 because it's afternoon here for this morning and then I had I live in an apartment it's fine anyway starting today so that's why I'm eating potato chips cuz I'm gonna eat what I want I'm done doing stuff I don't want to do that right there there is a perk to getting older let's just be honest and that's the perk we do not care we do not care we do not care we do not care it's just like I don't want the cereal I'd rather just have 10 delicious salty crispy chips this is what we're doing hey is that a koala okay I know it's Australian and I live in all you Kiwis relax my favorite animal I can't and and here's why and here's why 23 hours of the day it sleeps I did not know this it sleeps and look at how cuddly it is yeah in my mind I look like that when I sleep like but but in all actuality this is kind of what I look like I know like the drill I mean I don't know I was like oh you don't know you know I talk in my sleep I sweat through my sheets I mean there's all sorts of awesome things that go on they love getting older here we go alright so today I thought we would talk about what mothers really want for Mother's Day okay insider tip from a mom of three a mom of four and here we go you're welcome mothers you're welcome children because you're gonna get it right this year you're gonna get it right and like literally don't question what we say just do it I love it dads just do it right right and again this is from our personality type we know there's lots of personalities out there but from our perspective let's go let's go well okay fair enough but I think I'm right across the board I'm gonna say okay I also am doing a series on my social tick-tock Instagram whatever you follow me on a Kiwi Americans and I'm talking about all of this like what mothers really want because it's good content it's content that helps people like me okay you are hilarious well and it's people really want to know because there's different seasons okay of mother oh yeah okay so the first little chapter you are so sleep deprived that you feel like you may turn into a zombie legit and that you'll never take a shower alone again or do your hair so in those people for Mother's Day do not invite anybody over to the house for Mother's Day for her no no you were going to give her a 24-hour she gets to do whatever she wants without a baby attached without a husband attached without anybody but her thoughts agreed although I my thoughts are that that's still current okay so I just did a video this is what I said I said if you have if you are a child that lives at home with your full time okay this is for people that don't have kids at home that's different if you're living with full time this is what you need to do this is what I said I said get up in the morning make her favorite to your coffee whatever she likes put it by her bed before she's awakened and then leave everyone in the house leave for the whole day and I get a lot of people like that's not what my mom would want and then I said to um here's the deal think about every holiday every birthday every sporting event and just imagine your mother doing none of it sitting on the couch doing none of it right so every break that you have it's more work for her every holiday more work for her there is no day even weekends that we have off to that deal with you and everything else and make everything a certain way there isn't a day there isn't a holiday so mother it is leave the house not for two hours not for five hours 24 hours get the hell out of the house so she could do whatever she wants whatever she wants she could eat when she wants to eat what she wants to eat watch what she eat just be just stare at the wall yes stare at the wall no interruption none nothing comment below if you disagree or comment below and raise your hands if you are sure that is it I'm telling you it's like and then and then I said 100% if you do come home after eight or nine hours because sometimes it doesn't work for every family that's very right come home do not I repeat do not ask what's for dinner do not ask the worst oh the worst question you could ask me it's actually on mother's day highly offensive yeah done so true I love how you said that that's perfect okay also if you are the type of mom that wants to be taken out go to brunch whatever you want to go people if you are a child and that's what you do you place plan a two-hour event with your mother okay do not come home and ask her to do anything don't act like your normal self okay and by all means don't be mean I just feel like when it's our day the kids just turn into like who are you like they're like yeah it's not nice it's all about them it's like they got two hours and it's like we can't be selfless that long so true oh my gosh I love it yes you nailed down the head anybody who has children still at home 24-7 I'm not sure why you're planning for everybody to hang out on mother's day we've been hanging out for years from the time they wake up to the middle of the night PP water throw up don't feel good have a nightmare we've been doing that we're here for it okay that's why we had kids were thrilled to death but on mother's day if it's really about mom make it about mom okay here's a question which mom do you celebrate on mother's day I don't know what to do here go you mean your grandma your grandma yourself who wins in that yeah and if you have a spouse that says well you're not my mother just know that if you are the mother of his children you get the day off yes cheers to that cheers to that I say do whatever the heck you want I've eliminated that problem as I've moved to the other side of the world yeah yes you have yes you have okay I did something for myself the other day because I was like you know my kids will probably forget it's mother's day unless I text them and remind them or when I see them say well you got five days tell us mother's day you know so on Facebook there was some gal selling something it was like a surprise present for twelve dollars but I don't know what it is it's called one moment trips and sips are you seeing this here are you seeing this here look how cute this I spent twelve dollars and picked this up for myself on Friday night for fun for me this is what mothers want nonsense look at that it is look at coffee holder make it stop this is a thing you put on your wrist and put a key on and it's Starbucks and Target oh you guys probably don't even have targets do you have targets yeah but it's a furniture store Target and Starbucks chapstick I mean seriously make it stop bath bomb done welcome to mother's day I bought myself a gift I'm feeling good about it and that's the thing and that's also the point is it's not hard like it's not hard you guys are overthinking it just give me some coffee write me a nice note saying what you appreciate you don't even spend a cent yes we're not just leave me alone just yeah if you are a child that lives outside of the home yes we would like to see you yes this is true and the coffee I would like to do with you I would like you to write with you relationship building gifts yes and not like where we're with each other and your yeah not with me and we're talking and you're like I'm listening no no rude rude so that's just the tips for the college kids and the young adults that no longer live at home take your mother out for coffee done it's so true okay and then some additional tips for husbands I've been I've been mentally thinking about this like what a couple things number one prime time bathroom time goes to us on Mother's Day I always feel I cannot possibly be the only one where they're sitting there on their phone in bed waiting till like the prime time is at 20 minutes before we have to go and then they decide to get in the shower I got to deal with this and now you're getting the shower and I can't see anything and it's hot you know and it's like it's like the prime time how come you always get the prime time Mother's Day you get the prime time agreed that I love that I love and I say bras optional that day bras are optional bras have been optional since COVID true statement hashtag truth done oh my gosh I love it so what are you hoping for Tara this year for Mother's Day I think I've been quite clear good we've done leave bye bye nice knowing you bye oh my gosh that'll be good that'll be good we'll see what happens with that for sure we'll see what are you hoping to get looks like you've got what you wanted so you're good I did I got my present and now it'll just be if my kids actually remember I am big on yeah I'm big on could you please just say something that you appreciate about me something that's nice yeah that doesn't have said we're like we're over it doesn't have to be on paper yeah we don't even need colors you don't have to color me a picture cuz you're these optional yeah just yeah snap it if you must I mean at this point I mean the last time my oldest said I love you I have it on a I took a picture of it from 2017 he loves me this picture says so from 2017 yeah you're gonna take that to the bank every year yes every year this child okay my oldest sent me a text already so to her credit she was like what would you like for Mother's Day queen is the exact words that she said and I said that rained her well it's her new word at the moment and I said for you to call me queen till the end awesome if you call me queen to the end of my life I am happy I could not be happier okay now here's the difference between girls and boys your oldest is a girl's mom the girl mine is a boy mine would say happy Mother's Day bra bra I don't want to be your bra just your mom would be fine but Queen is even better boss that works I don't know what goat means but goat some like positive thing too I don't either I mean there's hashtags all over the place that I'm like is that an inappropriate right is this are you being nice are you being really nice right are you trying to call me an animal in a negative sense I don't know I have no idea like it's gonna kill me it's gonna go it's so I know so happy Mother's Day to all of you happy Mother's Day to all the mothers out there we know what you do and we appreciate you and we hope you get what you want this Mother's Day and if you don't it's okay to let them know that it wasn't okay done otherwise they have no idea don't be a martyr let's communicate okay let them know this is not okay that you all forgot yeah that's cool you guys have a great week and we hope you learn something about Mother's Day today