 you know while some people say they want the best for you it doesn't mean they have any idea what the best for you is and i think because we often respect and love and appreciate people in our lives that say that to us we are unaware that their advice into our lives is riddled with their own faulty beliefs fears negativity and worldview so don't surrender your life to someone else's beliefs just because you love and respect them i know they want what's best for you but the question is do they even have any idea what is best for you well that helps cheers