 In queer communities, I don't like to share that I'm Christian, because I don't want to add to the trauma that queer people have felt at the hands of Christians. In Christian communities, I tend to assume not everyone is safe until shown otherwise. This means I don't get to be my authentic self very often. In Christian communities, I also have to watch people debate whether or not I should be invited to the table. This is frustrating. Finally, as a bisexual Christian, married to a straight cis man, I'm often assumed to be straight. This means I often feel invisible. I think God calls me to help break down these dichotomies as somebody who lives between straight and gay and Christian and queer.