 Hey survivors, in this video I am going to be talking about the narcissistic pivot. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. If you are interested in what I am coaching, you can email me at nagsforthercoaching.com. Check out the new motion dice in the nagsfortherstore. We have new designs on IT shirts, tank tops and mugs. The link to the nagsfortherstore is in the video description. The narcissistic pivot. The narcissistic pivot engages in sexual behaviour that is considered to be abnormal and unacceptable. Their sexual behaviour deviates from what is normal or usual. Typically in a way that is undesirable or worrying for their victims. It is undesirable or worrying for their victims because it is not wanted due to the unpleasant or harmful effects. It may cause an unpleasant feeling of fear or unease. The narcissistic pivot will often engage in sexual acts in front of their victims or stoking and watching their victims. They find gratification in sexual behaviour which may be considered to be sexually offensive to their victims. The narcissistic pivot is in denial. They are unable to realise how unpleasant or harmful their behaviour is as that would contradict their higher opinions of themselves. It would be almost impossible to convince the narcissistic pivot that they have an issue. This is something they never reflect on. Instead they will find faults with the person they are perversing with. The narcissistic pivot has developed a defence mechanism or technique to avoid any internal conflicts regarding their inappropriate sexual behaviour. The defence is to externalise conflicts and put the responsibility on other people. The narcissistic pivot lives for short term desires and gratification. They consider people as pawns in their game that they can move around according to their desires. If a person is useful to them they will attend to them and be friendly during that time to fulfil their needs. Once they no longer have a use for them they will forget that they even existed. They have no empathy for their victims but they do recognise how their inappropriate sexual behaviour makes their victim feel. They recognise that their victim may experience fear, anxiety, sadness or anger. This can often be a part of what gratifies the narcissistic pivot. They enjoy dominating and controlling their victims, exploiting their emotional states and humiliating them. The narcissistic pivot is not interested in love or attachment. They are only interested in objectifying their victims and using them as a source of sexual gratification. The narcissistic pivot enjoys manipulating and confusing their victims. They don't self reflect or consider that their sexual behaviour may be unwanted or inappropriate. In their minds it is the victim's fault for not realising what they are doing and since they cannot figure it out they deserve it. That's how the narcissistic pivot thinks when they are engaged in their inappropriate sexual behaviour. The narcissistic pivot has a feeling of emptiness inside. Although this is not something they will ever admit to themselves they try to manage this feeling of emptiness through using other people. Because of this the narcissistic pivot often ends up hating or being envious of people who know how to live and enjoy in the present moment. People who are ungrudging and able to give love. The narcissistic pivot will often attempt to obtain these qualities from their victims who will then lose these qualities in the process. The narcissistic pivot will even exchange roles with their victims and then convince them that they are responsible for all of their failures. The unwanted sexual behaviour of the narcissistic pivot is inappropriate and immoral. It is unpleasant or harmful for the other person. The narcissistic pivot continues to engage in this behaviour because they are self-absorbed and lack empathy. Due to their sexual repression they become hyper sexual and only consider their own sexual desires or needs, often at the expense of the other person. They do not understand how the other person feels, but they do recognise these emotions. They recognise that their victim feels fear, anxiety, sadness or anger. And this is something that they will often exploit. This is something that may even gratify the narcissist even further. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications of my future videos. If you are delighted to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching Inquiries you can email me at NarcisfavorCoaching at gmail.com Check out the new merchandise at the Narcisfavor store, where you can purchase your own Narcisfavor t-shirt, tank top or mug. The link is in the video description. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.