seeing me with my girl and being like wow cool You're successful. You're making money. You're traveling the world expressing yourself you're creative But yeah, then it's like in that last Place for a lot of men It's like the relationship that he has with his woman is just as important for him to be able to withstand criticism and deal with that deal with that confrontation So yeah, even once you've got it all once you've got the girl once you've had sex with her It's not like it's game over. It's a constant ongoing process of you guys communicating with each other and As a man you need to be able to receive criticism from a woman and process it in a healthy way not Lash out egotistically and you know Call her a psycho or leave her or whatever, but also not Be on the receiving end of being constantly criticized without drawing a clear boundary or telling of what you won't will and won't accept so it's important to be able to Receive criticism from a woman and know how to process that like a man