 you are your worst enemy and that's the truth you know there's a greek saying for every finger you point three fingers point back at you now i was reading some of the comments for my last couple of videos and my god the victim hood mentality for a lot of you people is fucking insane literally insane listen man if you're living in a western democracy you have so much fucking opportunity to do pretty much whatever you want and there is no excuses the only person standing in your way is yourself nobody else you're the only obstacle in the way whether that is starting a business well you're in the way you know i made that video about why not everyone should be an entrepreneur will fucking prove me wrong prove me wrong you know you are the enemy of yourself you're gonna pull a mirror in front of you and you look at yourself and you're gonna have to beat that person every single day so whether you want to start a business whether you want to get in shape whether you want to have a good relationship whatever the fuck it is doesn't matter you're your worst enemy you tell stories in your mind they're stories they're narratives or software we call this the afops fable the fox story with the sour grapes the fox keeps on trying to get grapes eventually can't get the grape so makes up a story in its mind that the grape is sour and this what happens every day i highly recommend you go read the book by your well know era homo sapiens the number one invention human beings have is narratives a storytelling this is the software or this is a language that we use to program the software within our mind our operating system and so don't be bullshitting yourself right anything that you're trying to do in life it comes on you now mind you everyone's born with different traits some people are born genetically for beneficial traits and x exact same time people born with better genetics or something else you know like basketball i'm not gonna be a great basketball player barely hit six feet like what the fuck um get an actual beast like lebron and like kobi or rest in peace kobi and so you can't make excuses you are your fucking worst enemy man it's in it's a tough fucking bullet to bite for a lot of people you're not financially successful whatever definition of financial success for you well you can fix it and remind you i'm talking about you living here in western democracy western europe america united states canada so there's no excuses man and don't preach to me about well you know i mean that's once again as soon as you start telling me excuses or stories or whatever the fuck it is you are back a square one you are doing the aphops fable the fox and the sour grape narrative well i couldn't do this because blah and mind you ladies and gentlemen i'm not telling you this is gonna be fucking easy this is gonna be grueling this is gonna be hard rinston churchell had said he had that famous saying when going through hell keep on going nothing's easy in life it goes against the laws of nature nature's not fucking easy it's not meant to be easy now that the buddha is saying life is suffering and it's up to you to find pleasure and lessons within that suffering you know suffering people viewed as a negative connotation and when it should be viewed as a positive connotation this is why i keep on preaching to you to go keep on reading i don't know how many of you guys haven't read it yet but fucking read that book victor frankl's man search for meaning i keep on bringing it up over and over again it's a fabulous book and also the four agreements and you quickly soon realize that the thing that you can control the most is your response to your environment the narrative that you tell in your mind right you try something let's say you try to go to the gym and you fail many people have the drop off right now after the new year's resolution is i think it was like february 20th there's like 60 drop off with people showing up in a gym whose fault is that obviously it's their fault they haven't designed a proper system and protocol for success and they give up on the first first go starting a business you start a business oh man i failed statistically speaking nine out of ten businesses fail so you're gonna fail at the first attempt no you keep on going i mentioned before the average the definition of an average entrepreneur successful entrepreneur is a male and has been 40s who's gone bankruptcy twice trying over and over over again you look at athletes they fucking sacrifice everything everything you think if they just failed or or or lost a couple of games they'll give up no they keep on going you need to reprogram your fucking narrative in your mind man all this bitching complaining about well we need to change the laws you know to make our life better uh oh it's not fair you know what i mean like i only get paid this much money or blah blah blah it's not fair i look get the fuck out of here literally like you're not it's not like you're in china or north korea or some countries in africa i'm probably speaking about everybody in a democrat democratically elected nations united states canada europe etc western europe you have opportunities man just don't bullshit yourself like holy fuck man do i hear the complaining of people and where does complaining get you nowhere it literally fucking gets you nowhere you you become more cynical you make less friends and guess what you attract complainers like attracts like end of fucking story you're gonna hang around with idiotic people if you're a complainer literally because those are the only type of people that'll be able to hang around with you there's a reason why rich people hang around rich people there's a reason why athletes hang around with athletes like attracts like end of fucking story it's about reprogramming your mind and i'm not here to tell you how to reprogram your fucking mind it's not in my business or i'm not an expertise of that i'm just telling you you got to do it you got to figure it out you know you got to figure out your circumstances in life you know what natural gifts are you're born with genetically speaking um what kind of context are you in i'm a firm believer in using the analogy of poker your delta hand poker let's say texas hold them what do you do with that hand in this case that's out of your situation you know you got certain i call them superpowers everybody's born with superpowers every fucking human being has it you get your super you get your superpower you figure out the context of your situation we call it leveraging so you leverage your situation what network you have connections with your family connections within your community or even lack of connections whatever it may be you need to audit the hand you're dealt with and then you got to figure out what your next move is an upgrade it's a compound effect and that's the reality man like listen if we were back in the fucking day and hunters and gatherers and if we decided that oh well we failed our first hunt let's pack it up boys we're depressed now we wouldn't fucking be here human beings are versatile versatile creatures like we're adaptable versatile like it's amazing what the human body and the human mind can do but it's up to you to put it together and stop playing this victim card it's 99% of time it's your fault 99% on time not 100% 99% of the different like if you're in war-torn countries or shit something fucking happens to you out of your control but i'm talking about situations where you're living here and you can get up you're in a safe country you have opportunities employment you have opportunities to starting business you have opportunities of becoming an athlete whatever the fuck it is it's on you man it's on you you know i always find it hilarious when you know i notice people who fucking bitch and complain they never have a solution for anything always remember that you know that's a good that's a good audit of somebody somebody who's just bitching and complaining that doesn't have a solution for something and so this goes back to auditing you're bitching complaining you're not making enough money okay well fucking out of your situation figure out the next step you know most people want to be like well i want to make a million bucks hold on there fucking jackie boy let's get you to make you at least i don't know 80k a year that's a fucking good star i don't know how the fucking you get to a million but 80k is a good star how do you get there what skills do you need to have where you have to be living for that figure that shit out the gym let's talk about the gym and being in shape what kind of systems do you have you think will power exists willpower is a scam your environment that gets how you behave right you only have a very finite amount of so-called willpower they consider like a gas tank right later on in the day it's harder and harder you have a cognitive load so let's figure out the protocols let's figure out proper systems in place so you can have success by going to the gym but don't be blaming fucking the diet not working don't be blaming that well you haven't find the right exercise don't be blaming anybody else but yourself you need to figure out what works for you and these are the key things in success that all quote on quote successful people have it's not fucking it's not all fairy tales or shit's just given or shit's just easy it's difficult man it's tough it's painful it's debilitating a lot of times but the more of the stories you get up and you reprogram that narrative where like the only person in charge of you is fucking you not the government to give you handouts not no organization to be like hey you're too stupid to think for yourself or to even provide for yourself here you go you're a loving caring human-bodied abled individual that can do anything they can do anything literally anything you're put your mind to you can pretty much do it but it's up to you to decide if you want to take that risk and so I'll leave it at that man you are your worst enemy you got to change the software in here man leave a comment below this video subscribe like always and I'll talk to you guys soon peace out