 The most important insight I had in my work with story is that We are not the creators of the stories that the stories already exist and we are the tellers of the story so in Bowing into service to the story that wants to be born on on this earth a key step or a key orientation is To listen for what that story is and to uncover to uncover that story and that might happen in Collaboration with other people who are also in service to the story and each person tells a piece of it and you recognize That oh, yeah, this that's a piece or maybe you recognize, you know, that's not there's a discordant note there What is that thing that feels out of tune with the story that we're all telling here? What part of what you're saying could be coming from a legacy wound that you have inherited? so it becomes And that kind of inquiry best happens in community because on our own it's hard to tell like what is Coming from you go and what's coming from outside of you go, you know What is service to self and what is service to something larger than self?